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Bubblesxoxx

I have been a dancer in Dublin for a decade started in my early 20s a lot of the girls I work with are sound and believe me it’s definitely nothing you see on tv. However Ireland seems to have this negative attitude towards women in this industry or deems us all sex addicts or easy when the woman who gets bread in her local supermarket could be doing all kinds of dirty things that’s way worse than dancing and it seems to be okay because she’s doing it for free I don’t get the mindset of some of these people we have stage names in work to protect our identity.

Part of this job comes with a lot of stigma there’s been a few girls who had people find out their day jobs and contact their boss to try and get them fired it’s normally women who rat them out and try to ruin their lives over it. There’s nothing I’d love more than to be open about my job and how it’s helped me get through some dark times in my life but I just couldn’t handle all the derogatory labels and insults and lows people will go to try and ruin your life over it. Since covid hit I don’t know how the strip club industry in Dublin is going to survive.

I want to know what your opinions are on strippers and the likes of using onlyfans to make money nothing you say is going to bother me it’s more curios why people have a begrudging attitude towards these things when they do worse things for free with their husbands boyfriend or a random Jack the lad from coppers In Dublin on a night out.

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Hqrry113

Like most men I have no problem at all with women selling their pictures online or doing porn or being a slut or whatever.

I would have a problem with my mother/sister/daughter/girlfriend or anyone I care about doing stuff like that though.

iamstop

Ash.J.Williams wrote: »

Not quite

Care to elaborate?

Ash.J.Williams

iamstop wrote: »

Back in my day it was FHM, Maxim and Loaded. Then came Nuts and ...what was the other one?
Anyway, now it's OnlyFans.
Same sh1t, different format.

Not quite

Softshoulder

Not really onlyfans related but what's with the amount of soft porn on instagram?

Every 2nd bird it seems has a new pic up trying to show off their rack or arse. Often some kind of caption like "WAP" to let everyone know they're thirsty. And there's this new craze of sitting on the floor. What's that all about?

I mean I don't complain too much, they're nice to look at but I can't imagine these having long stable relationships with men. Likely banged, babied and booted.

The same ones will be complaining about lack of respect then when they're advertising themselves as cum dumps.

Harry Palmr

My only (fans) observation is that when relatively famous moderately well known types jump on it (Bella Thorne, Diora Baird) and the company changes it's terms and conditions it damages the platform for honest "bedroom totty" who are simply using it as a way of making some cash for a few weeks or months.

breezy1985

Aph2016 wrote: »

Strap yourself in and enjoy the decline.

You had me at strap

iamstop

"It's against my religion, I'm not going to do that" - That's fine. No problems here.

"It's against my religion, you can't do that" - GET THE BOAT! (That's about about as polite as I care to be)

breezy1985

Holden Shrilling Dirt wrote: »

Let me give you an insight into what some of these Christian minded folk might have against your occupation.

Sex is a beautiful and good thing, however it has a proper time and place (as many things do). This time and place is between a married man and his lawful wife in the privacy of their home etc. Anything else would be to cheapen the act, to destroy it's beauty, to destroy it's sanctity.

An erotic dancer is someone who deliberately arouses men in a way only their wives are supposed to. The scant clothing and suggestive poses is what does this. Moreover, the men who attend such shows (or whatever else) lust after the dancers, seeing them as pieces of meat there only to satisfy their urges. This is no way to look at another human being. Most would not look at their wives or girlfriends in such a way, but here, anything goes.

So I suppose the main points are 1) strippers cheapen the sexual act 2) the instill lust into the hearts of the men who look at them 3) they teach men to view women in a certain way (as pieces of meat) and 4) how could any wife/girlfriend be OK with their husband/boyfriend looking at strippers? How could any mother be OK with her son doing this?

So the jist of what you are saying is gay sex is wrong. Consensual 3 or moresomes are wrong a woman being ok with or even also enjoying strippers of female nudity is wrong.

And how dare the Christians lecture anyone on how to treat women

iamstop

Back in my day it was FHM, Maxim and Loaded. Then came Nuts and ...what was the other one?
Anyway, now it's OnlyFans.
Same sh1t, different format.

Feisar

85603 wrote: »

shame on any simpish man who pays these thots.

please for the love of all that is holy, do not give them any money.

endless free content out there, use it.
your mind will clear, you'll see the error of your thinking.

think about your monday morning when you're suffering and cursing life, dont let that be the price of some onlyfans pair of random tits for 5 minutes, its not worth it, they dont merit it, you're paying way over market rates.

As they say, “beauty is in the eye of the cash holder”. If some lad wants to spend a score a month subscribing to some doll off with him. How much does sky sports cost? There is no harm in paying for yer entertainment.

Feisar

MyStubbleItches wrote: »

JESUS WILL SAVE US ALL

Cartman: “Now put a dollar in the box.” Or should it be, tuck a dollar in close to the box.

The_Brood

AndrewJRenko wrote: »

Do you have any insight as to why the opinions of your imaginary friend would be of any relevance to other people?

I thought "we are all in this together" and have to agree to basic moral understandings to function as a society? So yes there needs to be a strong reason given why sexual perversion that destroys families and creates obsessions and addictions is suddenly ok and wonderful and 'freeing.'

No reason has been given so far, other than 'it feels gud' and 'I won't listen to your imaginary friend' - as if this moral stance hasn't been echoed throughout all kinds of cultures from all corners of the globe wherever civilization has flourished.

[Deleted User]

Holden Shrilling Dirt wrote: »

Let me give you an insight into what some of these Christian minded folk might have against your occupation.

Sex is a beautiful and good thing, however it has a proper time and place (as many things do). This time and place is between a married man and his lawful wife in the privacy of their home etc. Anything else would be to cheapen the act, to destroy it's beauty, to destroy it's sanctity.

An erotic dancer is someone who deliberately arouses men in a way only their wives are supposed to. The scant clothing and suggestive poses is what does this. Moreover, the men who attend such shows (or whatever else) lust after the dancers, seeing them as pieces of meat there only to satisfy their urges. This is no way to look at another human being. Most would not look at their wives or girlfriends in such a way, but here, anything goes.

So I suppose the main points are 1) strippers cheapen the sexual act 2) the instill lust into the hearts of the men who look at them 3) they teach men to view women in a certain way (as pieces of meat) and 4) how could any wife/girlfriend be OK with their husband/boyfriend looking at strippers? How could any mother be OK with her son doing this?

Do you have any insight as to why the opinions of your imaginary friend would be of any relevance to other people?

85603

shame on any simpish man who pays these thots.

please for the love of all that is holy, do not give them any money.

endless free content out there, use it.
your mind will clear, you'll see the error of your thinking.

think about your monday morning when you're suffering and cursing life, dont let that be the price of some onlyfans pair of random tits for 5 minutes, its not worth it, they dont merit it, you're paying way over market rates.

Jaysus Christ.

Down with this sort of thing.

Careful now.

MyStubbleItches

Holden Shrilling Dirt wrote: »

Let me give you an insight into what some of these Christian minded folk might have against your occupation.

Sex is a beautiful and good thing, however it has a proper time and place (as many things do). This time and place is between a married man and his lawful wife in the privacy of their home etc. Anything else would be to cheapen the act, to destroy it's beauty, to destroy it's sanctity.

An erotic dancer is someone who deliberately arouses men in a way only their wives are supposed to. The scant clothing and suggestive poses is what does this. Moreover, the men who attend such shows (or whatever else) lust after the dancers, seeing them as pieces of meat there only to satisfy their urges. This is no way to look at another human being. Most would not look at their wives or girlfriends in such a way, but here, anything goes.

So I suppose the main points are 1) strippers cheapen the sexual act 2) the instill lust into the hearts of the men who look at them 3) they teach men to view women in a certain way (as pieces of meat) and 4) how could any wife/girlfriend be OK with their husband/boyfriend looking at strippers? How could any mother be OK with her son doing this?

JESUS WILL SAVE US ALL

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Bubblesxoxx wrote: »

I have been a dancer in Dublin for a decade started in my early 20s a lot of the girls I work with are sound and believe me it’s definitely nothing you see on tv. However Ireland seems to have this negative attitude towards women in this industry or deems us all sex addicts or easy when the woman who gets bread in her local supermarket could be doing all kinds of dirty things that’s way worse than dancing and it seems to be okay because she’s doing it for free I don’t get the mindset of some of these people we have stage names in work to protect our identity.

Part of this job comes with a lot of stigma there’s been a few girls who had people find out their day jobs and contact their boss to try and get them fired it’s normally women who rat them out and try to ruin their lives over it. There’s nothing I’d love more than to be open about my job and how it’s helped me get through some dark times in my life but I just couldn’t handle all the derogatory labels and insults and lows people will go to try and ruin your life over it. Since covid hit I don’t know how the strip club industry in Dublin is going to survive.

I want to know what your opinions are on strippers and the likes of using onlyfans to make money nothing you say is going to bother me it’s more curios why people have a begrudging attitude towards these things when they do worse things for free with their husbands boyfriend or a random Jack the lad from coppers In Dublin on a night out.

Let me give you an insight into what some of these Christian minded folk might have against your occupation.

Sex is a beautiful and good thing, however it has a proper time and place (as many things do). This time and place is between a married man and his lawful wife in the privacy of their home etc. Anything else would be to cheapen the act, to destroy it's beauty, to destroy it's sanctity.

An erotic dancer is someone who deliberately arouses men in a way only their wives are supposed to. The scant clothing and suggestive poses is what does this. Moreover, the men who attend such shows (or whatever else) lust after the dancers, seeing them as pieces of meat there only to satisfy their urges. This is no way to look at another human being. Most would not look at their wives or girlfriends in such a way, but here, anything goes.

So I suppose the main points are 1) strippers cheapen the sexual act 2) the instill lust into the hearts of the men who look at them 3) they teach men to view women in a certain way (as pieces of meat) and 4) how could any wife/girlfriend be OK with their husband/boyfriend looking at strippers? How could any mother be OK with her son doing this?

Mister Vain

Yeah you gotta be on all the time, constantly instagraming, snapchatting and facebooking.

iamstop

Richard Hillman wrote: »

She promotes it via her Instagram of which I occasionally had a gander on.

Which is...?

Richard Hillman

Pigsaw wrote: »

How did you find her in the first place?

She promotes it via her Instagram of which I occasionally had a gander on.

Pigsaw

Richard Hillman wrote: »

A woman I used to work with went on it recently. I didnt know her well, she worked in a different department to me but I always like what I seen. I signed up for €5 for the first month and am very satisfied with the content

How did you find her in the first place?

Richard Hillman

A woman I used to work with went on it recently. I didnt know her well, she worked in a different department to me but I always like what I seen. I signed up for €5 for the first month and am very satisfied with the content

Randy Archer

jam_mac_jam wrote: »

Wouldn't really bother me if my daughter worked as a stripper. Once it was what she wanted to do.

It's not really any of my business.

Someone get this chap a spine and a pair

You don’t really mean that

Wouldn’t really bother you ? You that sure ?

Royal Irish

Most of the Onlyfans content creators are doing it wrong. You need a following from somewhere else before doing it.

Take the twitch streamer Amouranth. Huge following on twitch and has over 6000 fans paying 11 dollars a month.

Tell me how

Pigsaw wrote: »

How did we get to the point where women see marriage and having a family as oppressive, but hawking your pu$$y online as 'liberating and empowering'?

I'd say a significant factor was decades/centuries of women being led to believe their only function was to provide and care for a family for a man and that they had little to no say in how their body was used created a desire to be in control of both their own life decisions and what to do with their bodies.

This coupled with the realisation that many people (men mostly) will actually pay them to get a glimpse/experience at what they will might never access in real life, with this particular woman anyway at least, led a lot of them to think, finally, let's make them really actually pay for it.

Whatever about the motivations of the women on it, it seems that the motivations for a lot of younger men in signing up for it is not simply for the explicit nature, but actually just a desire for basic female attention. No doubt some people will think it is the fault of 'stuck up b*tches' and the 'me too/I believe her' topics etc putting ideas in to their heads and other people will think that it's a consequence of the topic of 'toxic masculinity' being discussed/explored more in public in recent years leading girls/women to decide they no longer have to play a subservient part in men feeling their needs for attention have been met.

Irrespective of the above, whether it is true or not, Google indicates at the moment that 0.38% o the world have an OF account and 0.005% of the world are making content on it so, I wouldn't go claiming the world is fcuked or anything as a consequence just yet. Well, it might be fcuked, but it'll cost you €15/month to find out.

Wibbs

Pigsaw wrote: »

How did we get to the point where women loony "feminists" see marriage and having a family as oppressive, but hawking your pu$$y online as 'liberating and empowering'?

Begging your pardon, slightly tweaked your post there P

Necro

Mod:

Threads merged

Pigsaw

How did we get to the point where women see marriage and having a family as oppressive, but hawking your pu$$y online as 'liberating and empowering'?

mikhail

Insect Overlord wrote: »

Wasn't there a big thread about this a couple of weeks ago?

It's one of those topics that pops up regularly. E.g.
https://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=112958871
https://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=114078715
https://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=114111251

Insect Overlord

Wasn't there a big thread about this a couple of weeks ago?