Trivial things that totally turn you off someone

daisybelle2008

When I fancy someone, sometimes something fairly fickle will totally kill it for me. For example guys putting knifes into their mouths to suck food off. Anyone else got something fairly innocuous that makes their heart sink and lose the buzz for someone.

Hank_Jones

Suppose you don't like sword eaters then?

Damn.

Pepe LeFrits

Genital herpes.

I've very angry at Hank for stealing my first reply thunder.

BluesBerry

monobrows

Biggins

Cigarette breath. A right turn-off immediately.

SubrbanOblivion

Facial hair on guys
bald heads

brummytom

SubrbanOblivion wrote: »

Facial hair on guys

Facial hair on girls

CreepingDeath

star sign of Gemini... completely psychos.

Go out with a gemini and you wake up with a different woman each morning.
* Not as good as it sounds.

frag420

Beardy women!!

frAg

mikom

A cock.

BluesBerry

Biggins wrote: »

Cigarette breath. A right turn-off immediately.

Dont stand to close to my avatar then

daisybelle2008

Hank_Jones wrote: »

Suppose you don't like sword eaters then?

Damn.

I'm a girl, it is not a talent I look for in a guy

sesna

CreepingDeath wrote: »

star sign of Gemini... completely psychos.

Astrologers

storybud1

their partners!!

frag420

daisybelle2008 wrote: »

I'm a girl, it is not a talent I look for in a guy

Im a guy and it is a talent i look for in a girl!!


frAg

Hank_Jones

I smoked a few years ago, the thought of kissing someone who has cigarette breath is a big turn off for me now.

I know it sounds a bit high and mighty since I did smoke...

Can't even stand the smell of smoke off people.

Some of my housemates smoke, and the smell of cigarette butts is just horrible as well.

So, yeah, smoking.

Closed ac

On a girl's neck, if she has hair all over the place like she's just recieved an electric shock, it's just ugh.

Hard to explain,

bnt

I hate smoking too: hate it so much that it doesn't fit the "trivial" requirement of this thread!

I'm a bit old-fashioned, in that I think the word "underwear" is to be taken literally. Under the clothes, not visible to all and sundry. It's a style thing, a sign of taste and decorum. :cool:

Magenta

Facial piercings...or any piercings, anywhere.
I'm sorry P. Diddy but until you take those diamond earrings out we are not going on that cruise.

Kintarō Hattori

Yellow teeth and/or jealousy.

daisybelle2008

Kintarō Hattori wrote: »

Yellow teeth and/or jealousy.

Bad teeth...ugh.. like they have been chewing rocks. Even if they have nice kissable lips

Reg'stoy

Orange peel skin AKA cellulite ok ye all have it, but for me the biggest turn off is unintelligence (God I hope I splet that right).

Closed ac

Dry, chapped lips.

Giselle

If they mention they 'seen' something instead of 'saw'. Or if they say they 'would of' done something instead of 'would have'.

The Express

People that can't look you in the eyes

Mr Benevolent

Mods, can you rename this thread to 'How Shallow Are You?'

daisybelle2008

She said it was just a figment of speech
And I said, "You mean figure?"
And she said, "No, figment"
Because she could never imagine it happening
But it did.

When we first met I played the shy boy
And when she spoke to me for the first time
My nose began to bleed
She guessed the rest

The next day we went on a bus ride to the ferry
And when nobody came to collect our fares
Well, I knew then this was something special
I couldn?t stop thinking about her
And every time I switched on the radio
There was somebody else singing a song about the two of us

It was just like being on a fast ride at the funfair
The sort you wanna get off because it?s scary
And then as soon as you?re off
You wanna get straight back on again

But our love is strange
And you have to take the crunchy with the smooth I s'pose
She began going out with Mr Potato Head
It was when I saw her in the car park
With his coat around her shoulders that I realised
I went home and thought about the two of them together
Until the bath water went cold around me

I thought about her eyes and the curve of her breasts
And about the point where their bodies met
I confronted her about it.
I said, "I?m the most illegible bachelor in town."
And she said, "Yea, that's why I can never understand
Any of those silly letters you send me."

And then one day it happened
She cut 'er hair and I stopped lovin' 'er

smiley girl

DKZ wrote: »

On a girl's neck, if she has hair all over the place like she's just recieved an electric shock, it's just ugh.

Hard to explain,

If she has short hair, or her hair is tied up, and you can see the 'fuzzy' hair on the back of her neck and it has static???

lordnoah

Anyone Irish person that speaks with an American or fake south Dublin accent turns me off immediately. I just cannot take them seriously and automatically think they are somewhat lacking.

smiley girl

Reg'stoy wrote: »

Orange peel skin AKA cellulite ok ye all have it, but for me the biggest turn off is unintelligence (God I hope I splet that right).

Nope, you didnt!:p

daisybelle2008

Reg'stoy wrote: »

Orange peel skin AKA cellulite ok ye all have it, but for me the biggest turn off is unintelligence (God I hope I splet that right).

Oh the irony

smiley girl

Bad breath is a huge turnoff

emzolita

bad spelling! that sounds really shallow, but I hate it in men, oh and food in someone's teeth.

rednik

Toe jam :eek:
Hairy chest on a woman. :eek:

IM0

daisybelle2008 wrote: »

For example guys putting knifes into their mouths to suck food off.

thats some kinky shit you got goin on there, with a bit of sadistic madness added with the knife in there too, OUCH.

Leftyflip

Smoker breath,
alcoholic,
druggie,
etc.

And people who scream a lot...

Red_Marauder

Leftyflip wrote: »

alcoholic,

druggie,

in a way these are two of my favourite things in a girl.. as in not addicted to drugs, but someone funky, a bit crazy... consumes a lot of chewing gum.

And who scream a lot...

Well that's just being greedy

Something that really turns me off is negativity. I like happy girls who really couldn't give a damn about the bad stuff.

daisybelle2008

Leftyflip wrote: »

Smoker breath,
alcoholic,
druggie,
etc.

And people who scream a lot...

Those are not trivial. I am talking about the inexplicabily shallow stuff that you become aware of that makes you stop fancying someone. Flaky skin on their scalp, really ugly shoes, trousers too short and wedged up their ass.

IM0

daisybelle2008 wrote: »

Those are not trivial. I am talking about the inexplicabily shallow stuff that you become aware of that makes you stop fancying someone. Flaky skin on their scalp, really ugly shoes, trousers too short and wedged up their ass.

You will never be happy, you try to find faults in everyone
hate that..

Bonito

Biggins wrote: »

Cigarette breath. A right turn-off immediately.

Makes me feel sick and can't breathe!

brummytom wrote: »

Facial hair on girls

Happened once, as I got closer I seen it and pretended I needed to burp, pretended I got indigestion, excused myself, never went back.

Kintarō Hattori wrote: »

jealousy.

+1 Does my feckin' tits in!

DKZ wrote: »

Dry, chapped lips.

Kissin' someone with it is rank, my lips are always kissably soft :cool:

lordnoah wrote: »

Anyone Irish person that speaks with an American or fake south Dublin accent turns me off immediately. I just cannot take them seriously and automatically think they are somewhat lacking.

Definitely a +1 on this no matter how good looking they are!

smiley girl wrote: »

Bad breath is a huge turnoff

Think that goes for everyone TBH

rednik wrote: »

Toe jam :eek:
Hairy chest on a woman. :eek:

WTF???


And my own. Insecurity, cold sores, jealousy, girls that are wayyyy too quiet. Sometimes the whole "I don't eat in front of boys" drives me up the wall!!! Also something I've been coming across a lot lately, cocky girls. Seriously, why?

daisybelle2008

me@ucd wrote: »

You will never be happy, you try to find faults in everyone
hate that..

No I really don't, I am talking early days here. With someone I really fancy the trivial things (and even bigger things) don't register at all. It is funny, when you genuinely fancy some one, their less then desirable traits are endearing. Some bad/gross things I can find quite cute. Lifes rich tapestry etc.
I do find it funny though the find of trivial things that people mention as turn-offs. Like a male friend would say women drinking pints is gross, but I think with the right woman it would not matter a jot.
I am more thinking instant crushes that stop in their tracks for something silly..with the right person that never really happens.

P.s happiness comes from within, does not depend on another person

sillyputty

Guys with excessive body hair freak me out esp. on their backs.

I also dislike when they have a word they overuse.
One guy i knew used the word 'seemingly' too much. It got to the point where when he said it i just wanted to rip my ears off just so i could throw them at him.

Sulmac

Male genitalia.

anonymous_joe

Fake tan. Not a fan of it. Or too much makeup in general.

Red Hand

I dunno. It's the major rather trivial things that turn me off.

OutlawPete

Even slightly being obnoxious, stuck-up or rude.

A girl could be a ten out of ten but if she has a nasty personality, instantly I would see them as ugly.

Works the other way too for me.

A girl can be very plain looking but if she has friendly eyes and genuine warmth to her personality, then suddenly I am looking at them like they are Angelina Jolie.

Columbia

Being late for stuff. Even if it's just 5 minutes, I've made the effort to be there on time, and if the other person hasn't then that's something which really gets on my nerves.

milly4ever

long nails on a man- just wrong.

MrsKitka

Cheap cologne, smoke, bad breath... my turn-offs are smell-related. If I smell you in the night and you stink then you're not getting any...

Holmer

daisybelle2008 wrote: »

She said it was just a figment of speech
And I said, "You mean figure?"
And she said, "No, figment"
Because she could never imagine it happening
But it did.

When we first met I played the shy boy
And when she spoke to me for the first time
My nose began to bleed
She guessed the rest

The next day we went on a bus ride to the ferry
And when nobody came to collect our fares
Well, I knew then this was something special
I couldn?t stop thinking about her
And every time I switched on the radio
There was somebody else singing a song about the two of us

It was just like being on a fast ride at the funfair
The sort you wanna get off because it?s scary
And then as soon as you?re off
You wanna get straight back on again

But our love is strange
And you have to take the crunchy with the smooth I s'pose
She began going out with Mr Potato Head
It was when I saw her in the car park
With his coat around her shoulders that I realised
I went home and thought about the two of them together
Until the bath water went cold around me

I thought about her eyes and the curve of her breasts
And about the point where their bodies met
I confronted her about it.
I said, "I?m the most illegible bachelor in town."
And she said, "Yea, that's why I can never understand
Any of those silly letters you send me."

And then one day it happened
She cut 'er hair and I stopped lovin' 'er[/Q

logged in just to thank you for that, Mr. Bragg:)

FlutterinBantam

People who scratch their holes and then sniff the hand.

Was on the Luas red recently and a chubby porker in saggy track suit bottom jams the left paw deep up her arse crack and does a bit of open face mining. Rooting the fcuker around as if the tapeworms had gone a bit postal.:eek:

Then up to the schnozzle and sniffs...


Yeeeecht..... gross.:eek:


Not a bother on her.