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Would you harm a female(s) to protect your gf/sibling

  • 07-12-2011 10:46am
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    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,327 ✭✭✭


    Following on from this thread. This is for the guys of AH

    Got me thinking what I'd do if a group of women set upon my girlfriend or sister for no apparent reason...

    I'm largely against physical violence in any way, especially when concerning women, but I think if this happened to me I'd probably end up hurting someone... What would you do?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,528 ✭✭✭foxyboxer


    Yes.

    But it would be handbags stuff.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,349 ✭✭✭✭super_furry


    Without hesitation. I'd be like you, wouldn't want to hit any women, but in that situation I'd be throwing punches and aiming for their faces.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,556 ✭✭✭Deus Ex Machina


    I'd be dishin' out durtie schlaps ad infinitum.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 51,054 ✭✭✭✭Professey Chin


    Yep. Or at least pick them up and throw them away. Onto their head


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,199 ✭✭✭CardBordWindow


    Just whip out your penis, and I'm sure they'd start running away very quickly!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,291 ✭✭✭Junco Partner


    If they were harming a loved one yeah, If they want to carry out violence to another human being they shouldn't expect their gender to protect them from having the same done to them.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    Just whip out your penis, and I'm sure they'd start running away very quickly!
    With a bunch of crazy bitches in front of you? You might as well draw a bullseye on it buddy.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,163 ✭✭✭✭Liam Byrne


    Part of me says no, but then I remind myself that they asked for equality.

    They also - in my book - forego any rights if they attack someone, so yup!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,030 ✭✭✭✭Chuck Stone


    Hitting black people is racist so no. I would have ran away actually because the PC brigade are much more frightening.

    Na, I think I would have been swinging like a mad man.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,291 ✭✭✭Junco Partner


    Actually that reminds me when I was about 10 some older girl was pushing my little sister around and giving her hassle so i punched her in the nose.Best. big.brother.ever.:cool:


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,463 ✭✭✭Antomus Prime


    Generally I wouldn't hit a woman, or i'd be the first person to intervene if I saw a dude hitting a woman, but if there was a group of them harming a gf or sister or even a friend then i'm pretty sure the instinct to protect said person would overpower moral. Although I would like to think that i'd try be defensive rather than go in with fists of fury style movement (translation - swinging arms like a moron! :P) but its one of those situations that you wouldn't know what you'd do until you do it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,802 ✭✭✭✭suicide_circus


    If someone; man, woman or child, were attacking my gf, I would be aiming loafs and roundhouse kicks at their faces and crotches.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,664 ✭✭✭Doyler92


    Just whip out your penis, and I'm sure they'd start running away very quickly!


    I don't think the majority of people are afraid of peanuts.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,477 ✭✭✭Riddle101


    If it was the protect my Girlfriend or Sibling, not that they'd need protecting. But if it was the case, I would intervene and try to stop it. I'd still try to avoid hitting a woman and just try to get them to stop, but if needs be and there's no other option. Then i'm afraid I have no other choice.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,582 ✭✭✭✭TheZohanS


    I would subdue the attacker(s)and/or use reasonable force to stop them.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,341 ✭✭✭El Horseboxo


    I don't care who it is. If myself or those i love are in danger of being harmed I'll react. A girl attacked me with a bottle before and I layed her out. Only time I've ever hit a female. Any other type of situation and I'd be confident of just restraining them without hitting.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,466 ✭✭✭Snakeblood


    Sykk wrote: »
    Following on from this thread. This is for the guys of AH

    Got me thinking what I'd do if a group of women set upon my girlfriend or sister for no apparent reason...

    I'm largely against physical violence in any way, especially when concerning women, but I think if this happened to me I'd probably end up hurting someone... What would you do?

    I'd attempt reason but shortly after, start throwing elbows. I think the 'don't hit women\people who are no match for you physically' is countered ably by 'ganging up on one person is the work of a group of bollockses'


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Regardless of gender, if someone started on someone that I love, then of course I'd step in.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,288 ✭✭✭✭Standard Toaster


    Close my eyes and start windmilling towards them. Their fault if they get hit.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,229 ✭✭✭Dan133269


    I don't care who it is. If myself or those i love are in danger of being harmed I'll react. A girl attacked me with a bottle before and I layed her out. Only time I've ever hit a female. Any other type of situation and I'd be confident of just restraining them without hitting.

    Did you deck her Canadian boyfriend too?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,291 ✭✭✭Junco Partner


    If it was one person maybe i'd stand back and see how the situation panned out intervening in a non violent way when necessary, if my mother was the victim, i'd probably have to jump in and save the attackers life, mammy fights mean:pac:

    in a group attack go in all guns blazing till i take a stiletto to the eyeball.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,296 ✭✭✭Frank Black


    Stupid questions imo - You're hardly going to stand there with your hands in your pockets if a loved one is set upon by a group of women.

    I wouldn't hold back in the least.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,808 ✭✭✭FatherLen


    I don't care who it is. If myself or those i love are in danger of being harmed I'll react. A girl attacked me with a bottle before and I layed her out. Only time I've ever hit a female. Any other type of situation and I'd be confident of just restraining them without hitting.

    yeah agreed, i would have no problem defending my self agains man woman or child if they drew a weapon on me.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Close my eyes and start windmilling towards them. Their fault if they get hit.

    Then you realize you're going in the wrong direction and run straight into a wall.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,025 ✭✭✭problemchimp


    Doyler92 wrote: »
    I don't think the majority of people are afraid of peanuts.
    Could have a peanut allergy


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,688 ✭✭✭Kasabian


    Are gf/sibling the same person?
    I need clarification before I answer.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,679 ✭✭✭hidinginthebush


    Women of AH, does it hurt if you get a kick in the gee? If yes, then I reckon I'd be doing that.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,652 ✭✭✭I am pie


    I'd tell them they looked fat in their outfits.

    The ensuing nervous breakdown would surely give me and the OH time enough to leg it to safety.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,710 ✭✭✭Corvo


    I wouldn't even hold back if they fell on the ground. Watch your ribs b*tch, here comes a size 9.


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,556 ✭✭✭Deus Ex Machina


    Just whip out your penis, and I'm sure they'd start running away very quickly!

    Cue shouts of "put away that maggot before the birds get it!"


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,163 ✭✭✭✭danniemcq


    as i said in the other thread i would never hit a woman but these would not be women attacking they (in my mind) are animals. and therefore as i would hit any animal attacking someone i love i would hit them too


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,538 ✭✭✭flutterflye


    Few years ago I was out in town with my friend and her boyfriend.
    These scumbag girls just started at me for no reason - hitting, kicking, scraping me etc...
    My friend stopped them in the end (she is very tall, whereas I am only tiny!).
    But I was really annoyed that her boyfriend didn't step in.
    He said he didn't know what to do because they were girls.
    Fcuk that - they were assaulting me, for no reason, and he just stood there - what sort of man just stands there and watches like?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,809 ✭✭✭✭smash


    Well they want equal right...

    I'm joking by the way


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 810 ✭✭✭Fear Uladh


    Honestly, the law is not on your side when it comes to defending people or yourself from these attacks.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,296 ✭✭✭Frank Black


    Few years ago I was out in town with my friend and her boyfriend.
    These scumbag girls just started at me for no reason - hitting, kicking, scraping me etc...
    My friend stopped them in the end (she is very tall, whereas I am only tiny!).
    But I was really annoyed that her boyfriend didn't step in.
    He said he didn't know what to do because they were girls.
    Fcuk that - they were assaulting me, for no reason, and he just stood there - what sort of man just stands there and watches like?


    He has absolutely no excuse, unless you, you friend and the other girls were all naked and sex toys were their weapon of choice.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,291 ✭✭✭Junco Partner


    I wouldn't even hold back if they fell on the ground. Watch your ribs b*tch, here comes a size 9.

    regardless of gender kicking when down is a no go. thats when a fight becomes a murder.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,933 ✭✭✭Logical Fallacy


    TheZohan wrote: »
    I would subdue the attacker(s)and/or use reasonable force to stop them.

    If it's multiple attackers you would have a hard time subduing folk.

    Personally i'd be knocking bitches out.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,921 ✭✭✭Remmy


    Hells to the yeah I would. If it was just me getting attacked however, and not someone I care about then I doubt I would be able to strike a woman/women. Silly logic I know.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 579 ✭✭✭Gareth2011


    Generally I wouldn't hit a woman, or i'd be the first person to intervene if I saw a dude hitting a woman.

    This happened to the wifes brother-in-law. He was walking home after having a pint in his local and he saw a guy beating on a woman in the street. He went up and pulled the guy off the girl. Both of them turned on him and started going for him. Goes to show if you dont help you dont know what will happen, if you do help they might try beat the **** out of you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,944 ✭✭✭fedor.2.


    Remmy wrote: »
    Hells to the yeah I would. If it was just me getting attacked however, and not someone I care about then I doubt I would be able to strike a woman/women. Silly logic I know.


    I try to fight women as often as possible, trust me they are filthy fighters so you should just go hell for leather if one ever starts on you


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,976 ✭✭✭profitius


    Few years ago I was out in town with my friend and her boyfriend.
    These scumbag girls just started at me for no reason - hitting, kicking, scraping me etc...
    My friend stopped them in the end (she is very tall, whereas I am only tiny!).
    But I was really annoyed that her boyfriend didn't step in.
    He said he didn't know what to do because they were girls.
    Fcuk that - they were assaulting me, for no reason, and he just stood there - what sort of man just stands there and watches like?

    You never hit a lady. This type of female on the other hand is not a lady. What I'd do is start swinging and if she came charging into the swingzone, tough luck! ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 579 ✭✭✭Gareth2011


    Fear Uladh wrote: »
    Honestly, the law is not on your side when it comes to defending people or yourself from these attacks.

    It is if lets say they are on your property. I like the idea now that you can legally hurt (not kill) someone if they are on your property and trying to hurt you or your family. As for tge street, If its all straightened out id imagine you would get away with self defence.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,921 ✭✭✭Remmy


    fedor.2. wrote: »
    I try to fight women as often as possible, trust me they are filthy fighters so you should just go hell for leather if one ever starts on you

    Really fedor? I thought you only fought cans :p


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,041 ✭✭✭Seachmall


    Few years ago I was out in town with my friend and her boyfriend.
    These scumbag girls just started at me for no reason - hitting, kicking, scraping me etc...
    My friend stopped them in the end (she is very tall, whereas I am only tiny!).
    But I was really annoyed that her boyfriend didn't step in.
    He said he didn't know what to do because they were girls.
    Fcuk that - they were assaulting me, for no reason, and he just stood there - what sort of man just stands there and watches like?

    Apparently men tend to try and avoid physical confrontations that aren't directed at them more than women, even when it's clearly necessary.

    Read it in a book some years ago, don't know if any studies have been done to prove/disprove it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,789 ✭✭✭✭ScumLord


    I always carry an inflatable paddling pool and a few gallons of oil for just this occasion.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,261 ✭✭✭Sonics2k


    I wouldn't even hold back if they fell on the ground. Watch your ribs b*tch, here comes a size 9.

    You have small feet :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,921 ✭✭✭Remmy


    Sonics2k wrote: »
    You have small feet :pac:

    Not really I'm fairly sure size 9 is the average foot size.




    Size 12 here speaking ...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,190 ✭✭✭Dublinstiofán


    I'd use reasonable force to get them off and get her away safely


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,484 ✭✭✭The Snipe


    What is so wrong about a man hitting a woman? Despite the fact that a woman can hit a man..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 712 ✭✭✭AeoNGriM


    Sykk wrote: »
    Following on from this thread. This is for the guys of AH

    Got me thinking what I'd do if a group of women set upon my girlfriend or sister for no apparent reason...

    I'm largely against physical violence in any way, especially when concerning women, but I think if this happened to me I'd probably end up hurting someone... What would you do?

    Why? This whole old fashioned notion that guys aren't supposed to hit women is ridiculous. Domestic or family violence aside, I'll knock out any crazy bitch that attacks me or someone close to me thinking she's untouchable because of this nonsensical, outdated ideal.


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