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29-08-2020, 17:18   #331
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But you are asking the women in these professions to shut a part of themselves down ...so that they don't care.

I mean there is enough of that in the world already ....we all shut ourselves down in our jobs. But well ....its a bigger ask when you want a woman to shut herself down to empathizing with another woman in a marriage.

I mean you are already asking these women to shut down a lot of themselves even without that.

I am not saying you are wrong logically. But people do have guilt and they do care ...because they are human they care about others. Its natural.

But on the other hand ..you kind of do have to be a robot to make money really.

You have to be dead.

It's nearly impossible to be completely ethical. If you buy an electronic gadget with a Motorola chip in it then you are buying from a company that also has their chips in anti-personnel mines. Plenty of your fellow women and their kids have been killed or dismembered by those things. Buy a bottle of Coca Cola and you are subscribing to a company that has ravaged the water supply of countries like India. Buy Nestle cocoa or Maggi soya sauce and you are rewarding companies that operate in lands illegally stolen from Palestinians.....plenty of women, young and old, booted out of their homes there. Buy a Nike soccer ball or a Victoria's Secret bra and it was very likely made by Bangladeshi slave labour.


So coming the heavy with a girl who is paid to dance and there is the possibility that some men watching her are married is a bit much.
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29-08-2020, 17:42   #332
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Personally, I have no real problem with anyone that makes a living from sex work.

It isn't necessarily something that I would want to purchase but I certainly wouldn't run down anyone that does either.
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Feminism is great. But when it reaches the level where so-called feminists try and dictate what other women can and can't do, or should and shouldn't do with their lives.. .. .. then it's not really feminism anymore is it?

#Food4Thought

Of course then you have people who think its their divine right to stick their noses in to other peoples' affairs where it's not wanted.. .. ..

Or is it all much of a muchness?

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This who are we to judge line is a laugh. The ultimate in fence sitting apathy.
Could you offer an explanation as to how this is fence sitting?
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It's something else in this day and age, among the 18-22 age group.

Flicking through tinder and of course plenty of them have instas so I follow them for a gawk.
Follow this 18 year olds page and I see she has an only fans. Nothing but stories up about half price on onlyfans etc.

The other day she had a pic up about doing some recording with another bird and a strap on.

Now this evening I see she has a post up saying half price before her girl on girl strap on video. To be honest I can't see this working out long term for young girls. I mean how many lads would have a relationship with someone in pornos? It's the same thing. Would you really want to go out with a girl who's had her vadge plastered over all the whatsapp in the country?

There was a girl on newstalk the other week trying to defend it. She couldn't come out with good defence, she was "but like..*exhale*.." She was claiming it's art, posting naked pictures online.

I don't think many Irish women are involved in prostitution but the way this onlyfans thing is going, it's just the next step up.

Women talking about getting respect from men and then selling their bodies online to lads who would just use them as cumdumps.
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15-09-2020, 23:27   #336
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It's something else in this day and age, among the 18-22 age group.

Flicking through tinder and of course plenty of them have instas so I follow them for a gawk.
Follow this 18 year olds page and I see she has an only fans. Nothing but stories up about half price on onlyfans etc.

The other day she had a pic up about doing some recording with another bird and a strap on.

Now this evening I see she has a post up saying half price before her girl on girl strap on video. To be honest I can't see this working out long term for young girls. I mean how many lads would have a relationship with someone in pornos? It's the same thing. Would you really want to go out with a girl who's had her vadge plastered over all the whatsapp in the country?
A lot of guys don't care. I mean it. We all have different values and perceptions on morality. My first girlfriend was a stripper. I knew what she did, and at that time in my life, it didn't bother me much. My eyes were wide open about all the associations, but I was getting what I wanted, so it didn't make me jealous or such.

It does now, but then, my values and perception about relationships has also changed.

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There was a girl on newstalk the other week trying to defend it. She couldn't come out with good defence, she was "but like..*exhale*.." She was claiming it's art, posting naked pictures online.

I don't think many Irish women are involved in prostitution but the way this onlyfans thing is going, it's just the next step up.

Women talking about getting respect from men and then selling their bodies online to lads who would just use them as cumdumps.
Maybe, although many women are more "flexible" when it comes to sex and "returns". Whether that be monetary, gifts, free actvities, etc.

In any case, women aren't a block of identical drones... you can't really pick out a few as a realistic representation of the remainder... and you don't really know the agreements that they make with their marks. Sex mightn't even be a thing for them. Stranger things happen all the time.
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There was a time when we walked around nude. The sooner everybody does that, the sooner we can all be happy again.

Worrying about stupid stuff.
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Only fans s is just women taking control of the money they earn with their bodies - no pimps no physical abuse except online which they can block, no violence or even forced opioids in order to go to work . Fair play to them I wouldn't do it as i sometimes feel the customers are really latent abusers.
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These girls do know their nudes get traded for free on 4chan, right?
Of course, it's the internet. Nothing that costs something, can't be found elsewhere for free.
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It's something else in this day and age, among the 18-22 age group.

Flicking through tinder and of course plenty of them have instas so I follow them for a gawk.
Follow this 18 year olds page and I see she has an only fans. Nothing but stories up about half price on onlyfans etc.

The other day she had a pic up about doing some recording with another bird and a strap on.

Now this evening I see she has a post up saying half price before her girl on girl strap on video. To be honest I can't see this working out long term for young girls. I mean how many lads would have a relationship with someone in pornos? It's the same thing. Would you really want to go out with a girl who's had her vadge plastered over all the whatsapp in the country?

There was a girl on newstalk the other week trying to defend it. She couldn't come out with good defence, she was "but like..*exhale*.." She was claiming it's art, posting naked pictures online.

I don't think many Irish women are involved in prostitution but the way this onlyfans thing is going, it's just the next step up.

Women talking about getting respect from men and then selling their bodies online to lads who would just use them as cumdumps.
It wouldn't bother me tbh, well anything up to girl on girl anyway. If she was shagging guys it would be a different story.
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16-09-2020, 15:27   #341
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Once upon a time humankind wanted to explore the cosmos, achieve dreams beyond our immediately base realities, search for answers both on a spiritual and scientific level, reach for the stars. That is what, if anything, makes us special - our fight to transcend our immediate limitations.

The industry you describe is extremely addictive, and stands directly in opposition to the above. It lures people to only care about their base natural desires and about superficial things, resulting in the destroyed relationships, record rates of depression and suicide that is plaguing young people and all people really today.

Sex is natural, but the extreme sexualisation of society that has seeped in every corner of life all around the world, most certainly is not. It is addiction that overtakes and consumes everything. That is why the neoliberal, consumerist societies have become so dominant and why they in turn promote the industry you describe - they derive their power, money, and status quo from the masses being addicted, as opposed to the masses challenging them and working for a better way of life.
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It's something else in this day and age, among the 18-22 age group.

Flicking through tinder and of course plenty of them have instas so I follow them for a gawk.
Follow this 18 year olds page and I see she has an only fans. Nothing but stories up about half price on onlyfans etc.

The other day she had a pic up about doing some recording with another bird and a strap on.

Now this evening I see she has a post up saying half price before her girl on girl strap on video. To be honest I can't see this working out long term for young girls. I mean how many lads would have a relationship with someone in pornos? It's the same thing. Would you really want to go out with a girl who's had her vadge plastered over all the whatsapp in the country?

There was a girl on newstalk the other week trying to defend it. She couldn't come out with good defence, she was "but like..*exhale*.." She was claiming it's art, posting naked pictures online.

I don't think many Irish women are involved in prostitution but the way this onlyfans thing is going, it's just the next step up.

Women talking about getting respect from men and then selling their bodies online to lads who would just use them as cumdumps.

Very true, lad i know whos living the single life has banged a few birds with OF accounts, they asked him over to record content. He never even asked for a cut, now he's online and didn't even get a penny.... People don't think long term
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These girls do know their nudes get traded for free on 4chan, right?
4chan, or the other 4chan?
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Once upon a time humankind wanted to explore the cosmos, achieve dreams beyond our immediately base realities, search for answers both on a spiritual and scientific level, reach for the stars. That is what, if anything, makes us special - our fight to transcend our immediate limitations.

The industry you describe is extremely addictive, and stands directly in opposition to the above. It lures people to only care about their base natural desires and about superficial things, resulting in the destroyed relationships, record rates of depression and suicide that is plaguing young people and all people really today.

Sex is natural, but the extreme sexualisation of society that has seeped in every corner of life all around the world, most certainly is not. It is addiction that overtakes and consumes everything. That is why the neoliberal, consumerist societies have become so dominant and why they in turn promote the industry you describe - they derive their power, money, and status quo from the masses being addicted, as opposed to the masses challenging them and working for a better way of life.
Whats the harm as long as nobody is being forced to do something they aren't comfortable with.
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It's up on the net, for evermore.
Fap material for generations yet to come...your grandkids could be having a fiddle to your antics.
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