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  • Posts: 0 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Aliya Teeny Headache


    yes to all them products, No I dont research any of them.
    Bit of a desperate comparison, i know the point you are trying to make but cmon.
    Why's it desperate? It IS true that a lot of abuse etc goes on there - most people know it. Nestle in particular seem to be horrible from what I've heard.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 286 ✭✭CoolGuy2006


    bluewolf wrote:
    I don't have the idea that women must find sex degrading or that they must be nice little virgins.

    where did that come from


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,104 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    yes to all them products, No I dont research any of them.
    Bit of a desperate comparison, i know the point you are trying to make but cmon.
    How is it desparate, thousands of men, women and children die from it. Your morals stop at inconvenience?
    Much more nasty trade than prostitution.
    You can't logically be for otlawing one and not the other.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 286 ✭✭CoolGuy2006


    Your morals stop at inconvenience?

    You know nothing about me, dont make assumptions like that.
    Much more nasty trade than prostitution.

    Do you use these products?
    I think it is unfair to compare the two things. Im obviously naive to go into a supermarket and buy a product without fully researching it.


  • Posts: 0 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Aliya Teeny Headache


    where did that come from
    If your problem is with trafficking, why'd you ask about "if [my] wife went from brothel to brothel paying men for sex"? That question implies to me that it's just the wife sleeping with all those men which is your problem.
    And in the first page of the thread, "it's degrading to women" has been used here and there. I hardly see a difference between this and casual sex other than profit.
    I could be wrong, but that's how your question came across. Not "oh those poor abused men" but "her going from brothel to brothel".


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,104 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    You know nothing about me, dont make assumptions like that.
    I am not making an assumption. I used a question mark and if I had made an assumption, it would have been a presumption, because you yourself said it in your last post. There is no presumtion even, from the last post it is fact.


    Do you use these products?
    No, I live by my morals.
    If there is proof of foul play, a no go.
    None of them, vegetarian, vegetarian shoes etc etc.
    If you look at the world around you, you will notice how much things are corrupted yet,
    It's not hard to buy something from an ethical background if you look.
    Also, it does not matter what or or anybody else does, it has no affect on the debate.

    How an you logically be against one being legal and for another being legal?


    I think it is unfair to compare the two things. Im obviously naive to go into a supermarket and buy a product without fully researching it.
    It is not unfair, it's the same thing in a different form. People can easily research some prostitutes etc.
    It is not ethically wrong, in and of itself. So it should not be illegal.
    Shoes are not morally wrong, in and of themselves, they should not be illegal even if some are from ethically suspect backgrounds.
    It's the same thing.
    If somebody can possibly be exploited it should not make the thing illegal. Why should it?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 286 ✭✭CoolGuy2006


    bluewolf wrote:
    And in the first page of the thread, "it's degrading to women" has been used here and there. I hardly see a difference between this and casual sex other than profit.

    I used the word degrading once. I meant it in the context of a sex slave performing sexual acts for a paying customer. I find that degrading. When a man uses a woman as an object for his own sexual gratification then he is degrading her from a woman to a sexual object

    I live by my Morals too, I am not really aware of any specific problems with any of the products i buy in the supermarket whereas men going to amsterdam are fully aware of the problem


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,104 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    I live by my Morals too, I am not really aware of any specific problems with any of the products i buy in the supermarket whereas men going to amsterdam are fully aware of the problem
    Yet you know of them now, should most things from countries like china etc be made illegal here. Nike? It is a huge list you will find.
    Problems within an industry should not make teh industry technically illegal whatsoever. i don't see your point about why it should remain illegal.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 286 ✭✭CoolGuy2006


    Yet you know of them now, should most things from countries like china etc be made illegal here. Nike? It is a huge list you will find.
    Problems within an industry should not make teh industry technically illegal whatsoever. i don't see your point about why it should remain illegal.

    you obviously havent read my posts. I dont care if its legal or not. Thats not what im talking about. Its legal in Germany and Holland but still thousands of women are still trafficked there.

    I am not talking about the legal aspect, I am not even talkign about if Prostitution is good or bad BUT i do believe there are so many trafficked women In Amsterdam and Germany that men are just fuelling the problem.

    I totally understand the point you are making. Still, i find it hard to understand how a guy can go to Amsterdam and pay a girl for sex while knowing there is a huge amount of trafficked women there. I feel these men have to take on a bit more responsibility. Did you read what i posted from IOL? This is really a huge problem all over europe


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  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,104 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    you obviously havent read my posts. I dont care if its legal or not. Thats not what im talking about. Its legal in Germany and Holland but still thousands of women are still trafficked there.

    I am not talking about the legal aspect, I am not even talkign about if Prostitution is good or bad
    Ok then, we can ignore that on the thread then.


    BUT i do believe there are so many trafficked women In Amsterdam and Germany that men are just fuelling the problem.
    Yes there are.
    I totally understand the point you are making. Still, i find it hard to understand how a guy can go to Amsterdam and pay a girl for sex while knowing there is a huge amount of trafficked women there. I feel these men have to take on a bit more responsibility.
    Why can a guy not go to an up class place that he knows that people were not forced to work at?
    Do you agree that these places are ok.
    I totally agree that it is not ok to go to a lot of places.
    Did you read what i posted from IOL? This is really a huge problem all over europe
    Yes, I know well of the problems in the industry and most industries.
    If your point is that there is a problem with the industry and men should be careful. I agree. It's pretty obvious.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 286 ✭✭CoolGuy2006


    Why can a guy not go to an up class place that he knows that people were not forced to work at?
    Do you agree that these places are ok.
    I totally agree that it is not ok to go to a lot of places.


    Yes, I know well of the problems in the industry and most industries.
    If your point is that there is a problem with the industry and men should be careful. I agree. It's pretty obvious.

    i totally agree with everything you have said there. ( i still dont like the idea, but thats just me personally, i wouldnt have started a thread about this kinda thing)


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,657 Mod ✭✭✭✭Faith


    I dont want to be The moral superhero.

    See, I think you do. Your signature alone suggests this. "Winners don't do drugs". So we can safely assume that you are against drugs. You are also against prostitution and porn. I'd put money on you being a non-smoker. But that's beside the point. I think maybe you should think about being a bit less judgemental. Fine, some women are forced into the sex trade and yes, that's horrible. But most choose to do it themselves, it's their decision and has nothing to do with you.
    I live by my Morals too, I am not really aware of any specific problems with any of the products i buy in the supermarket

    Any meat that's not labelled "organic" or "free range" comes from a battery farm where the animals are treated appallingly. They are forced to live in tiny cages and feed hormones to speed up their growth.

    Nestlé are doing all sorts of terrible things in Africa, like telling mothers that Nestlés special milk formula is better than breastmilk and they should use that.

    Coffee that's not labelled "Fairtrade" comes from a giant corporation where the farmers get paid less than a pittance. Picking coffee is one of the hardest things to do.

    Nike use child labour.

    That's just a few of the things that are morally objectionable in your supermarket. By buying any of these products, you're fuelling the trade in the same way men paying for sex are fuelling the prostitution trade. The difference is, with prostitution, most of the women working in the trade are there by choice.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 833 ✭✭✭pisslips


    I'm actually going on a "Lad's" trip to the Dam in june and have been debating this exact topic with myself for a few weeks.I came to the conclusion that even a Utopian society would degrade into different social classes and people would still be used the same way as a man uses an OX(heheh;) ).
    So my only problem is the sti danger and that I'd feel too guilty to perform(hahaha), well mostly the STIs.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 286 ✭✭CoolGuy2006


    Faith wrote:
    See, I think you do. Your signature alone suggests this. "Winners don't do drugs". So we can safely assume that you are against drugs. You are also against prostitution and porn. .

    My signature is a joke actually. I can assure you im a 24hr party animal :-)

    This isnt just something i read then feel i can complain about. All my friends do this, it has affected our friendship. I had to Hold my mates hand when he went to get a aids test and hug him when he got the all clear. This is a big thing for me, im not just some moany C*nt

    Im am not against normal prostitution under the best circumstances, In theory who am i to judge people, I dont like the idea but i wont make abig deal out of it. Please try and see the angle i am concerned about.

    Porn, i used to look at it, now i dont, i didnt want to make a big deal out of it, someone else brought it up. I do look at dirty movies that my Girlfriend makes for me :-) I love these movies, the idea of Porn does not really offend me, AT ALL

    I have tried to express my views clearly. Obviously i havent. Oh yeah, i dont smoke :-)

    You dont know any of the products i use

    I can tell you that i eat free range eggs, Dont have any clothing by Nike, I only know 1 product that nestle make (Kit Kats) and i dont eat any chocolate. Oh yeah, i have never even tasted coffee. I would say 100% of the food i eat comes from Ireland. The clothes i buy are made in the states.


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,657 Mod ✭✭✭✭Faith


    You dont know any of the products i use

    Nor do I presume to. I was simply making a list of some of the more common offenders.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 850 ✭✭✭DOLEMAN


    Its legal in Germany and Holland but still thousands of women are still trafficked there.

    Where are you getting these facts from?

    If you're talking about "touring escorts", that has nothing to do with human trafficing. It's about "going where the money is". Most high class prostitutes are also touring escorts. (Again, I know lots of prostitutes and have a mild interest in the sex industry.)

    The fact that you think porn is wrong too makes me come to this conclusion: you are a prude and you have guilt issues with sex. How can the naked body or sex possibly be wrong?

    Weird.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 850 ✭✭✭DOLEMAN


    pisslips wrote:
    So my only problem is the sti danger and that I'd feel too guilty to perform(hahaha), well mostly the STIs.

    Prostitutes in Holland use condoms every time, whereas the drunken Irish girl on a Saturday night does not.

    /just making an observation


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 731 ✭✭✭Madge


    Faith wrote:
    The difference is, with prostitution, most of the women working in the trade are there by choice.

    If women didn't need to do prostitution they wouldn't. I doubt they are in it for the fun of it :rolleyes: they are forced to do it because they have no money and need money to live. Simple as. I mean, who the hell would want a total stranger, they absolutely know nothing about, probably do not even find attractive, take control of you and use your body as he sees fit. How could the prostitute actually enjoy this?
    The OP is dead on and is the only 1 with a bit of sense.


  • Posts: 0 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Aliya Teeny Headache


    Madge wrote:
    If women didn't need to do prostitution they wouldn't. I doubt they are in it for the fun of it :rolleyes: they are forced to do it because they have no money and need money to live. Simple as. I mean, who the hell would want a total stranger, they absolutely know nothing about, probably do not even find attractive, take control of you and use your body as he sees fit. How could the prostitute actually enjoy this?
    The OP is dead on and is the only 1 with a bit of sense.
    So the person who said they know people who do it by choice must be lying?
    Come on, you've never heard of casual sex?
    Some women are ok with it. It's not for everyone, but then not all professions are for everyone.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Madge wrote:
    If women didn't need to do prostitution they wouldn't. I doubt they are in it for the fun of it :rolleyes: they are forced to do it because they have no money and need money to live.

    yes that can be the ecomnoics of it but there are other jobs there are options.
    Madge wrote:
    Simple as. I mean, who the hell would want a total stranger, they absolutely know nothing about, probably do not even find attractive, take control of you and use your body as he sees fit. How could the prostitute actually enjoy this?

    You would be surpirsed what people enjoy but really want on earth makes you think that the men are in control ?
    do you think that women are not in control at any time during sex ?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 731 ✭✭✭Madge


    bluewolf wrote:
    So the person who said they know people who do it by choice must be lying?
    Come on, you've never heard of casual sex?
    Some women are ok with it. It's not for everyone, but then not all professions are for everyone.

    Maybe there are some women out there who like all and sundry having a go at them. Perhaps it makes them feel wanted :rolleyes:
    I would rate casual sex as different to prostitution. The woman would at least have some relevant and significant thoughts about the partner in that scenario. I suppose the key difference is they would actually want to do it with that person. :rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 731 ✭✭✭Madge


    Thaedydal wrote:
    You would be surpirsed what people enjoy but really want on earth makes you think that the men are in control ?
    Well for starters, He (the client) is paying for it. :D Therefore he usually tells the prostitute what he wants...
    Thaedydal wrote:
    do you think that women are not in control at any time during sex ?
    In a safe caring loving relationship, of course they are, otherwise in prostitution they are not.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Madge wrote:
    Well for starters, He (the client) is paying for it. :D Therefore he usually tells the prostitute what he wants...

    and s/he had the right to say no, it is a matter of negotiation.

    Madge wrote:
    In a safe caring loving relationship, of course they are, otherwise in prostitution they are not.

    pff sex with out love or emotion as it were is about power,
    hell sex even in a loving relationsship can be about power.
    Power and control.

    The biggest flaws with prostution is that women don't run the collectives themsleves making it an empowering profession.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 286 ✭✭CoolGuy2006


    DOLEMAN wrote:
    Where are you getting these facts from?

    If you're talking about "touring escorts", that has nothing to do with human trafficing. It's about "going where the money is". Most high class prostitutes are also touring escorts. (Again, I know lots of prostitutes and have a mild interest in the sex industry.)

    The fact that you think porn is wrong too makes me come to this conclusion: you are a prude and you have guilt issues with sex. How can the naked body or sex possibly be wrong?

    Weird.

    Firstly, i have already posted a piece from IOL. I am not going to post it again, you can go back through the pages to read it again. I have told you exactly who i am talking about already. Dont join this thread unless you have the time to read it.

    You keep repeating the same nonsense, telling me you have friends in the buisness, SO WHAT. I know there are people happy doing this work, i have repeated this a few times already. I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT THESE PEOPLE.

    Secondly, with regards porn. Somebody asked me a question and i answered it. I said i used to look at porn but now i dont, whats the problem, does this make you uncomfortable. How am i a prude, I love sex, i have a great sex life. I never said the naked body or sex is wrong, where are you getting this crap from?.

    I am not some religious nut running around saying Burn the prostitutes(the complete opposite). I am saying that men who go to Amsterdam and Germany are fuelling the trafficking of women. What is so hard to understand. These women are being trafficked because there is a demand. Trafficked women are being used by men every night. Im not talking about your happy friends who love their job in the industry.

    I just dont know how a man going to the DAM or Germany can tell the difference between a girl who is there of her own free will and a trafficked girl. The facts are there, read the piece i posted and stop telling me about your happy friends, Im not talking about them

    It seems to me that for me to be normal in your eyes i have to accept prostitution and porn. There is good and bad parts to all things in life, because with the sex industry the two can come very close together i dont feel comfortable with them.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 286 ✭✭CoolGuy2006


    Taken from http://www.catwinternational.org


    TRAFFICKING
    "Increased trafficking of women for prostitution is akin to slavery... women are bought and sold like cattle." (Anita Gradin, European Commissioner, European Race Audit Bulletin No 25, The Institute of Race Relations, London UK, 25 November 1997)

    Approximately 500,000 women are annually trafficked into Western Europe. (International Organization for Migration, Michael Specter, "Traffickers’ New Cargo: Naive Slavic Women," New York Times, 11 January 1998)

    Of 155 cases of trafficked women: 44 were from Central Europe, mainly the Czech Republic and Poland; 64 from Eastern Europe and the CIS, mainly Russia and the Ukraine; and 47 from developing countries, mainly Morocco, Thailand and the Dominican Republic. 3/4 of the women were under 25, and many were teenagers, between 15 and 18, especially among those from Central Europe. (Data by STV: Dutch NGO of women assisted by them in 1994, "Trafficking of Women to the European Union: Characterisitics, Trends and Policy Issues," European Conference on Trafficking in Women, (June 1996), IOM, 7 May 1996)


    In several European Union Member States, prostitution has become increasingly dominated by foreign women. In many areas within the European Union the number of migrant prostitutes is higher than the number of local prostitutes (Brussa, 1995, p.7). ("Trafficking of Women to the European Union: Characteristic, Trends and Policy Issues," European Conference on Trafficking in Women, (June 1996), IOM, 7 May 1996)

    The slave trade in women for sexual purposes is growing, and organized crime is more often behind this trade. Smuggling in humans is much less risky than smuggling drugs and it is highly profitable. (Commissioner Anita Gradin, "Conference on Trafficking in Women" European Commission, 10-11 June 1996)

    Women from Africa (Ghana, Nigeria, Morocco), Latin America (Brazil, Colombia, the Dominican Republic), South East Asia (the Philippines, Thailand), and Central and Eastern Europe (Czech Republic, Hungary, Poland, Romania, Russia, Ukraine) are the largest groups of women being trafficked into the European Union. (Europe national data, "Trafficking of Women to the European Union: Characterisitics, Trends and Policy Issues," European Conference on Trafficking in Women, (June 1996), IOM, 7 May 1996)

    Methods and Techniques of Traffickers

    Trafficking has become increasingly territorial. Criminal groups from Russia control the markets for trafficked women and girls in Poland and Germany. Criminal Ukrainian groups reportedly control Hungary and Austria. The Italian market is controlled mainly by Russian and Albanian groups. In the Netherlands, there are reports of growing control by Eastern European trafficking gangs in every red light district. (Altink, 1995, p.131). The severity of violence, including murder, has also increased along with territorial behavior. In 1995, 5 Ukrainian women and their employer were found "hacked to pieces" in a suburb of Frankfurt in what police speculate was a dispute between rival trafficking networks. ("Trafficking of Women to the European Union: Characterisitics, Trends and Policy Issues," European Conference on Trafficking in Women, (June 1996), IOM, 7 May 1996)

    Organized international trafficking networks and small trafficking rings specializing in smuggling women out of one single country are the two types of operations in trafficking of women into Europe. (International Orgainsation for Migration. European Race Audit Bulletin No. 25, The Institute of Race Relations, London UK, 25 November 1997)

    The traffickers typically use children who are trafficked with their mothers for blackmail purposes. (Caritas, European Race Audit Bulletin No. 25, The Institute of Race Relations, London UK, 25 November 1997)

    "Legal fronts to disguise traffic into the European Union include: entertainers, cabaret artists, au-pair girls, students, applicants for political refugee status, adoptions, marriages etc." (Michele Hirsch, "Plan of Action Against Trafficking in Women and Forced Prostitution," pp.13 & 14, Council of Europe, 1996)

    Three types of traffickers have been classified:

    In border regions occasional traffickers provide internal or international transportation. They are usually owners of taxis, small boats or trucks that can carry individuals or small groups from a drop-off point on the coast, across a narrow strait, or over a poorly secured border. This type is not organized in any sophisticated or ongoing way;

    Small, well-organized trafficking rings often specialize in trafficking nationals out of one specific country, consistently using similar routing consistently;

    Organized, international trafficking networks are most sophisticated, consequently most dangerous and difficult to combat. These networks have access to fraudulent and/or authentic, usually stolen, documents or the capability to produce falsified documents themselves. They can change routing and means of transportation when a traditional route is blocked. Members are present worldwide. Lodging and logistical support are at their disposal in countries of transit and destination. ("Trafficking of Women to the European Union: Characteristics, Trends and Policy Issues," European Conference on Trafficking in Women, (June 1996), IOM, 7 May 1996)

    Three types of traffick networks have been classified:

    The large scale network is based on a structure of international contacts at different political and economic levels in the countries of origin and destination. These use a variety of recruiting methods. This type of network often uses transit countries.


    The medium scale network is distinct because it does not sell women to other groups. It keeps the women under its control and prostitutes them its own clubs and brothels.



    The small scale network works approximately as follows: a club owner in a destination country needs some new women for his club. Through contacts with people in the prostitution business abroad, he places an order. Contacts recruit the women, accompany them to the destination and deliver her. ("Trafficking of Women to the European Union: Characterisitics, Trends and Policy Issues," European Conference on Trafficking in Women, (June 1996), IOM, 7 May 1996)





    It is easier and less expensive to bring trafficked women from the Central and Eastern European Countries to the European Union than to recruit women from developing countries. The Central and Eastern European Countries are so close to the European Union’s borders, that the traffickers can easily afford to replace women with new trafficked women. ("Trafficking of Women to the European Union: Characterisitics, Trends and Policy Issues," European Conference on Trafficking in Women, (June 1996), IOM, 7 May 1996)


    Women trafficked to the European Union from developing countries are likely to come from rural areas. ("Trafficking of Women to the European Union: Characterisitics, Trends and Policy Issues," European Conference on Trafficking in Women, (June 1996), IOM, 7 May 1996)


    Official Corruption and Collaboration


    European Union governments bear some responsibility for not only tolerating migrant prostitution and trafficking in women but also for encouraging it (Mansson, 1995). ("Trafficking of Women to the European Union: Characterisitics, Trends and Policy Issues," European Conference on Trafficking in Women, June 1996, IOM, 7 May 1996)


    In Europe, the behavior of police towards victims of trafficking has led to reluctance on the part of the women to come forward." Police have also been discovered to collaborate with the traffickers (Bouffious and De Staercke, 1994). ("Trafficking of Women to the European Union: Characterisitics, Trends and Policy Issues," European Conference on Trafficking in Women, June 1996, IOM, 7 May 1996)


    Health and Well-Being


    Given the perilous conditions of some voyages, many women trafficked to the European Union face the threat of injury and even death. The women are frequently forced into a situation of extreme dependency that is comparable to that of being a hostage. The women have limited or no access to health care. ("Trafficking of Women to the European Union: Characterisitics, Trends and Policy Issues," European Conference on Trafficking in Women, (June 1996), IOM, 7 May 1996)


    PROSTITUTION




    There seems to be a growing demand in the European Union for more extreme and "exotic" sexual services, some of which in and by themselves produce extensive health risks (Mansson, 1995). ("Trafficking of Women to the European Union: Characterisitics, Trends and Policy Issues," European Conference on Trafficking in Women, (June 1996), IOM, 7 May 1996)


    Prostitution Tourism


    Belgium, France, Germany, Holland and other European nations have more than 15,000 known child sex offenders. ("Global law to punish sex tourists sought by Britain and EU," The Indian Express, 21 November 1997)



    PORNOGRAPHY




    As a result of the international investigation of a worldwide Internet child pornography ring, European governments are now asking that budgets to control child pornography which were previously due to be cut by the European Commission, be reinstated. German Chancellor Helmut Kohl has set up a committee to draft laws to improve co-ordination in the fight against child porn. Berlin police have stepped up investigations of e-mail addresses and have asked to interrogate the Belgian who was arrested in Rome, claiming that children kidnapped in Berlin were taken to a brothel in Rotterdam. ("Community reels at child horror," South China Morning Post, 23 July 1998)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 286 ✭✭CoolGuy2006


    Sorry for the copy and paste job, I was asked for facts so there they are.

    So, based on the facts above, can we agree that europe is rife with illegaly trafficked women who are forced into prostitution.

    The men that use these women probably dont know the girls background and real situation but they are fully aware of human trafficking and are prepared to take the risk. This is my problem so can people stop saying im a moral superhero and that im a prude.

    I AM SAYING THAT THOUSANDS OF SEX SLAVES ARE BEING USED EVERYNIGHT FOR SEX WHICH MEANS THAT THOUSANDS OF MEN ARE BEING IRRESPONSIBLE ENOUGH TO END UP WITH THEM INSTEAD OF WITH THE HAPPY BUISNESS WOMEN YOU ARE ALL TALKING ABOUT* THIS IS MY MAIN POINT SINCE THE BEGINNING

    So Doleman, you seem to accept that men go and pay girls for sex (girls who might be trafficked) but you judge me because I dont look at porn.

    You have your priorities a bit warped there.

    I never said i didnt like porn, i just couldnt enjoy it now with all that i have read about other aspects of it. I really enjoy the movies my girlfriend makes for me, In FACT I LOVE THEM. i love the porn my girfreind makes for me because i know her and i know in what situation she is making it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 850 ✭✭✭DOLEMAN


    Madge wrote:
    they are forced to do it because they have no money and need money to live. Simple as.

    That's your argument why prostitution is wrong? :rolleyes:

    I think you can apply your logic to EVERY SINGLE JOB.

    CoolGuy2006 That document you just pasted says 500,000 women are trafficed into Europe, yet then it only has evidence for 155 women. Again, more sensationalist (sp?) nonsense.

    If you really believe the girls who work in porn, and the girls in Ireland who are prostitutes are slaves, you need to get your head checked. You are creating a false reality.

    Funny how people have always had issues with sex. Lovely Catholic Ireland has really screwed with peoples brains.

    Are you going to quit wearing sports clothes CoolGuy2006? Or are child slaves OK because they're not using their vagina?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,107 ✭✭✭John R


    Taken from http://www.catwinternational.org


    TRAFFICKING
    ...

    All of which is more or less true from the various sources I have seen/read.

    The solutions to this disgusting organised crime lies in the many failings of the legal systems in all the countries involved.

    At the heart of it is the prevailing attitude that prostitutes are basically sub-human. The legal system treats them as criminals and the moralistic elements in society denounces them as scum.

    The whole sex industry in all European countries is an underground one and it is this lack of legal control that allows the huge numbers of women being absed in it.

    There is nothing inherently wrong with prostitution, it is society's attitude towards it that is wrong.

    There is a big trade in slavery from these same former communist states in other areas too, particularly men being forced into manual labour in Russia. Human trafficking of all kinds is a lucrative and relatively safe trade for criminals.

    Cracking down on prostitution will not do anything to stop these crimes.

    the reasons they exist are complex as are the solutions, tough immigration policies are a big part of it. However there is no political milage for being seen to ease immigration restrictions even if doing so can stop thousands of innocent people being kidnapped and trafficked.


    That website is taking a strong moral view on prostitution in general, it barely makes a distinction between enforced slavery/rape and consensual prostitution which is simply bizarre.

    Much of the content is compelling but there is an unpalatable undercurrent throughout the site that seems to be using the slave trade as a justification for a general anti-prostitution/anti-pornography political viewpoint.

    For a much more rounded view of the subject try these websites. Instead of looking for justification for your point of view try looking at it with an open mind.

    http://www.antislavery.org/index.htm

    http://www.amnesty.org.uk/svaw/trafficking

    http://www.unicef.org.uk/sextraffic

    http://www.ecpat.org.uk/


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 286 ✭✭CoolGuy2006


    DOLEMAN wrote:

    If you really believe the girls who work in porn, and the girls in Ireland who are prostitutes are slaves, you need to get your head checked. You are creating a false reality.

    Are you going to quit wearing sports clothes CoolGuy2006? Or are child slaves OK because they're not using their vagina?


    I didnt say all the girls who work in porn are slaves. If you believe that none are slaves you are a fool and ignorant.

    I didnt say that all the prostitutes in Ireland are slaves. If you believe that none are you are a fool and ignorant. i have posted a piece from IOL but you stilll dont seem to want to read it.

    What part of me constantly repeating this do you not understand

    With regards to sports clothes, I havent purchased any sports clothes in years.
    DOLEMAN wrote:
    You are creating a false reality.

    No my friend, it is you who is creating a false reality. I am not creating these facts out of thin air, these facts are everywhere. Do a search in Google.
    DOLEMAN wrote:
    Again, more sensationalist (sp?) nonsense.

    I am not surprised you are prepared to make such a comment. Disgusting, Go bury your head back in the sand, i know you dont want to hear anything tarnish your precious industry


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 850 ✭✭✭DOLEMAN


    I read that IOL article, it was nonsense.

    I don't think you've read my posts. I said of course there will be a tiny percentage of people who are in the sex industry against their will, but it is a tiny percentage.

    Every industry has problems. The food and clothing industry are quite messed up, but as I said, because no vaginas are involved people don't get all upset and guilty.

    The solution to prostitution is to legalise it and stop painting the women as damaged and to stop seeing sex and nudity as a bad thing.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 286 ✭✭CoolGuy2006


    DOLEMAN wrote:
    The solution to prostitution is to legalise it and stop painting the women as damaged and to stop seeing sex and nudity as a bad thing.


    you seem to say this like i disagree, i agree 100%, although i dont think legalisation is a big solution by itself. People obviously have to be better educated as to the problems that are out there, problems you say dont exist to the extent they do. As ive said its legal in Germany and Holland where trafficking still exists.

    You talk about old Catholic Ireland, It is you who seems like you are from that Era, like those who claimed child abuse by the Clergy wasnt really happening

    So every piece i can find on the subject you will just call it nonsense :-(


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,657 Mod ✭✭✭✭Faith


    Madge wrote:
    If women didn't need to do prostitution they wouldn't. I doubt they are in it for the fun of it :rolleyes: they are forced to do it because they have no money and need money to live. Simple as.

    This is absolute nonsense. Prostitution has been around since the dawn of time. Women don't need prostitution at all. In Ireland at least, we have a social security system. Nobody is going to starve to death. If they need money, they can sign on for the dole. Alternatively, they can get a real job. Many prostitutes choose to be streetwalkers simply because it is a well paying job. They could get a job in Tesco and work 40 hours a week, earning €8 an hour. Or they could prostitute themselves for €50 an hour. They would earn more in 7 hours by prostituting themselves than working 40 hours in a minimum wage job. Sure, having your body invaded by random strangers is unpleasant, but there are plenty of unpleasant jobs. I can't imagine being a trash collector is much fun either.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,268 ✭✭✭✭Sleepy


    I think SpaceMan42 had it right about 3 pages back. Doleman has commented on the same thing: slavery exists because of trade and immigration barriers. The people being trafficked (men, women and children) and exploited in various industries are usually being tricked into it with the promise of visas and work in more economically developed countries. The only difference I can see in opinions here is that CoolGuy2006 is of the opinion that women being forced into the sex trade have it worse than men being forced into working in mines, children being forced into working in sweatshops etc. While I can see the point (that she is effectively being put through the repeated trauma of sexual assault or rape while the others are 'just' being made to do 'regular' work) and agree with it to an extent I think that trying to crack down on the demand side of this equation is flawed economic thinking.

    If we can all agree that there is nothing wrong with consensual prostitution (and indeed the laws of our land agree with this, choosing to make solicitation or pimping rather than the act of prostitution itself illegal), we then need to look at how to prevent those operating in this market from exploiting victims of human trafficking. The first major step that can be taken towards this is legalisation of the kind seen in Nevada, where all prostitutes undergo regular (I think it's monthly) health checks and have access to counsellors etc in order to maintain their licence.

    In this type of environment, any victims of trafficking can be identified and helped quickly. This would make the business less profitable for the scum that currently engage in it and should disuade many of them from continuing it.

    Loosening immigration laws would prevent a large amount of the current trafficking at source. If there's no difficulty for a girl in Eastern Europe to get a visa to come work in Ireland/the UK/Germany, there's no reason for her to put her life in the hands of some opportunist who plans to force her into the sex trade to 'repay her debt' to them.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 286 ✭✭CoolGuy2006


    Sleepy wrote:
    The only difference I can see in opinions here is that CoolGuy2006 is of the opinion that women being forced into the sex trade have it worse than men being forced into working in mines, children being forced into working in sweatshops etc.

    where on earth did you see i have this opinion. other people here have said this about me but i havent. Dont tell me what my opinions are when i havent even talked about it personally.

    We were talking about prostitution, someone mentioned other acts against humanity. I dont condone these or see it them as any less of a crime. I was merely focusing on the trafficking of women. So i cant have a problem with the trafficking of women because there are other problems out there.

    I think someone made the point to try and make me look like i was a Hypocrite, something which isnt true


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,731 ✭✭✭DadaKopf


    DOLEMAN wrote:
    I said of course there will be a tiny percentage of people who are in the sex industry against their will, but it is a tiny percentage. [...] Every industry has problems.
    So because every industry has problems then prostitution is OK?

    According to a European Commission research paper (pg. 13), as of 2000:
    • There are 4 m people throughout the world who are victims of trafficking yearly
    • 500 000 victims of trafficking enter western Europe annually
    • 80% of prostitutes in Europe are immigrants. Among the total of trafficked women there are many from central and eastern Europe (from Albania, the Czech Republic, Hungary, Poland, Romania, Bulgaria and Ukraine). In the Netherlands 70% (80% in Amsterdam), in Germany between 60 and 80 %, in Austria 80% and in Italy 80% of all trafficked women come from eastern Europe.
    There are an estimated 40,000 foreign prostitutes in Italy, mostly controlled by the Albanian Mafia. One of the attempts to fight back includes giving women permission to remain in Italy in return for giving evidence against the gangs.

    [From the Irish Examiner]

    There's little reason to believe that the situation has radically improved in six years.

    Again from the report:
    The potential victims of trafficking from central and eastern Europe are very young women living in poverty who want to help their families by moving to the West, so they can earn money to send back home. Currently, women’s plans are to make good money and return. In some cases, these girls did not know that they were going to work as prostitutes when they left their homes; other women know that they are being recruited for prostitution (in both cases, on becoming prostitutes they are unable to escape their situation of slavery).

    Based on a small sample of 108 women who contacted an NGO in the Netherlands, the next table shows that only one-fourth of women understood they would be expected to perform sexual services. The majority had been lured into migration with promises of legitimate jobs, for example as domestic workers or waitresses.

    [...]

    It is important to emphasise that in both cases, whether they were aware or not that they were to work as prostitutes, those women are forced to work against their will and are deprived of their earnings. They thus become slaves.

    [...]

    According to a study carried out in 1994 by the Foundation Against Trafficking in Women (an NGO), of 155 women from eastern Europe, mainly from Ukraine, the Czech Republic and Poland, 75% were under the age of 25, and many of these were aged between 15 and 18.

    It seems like Ireland is an exception in Europe due to our isolation, but a report the other day indicated that we are now becoming an attractive location for trafficers and pimps. In most other countries, despite legalisation, it seems that the majority of prostitutes are migrants, many brought over by mafi-run trafficers.

    Clearly, these women didn't freely "choose" to become prostitutes. Those who expected to work as prostitutes before they travelled assumed they'd be leaving the industry once they made their money (this was a hard decision they made out of desparation), though they end up living as sex slaves (i.e. no choice at all). Many children (15-18 year old girls) believe they're going to work as waitresses etc., but also become sex slaves. More than it not being choice, it's child abuse.

    But if you guys are OK with a 1 in 1.25 chance of supporting one of the most dispicable forms of abuse in the world, uh, fine, so long as you don't get a disease, eh?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 286 ✭✭CoolGuy2006


    Faith wrote:
    Prostitution has been around since the dawn of time. Women don't need prostitution at all. .

    faith, it is you who is generalising. Yes not all women who work as prostitutes need to but some do. Drug addiction and other situations are a big factor in Ireland. Telling someone that there is always the option of working for TESCO doesnt help. you obviously have no real understanding of how life can be for these people. I think in your postion you couldnt understand how a woman needs it or sees it as her only option. Sadly, many women do. Use google, there is a wealth of imformation out there.

    I will stress again before anyone criticises me. i know there are many women happily working in prostitution, not everyone is in the same boat though, you have to accept this


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,104 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    faith, it is you who is generalising. Yes not all women who work as prostitutes need to but some do. Drug addiction is a big factor in Ireland. I think in your postion you coudlnt understand how a woman needs it or sees it as her only option. Sadly, many women do.
    She is referring to Ireland, in Ireland, they do not.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 286 ✭✭CoolGuy2006


    She is referring to Ireland, in Ireland, they do not.


    I was referring to ireland too. this is a very naive attitude you have. Use google


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,104 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    I was referring to ireland too. this is a very naive attitude you have. Use google
    What makes you think I haven't. In Ireland, it is not a necessity. Drug addiction, homlessness etc make no difference. It is not.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 286 ✭✭CoolGuy2006


    What makes you think I haven't. In Ireland, it is not a necessity. Drug addiction, homlessness etc make no difference. It is not.

    Only because we dont see it as a necessity it doesnt mean that some people in Fu*ked up situations dont. Its like telling a homeless person there is no need for him to be sleeping out on the streets. Great way to solve a problem :-(


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,657 Mod ✭✭✭✭Faith


    you obviously have no real understanding of how life can be for these people.

    And you do? Have you ever prostituted yourself? If you haven't, please refrain from implying that you understand when I don't.
    Drug addiction is a big factor in Ireland.

    We're not talking about the drug problem in Ireland. As far as I was aware, you wanted to discuss prostitutes in Holland and Germany.
    Yes not all women who work as prostitutes need to but some do.

    No they don't. There's always another solution. Maybe I'm being harsh, but I have very little sympathy for drug addicts. Maybe they don't have control over the situation now, but in the beginning they made a conscious decision to take those drugs, aware of the risks. They prostitute themselves to get money to feed their habits, not because they need to.
    I think in your postion you couldnt understand how a woman needs it or sees it as her only option.

    Again, can you understand? There is a big difference between needing something and seeing it as their only option.
    Use google

    For what, exactly?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 286 ✭✭CoolGuy2006


    Faith wrote:
    We're not talking about the drug problem in Ireland .

    Why are you confused i mentioned Ireland
    Faith wrote:
    Women don't need prostitution at all. In Ireland at least, .

    This is why i mentioned Ireland, because you mentioned it.


    Faith wrote:
    Maybe I'm being harsh, but I have very little sympathy for drug addicts. Maybe they don't have control over the situation now, but in the beginning they made a conscious decision to take those drugs, aware of the risks. They prostitute themselves to get money to feed their habits, not because they need to.

    Well now i know a bit more about your character. I suppose we should not try and help cancer patients who have smoked too or people with bad liver from drinking. Lets just let them die huh. I really dont know how you posted this in Humanities.

    Faith wrote:
    Again, can you understand? There is a big difference between needing something and seeing it as their only option.

    I do understand, thats my point. Some people are in such desperate situations that they DONT see any other option.

    Like a homeless person who sleeps out on the street. there are hostels and agencies to help, so why do they still sleep on the streets. because the issue is far more complex than i or you will probably ever understand


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 731 ✭✭✭Madge


    Faith wrote:
    This is absolute nonsense. Prostitution has been around since the dawn of time. Women don't need prostitution at all. In Ireland at least, we have a social security system. Nobody is going to starve to death.
    I can see you have no real understanding of life. I'll bet your're still living at home comfortably. People don't have to be 'starving' as you put it. They can be living on the breadline, with not 2 spare pennies to rub together. Everyday can be a struggle. Factor in kids to the equation and its a million times worse. This is enough for those women to actually need to do it.
    Not to mention the whole area of drugs etc.
    Faith wrote:
    If they need money, they can sign on for the dole. Alternatively, they can get a real job.
    Dole is cr@p money and see above response.
    Faith wrote:
    Sure, having your body invaded by random strangers is unpleasant, but there are plenty of unpleasant jobs. I can't imagine being a trash collector is much fun either.
    You think working as a bin man is similar to selling oneself!?


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,657 Mod ✭✭✭✭Faith


    Well now i know a bit more about your character. I suppose we should not try and help cancer patients who have smoked too or people with bad liver from drinking. Lets just let them die huh.

    You know nothing about my character. People have free will. They choose what they put in their bodies, and must live with the consequences. Nowhere did I imply "Let's just let them die". You're completely twisting my words. I'm all for helping drug addicts recover. There are rehab facilities available to help them quit drugs, but they choose not to go to these.

    I do understand, thats my point. Some people are in such desperate situations that they DONT see any other option.

    I think the word that should be stressed there is "see". They don't see any other option. That doesn't mean that there isn't one available.
    Like a homeless person who sleeps out on the street. there are hostels and agencies to help, so why do they still sleep on the streets. because the issue is far more complex than i or you will probably ever understand

    No, I completely understand why homeless people sleep on the streets. But that's not what we're talking about.
    Madge wrote:
    I can see you have no real understanding of life. I'll bet your're still living at home comfortably.

    You also have absolutely no idea about me so please don't presume to. No, I'm not still living at home and even if I were, it's none of your business. Attack the post, not the poster.
    This is enough for those women to actually need to do it.

    Why do you think that when the chips are down, women automatically turn to prostitution? Maybe they can't survive on the dole. There are other jobs available. Prostitution is not, and never will be, the only available option.
    You think working as a bin man is similar to selling oneself!?

    No I do not, I was simply pointing out that there are many unpleasant jobs in this world.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 731 ✭✭✭Madge


    Faith wrote:
    You also have absolutely no idea about me so please don't presume to. No, I'm not still living at home and even if I were, it's none of your business. Attack the post, not the poster.
    I wasn't attacking you. I was commenting on how you appear to have not much life experience. That was all.
    Faith wrote:
    Why do you think that when the chips are down, women automatically turn to prostitution?
    I never said that.
    Faith wrote:
    Maybe they can't survive on the dole.
    You have contradicted yourself. You said previously that people CAN get by on the dole. They wouldn't 'starve' in this country.
    Faith wrote:
    There are other jobs available. Prostitution is not, and never will be, the only available option.
    I never said it was.
    Faith wrote:
    No I do not, I was simply pointing out that there are many unpleasant jobs in this world.
    Personally, I think being a binman or woman, is ALOT easier and a better job than selling yourself.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 286 ✭✭CoolGuy2006


    Faith wrote:
    You know nothing about my character. People have free will. They choose what they put in their bodies, and must live with the consequences. Nowhere did I imply "Let's just let them die". You're completely twisting my words. I'm all for helping drug addicts recover. There are rehab facilities available to help them quit drugs, but they choose not to go to these..

    sorry, faith, youre right, i dont know you. All i do know of you is what you post here. I wasnt actually trying to imply that i think you have the attitude of "Just let them die" bad example by me.

    The fact that you said
    Faith wrote:
    but I have very little sympathy for drug addicts ..

    this doesnt really say much in fairness.


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 25,558 Mod ✭✭✭✭Dades


    Sleepy wrote:
    If we can all agree that there is nothing wrong with consensual prostitution (and indeed the laws of our land agree with this, choosing to make solicitation or pimping rather than the act of prostitution itself illegal), we then need to look at how to prevent those operating in this market from exploiting victims of human trafficking.
    Was there any agreement to this? I think it makes sense.

    I'm really not sure what direction this discussion is headed at the moment.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 286 ✭✭CoolGuy2006


    Was there any agreement to this? I think it makes sense.

    I'm really not sure what direction this discussion is headed at the moment.

    i agree to that, in theory. I dont know how such a thing could exist in reality though and men would have to take on a lot more responsibility. this was my only problem, men who go to Amsterdam and germany Knowing the risks but taking the chance anyway. This is not responsible


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,731 ✭✭✭DadaKopf


    I'm pretty sure I disagree with Sleepy's statement there.

    I think most people in this thread are simply refusing to see the reality about why people become prostitutes for the sake of making some unrelated point about 'freedom of choice'.

    Treating the issue as a 'market issue' is extremely amoral.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 850 ✭✭✭DOLEMAN


    DadaKopf wrote:
    So because every industry has problems then prostitution is OK?

    No, prostitution is OK because there is nothing wrong with sex and I don't have the traditional Catholic Ireland guilty-about-sex thing going on.

    People need to stop bringing prostitution back to slavery. It's the same tactic used by the Catholic Church. "Having sex will give you AIDS. Stop having sex."

    We could pick every industry and find problems. "But are you admitting some computer programmers get repetitive strain industry? That is why programming is evil!"

    ...

    If sex was not involved, we would not be having this conversation.


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