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  • 22-02-2008 1:17am
    #1
    jezza
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    Girls-
    Would you mind/be upset if you found out yor other half was watching porn?
    Having talked about this with a couple of my mates, most would seem to mind. But I honestly wouldn't mind at all.
    Hell as long as it wasn't two men (no offence to any gay men) going at it, I'd watch it too.

    So yeah, fine women of LL. How would ye feel??


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    #2
    ztoical
    Registered Users Posts: 4,788 ✭✭✭ztoical


    I actually got one bf porn while on holidays in spain one year so I couldn't really throw a fit if I'd caught him watching lol.

    Honestly wouldn't bother me as long as it wasn't anything illegal [no kiddies, animals, etc etc].


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    dr.bollocko
    Moderators, Music Moderators Posts: 35,943 Mod ✭✭✭✭dr.bollocko


    It's probably a much better idea to buy your boyfriend porn than to buy him video games. Less boring, you can join in, and he can't play it all night and ignore you. Unless he is really determined.


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    jezza
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,648 ✭✭✭jezza


    Speaking of which, I was in an "adult shop" and i have never been as unnerved in my life!
    It was full of eastern europeans and had movie booths. And the movie booths had like 2 boxes of tissues in em. AHHH!
    Some of the DVDs were like.. Woah!.. too...


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    #5
    ztoical
    Registered Users Posts: 4,788 ✭✭✭ztoical


    have to say we had a really good laugh watching the porn I'd picked up - it was american but dubbed into spainish really badly - couldn't stop laughing. We did end up having sex after watching, both us trying to do our best porno moans and grunts - I don't think I've laughed so much during sex in my life.


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    #6
    [Deleted User]
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    I encourage it :)


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    MrJoeSoap
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    jezza wrote: »
    Speaking of which, I was in an "adult shop" and i have never been as unnerved in my life!
    It was full of eastern europeans and had movie booths. And the movie booths had like 2 boxes of tissues in em. AHHH!
    Some of the DVDs were like.. Woah!.. too...

    The tissues were for the incredibly soppy storylines, I assure you.


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    Jules
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    Tbh, i always said that it never bothered me, but thinking about it more these days im very self conscience and have a fairly low opinion of my self image and well the idea of him looking at some pretty girl and, pardon the term, cracking one off, it does upset me a little. But its my own problem, i know guys do it and thats just a fact, but if i am to be 100% honest ..... I'm not 100% happy with it.

    But such is life.


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    MrJoeSoap
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    Jules wrote: »
    Tbh, i always said that it never bothered me, but thinking about it more these days

    Best typo EVER!


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    jezza
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,648 ✭✭✭jezza


    Jules wrote: »
    Tbh, i always said that it never bothered me, but thinking about it more these days im very self conscience and have a fairly low opinion of my self image and well the idea of him looking at some pretty girl and, pardon the term, cracking one off, it does upset me a little. But its my own problem, i know guys do it and thats just a fact, but if i am to be 100% honest ..... I'm not 100% happy with it.

    But such is life.
    Having seen you, i can say you are beautiful.
    You can be my porn queen any day <3


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    Jules
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    Oh Jezz, thats so sweet!

    Don't tell Anti he might wanna take you up on that offer ;)


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    #12
    MrJoeSoap
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    Censorship, boo-urns!


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    jezza
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    Jules wrote: »
    Oh Jezz, thats so sweet!

    Don't tell Anti he might wanna take you up on that offer ;)
    He is not invited. I dont like sharing!!! :D


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    Chinafoot
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,894 ✭✭✭Chinafoot


    No problem with porn at all. We've watched it together.

    I don't like very rough stuff as it always seems to be quite degrading, but anything else legal is fine :)


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    randylonghorn
    Moderators, Education Moderators Posts: 29,509 Mod ✭✭✭✭randylonghorn


    dr.bollocko wrote: »
    It's probably a much better idea to buy your boyfriend porn than to buy him video games. Less boring, you can join in, and he can't play it all night and ignore you. Unless he is really determined.
    Hear this man, ladies, he speaks words of wisdom ... for once!
    jezza wrote: »
    Speaking of which, I was in an "adult shop" and i have never been as unnerved in my life!
    It was full of eastern europeans and had movie booths. And the movie booths had like 2 boxes of tissues in em. AHHH!
    OK, Jez ... the strap-ons, the whips, the footlongs which would have no place in Subway ... these didn't disturb you, but a couple of box of Kleenex unnerved you?! :p:D

    And believe me, the alternative would have been a hell of a lot more disturbing ... :o
    Jules wrote: »
    ... well the idea of him looking at some pretty girl and, pardon the term, cracking one off, it does upset me a little.
    Seriously, Jules, what many women find difficult to understand is to just what extent guys can watch porn and think only with the lower head ... it really has absolutely nothing whatsoever to do with RL or relationships.

    Truthfully, some of those women, and what they get up to, would scare the living shit out of us if they appeared in our bedroom some night.

    Apparently, this is especially true of Welsh men, for some reason ... >_>


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    #16
    Crumble Froo
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    ha, i love adult shops, i have no idea why, never buy anything there, but still find them fascinating and entertaining, for some reason.

    i wouldn't care about the b/f watching porn, though i would have my days where, like jules, i would feel extra self conscious or something, but... my b/f doesnt watch porn, so no problems there.

    either way, as long as i still get to watch this i'm happy ;)


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    Xavi6
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    Crumble Froo wrote: »
    ha, i love adult shops, i have no idea why, never buy anything there, but still find them fascinating and entertaining, for some reason.

    i wouldn't care about the b/f watching porn, though i would have my days where, like jules, i would feel extra self conscious or something, but... my b/f doesnt watch porn, so no problems there.

    either way, as long as i still get to watch this i'm happy ;)

    Ha so he says. You've just never caught him.


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    #18
    Crumble Froo
    Registered Users Posts: 8,196 ✭✭✭Crumble Froo


    believe me, the dude has very little sex drive most of the tiem, and finds porn just really fake. i love how any time something like this gets mentioned (or fancying celebs, etc), im always told that that's just what i think and he probably does behind my back...


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    Xavi6
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    Crumble Froo wrote: »
    believe me, the dude has very little sex drive most of the tiem, and finds porn just really fake. i love how any time something like this gets mentioned (or fancying celebs, etc), im always told that that's just what i think and he probably does behind my back...

    To be fair 99% percent of guys DO look at porn and fancy celebs. It's a natural thing we do. It's not a big deal (well it shouldn't be anyway).

    The other 1% are liars by the way.


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    #20
    Crumble Froo
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    meh, it's just not for him. he's well old enough at this stage to know what he wants/likes and doesnt.


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    #21
    gcgirl
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    i have no prob with porn, its just when it replaces sex that it really pissed me off! with the ex he use to log on to my pc when i went training and guess you know the rest ! i think even if i was a guy i would prefer to actually F**k someone as oppose to doing it my self ! Porn is i think for some people who are affaid of intimacy with there other halves !!


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    Black Swan
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    Unbeknown to me, my flatmate's (now ex) b/f took liberties with my laptop last year and visited one too many of "those" sites and got my computer infected! If he hadn't left in a hurry after I found out, there would have been b/f sushi on the menu girls!


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    #23
    Xavi6
    Registered Users Posts: 40,861 ✭✭✭✭Xavi6


    gcgirl wrote: »
    i have no prob with porn, its just when it replaces sex that it really pissed me off! with the ex he use to log on to my pc when i went training and guess you know the rest ! i think even if i was a guy i would prefer to actually F**k someone as oppose to doing it my self ! Porn is i think for some people who are affaid of intimacy with there other halves !!

    Unfortunately women aren't always up for it, guys are. Would you rather he looked at a bit of porn or cheated? (More of a point than a question cause I know the answer is obvious.)


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    #24
    Spud83
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    :eek: I'm so disappointed by this thread its unreal.

    P.S this will quickly become the most viewed thread in boards histroy.


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    #25
    jcoote
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    i don't think women mind porn that much in my experience its just when u have so much that u forgot that u had a particular film that they get worried lol


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    #26
    gcgirl
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    Xavi6 wrote: »
    Unfortunately women aren't always up for it, guys are. Would you rather he looked at a bit of porn or cheated? (More of a point than a question cause I know the answer is obvious.)


    he done both ! and it was not as if i was not up for it! i was more up for it that he was !


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    justsomebloke
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    Jules wrote: »
    Tbh, i always said that it never bothered me, but thinking about it more these days im very self conscience and have a fairly low opinion of my self image and well the idea of him looking at some pretty girl and, pardon the term, cracking one off, it does upset me a little. But its my own problem, i know guys do it and thats just a fact, but if i am to be 100% honest ..... I'm not 100% happy with it.

    But such is life.

    Ok as I haven't met you yet I can't comment on you looks but I would like to put it this way, and that is chances are brad pitt still looks at porn.


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    #28
    Xavi6
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    gcgirl wrote: »
    he done both ! and it was not as if i was not up for it! i was more up for it that he was !

    Well in that case I can no longer defend him! You're better off without if that's the case!


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    #29
    Lockstep
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    Meh. NEarly every guy watches porn to varying degrees.

    THat said, I've known a fair few girls who were into it.


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    #30
    justsomebloke
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    kickoutthejams wrote: »
    THat said, I've known a fair few girls who were into it.

    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2055192287 ;);)


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    #31
    Cathmandooo
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    Wouldnt mind a bf looking at all, I've bought it for an ex before, no harm in it, as someone said before, it's better than him cheating. It would be naive to think one person can fulfil every sexual need of another person.


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