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Getting a Massage from Another Bloke

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    Guys will give you a harder massage so it depends what you like.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,477 ✭✭✭✭Raze_them_all


    Got one done in a proper turkish bath house in turkey. Didn't bother me at all.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,132 ✭✭✭Killer Pigeon


    Pop!

    Imagine if you got an erection by accident while he was massaging you - the awkwardness.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,089 ✭✭✭ascanbe


    Got one done in a proper turkish bath house in turkey. Didn't bother me at all.

    I bet it didn't..*snigger*..etc..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32 youngmagee


    Pop!

    Imagine if you got an erection by accident while he was massaging you - the awkwardness.

    Wouldn't you find awkward if it happened with a woman although it would be worse if it happened with a man


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,874 ✭✭✭padma


    Got one done in a proper turkish bath house in turkey. Didn't bother me at all.

    My cousin said he felt like he'd been raped after his experience in the turkish baths. They wash the balls an all I've heard.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,874 ✭✭✭padma


    youngmagee wrote: »
    Wouldn't you find awkward if it happened with a woman although it would be worse if it happened with a man[/Q


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,089 ✭✭✭ascanbe


    Larianne wrote: »
    Guys will give you a harder massage so it depends what you like.

    I like a real strong, deep massage; but there's no way i want a man oiling up my tightly wound body, getting in there real deep with his fingers and thumbs and rendering me supple and relieved.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    Pop!

    Imagine if you got an erection by accident while he was massaging you - the awkwardness.
    It rational and understandable that guys will worry about that .In my case I had lower back problem at the time and was recomended the sports clinic massage , so I went along and was slightly nervous about getting an erection but saw it as just a form of pyhsio what footballers reguarly get although my injury wasn't football related .


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,874 ✭✭✭padma


    so, theres what one maybe two people here who like men giving them a massage?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32 youngmagee


    I'm beginning to wonder what type of massage we are talking about.:D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,267 ✭✭✭✭ejmaztec


    I'd only be bothered if the masseur got an erection.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    padma wrote: »
    so, theres what one maybe two people here who like men giving them a massage?
    As mentioned ,sports people including footballer players reguarly have massages by male physios and last I looked ,8 people in poll said thay would not have a problem with it .


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32 youngmagee


    ejmaztec wrote: »
    I'd only be bothered if the masseur got an erection.

    I agree


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,874 ✭✭✭padma


    ejmaztec wrote: »
    I'd only be bothered if the masseur got an erection.
    Ah but why put yourself in to a situation where that could happen? hahaha, or the hand slipped and knocked the lad ;) by accident carry-on was to happen. Essentially the ass wouldn't get the rub or the upper thigh.

    One of the lads I know got stung in a place in Spain. A fine bird in the window, in he goes, all going well. Your one brings him in to the room, off with the clothes towel over him, in walks a guy.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,779 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    ejmaztec wrote: »
    I'd only be bothered if the masseur got an erection.

    Women get bothered by that too, I notice.

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,370 ✭✭✭✭Son Of A Vidic


    young asian ladys only please.

    Careful now, they could be lady boys. :eek:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,730 ✭✭✭✭entropi


    No bother at all, sure I'm trained in two forms of sports massage, swedish massage, stress management and reflexology myself. If you were in such a mind that you were uncomfortable with the idea, you would never go in the first place.

    Sure all that matters is that you are getting a professional service, and you walk out pleased with the treatment right?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27 irishescorts


    I like a good massage. Most people do, I'd imagine - but I have a thing about making sure that I book an appointment with a female masseuse.

    The thought of some bloke rubbing oil into my back, quite frankly, doesn't appeal to me. My missus thinks I'm a bit of a caveman in this respect & says it's a very old fashioned way of thinking.

    However, my guess is that a lot of blokes feel the same about the issue.

    So my question is... would it bother you to a massage from another bloke?

    We all had a good giggle at this in the office, the girls said they'd definitely be game as long as he was good looking.

    The lads are of split opinion however, speaking for myself it wouldn't bother me as I've had plenty of massages from manly men who were really good at what they done. Good thing to bear in mind is it's not personal, these people have devoted a fair amount of time and effort into getting good at what they do and most likely if they're good with their hands they'd have no problem pulling anyway so they're unlikely to put it on you whilst you're laying there.

    That said however, if it was coming from a friend I wouldn't be so sure.. it may be a sign ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,583 ✭✭✭mconigol


    Had one in Thailand of all places!


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  • Site Banned Posts: 5,975 ✭✭✭podgeandrodge


    Pop!

    Imagine if you got an erection by accident while he was massaging you - the awkwardness.
    Latchy wrote: »
    It rational and understandable that guys will worry about that .

    I'd be more worried about why you guys are worried you'd get an erection from being massaged by a man in the first place. I mean WTF :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,779 ✭✭✭Spunge




  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,542 ✭✭✭Captain Darling


    Got one done in a proper turkish bath house in turkey. Didn't bother me at all.

    Same here, i was in Gumbet years ago and there were about twenty of us (all farmer tanned Irish tourists) on this marble plinth. A big hairy turkish guy used to grab each of us one by one and hammer the bejaysus out of us.

    Surreal experience.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,477 ✭✭✭✭Raze_them_all


    padma wrote: »
    My cousin said he felt like he'd been raped after his experience in the turkish baths. They wash the balls an all I've heard.
    eh no, when i was there they used some foamy cloths thing to wash ya, their hands never touched you and the massage was done by someone else, maybe he just really liked your cousin!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    I'd be more worried about why you guys are worried you'd get an erection from being massaged by a man in the first place. I mean WTF :D
    Well it might cross your mind and I can see how others might be worried .Erections can happen at any time ,and when least expected .( as if we didn't know )

    As MoN said in his post ,you go to get a professional job done and that's all it boils down to .


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 157 ✭✭Ray von


    Booked in for a massage in a hotel in Dubai and in rocked a camp Chinese lad!

    I put it down to strict muslim ways of UAE as to why i got the bloke. Did not question it! :eek:

    Felt a bit odd but he had lovely soft hands! :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    Have gotten physio and massage therapy on a leg before from a man. No bother.

    Getting a massage purely for entertainment/relaxation/leisure reasons, it wouldn't bother me if it was a male or female doing it tbh as long as it was a good massage.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,788 ✭✭✭✭krudler


    I'm trained in massage, have given them to men as well, including some of my friends (after their girlfriends recommended it ) and believe me the person giving the massage gets nothing out of it, its hard fcuking work and you're mostly concentrating on your routine and the right pressure. Muscles are muscles I dont care who they're attached to


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,461 ✭✭✭--Kaiser--


    I wouldn't give a guy a massage and wouldn't want one from a man, I just happen to think they are a fairly sexual thing

    I'm reminded of this scene


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,779 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    --Kaiser-- wrote: »
    I wouldn't give a guy a massage and wouldn't want one from a man, I just happen to think they are a fairly sexual thing

    I'm reminded of this scene

    Perv! ;)

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



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