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Madeleine McCann

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,653 ✭✭✭✭Plumbthedepths


    splinter65 wrote:
    Best practice in every single country in the developed world is that immediate family stay put while professionals search. Surely you know this.


    Best practice does not translate into not allowed to join the search. This is from personal knowledge.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,039 ✭✭✭✭retro:electro


    She wandered out herself, something happened (car accident/paedo)
    What “evidence of an abduction” are people looking for exactly? A note saying “I’ve kidnapped your child”?
    This is the real world. Most abductors just get in and out as quickly as possible and many leave no trace of their presence whatsoever.
    I think the absence of a child is evidence enough.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,852 ✭✭✭Steve F


    splinter65 wrote: »
    Your spouse could convince you of this in a short span of time, and persuade you to go along with a horrific plan, and 12 years later, your still onboard?

    Yes,thats my question. If it's what happened or not I have no idea:confused:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,524 ✭✭✭the_pen_turner


    Something Else
    splinter65 wrote: »
    Best practice in every single country in the developed world is that immediate family stay put while professionals search. Surely you know this.

    That maybe true but that would only apply one the police got there and got the situation under control.
    I can't imagine any parent not spending those minutes before the police arrived not searching

    I once saw a woman looking for her child that ran off . She was running around , shouting his name and looking everywhere. That the way I would expect a parent to react


  • Registered Users Posts: 687 ✭✭✭bunderoon


    Something Else
    Well the child was there one minute and then gone the next, with no sign of foul play or death.
    I think that’s all the evidence most people need.

    The thing is, there were signs of death - have you read anything about the cadaver dogs?

    Multiple areas flagged by the dogs.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,852 ✭✭✭Steve F


    bunderoon wrote: »
    The thing is, there were signs of death - have you read anything about the cadaver dogs?

    Multiple areas flagged by the dogs.

    Yes,this troubles me
    They have a high accuracy rate I believe...?
    Did Gerry not say "Ask the Dogs"?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 410 ✭✭Dog Man Star


    What “evidence of an abduction” are people looking for exactly? A note saying “I’ve kidnapped your child”?
    This is the real world. Most abductors just get in and out as quickly as possible and many leave no trace of their presence whatsoever.
    I think the absence of a child is evidence enough.

    Any evidence at all. A forced lock, forensic, a stray hair, a fingerprint, a footprint, a witness, some noise, a sighting, circumstantial, anything. Anything other than none whatsoever. Because that's what there is, none whatsoever.
    I think the absence of a child is evidence enough

    Ok then.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,524 ✭✭✭the_pen_turner


    Something Else
    What “evidence of an abduction” are people looking for exactly? A note saying “I’ve kidnapped your child”?
    This is the real world. Most abductors just get in and out as quickly as possible and many leave no trace of their presence whatsoever.
    I think the absence of a child is evidence enough.

    By that logic then the lack of a child is just as much evidence that they killed her.

    You would imagine a stranger going into a dark unfamiliar room would knock something or leave a footprint, be a struggle ,make a noise or something.
    No evidence doesn't mean it didn't happen but it makes it less likely


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 410 ✭✭Dog Man Star


    Steve F wrote: »
    Yes,thats my question. If it's what happened or not I have no idea:confused:

    It's not just a case of going along with it. They had left the children alone. They would have lost the twins, their careers and possible been jailed.

    There would be no other choice but to go along with it.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,158 ✭✭✭✭iamwhoiam


    She wandered out herself, something happened (car accident/paedo)
    That maybe true but that would only apply one the police got there and got the situation under control.
    I can't imagine any parent not spending those minutes before the police arrived not searching

    I once saw a woman looking for her child that ran off . She was running around , shouting his name and looking everywhere. That the way I would expect a parent to react

    I was in P da L a year later and I actually found myself looking for Madeleine . I knew in my head she was not going to be sitting on a fence waiting untill I found her but I still looked in ditches etc as I past them .Daft I know .Its an instinct that is primal in a parent I think .That awful moment of horror and the frantic searching and calling and looking is a natural instinct . I of course dont know how I would react in the Mc Canns situation but all my instincts tell me I would search and dig up the beach with my hands and look in every blessed bin . I cannot imagine I would sit at home waiting for someone else to look as I would trust them to do it right .


  • Registered Users Posts: 687 ✭✭✭bunderoon


    Something Else
    Any evidence at all. A forced lock, forensic, a stray hair, a fingerprint, a footprint, a witness, some noise, a sighting, circumstantial, anything. Anything other than none whatsoever. Because that's what there is, none whatsoever.



    Ok then.


    Again, the dogs hold the key to this whole situation. Sometimes they can be inaccurate but they obviously dont lie.

    Scent of cadavor were found in multiple places in the apartment and also in the back of the car (and her blood) they hired 25 days AFTER she went missing.
    He dumped the fridge freezer from the apartment.
    His gym bag is missing.

    The list goes on. Stack the circumstantial evidence for abduction vs coverup and the latter is much larger.
    Look at the facts and not let your feelings getting in the way of judgement.

    Its a harrowing case alright.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,524 ✭✭✭the_pen_turner


    Something Else
    bunderoon wrote: »
    Again, the dogs hold the key to this whole situation. Sometimes they can be inaccurate but they obviously dont lie.

    Scent of cadavor were found in multiple places in the apartment and also in the back of the car (and her blood) they hired 25 days AFTER she went missing.
    He dumped the fridge freezer from the apartment.
    His gym bag is missing.

    The list goes on. Stack the circumstantial evidence for abduction vs coverup and the latter is much larger.
    Look at the facts and not let your feelings getting in the way of judgement.

    Its a harrowing case alright.

    What's the story with fridge freezer


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    She wandered out herself, something happened (car accident/paedo)
    You claimed they were not allowed participate in a search for her.

    I didn't. I said it wasn't uncommon for police forces to forbid parents from taking part in the search for their missing children, and that it wouldn't shock me if that was the case in this situation.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,653 ✭✭✭✭Plumbthedepths


    SusieBlue wrote:
    I didn't. I said it wasn't uncommon for police forces to forbid parents from taking part in the search for their missing children, and that it wouldn't shock me if that was the case in this situation.


    Post #460.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,111 ✭✭✭✭cnocbui


    She wandered out herself, something happened (car accident/paedo)
    bunderoon wrote: »
    Again, the dogs hold the key to this whole situation. Sometimes they can be inaccurate but they obviously dont lie.

    Scent of cadavor were found in multiple places in the apartment and also in the back of the car (and her blood) they hired 25 days AFTER she went missing.
    He dumped the fridge freezer from the apartment.
    His gym bag is missing.

    The list goes on. Stack the circumstantial evidence for abduction vs coverup and the latter is much larger.
    Look at the facts and not let your feelings getting in the way of judgement.

    Its a harrowing case alright.

    No blood has ever been found. No cadaver has ever been found. The same dogs proved to be £20 million worth of unreliable on the island of Jersey.

    Dogs can assist investigators in finding evidence, their actions can't and don't provide evidence.

    The dogs are not a key to anything, except perhaps for opening a tin of red herrings.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,039 ✭✭✭✭retro:electro


    She wandered out herself, something happened (car accident/paedo)
    I find it funny how some posters are so positively sure of the McCann's involvement, yet nobody can come up with any reasonable and moderately credible account of what happened? "Come on, there's a reason they're suspects!", isn't good enough. Their involvement makes no sense- How? Why? When? Nobody can answer those three simple questions without it turning completely ridiculous and absurd.

    The most likely scenario is that she was taken. The family were at dinner, taking it in turns to check on the kids, maybe someone spotted this? realised the kids were alone, and acted. It was more than likely a lone abductor- hence him taking just one child. Maybe Madeline woke up, he panicked and took her. Maybe he would have taken her irregardless.

    I don't find Kate and Gerry particularly warm people. They're cold and probably a little odd. But I do believe that Kate especially is absolutely haunted by what happened to Madeline. I remember about 9 years ago watching a documentary about the aftermath and up until I watched it I was a little suspicious about them. I can't remember the name of it but I'll look for it and try to link it. It allowed cameras inside their home and it just showed how utterly tormented Kate is and how she spends every waking moment sifting through articles and her pain was totally palpable.
    It’s almost like people want them to have done it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,420 ✭✭✭splinter65


    She wandered out herself, something happened (car accident/paedo)
    Steve F wrote: »
    Yes,thats my question. If it's what happened or not I have no idea:confused:

    The answer to your question is this. No. Its not possible to convince the mother of a child you’ve just killed to play along with your lie for 12 years and counting.
    It’s odd that I have to explain this.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    She wandered out herself, something happened (car accident/paedo)
    Post #460.

    Yes, post #460, which I wrote, reads as:
    Its quite common in missing child investigations for the police force to not allow the parents go searching. Statistically, most children who are abducted end up dead and are found in close proximity to where they were taken from.
    It makes sense that they wouldn't be allowed search for her for fear they would discover her body.

    I offered it as a reason as to why they may not have searched for her. I never said it was definitively the case, just that it was common in missing children cases.
    Try again.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,158 ✭✭✭✭iamwhoiam


    She wandered out herself, something happened (car accident/paedo)
    I find it funny how some posters are so positively sure of the McCann's involvement, yet nobody can come up with any reasonable and moderately credible account of what happened? "Come on, there's a reason they're suspects!", isn't good enough. Their involvement makes no sense- How? Why? When? Nobody can answer those three simple questions without it turning completely ridiculous and absurd.

    The most likely scenario is that she was taken. The family were at dinner, taking it in turns to check on the kids, maybe someone spotted this? realised the kids were alone, and acted. It was more than likely a lone abductor- hence him taking just one child. Maybe Madeline woke up, he panicked and took her. Maybe he would have taken her irregardless.

    I don't find Kate and Gerry particularly warm people. They're cold and probably a little odd. But I do believe that Kate especially is absolutely haunted by what happened to Madeline. I remember about 9 years ago watching a documentary about the aftermath and up until I watched it I was a little suspicious about them. I can't remember the name of it but I'll look for it and try to link it. It allowed cameras inside their home and it just showed how utterly tormented Kate is and how she spends every waking moment sifting through articles and her pain was totally palpable.
    t.

    I think it was planned as it was so clean and nothing left behind.I am more inclined to think it was an inside job by someone who passed on the message that the kids were left and the pattern repeated nightly . The group booked the table ahead for the next few nights , the pattern was establishes
    Also more likely to be a couple , one in a car , one in and grab and away into the dark countryside north of the village in minutes


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,524 ✭✭✭the_pen_turner


    Something Else
    I find it funny how some posters are so positively sure of the McCann's involvement, yet nobody can come up with any reasonable and moderately credible account of what happened? "Come on, there's a reason they're suspects!", isn't good enough. Their involvement makes no sense- How? Why? When? Nobody can answer those three simple questions without it turning completely ridiculous and absurd.

    The most likely scenario is that she was taken. The family were at dinner, taking it in turns to check on the kids, maybe someone spotted this? realised the kids were alone, and acted. It was more than likely a lone abductor- hence him taking just one child. Maybe Madeline woke up, he panicked and took her. Maybe he would have taken her irregardless.

    I don't find Kate and Gerry particularly warm people. They're cold and probably a little odd. But I do believe that Kate especially is absolutely haunted by what happened to Madeline. I remember about 9 years ago watching a documentary about the aftermath and up until I watched it I was a little suspicious about them. I can't remember the name of it but I'll look for it and try to link it. It allowed cameras inside their home and it just showed how utterly tormented Kate is and how she spends every waking moment sifting through articles and her pain was totally palpable.
    It’s almost like people want them to have done it.
    I don't think anyone wants the parents to gave done it. I don't . But I do want the truth to come out

    I also think the most likely thing to have happened is that something happened to her in that apartment because she was left alone. I don't think they murdered her but some kind of accident happened.
    If you leave 3 children alone often enough one is probably going to hurt itself.

    The chances of an abductor are a huge amount less likely


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  • Registered Users Posts: 97 ✭✭Disposable1


    Being a parent i dont think any mother or father could knowingly cover it up and act it out for all these years.

    I would say the child was snatched. Any of the missing kids cases is heart breaking.

    Dude come on, plenty of parents murder their kids and cover it up. YOU couldn't do it, which is admirable, you don't want to believe this is a possibility, again this indicates you're a good person, but the reality is that parents kill their children often, and they try to cover it up, they try to get away with it. And if you're middle class, like the McCanns or the Ramseys, you can get away with it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,420 ✭✭✭splinter65


    She wandered out herself, something happened (car accident/paedo)
    I find it funny how some posters are so positively sure of the McCann's involvement, yet nobody can come up with any reasonable and moderately credible account of what happened? "Come on, there's a reason they're suspects!", isn't good enough. Their involvement makes no sense- How? Why? When? Nobody can answer those three simple questions without it turning completely ridiculous and absurd.

    The most likely scenario is that she was taken. The family were at dinner, taking it in turns to check on the kids, maybe someone spotted this? realised the kids were alone, and acted. It was more than likely a lone abductor- hence him taking just one child. Maybe Madeline woke up, he panicked and took her. Maybe he would have taken her irregardless.

    I don't find Kate and Gerry particularly warm people. They're cold and probably a little odd. But I do believe that Kate especially is absolutely haunted by what happened to Madeline. I remember about 9 years ago watching a documentary about the aftermath and up until I watched it I was a little suspicious about them. I can't remember the name of it but I'll look for it and try to link it. It allowed cameras inside their home and it just showed how utterly tormented Kate is and how she spends every waking moment sifting through articles and her pain was totally palpable.
    It’s almost like people want them to have done it.

    Certain people decided that the McCanns were guilty within 72 hours of the incident. They were certain of an arrest and a confession and swift punishment within hours, then days, then weeks.
    It didn’t happen. Certain section of society is egotistic enough not to ever want to concede that their gut instinct was wrong, ever.
    Frustration set in. Facts, as few as they were, and still are, got confused with unconfirmed rumors and vague suggestions until a theory was reached.
    The theory is pointless because it cannot be explained even remotely as there are far far too many holes in it some of them almost laughable if it wasn’t so sad.
    12 years later the most important thing seems to be that no one wants to concede that maybe Madeleine was abducted.
    Ask any of the “the McCanns did it” theorists to explain how when where and why they did it and see how that goes.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    She wandered out herself, something happened (car accident/paedo)
    bunderoon wrote: »
    Again, the dogs hold the key to this whole situation. Sometimes they can be inaccurate but they obviously dont lie.

    Scent of cadavor were found in multiple places in the apartment and also in the back of the car (and her blood) they hired 25 days AFTER she went missing.
    He dumped the fridge freezer from the apartment.
    His gym bag is missing.

    The list goes on. Stack the circumstantial evidence for abduction vs coverup and the latter is much larger.
    Look at the facts and not let your feelings getting in the way of judgement.

    Its a harrowing case alright.

    Well if you are adamant that Madeleine's dead body was in the car 25 days after she went missing, it really should be very simple to prove and find.
    This information was around 12 years ago.
    Both Kate & Gerry were being bombarded by international media, as it was the most famous missing child case of that time.

    If as you say Madeleine's body must have been in the car, then surely, someone in the media must have spotted them dumping it when their every move was being followed. Or at least spotted them putting it in the car.

    Why is there no evidence of this, if this is the case? Unless you are suggesting the worlds media was in cahoots with the McCanns as well?

    I know it would be nice to neatly tie this all up by saying Gerry dumped her body in the (missing) gym bag, then took her away in the car and got rid of the body.
    But if it was that simple, how were they not found out by now?


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,852 ✭✭✭Steve F


    splinter65 wrote: »
    The answer to your question is this. No. Its not possible to convince the mother of a child you’ve just killed to play along with your lie for 12 years and counting.
    It’s odd that I have to explain this.

    Three words Fred and Rose
    Again,not being provocative just pointing out that it can,and does happen


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,004 ✭✭✭✭Spanish Eyes


    Gerry and the tennis bag..... sorry now and if I get a warning so be it...but would the bins have been collected before anyone was alerted about the missing child?

    I know it sounds awful, but at this stage all we have are theories.

    At the end of the day the parents left three babies alone at night in a foreign country. That is the ONE absolute fact we know. Remember.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,420 ✭✭✭splinter65


    She wandered out herself, something happened (car accident/paedo)
    Dude come on, plenty of parents murder their kids and cover it up. YOU couldn't do it, which is admirable, you don't want to believe this is a possibility, again this indicates you're a good person, but the reality is that parents kill their children often, and they try to cover it up, they try to get away with it. And if you're middle class, like the McCanns or the Ramseys, you can get away with it.

    So middle class people are all psychotic. It’s the preserve of the middle class. Or is it that middle class people that are psychotic get away with it?
    A psychotic consultant cardiologist and his psychotic GP wife who live and work amongst us undiscovered.
    Your theory is interesting.
    And yes parents kill kids and try to cover it up but I’d be obliged if you could give me an example of such a famous case or any case where parents covered it up and got away with it.
    For 12 years now and counting.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 410 ✭✭Dog Man Star


    splinter65 wrote: »
    So middle class people are all psychotic. It’s the preserve of the middle class. Or is it that middle class people that are psychotic get away with it?
    A psychotic consultant cardiologist and his psychotic GP wife who live and work amongst us undiscovered.
    Your theory is interesting.
    And yes parents kill kids and try to cover it up but I’d be obliged if you could give me an example of such a famous case or any case where parents covered it up and got away with it.
    For 12 years now and counting.

    It's not psychotic undiscovered villains. It's two parents covering up the accidental death of their daughter to avoid losing their other two children. It's perfectly rational and understandable to anyone who has children.

    Madeline was gone, they could never get her back. They do what's best for their other two children, to keep the family together.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,420 ✭✭✭splinter65


    She wandered out herself, something happened (car accident/paedo)
    Steve F wrote: »
    Three words Fred and Rose
    Again,not being provocative just pointing out that it can,and does happen

    Sorry no not the same thing at all. Fred and Rose West were in it together. They both did the murders. Neither was a reluctant recruit. Nobody needed persuading to be quiet. They progressed from sadistic sexual persuasions to living out their fantasies.
    Try harder.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,852 ✭✭✭Steve F


    splinter65 wrote: »
    So middle class people are all psychotic. It’s the preserve of the middle class. Or is it that middle class people that are psychotic get away with it?
    A psychotic consultant cardiologist and his psychotic GP wife who live and work amongst us undiscovered.
    Your theory is interesting.
    And yes parents kill kids and try to cover it up but I’d be obliged if you could give me an example of such a famous case or any case where parents covered it up and got away with it.
    For 12 years now and counting.

    Again...Fred and Rose


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    She wandered out herself, something happened (car accident/paedo)
    Steve F wrote: »
    Three words Fred and Rose
    Again,not being provocative just pointing out that it can,and does happen

    Fred murdered 8/9 other women besides his daughter Heather, and the only murder Rose was convicted of was of her stepchild.
    Comparing them to the McCann's is like comparing apples and oranges.
    Rose worked as a prostitute and had been sexually abused by her own father well into adulthood.
    They both sexually abused their other children.
    And they also didn't get away with it, they were convicted and sentenced for their crimes.
    Completely different family dynamics and circumstance.

    You cannot use the West's for justification of thinking the McCann's are guilty when they are in no way similar.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    She wandered out herself, something happened (car accident/paedo)
    It's not psychotic undiscovered villains. It's two parents covering up the accidental death of their daughter to avoid losing their other two children. It's perfectly rational and understandable to anyone who has children.

    Madeline was gone, they could never get her back. They do what's best for their other two children, to keep the family together.

    Sorry but that isn't perfectly rational and understandable at all.
    If my husband accidentally killed my daughter & disposed of the body, I wouldn't be interested in protecting him or myself.
    I imagine one would be so overcome with grief they'd barely be able to come up with a potential plan, let alone execute one so seamlessly it still has two different police forces baffled over a decade later.
    If it was a snap decision like you are trying to say, they must be criminal masterminds.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,039 ✭✭✭✭retro:electro


    She wandered out herself, something happened (car accident/paedo)
    It's not psychotic undiscovered villains. It's two parents covering up the accidental death of their daughter to avoid losing their other two children. It's perfectly rational and understandable to anyone who has children.

    Madeline was gone, they could never get her back. They do what's best for their other two children, to keep the family together.

    Can you enlighten us with your thoughts of what you believe happened that day? You’re so sure they were involved so I’m sure you have a rock solid bullet proof theory established. One that isn’t just blaming the parents for the sake of it.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 410 ✭✭Dog Man Star


    splinter65 wrote: »
    And yes parents kill kids and try to cover it up but I’d be obliged if you could give me an example of such a famous case or any case where parents covered it up and got away with it.
    For 12 years now and counting.

    Jeffrey McDonald (also a doctor) murdered his two daughters and his wife, blamed it on intruders, and got away with it for 9 years.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jeffrey_R._MacDonald#Prosecution

    During this time he made numerous appeals and tv appearances, some of which are on YouTube.

    I believe Madeline McCann died in an accident, but you can see how these things can be covered up from this example.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,852 ✭✭✭Steve F


    SusieBlue wrote: »
    Fred murdered 8/9 other women besides his daughter Heather, and the only murder Rose was convicted of was of her stepchild.
    Comparing them to the McCann's is like comparing apples and oranges.
    Rose worked as a prostitute and had been sexually abused by her own father well into adulthood.
    They both sexually abused their other children.
    And they also didn't get away with it, they were convicted and sentenced for their crimes.
    Completely different family dynamics and circumstance.

    You cannot use the West's for justification of thinking the McCann's are guilty when they are in no way similar.


    Susieblue
    My main point was that posters are trying to say something has never happened when quite clearly it has.Other than that I can offer no more


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,039 ✭✭✭✭retro:electro


    She wandered out herself, something happened (car accident/paedo)
    SusieBlue wrote: »
    Sorry but that isn't perfectly rational and understandable at all.
    If my husband accidentally killed my daughter & disposed of the body, I wouldn't be interested in protecting him or myself.
    I imagine one would be so overcome with grief they'd barely be able to come up with a potential plan, let alone execute one so seamlessly it still has two different police forces baffled over a decade later.
    If it was a snap decision like you are trying to say, they must be criminal masterminds.

    I wouldn’t like that poster to be in the care of my child if they think that covering up the death of a child is rational and understandable.

    Worrying.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,420 ✭✭✭splinter65


    She wandered out herself, something happened (car accident/paedo)
    It's not psychotic undiscovered villains. It's two parents covering up the accidental death of their daughter to avoid losing their other two children. It's perfectly rational and understandable to anyone who has children.

    Madeline was gone, they could never get her back. They do what's best for their other two children, to keep the family together.
    I have children. It bothers me that you think it’s rational and understandable that you would want to cover up the death of your child under any circumstances.
    That’s insane. No sane person would think that.
    In shock and horror and grief that you could calmly reason out that an elaborate cover up plan is the best course of action.
    When your reading this does it not seem ludicrous to you? Are you really incapable of picturing the scenario and seeing that it’s just not possible?
    And to keep it up for 12+ years?!? And how do you explain how such a hastily concocted and executed plan has failed to be unraveled by whole teams of detectives from at least two police courses from two countries?
    If you could even give us some insight into what the plan was and how it was executed at the time, never mind explain who or how it was dreamed up... but you can’t because given the few facts that we have none of the nonsensical scenarios fit, do they?
    But carry on...


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,142 ✭✭✭Babooshka


    I can't even follow this thread any more, I'm so horrified at people asking questions about bins. I'm not saying humans aren't capable of such stuff but I have a daughter almost the same age and I'm so sad even thinking anyone could throw a dead child in a bin. I don't know that they didn't do it, but even if they did, speculating about it in this way is just macabre. You'd have to be pretty mental in the head to do that.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 410 ✭✭Dog Man Star


    I wouldn’t like that poster to be in the care of my child if they think that covering up the death of a child is rational and understandable.

    Worrying.

    Well if she died accidentally while you were both out having dinner, you might feel somewhat involved too.

    Attacking my character doesn't get away from the facts unfortunately. It does get away from this thread topic though.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,039 ✭✭✭✭retro:electro


    She wandered out herself, something happened (car accident/paedo)
    Well if she died accidentally while you were both out having dinner, you might feel somewhat involved too.

    Attacking my character doesn't get away from the facts unfortunately. It does get away from this thread topic though.

    I attacked your character when? You said it’s perfectly rational and understandable to cover up the death of a child. Those were your words.


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 410 ✭✭Dog Man Star


    splinter65 wrote: »
    I have children. It bothers me that you think it’s rational and understandable that you would want to cover up the death of your child under any circumstances.
    That’s insane. No sane person would think that.
    In shock and horror and grief that you could calmly reason out that an elaborate cover up plan is the best course of action.
    When your reading this does it not seem ludicrous to you? Are you really incapable of picturing the scenario and seeing that it’s just not possible?
    And to keep it up for 12+ years?!? And how do you explain how such a hastily concocted and executed plan has failed to be unraveled by whole teams of detectives from at least two police courses from two countries?
    If you could even give us some insight into what the plan was and how it was executed at the time, never mind explain who or how it was dreamed up... but you can’t because given the few facts that we have none of the nonsensical scenarios fit, do they?
    But carry on...

    I have answered pretty much all these question already in this thread.

    Your faux outrage still doesn't whitewash the facts of this case.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 410 ✭✭Dog Man Star


    I attacked your character when? You said it’s perfectly rational and understandable to cover up the death of a child. Those were your words.

    Quoting me out of context.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,039 ✭✭✭✭retro:electro


    She wandered out herself, something happened (car accident/paedo)
    Quoting me out of context.

    I really didn’t.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 410 ✭✭Dog Man Star


    Can you enlighten us with your thoughts of what you believe happened that day? You’re so sure they were involved so I’m sure you have a rock solid bullet proof theory established. One that isn’t just blaming the parents for the sake of it.

    The Portugese police account of events is already detailed in this thread.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 410 ✭✭Dog Man Star


    I really didn’t.

    "It's two parents covering up the accidental death of their daughter to avoid losing their other two children."



    I'm going for a nap now until sense is restored in this thread.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,420 ✭✭✭splinter65


    She wandered out herself, something happened (car accident/paedo)
    I have answered pretty much all these question already in this thread.

    Your faux outrage still doesn't whitewash the facts of this case.

    What are the facts that you think I’m trying to whitewash?
    Why can’t you just tell us, given these facts, exactly when where how why and at whose hands exactly Madeleine died.
    You’ve had 12 years to work it out.
    It’s clear to you that they did it.
    So, go ahead, tell us all what happened.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    She wandered out herself, something happened (car accident/paedo)
    Well if she died accidentally while you were both out having dinner, you might feel somewhat involved too.

    Attacking my character doesn't get away from the facts unfortunately. It does get away from this thread topic though.

    Very true.
    I can't imagine the guilt as a mother you would feel from knowing you were responsible for your own child's death.
    I can't imagine there is anything in this world worse than that.
    Not even losing your other children to social services would be worse than that.

    I imagine the pain would be so bad, the last thing I'd be concerned about in the minutes after discovering this, would be protecting myself & my husband.
    Let alone concocting a mastermind plan to ensure we both get off scott free.

    Getting locked up for the rest of my life would never compare to the pain of knowing I caused the death of my child. That's why it isn't plausible.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,039 ✭✭✭✭retro:electro


    She wandered out herself, something happened (car accident/paedo)
    "It's two parents covering up the accidental death of their daughter to avoid losing their other two children."



    I'm going for a nap now until sense is restored in this thread.

    Ah don’t leave out the last bit, that was the best part.

    It's perfectly rational and understandable to anyone who has child


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,004 ✭✭✭✭Spanish Eyes


    Babooshka wrote: »
    I can't even follow this thread any more, I'm so horrified at people asking questions about bins. I'm not saying humans aren't capable of such stuff but I have a daughter almost the same age and I'm so sad even thinking anyone could throw a dead child in a bin. I don't know that they didn't do it, but even if they did, speculating about it in this way is just macabre. You'd have to be pretty mental in the head to do that.

    I suppose you consider the parents were totally within their rights to leave their babies alone at night though.

    Anything could have happened.

    Anything

    But bye bye anyway.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,142 ✭✭✭Babooshka


    I suppose you consider the parents were totally within their rights to leave their babies alone at night though.

    Anything could have happened.

    Anything

    But bye bye anyway.

    No I don't. Nice try though, why are so many sad people so snappy on this site? Bitching and fighting and goading and spewing bile. I just think that it's a complete horror what happened and it's unhealthy to speculate online about any dark horrible grisly details as was the case in the last few posts. you don't get to dismiss me either, I said I would unfollow because of how disgusting I think people are being but you don't get to just dismiss my views.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,420 ✭✭✭splinter65


    She wandered out herself, something happened (car accident/paedo)
    "It's two parents covering up the accidental death of their daughter to avoid losing their other two children."

    You go to check on your children and find your nearly 4 year old daughter has fallen out of bed and broken her neck. She’s dead. Your on holidays with a large party. Your twins are fast asleep. Your wife is outside with your friends drinking a glass of wine.....so, go, tell us what happened then, in your mind....
    Because in my mind I’m running with my dead child in my arms screaming “help me help me! Get a ****ing ambulance!! Help me Jesus help me! Kate Maddie’s dead she’s fallen! “
    I think this is most people’s reaction but not you.
    I know of two families who lost small kids in accidents at home, one on a farm and this is what happened. Funnily enough on neither occasion was there a calm rational conversation about the possible consequences re other children being taken into care.
    I’d imagine your surprised to hear that.
    So go ahead and tell us what you think happened next.


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