Trivial things that totally turn you off someone

smiley girl

Bad breath is a huge turnoff

emzolita

bad spelling! that sounds really shallow, but I hate it in men, oh and food in someone's teeth.

rednik

Toe jam :eek:
Hairy chest on a woman. :eek:

IM0

daisybelle2008 wrote: »

For example guys putting knifes into their mouths to suck food off.

thats some kinky shit you got goin on there, with a bit of sadistic madness added with the knife in there too, OUCH.

Leftyflip

Smoker breath,
alcoholic,
druggie,
etc.

And people who scream a lot...

Red_Marauder

Leftyflip wrote: »

alcoholic,

druggie,

in a way these are two of my favourite things in a girl.. as in not addicted to drugs, but someone funky, a bit crazy... consumes a lot of chewing gum.

And who scream a lot...

Well that's just being greedy

Something that really turns me off is negativity. I like happy girls who really couldn't give a damn about the bad stuff.

daisybelle2008

Leftyflip wrote: »

Smoker breath,
alcoholic,
druggie,
etc.

And people who scream a lot...

Those are not trivial. I am talking about the inexplicabily shallow stuff that you become aware of that makes you stop fancying someone. Flaky skin on their scalp, really ugly shoes, trousers too short and wedged up their ass.

IM0

daisybelle2008 wrote: »

Those are not trivial. I am talking about the inexplicabily shallow stuff that you become aware of that makes you stop fancying someone. Flaky skin on their scalp, really ugly shoes, trousers too short and wedged up their ass.

You will never be happy, you try to find faults in everyone
hate that..

Bonito

Biggins wrote: »

Cigarette breath. A right turn-off immediately.

Makes me feel sick and can't breathe!

brummytom wrote: »

Facial hair on girls

Happened once, as I got closer I seen it and pretended I needed to burp, pretended I got indigestion, excused myself, never went back.

Kintarō Hattori wrote: »

jealousy.

+1 Does my feckin' tits in!

DKZ wrote: »

Dry, chapped lips.

Kissin' someone with it is rank, my lips are always kissably soft :cool:

lordnoah wrote: »

Anyone Irish person that speaks with an American or fake south Dublin accent turns me off immediately. I just cannot take them seriously and automatically think they are somewhat lacking.

Definitely a +1 on this no matter how good looking they are!

smiley girl wrote: »

Bad breath is a huge turnoff

Think that goes for everyone TBH

rednik wrote: »

Toe jam :eek:
Hairy chest on a woman. :eek:

WTF???


And my own. Insecurity, cold sores, jealousy, girls that are wayyyy too quiet. Sometimes the whole "I don't eat in front of boys" drives me up the wall!!! Also something I've been coming across a lot lately, cocky girls. Seriously, why?

daisybelle2008

me@ucd wrote: »

You will never be happy, you try to find faults in everyone
hate that..

No I really don't, I am talking early days here. With someone I really fancy the trivial things (and even bigger things) don't register at all. It is funny, when you genuinely fancy some one, their less then desirable traits are endearing. Some bad/gross things I can find quite cute. Lifes rich tapestry etc.
I do find it funny though the find of trivial things that people mention as turn-offs. Like a male friend would say women drinking pints is gross, but I think with the right woman it would not matter a jot.
I am more thinking instant crushes that stop in their tracks for something silly..with the right person that never really happens.

P.s happiness comes from within, does not depend on another person

sillyputty

Guys with excessive body hair freak me out esp. on their backs.

I also dislike when they have a word they overuse.
One guy i knew used the word 'seemingly' too much. It got to the point where when he said it i just wanted to rip my ears off just so i could throw them at him.

Sulmac

Male genitalia.

anonymous_joe

Fake tan. Not a fan of it. Or too much makeup in general.

Red Hand

I dunno. It's the major rather trivial things that turn me off.

OutlawPete

Even slightly being obnoxious, stuck-up or rude.

A girl could be a ten out of ten but if she has a nasty personality, instantly I would see them as ugly.

Works the other way too for me.

A girl can be very plain looking but if she has friendly eyes and genuine warmth to her personality, then suddenly I am looking at them like they are Angelina Jolie.

Columbia

Being late for stuff. Even if it's just 5 minutes, I've made the effort to be there on time, and if the other person hasn't then that's something which really gets on my nerves.

milly4ever

long nails on a man- just wrong.

MrsKitka

Cheap cologne, smoke, bad breath... my turn-offs are smell-related. If I smell you in the night and you stink then you're not getting any...

Holmer

daisybelle2008 wrote: »

She said it was just a figment of speech
And I said, "You mean figure?"
And she said, "No, figment"
Because she could never imagine it happening
But it did.

When we first met I played the shy boy
And when she spoke to me for the first time
My nose began to bleed
She guessed the rest

The next day we went on a bus ride to the ferry
And when nobody came to collect our fares
Well, I knew then this was something special
I couldn?t stop thinking about her
And every time I switched on the radio
There was somebody else singing a song about the two of us

It was just like being on a fast ride at the funfair
The sort you wanna get off because it?s scary
And then as soon as you?re off
You wanna get straight back on again

But our love is strange
And you have to take the crunchy with the smooth I s'pose
She began going out with Mr Potato Head
It was when I saw her in the car park
With his coat around her shoulders that I realised
I went home and thought about the two of them together
Until the bath water went cold around me

I thought about her eyes and the curve of her breasts
And about the point where their bodies met
I confronted her about it.
I said, "I?m the most illegible bachelor in town."
And she said, "Yea, that's why I can never understand
Any of those silly letters you send me."

And then one day it happened
She cut 'er hair and I stopped lovin' 'er[/Q

logged in just to thank you for that, Mr. Bragg:)

FlutterinBantam

People who scratch their holes and then sniff the hand.

Was on the Luas red recently and a chubby porker in saggy track suit bottom jams the left paw deep up her arse crack and does a bit of open face mining. Rooting the fcuker around as if the tapeworms had gone a bit postal.:eek:

Then up to the schnozzle and sniffs...


Yeeeecht..... gross.:eek:


Not a bother on her.

Agricola

FlutterinBantam wrote: »

People who scratch their holes and then sniff the hand.

Was on the Luas red recently and a chubby porker in saggy track suit bottom jams the left paw deep up her arse crack and does a bit of open face mining. Rooting the fcuker around as if the tapeworms had gone a bit postal.:eek:

Then up to the schnozzle and sniffs...


Yeeeecht..... gross.:eek:


Not a bother on her.

Jaysus, its too early in the mornin!

phill106

FlutterinBantam wrote: »

People who scratch their holes and then sniff the hand.

Was on the Luas red recently and a chubby porker in saggy track suit bottom jams the left paw deep up her arse crack and does a bit of open face mining. Rooting the fcuker around as if the tapeworms had gone a bit postal.:eek:

Then up to the schnozzle and sniffs...


Yeeeecht..... gross.:eek:


Not a bother on her.

that is so vile, its hard to imagine a sentinent being doing that....

Holmer

FlutterinBantam wrote: »

People who scratch their holes and then sniff the hand.

Was on the Luas red recently and a chubby porker in saggy track suit bottom jams the left paw deep up her arse crack and does a bit of open face mining. Rooting the fcuker around as if the tapeworms had gone a bit postal.:eek:

Then up to the schnozzle and sniffs...


Yeeeecht..... gross.:eek:


Not a bother on her.

That would be a bit of a deal breaker alright, Flutt.

The 'chubby porker' bit and the saggy tracksuit sound delightful too

plein de force

someone who never shuts up or someone who lacks intelligence

Holmer

County jerseys....that's trivial.

stovelid

If they're judgemental about trivial things, I'm out of there.

wylo

-women with bad breath
-women who think they are waaaay better looking than they really are
-women who insist on always looking bitchy that smirk at other women all the time and are afraid to smile.
-women with orange hands as a result as a result of putting on a ridiculous amount of fake tan.
-women with a strong "working class" accent, which is very shallow on my part because some of the nicest girls I know have that accent ,they cant help it
-women that are waaaay over arty, the ones that insist they are the most different person in the room, you know the ones with the crazy clothes and 40 piercings and 100 tattoos.
-women who hate even neat stubble,/facial hair on a bloke, so next time I hear a girl doesnt like it , don't worry you weren't my type anyway!!

gonnaplayrugby

'zany' types. could never be friends with people like that.

Antbert

Anyone who believes 'there may be something to astrology' or thinks they saw a ghost when they were younger.

nlgbbbblth

if they
- read tabloid newspapers
- read trashy magazines
- diss books
- can't treat DVDs and CDs with respect
- diss vinyl
- complain about subtitles or black and white films
- look down on public transport