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Rudest type of people to deal with

  • 26-07-2010 11:42am
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    Closed Accounts Posts: 770 ✭✭✭viztopia


    I recently had to buy a part for my car and as it is an old enough car it made no sense to buy the part new as the price of it was neary half that of the car. I rang around about 15 car dismantlers looking for the part and i have to say they seem to be the rudest/most ignorant bunch of people i have ever dealt with as a whole. who do you think as a group are the rudest people to deal with?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,239 ✭✭✭KittyeeTrix


    The rudest people are often those who are ignorant on a particular topic but proceed to talk about it as if they were an expert.....

    Often seen to frequent AH threads late into the night and best avoided at all costs!!:p


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,941 ✭✭✭caseyann


    Where do you work? :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,706 ✭✭✭120_Minutes


    Customers


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    Stereotypical generalisation based on personal experience: Northern Irish.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,553 ✭✭✭Banned Account


    Counter staff in the public service.

    And childrens entertainers.

    And proctologists.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,831 ✭✭✭genericguy


    viztopia wrote: »
    I recently had to buy a part for my car and as it is an old enough car it made no sense to buy the part new as the price of it was neary half that of the car. I rang around about 15 car dismantlers looking for the part and i have to say they seem to be the rudest/most ignorant bunch of people i have ever dealt with as a whole. who do you think as a group are the rudest people to deal with?

    beggars. "no smokes? fcuk ye and anyway ye fcukin prick"


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,418 ✭✭✭loobylou


    white South Africans.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,831 ✭✭✭genericguy


    caseyann wrote: »
    Where do you work? :D

    he tells you where he works, then you start about that particular profession. we know your modus operandi. do you not have a billy goat to be eating?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,189 ✭✭✭drdeadlift


    diplomats


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,889 ✭✭✭tolosenc


    Customers

    Cnutomers


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,941 ✭✭✭caseyann


    genericguy wrote: »
    he tells you where he works, then you start about that particular profession. we know your modus operandi. do you not have a billy goat to be eating?
    Am i not giving you enough attention,dont be jealous :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,595 ✭✭✭bonerm


    loobylou wrote: »
    white South Africans.

    Agreed. I also find them to have very negative attitudes. All I ever hear from them is "you can't do this, you can't do that" etc. So I call them "South African can'ts".


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Parents are, by far, the rudest.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,952 ✭✭✭Lando Griffin


    The rudest people are the older street hookers.
    I know they are in high demand because of their wealth of experience but come on,
    Little attention to detail.
    No customer support.
    High inflated prices.
    Little intrest in their paying customers, just want to get rid of you to get to the next customer.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,739 ✭✭✭✭starbelgrade


    viztopia wrote: »
    I recently had to buy a part for my car and as it is an old enough car it made no sense to buy the part new as the price of it was neary half that of the car. I rang around about 15 car dismantlers looking for the part and i have to say they seem to be the rudest/most ignorant bunch of people i have ever dealt with as a whole. who do you think as a group are the rudest people to deal with?

    There are lots of part finder websites online. http://www.partfinder.ie/ is a fairly decent one... basically, you fill in what you are looking for & you'll get an e-mail to tell you which dismantlers have the part you are looking for. It cuts out a lot of telephoning around.

    That is by no means the only website, but it's the only one I've used & found it pretty handy.

    Also, I've never had any problems with dismantlers. The rudest type of people I've had to deal with are from no particular sector or business type - you get assholes in all walks of life.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,788 ✭✭✭✭krudler


    prinz wrote: »
    Stereotypical generalisation based on personal experience: Northern Irish.

    I'd agree with this, dealing with people from the Narth is a pain at times, they dont seem to grasp the concept that political issues aside, as far as the company I work for is concerned, they live in another country.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,941 ✭✭✭caseyann


    loobylou wrote: »
    white South Africans.

    Why did you call them white south Africans? So if i say i find black south Africans the rudiest its ok.Funny i find individuals Rude and ignorant.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes




  • Closed Accounts Posts: 19,986 ✭✭✭✭mikemac


    From working in retails

    Middle aged, well to do women.
    Out spending their husbands money and meeting for coffee with the girls

    "Did you need a college degree for that job?, I know my rights!" they sneer at the law students behind the counter while they haven't worked in 20 years since they got married!

    Rich people are sound, I dealt with many including some well known developers in hotels.

    It's people who think they are rich that are the worst. Not used to money
    One good thing about the recession...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,681 ✭✭✭✭P_1


    Middle aged Northern Irish women. Henceforth known as Prod Bítches, I don't care what side of the divide you are from, if you are rude to me you are automatically a Prod Bítch.

    White South Africans. The song "I've never met a nice South African" comes to mind.

    Edit, keyboard warriors, also find them quite rude.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,739 ✭✭✭✭starbelgrade


    pithater1 wrote: »
    Middle aged Northern Irish women. Henceforth known as Prod Bítches, I don't care what side of the divide you are from, if you are rude to me you are automatically a Prod Bítch.

    People with huge tar brushes. They're usually fairly rude.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,100 ✭✭✭tommyhaas


    Im gonna have to say the Eastern Europeans, the Pole's in particular. I dont think most of them mean to be ignorant, but they do across as ignorant. An example is phrases like 'Can I have that when you're finished please?' are generally rearranged to something like 'Give me that now'


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,199 ✭✭✭twinQuins


    Counter staff in the public service.

    For me it's the opposite. Having worked in a county council I've had to deal with some of the most rude, obnoxious and demanding people I've ever come across.

    And that's before going into being threatened.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,611 ✭✭✭✭Sam Vimes


    pithater1 wrote: »
    White South Africans. The song "I've never met a nice South African" comes to mind.

    Indeed :pac:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,752 ✭✭✭pablomakaveli


    I'm going to be crucified for this but middle aged African women are the rudest people i've dealt with.

    I work at a deli counter and whenever a middle aged african women comes up and just goes "i want chips" in the grumpiest way possible. When i give them what they asked for they look at it and just walk off without any please or thank you.

    For some reason all the middle aged african women i serve are like this. All African men and younger women are much nicer but for some reason the middle aged women are a nightmare to deal with.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,941 ✭✭✭caseyann


    All staff who are on the phones,if they are trying to get you to buy something or sign up for something they kiss your butt,but if you owe money could be even just 20 euro on a bill they get nasty.:mad:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,681 ✭✭✭✭P_1


    I'm going to be crucified for this but middle aged African women are the rudest people i've dealt with.

    I work at a deli counter and whenever a middle aged african women comes up and just goes "i want chips" in the grumpiest way possible. When i give them what they asked for they look at it and just walk off without any please or thank you.

    For some reason all the middle aged african women i serve are like this. All African men and younger women are much nicer but for some reason the middle aged women are a nightmare to deal with.


    Have also noticed that, 9 times out of ten one of them doesn't seem to have the ability to ask in a polite manner like the rest of us do and resort to bellowing.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,144 ✭✭✭Parsley


    caseyann wrote: »
    Why did you call them white south Africans? So if i say i find black south Africans the rudiest its ok.Funny i find individuals Rude and ignorant.

    i find trolls the rudest to deal with.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,778 ✭✭✭Pauleta


    Skangers and loaded aul wans


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,100 ✭✭✭tommyhaas


    caseyann wrote: »
    Why did you call them white south Africans? So if i say i find black south Africans the rudiest its ok.Funny i find individuals Rude and ignorant.

    So say you met 10 South Africans, 5 who were white and 5 who were black. If the 5 white people were quiet ignorant, and the 5 five black people were quiet friendly, how would you differenciate them when describing it to someone eles?

    Theres nothing wrong with saying what colour/race someone is when giving a discription of them


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 378 ✭✭HiKite


    I visited a car dismantler in Sligo, who I thought was totally rude on the phone, but after being in the place for 20 minutes, I observed his nature with some customers and he is OK after all, you just have to get to know him first I suppose. First impressions last though, especially in business! I don't think all car dismantlers are as abrupt, as I had to phone about 10 places a few months ago, and some of them seemed like very nice people.
    viztopia wrote: »
    I recently had to buy a part for my car and as it is an old enough car it made no sense to buy the part new as the price of it was neary half that of the car. I rang around about 15 car dismantlers looking for the part and i have to say they seem to be the rudest/most ignorant bunch of people i have ever dealt with as a whole. who do you think as a group are the rudest people to deal with?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 830 ✭✭✭SEANYBOY1


    I'm going to be crucified for this but middle aged African women are the rudest people i've dealt with.

    I work at a deli counter and whenever a middle aged african women comes up and just goes "i want chips" in the grumpiest way possible. When i give them what they asked for they look at it and just walk off without any please or thank you.

    For some reason all the middle aged african women i serve are like this. All African men and younger women are much nicer but for some reason the middle aged women are a nightmare to deal with.

    Say what you think, the bleeding heart liberals are not looking over your shoulder, are they?
    HiKite wrote: »
    I visited a car dismantler in Sligo, who I thought was totally rude on the phone, but after being in the place for 20 minutes, I observed his nature with some customers and he is OK after all, you just have to get to know him first I suppose. First impressions last though, especially in business! I don't think all car dismantlers are as abrupt, as I had to phone about 10 places a few months ago, and some of them seemed like very nice people.

    No you dont, you just want to purchaser a part which should be at least coulpled with a bit of manners, and a receipt!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,941 ✭✭✭caseyann


    tommyhaas wrote: »
    So say you met 10 South Africans, 5 who were white and 5 who were black. If the 5 white people were quiet ignorant, and the 5 five black people were quiet friendly, how would you differenciate them when describing it to someone eles?

    Theres nothing wrong with saying what colour/race someone is when giving a discription of them

    Funny when i have done that previously got called a racist.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,349 ✭✭✭✭super_furry


    There's a special level of Hell dedicated to YouTube commentators.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,661 ✭✭✭General Zod


    SEANYBOY1 wrote: »
    Say what you think, the bleeding heart liberals are not looking over your shoulder, are they?



    No you just want to purchaser a part which should be at least coulpled with a bit of manners, and a receipt!


    Who are these mythical "bleeding heart liberals"? I find that people whine about them when there is no actual evidence they exist and usually start moaning about them in threads like these before anyone has actually exhibited the behaviour that is being railed against.

    Fecking Sun readers.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,100 ✭✭✭tommyhaas


    caseyann wrote: »
    Funny when i have done that previously got called a racist.

    But its not racism, yeah its definitely stereotyping alright which in a thread titled 'Rudest type of people....' is inevitable, but using a persons colour to describe them is not racism, it's being discriptive


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 36,634 ✭✭✭✭Ruu_Old


    Home improvement store workers. Majority of them, from my experience, have zero knowledge of the products they sell and can't be arsed helping you with anything really. They do as little as possible.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,498 ✭✭✭Jamie Starr


    Old biddies.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,983 ✭✭✭Raminahobbin


    Nigerians.

    This is not me being racist, this is just observed through my own 3 years working in a shop where I have had to photocopy alot of documentation for people from other countries.

    I can say that, without a doubt, there has only been a handful of nigerians I have served in the shop that has not been, on some level, rude. From jumping the queue, to demanding tippex/scissors/sellotape, to not saying please or thank you, to pushing their papers at me, having kids running riot in the shop, calling me a stupid girl, tutting at me, pushing other customers bags off the counter because they need to fill out a form, taking off their shoes in the shop and demanding I fetch them a chair to use while their fax goes through... and so on.

    Apparently it is a cultural thing, I have a friend whose boyfriend is Nigerian, and he said they have a very abrupt and demanding culture. It just clashes alot with ours! :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,508 ✭✭✭ElaElaElano


    People who work in music (instruments, not CDs) shops. Never come across a bigger bunch of high and mighty cúnts in my life. As an aside, failed musicians, who for example played a guitar riff on a Thin Lizzy song 30 years ago but have done fúck all else since seem to have a massive ego problem, much more so than genuinely famous, successful ones. It's like they're bitter about having had a taste of it but nothing more.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,381 ✭✭✭fakearms123


    Lesbian Gay bashers!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,553 ✭✭✭Banned Account


    tommyhaas wrote: »
    Theres nothing wrong with saying what colour/race someone is when giving a discription of them
    tommyhaas wrote: »
    But its not racism, yeah its definitely stereotyping alright which in a thread titled 'Rudest type of people....' is inevitable, but using a persons colour to describe them is not racism, it's being discriptive

    I disagree to be honest, there is a cumulative effect from this kind of reporting which, intentionally or otherwise builds up a perception of certain races/nationalities amongst the public.

    The only time such details are warranted is when descriptions are required to help the gardai - otherwise I see it as no more relevant than the colour of ones shoes or the clothes one is wearing - the latter two pieces of information are never printed.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,565 ✭✭✭losthorizon


    Louth people


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,919 ✭✭✭Schism


    I definitely agree with the well to do middle aged women comment.

    For instance I remember serving a lady not so long ago, she wanted to pay with a Mastercard but it had no chip so I said I'm sorry I can't accept this card. She made a big fuss about how I had to accept the card, I couldn't though as it's company policy where I work only to accept chip and pin. In the end reached into her purse and slammed a laser down on the counter and turned away.

    I wasn't shocked, I've seen it all before but it's annoying how some people let it go to their head when they get some money.

    On the flip side some of the nicest customers I've dealt with have been middle aged rich men, oddly. It's all very subjective anyway as each person's going to have their own biases.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,100 ✭✭✭tommyhaas


    The only time such details are warranted is when descriptions are required to help the gardai - otherwise I see it as no more relevant than the colour of ones shoes or the clothes one is wearing - the latter two pieces of information are never printed.

    Thats what Im getting at though, describing someone as having black/white skin is no different to describing them as having black/white shoes. Once the reference to skin is made only in a discriptive sence


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,553 ✭✭✭Banned Account


    tommyhaas wrote: »
    Thats what Im getting at though, describing someone as having black/white skin is no different to describing them as having black/white shoes. Once the reference to skin is made only in a discriptive sence

    But you are working on the flawed premise that this information is not going to influence anyones perceptions - in the ideal world, this would be true, but in reality, it leads to racisim by installments. If it is inconsequential, leave it out.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,752 ✭✭✭pablomakaveli


    Schism wrote: »

    On the flip side some of the nicest customers I've dealt with have been middle aged rich men, oddly. It's all very subjective anyway as each person's going to have their own biases.

    There's a couple of middle aged rich men who come into my shop who are complete pricks.

    Can we trade?:D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,595 ✭✭✭bonerm


    Nigerians.

    This is not me being racist, this is just observed through my own 3 years working in a shop where I have had to photocopy alot of documentation for people from other countries.

    I can say that, without a doubt, there has only been a handful of nigerians I have served in the shop that has not been, on some level, rude. From jumping the queue, to demanding tippex/scissors/sellotape, to not saying please or thank you, to pushing their papers at me, having kids running riot in the shop, calling me a stupid girl, tutting at me, pushing other customers bags off the counter because they need to fill out a form, taking off their shoes in the shop and demanding I fetch them a chair to use while their fax goes through... and so on.

    Haha, give a scissors to a Nigerian? Yeah, that's gonna happen.

    In fairness to them tho it's unfair to single out Nigerians for this kind of rude behavior. For instance I've found they're pig ignorant no matter what part of Sub-Saharan Africa they come from


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,100 ✭✭✭tommyhaas


    But you are working on the flawed premise that this information is not going to influence anyones perceptions - in the ideal world, this would be true, but in reality, it leads to racisim by installments. If it is inconsequential, leave it out.

    If it influences someone's perception, thats down to them and their prejudice. In an earlier post, someone said that they found white South Africans to be unfriendly/ignorant. IMO, they were being discriptive, and not racist


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,847 ✭✭✭HavingCrack


    Work in Croke Park now and again and I just find that auld fellas from the country, especially Munster for some reason, are the rudest, least pleasant people I ever have to deal with. Nasty, grumpy, I hate-dubs attitude just pisses me right off.

    Oh and Louth people ;).


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