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Yeah I'm in the wrong but is this really that big of a deal??

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 162 ✭✭badolepuddytat


    DarkJager wrote: »
    I wonder what the female posters here would be saying if it was a male who was videoed by his girlfriend? I've seen it plenty of times where a female might have "risque" pictures of her BF in her phone and takes delight out of having a good giggle with her friends about them....trust the female species to be the biggest hypocrites walking the earth...
    This female poster would say that the girl who does that is a tw*t. :D Which is irrelevant with regards to this particular issue anyway.
    DarkJager wrote: »
    IMO she is over reacting, and OP should make one apology and one only. If she doesn't accept that and still plays victim to the max, then just drop her...
    Playing the victim? He takes compromising video footage of her without her knowledge and leaves it lying around for anyone who flicks through the memory card/borrows the camera to see. Yeah, she's a drama queen alright, pity us hormonal wimmens aren't as rational as boys :rolleyes:
    wow op, you would seriously be in the dog with me. Its just not on! You had no right to do it and now your talking about dumping her.. eh...

    No one has the right to take pictures/video of anyone else naked with out permission. (end of story!). She trusted you and you let her down. You have to accept that and make it up to her. And yes i think that means letting her "let off steam". I would have a name or two to call my husband if he did this to me but I am sure she will calm down after a bit.

    On the dumping issue, i think you need to accept that you have hurt her but the fact you have dumped her/or are thinking about dumping her suggests to me you don't really care that you have hurt her...

    Ten years or not i'm thinking she might be better off without you (not cause of what you did but because of the way you are acting now). It seems to me like you are saying "yes i hurt you, i did something wrong, but you better get over it or i will dump you"
    +1


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭SarahSassy


    I think I would dump you for being pure stupid - taking the video and then lending the card to her sister - stoopid is as stoopid does !!!

    :confused:


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