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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,809 ✭✭✭Hector Savage


    This onlyfans, hmmmm ... I must do some more research on that ...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,148 ✭✭✭893bet


    KiKi III wrote: »
    Well I’ve posted 10 pics to my instagram page, I have 140 followers and I’ll be verified on OF today or tomorrow.

    I’ve had dozens of pervy messages but no one seems to want to give me any actual money for my sexy feet yet.

    Further updates to follow, screenshot attached for posterity.

    Your second toe is way longer than your big toe?

    Alien like.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,249 ✭✭✭ Manuel Worried Jeep


    Aware of a friend who'se doing this - (not giving her name) but jesus looking at twitter of some of these people who do this is an absolute head wrecker...there's one whinging that she's being called Rose (think this wan's gimmick name is something like Rachel Rose) and she has about 50 of these morons who do the same thing, saying theyre "victims" of this too of being called the second name (they all have two first names - e.g. something rose) ....And looking through their feed's, its just them retweeting blurred/blocked out freebies, them saying something stupid like "in the 1.0 top users" - wtf is that, having manufactured outrage, playing the victim and like my friend's hot photos....if you give your money to these vain vapid whingebags, id feel sorry for you....and once they start to age, i'd love to see some of them in job interviews explaining this


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 511 ✭✭✭Kamu


    893bet wrote: »
    Your second toe is way longer than your big toe?

    Alien like.

    Lot more common then you might think. Around 1 in 5 have a longer second toe. It's called Morton's toe.


  • Posts: 17,728 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    ...... when they do worse things for free with their husbands boyfriend ........................

    Worse things?
    Are you a nun or what?


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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,016 ✭✭✭Ultrflat


    Kamu wrote: »
    Lot more common then you might think. Around 1 in 5 have a longer second toe. It's called Morton's toe.

    Whats Mrs Morton got to do with this now?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,205 ✭✭✭✭B.A._Baracus


    Seems OnlyFans has really exploded in popularity. Has to be said that if you give any of these people money you'd need your head checked. Internet was built on porn so plenty of free stuff out there.

    Even those who do onlyfans are probably not all there. Sure they say half of (proper) porn stars got daddy issues or drug addicts, escorts and what not. Industry attracts them. Can onlyfans be that different?

    I get the aspect of making money for old rope. Put up a few pics and vids or what not. But most won't make any decent money. It's too popular now. Unless you're some 18yo little stunner. You'll have a load of old men paying you then.

    But all those pics will come back to haunt. Even if you shut your account down. Still out there.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,698 ✭✭✭Feisar


    Seems OnlyFans has really exploded in popularity. Has to be said that if you give any of these people money you'd need your head checked. Internet was built on porn so plenty of free stuff out there.

    Even those who do onlyfans are probably not all there. Sure they say half of (proper) porn stars got daddy issues or drug addicts, escorts and what not. Industry attracts them. Can onlyfans be that different?

    I get the aspect of making money for old rope. Put up a few pics and vids or what not. But most won't make any decent money. It's too popular now. Unless you're some 18yo little stunner. You'll have a load of old men paying you then.

    But all those pics will come back to haunt. Even if you shut your account down. Still out there.

    Yes and no, seems like every young wan is sending explicit pics about the place to lads now.

    First they came for the socialists...



  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,980 ✭✭✭s1ippy


    I have been a dancer in Dublin for a decade started in my early 20s a lot of the girls I work with are sound and believe me it’s definitely nothing you see on tv. However Ireland seems to have this negative attitude towards women in this industry or deems us all sex addicts or easy when the woman who gets bread in her local supermarket could be doing all kinds of dirty things that’s way worse than dancing and it seems to be okay because she’s doing it for free I don’t get the mindset of some of these people we have stage names in work to protect our identity.
    Stopped reading after this point because in fairness, for somebody who is willing to take their clothes off for money in front of people, what the hell business is it of yours what consenting adults do to each other behind closed doors. At least they don't have to bring money into it, unlike sex workers who are often forced into the work due to lack of talent/intelligence (besides selling your body) or depraved clientele who have to pay to get some because nobody would shag them otherwise.

    Clearly there is good and bad in every industry and if you could remove the chip from your shoulder maybe you wouldn't spend your days being sexually exploited and could actually live out some of the bizarre perverted fantasies you imagine the woman buying bread has.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,016 ✭✭✭Ultrflat


    Feisar wrote: »
    Yes and no, seems like every young wan is sending explicit pics about the place to lads now.

    So tell me where these womens are :confused:


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,205 ✭✭✭✭B.A._Baracus


    Feisar wrote: »
    Yes and no, seems like every young wan is sending explicit pics about the place to lads now.

    Big difference in sending a faceless tits or fanny pic to a lad who may or may not upload that somewhere on the internet than uploading pics of yourself, with face showing, to a sex site.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,653 ✭✭✭KiKi III


    Well my OF journey has ended before it began.

    They rejected my account, not sure why - I think I need to upload an ID and I can’t be arsed figuring it out.

    The Insta account will be deleted and my sexy, freakish feet haven’t earned me a penny.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,698 ✭✭✭Feisar


    Ultrflat wrote: »
    So tell me where these womens are :confused:

    Dunno, I’m out of the game circa five years but when I was at it one would barely have met a woman a few times and I’d be getting nasty pics.

    First they came for the socialists...



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 36,404 ✭✭✭✭BorneTobyWilde


    It's really not. Some people like to think it is, because having the bogey man of Catholic tut-tuting fires them up.


    Come on, if a Sex Shop was to open in a small town, city or Village the whole place is up in arms. That's not normal, that is years and years of Catholic influence. Sex Workers are to be frowned upon, and made to feel like they don't matter, 1000 of porn companies in UK, France, Germany, Spain, Holland, Denmark ect ect ect ect, none here, it was not to long ago a simple play boy magazine had people fainting in disbelief .


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 36,404 ✭✭✭✭BorneTobyWilde


    KiKi III wrote: »
    Well I’ve posted 10 pics to my instagram page, I have 140 followers and I’ll be verified on OF today or tomorrow.

    I’ve had dozens of pervy messages but no one seems to want to give me any actual money for my sexy feet yet.

    Further updates to follow, screenshot attached for posterity.


    Fairplay,

    Nice Feet
    This little Piggy went to the market, This little Piggy stayed at home.... lol


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 36,404 ✭✭✭✭BorneTobyWilde


    KiKi III wrote: »
    Well my OF journey has ended before it began.

    They rejected my account, not sure why - I think I need to upload an ID and I can’t be arsed figuring it out.

    The Insta account will be deleted and my sexy, freakish feet haven’t earned me a penny.




    I would imagine ID is vital for legal reasons, and for payments. As out there as OF is, they're still a legit company doing things by the book.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,066 ✭✭✭✭neris


    Come on, if a Sex Shop was to open in a small town, city or Village the whole place is up in arms. That's not normal, that is years and years of Catholic influence. Sex Workers are to be frowned upon, and made to feel like they don't matter, 1000 of porn companies in UK, France, Germany, Spain, Holland, Denmark ect ect ect ect, none here, it was not to long ago a simple play boy magazine had people fainting in disbelief .

    I dont think you can register a porn site on a .IE domain


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,653 ✭✭✭KiKi III


    I would imagine ID is vital for legal reasons, and for payments. As out there as OF is, they're still a legit company doing things by the book.

    Yeah I figured that so I uploaded my PPS card because it’s a legit doc but it doesn’t have too many personal details on it compared to a passport or drivers license. They rejected that so fück’em!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 779 ✭✭✭capefear


    neris wrote: »
    I dont think you can register a porn site on a .IE domain


    A couple of years ago the Main Street banks wouldn’t let a client open a bank account for their sex toy shop so the business closed before it start.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,205 ✭✭✭✭B.A._Baracus


    neris wrote: »
    I dont think you can register a porn site on a .IE domain

    You can indeedy :D
    For many years Ireland was only one of very few counties that required you to have stake in a .IE domain name. So if you wanted example.ie your business name would have to be example or there other. The other submission allowed was your name like johnsmith.ie

    Some sex sites had .IE domain names as that was their online business.

    But anyone can register what they want now. No requirement like .com


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,862 ✭✭✭hynesie08


    KiKi III wrote: »
    Yeah I figured that so I uploaded my PPS card because it’s a legit doc but it doesn’t have too many personal details on it compared to a passport or drivers license. They rejected that so fück’em!

    Your pps card doesn't have your date of birth though, which is the one thing they actually want....


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,653 ✭✭✭KiKi III


    hynesie08 wrote: »
    Your pps card doesn't have your date of birth though, which is the one thing they actually want....

    Fair point.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,245 ✭✭✭Gretas Gonna Get Ya!


    I have been a dancer in Dublin for a decade started in my early 20s a lot of the girls I work with are sound and believe me it’s definitely nothing you see on tv. However Ireland seems to have this negative attitude towards women in this industry or deems us all sex addicts or easy when the woman who gets bread in her local supermarket could be doing all kinds of dirty things that’s way worse than dancing and it seems to be okay because she’s doing it for free I don’t get the mindset of some of these people we have stage names in work to protect our identity.

    Part of this job comes with a lot of stigma there’s been a few girls who had people find out their day jobs and contact their boss to try and get them fired it’s normally women who rat them out and try to ruin their lives over it. There’s nothing I’d love more than to be open about my job and how it’s helped me get through some dark times in my life but I just couldn’t handle all the derogatory labels and insults and lows people will go to try and ruin your life over it. Since covid hit I don’t know how the strip club industry in Dublin is going to survive.

    I want to know what your opinions are on strippers and the likes of using onlyfans to make money nothing you say is going to bother me it’s more curios why people have a begrudging attitude towards these things when they do worse things for free with their husbands boyfriend or a random Jack the lad from coppers In Dublin on a night out.

    I've no problem with "dancers". But in my experience, you guys definitely sleep around with more random guys than the average person on the street. A LOT more!

    So yes, I do consider most of you to be very "easy"... and I find easy women to be a bit trashy and lacking in self respect.

    I'm generalising of course. But sometimes generalisations are grounded in reality. Each to their own though! It's a free world and all that Jazz!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 726 ✭✭✭I Am Nobody


    I've no problem with "dancers". But in my experience, you guys definitely sleep around with more random guys than the average person on the street. A LOT more!

    So yes, I do consider most of you to be very "easy"... and I find easy women to be a bit trashy and lacking in self respect.

    I'm generalising of course. But sometimes generalisations are grounded in reality. Each to their own though! It's a free world and all that Jazz!

    It depends on the type of establishment your frequenting.I worked in alot of strip clubs in the US,and yes you would have that carry on.But it usually was from the out of way clubs in dark alleys and back roads.

    Have worked in some where it was a bit more high society if you will.No touching,the dancers had high end day jobs and respected themselves to not fall into the lower end of things.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,653 ✭✭✭KiKi III


    I've no problem with "dancers". But in my experience, you guys definitely sleep around with more random guys than the average person on the street. A LOT more!

    So yes, I do consider most of you to be very "easy"... and I find easy women to be a bit trashy and lacking in self respect.

    I'm generalising of course. But sometimes generalisations are grounded in reality. Each to their own though! It's a free world and all that Jazz!

    Out of interest, do you find guys that sleep around lack self-respect?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,245 ✭✭✭Gretas Gonna Get Ya!


    KiKi III wrote: »
    Out of interest, do you find guys that sleep around lack self-respect?

    Yep! Do you?


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,653 ✭✭✭KiKi III


    Yep! Do you?

    No, I think there’s nothing wrong with being promiscuous as long as everything is safe, consensual and ideally mutually pleasurable.


  • Posts: 13,712 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Yep! Do you?

    Can you explain that? Is it a religious belief or something?

    If you had a friend who was getting laid fairly regularly, back when nights out existed, would you have had a word with them about their dignity?

    Just curious about the specific thought process here.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,245 ✭✭✭Gretas Gonna Get Ya!


    Can you explain that? Is it a religious belief or something?

    If you had a friend who was getting laid fairly regularly, back when nights out existed, would you have had a word with them about their dignity?

    Just curious about the specific thought process here.

    No, I'm certainly not religious.

    People who sleep around on a regular basis with random strangers, tend to be a bit lost within themselves from my experience. They're usually damaged in some way or another, and are searching for something by having random sexual encounters!

    Just my opinion. No offence intended towards anyone. :)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,434 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    No, I'm certainly not religious.

    People who sleep around on a regular basis with random strangers, tend to be a bit lost within themselves from my experience. They're usually damaged in some way or another, and are searching for something by having random sexual encounters!
    I'd say it's the oul sex that they're searching for.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,245 ✭✭✭Gretas Gonna Get Ya!


    KiKi III wrote: »
    No, I think there’s nothing wrong with being promiscuous as long as everything is safe, consensual and ideally mutually pleasurable.

    I never said it was wrong. As I said to the OP - it's a free world, do as you please.

    But there are often deeper reasons why people do these things. Certain behaviours are not always as straightforward or simplistic as people like to paint them... I've noticed common traits in many people who are "promiscuous" as you say.

    I wasn't condemning anyone, just giving my observations, as the OP was asking for people's views on the industry. :)


  • Posts: 13,712 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    No, I'm certainly not religious.

    People who sleep around on a regular basis with random strangers, tend to be a bit lost within themselves from my experience. They're usually damaged in some way or another, and are searching for something by having random sexual encounters!

    Just my opinion. No offence intended towards anyone. :)

    I suspect that a lot of people with low self confidence do sleep around, as a means to external validation. But they're just one, probably small, cohort of people who regularly sleep around.

    I would imagine that for most people, casual sex is just a pastime with low emotional significance. There might be cultural differences across age-brackets and gender, though. It gets a little boring as you approach 30 and beyond, I think.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,145 ✭✭✭Mister Vain


    A lot of girls on instagram get annoyed when guys make comments on their raunchy pics, but have no problem with the same guys paying for their content on Onlyfans.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,016 ✭✭✭✭EmmetSpiceland


    A lot of girls on instagram get annoyed when guys make comments on their raunchy pics, but have no problem with the same guys paying for their content on Onlyfans.

    Do you experience this backlash a lot when commenting on the girl’s “raunchy pics”?

    “It is not blood that makes you Irish but a willingness to be part of the Irish nation” - Thomas Davis



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,145 ✭✭✭Mister Vain


    Do you experience this backlash a lot when commenting on the girl’s “raunchy pics”?
    No I'm always respectful of course. ;)


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  • Registered Users Posts: 2,653 ✭✭✭KiKi III


    A lot of girls on instagram get annoyed when guys make comments on their raunchy pics, but have no problem with the same guys paying for their content on Onlyfans.

    Are you sure you're not mixing up two different girls?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,698 ✭✭✭Feisar


    No I'm always respectful of course. ;)

    Some lad was asking in the comments section for a porn star to send him money as he was poor.

    Me: Anyone that gets their asshole left looking like a .45 ACP exit wound at work deserves to keep what they make. I thought it was a reasonable point.

    First they came for the socialists...



  • Registered Users Posts: 5,513 ✭✭✭bb1234567


    A lot of girls on instagram get annoyed when guys make comments on their raunchy pics, but have no problem with the same guys paying for their content on Onlyfans.

    How is that surprising?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,061 ✭✭✭leggo


    A lot of girls on instagram get annoyed when guys make comments on their raunchy pics, but have no problem with the same guys paying for their content on Onlyfans.

    From people I know it’s literally a case of them being totally exasperated with creeps to the point their attitude is “I may as well make some money and set some boundaries because this is going to happen either way.” Particularly people who have a following already and trade off social media for non-sexual reasons but would be body confident enough to say “**** it, have your **** but pay me at least.” That was particularly the case I saw with the influx of people who did it during lockdown because they found themselves out of work. So yes, they do hate the creepiness, but they’ll tolerate it if it pays their bills because they don’t really have a choice either way beyond ‘leave social media’, which they shouldn’t have to.

    Which, again, you can judge all you want but I’d imagine a lot of people who do would take it in a second if it were an option to them.


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,858 ✭✭✭Church on Tuesday


    Feisar wrote: »
    Some lad was asking in the comments section for a porn star to send him money as he was poor.

    Me: Anyone that gets their asshole left looking like a .45 ACP exit wound at work deserves to keep what they make. I thought it was a reasonable point.

    Yeah, I think that's enough internet for me tonight.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 219 ✭✭Queasy Tadpole


    leggo wrote: »
    From people I know it’s literally a case of them being totally exasperated with creeps to the point their attitude is “I may as well make some money and set some boundaries because this is going to happen either way.” Particularly people who have a following already and trade off social media for non-sexual reasons but would be body confident enough to say “**** it, have your **** but pay me at least.” That was particularly the case I saw with the influx of people who did it during lockdown because they found themselves out of work. So yes, they do hate the creepiness, but they’ll tolerate it if it pays their bills because they don’t really have a choice either way beyond ‘leave social media’, which they shouldn’t have to.

    Which, again, you can judge all you want but I’d imagine a lot of people who do would take it in a second if it were an option to them.
    Are your friends proud to be whores?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,698 ✭✭✭Feisar


    Yeah, I think that's enough internet for me tonight.

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    First they came for the socialists...



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Ah..Jesus Christ..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,698 ✭✭✭Feisar


    Ah..Jesus Christ..


    hahahaha

    First they came for the socialists...



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,405 ✭✭✭Airyfairy12


    Whats onlyfans?

    Personally don't see any problem with sex work or women who dance, as long as it's their own choice and they have free will, its trafficking and exploitation that I have issue with.

    As for people attempting to ruin dancers career's, can that be reported? Surely it can't be legal to fire someone for working a seperate, totally legal job that doesn't effect the day job?


  • Registered Users Posts: 219 ✭✭Queasy Tadpole


    Yeah Sarah down in accounts... yeah she moonlights as an internet whore... yeah she is making a killing, he check out her asshole... show the lads in sales.

    How'd you think that would go down for Sarah?


  • Registered Users Posts: 5,513 ✭✭✭bb1234567


    I have no issue with it, but I feel sorry for the position that these people have put themselves in, that they have left themselves open to being stalked or doxxed by random weirdos on the internet. Yeh you get some money, but in the long run it probably won't be worth it. There are just too many ways in which the consequences could greatly outweight the benefits. So yeh, wouldn't recommend it.

    If it was my friend, I wouldn't judge them or think lesser of them. But I would hope that they considered it just as very temporary means to an end within their greater life path. In one way I'd admire the fact that they are so confident in their body that they want to broadcast it online to strangers without embarassment, but if they hoped for this to be a major source of income long term, it would make me a bit upset for their sake. Everyone had body parts that look pretty much alike, some a bit better than others but really none are all that special, every personality and their talents and qualities are completely unique, I'd hope that they'd see more value in those parts of themselves than their arse.

    Looks fade..what are you left with if you spent all your life trying to perfect this body for your fans. I'm generalising obviously, I'm sure it's just a part time gig for most, but yeh my main concern would be that they wouldn't develop skills for any fall back in the meantime. But again , if it works and theyr're happy then sure it's probably a silly concern of mine.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,061 ✭✭✭leggo


    Are your friends proud to be whores?

    Never even said they were friends, but I’d imagine there’s more pride to be had in that than being the sexually aggressive lad online whose nerve is hit by the word ‘creep’...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,245 ✭✭✭Gretas Gonna Get Ya!


    Yeah Sarah down in accounts... yeah she moonlights as an internet whore... yeah she is making a killing, he check out her asshole... show the lads in sales.

    How'd you think that would go down for Sarah?

    Depends what class of lads you have down in sales I suppose.

    Also depending on the establishment she's working in, she might get a few promotions if she gives a few favours to the right people! ;)

    Sarah's a fun girl, who doesn't like Sarah? :P


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 71,799 ✭✭✭✭Ted_YNWA


    Are your friends proud to be whores?
    Yeah Sarah down in accounts... yeah she moonlights as an internet whore... yeah she is making a killing, he check out her asshole... show the lads in sales.

    How'd you think that would go down for Sarah?

    Mod

    Can you improve your posting style & vocabulary.


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