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Is everyone a bit bisexual?

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    #32
    St Tropez Betty
    Closed Accounts Posts: 61 ✭✭St Tropez Betty


    Well I'm a bit confused. I'm very very heterosexual but don't mind a bit of lesbian porn. Does that make me a bit bi?
    Sex with a woman would not arouse me in the least though.


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    #33
    eviltwin
    Registered Users Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    It might be true, it might not, does it really matter?


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    #34
    Panthro
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    St Tropez Betty wrote: »
    Well I'm a bit confused. I'm very very heterosexual but don't mind a bit of lesbian porn. Does that make me a bit bi?
    Sex with a woman would not arouse me in the least though.

    I believe the term is "boob curious" ©
    (OK so I made it up. But its out there now so go with it)


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    #35
    [Deleted User]
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    mr_fegelien wrote: »
    I've heard sociologists say there are probably way more LGBT people in society but the social stigma of being gay when it comes to family or gender norms, even in liberal countries like Ireland keeps people from coming out.

    Would you say most people that identify as straight are capable of enjoying sex with the a person of the same sex?

    Is there anything to be said for another mass?


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    #36
    St Tropez Betty
    Closed Accounts Posts: 61 ✭✭St Tropez Betty


    Panthro wrote: »
    I believe the term is "boob curious" ©
    (OK so I made it up. But its out there now so go with it)

    It's not the boobs I am looking at though.


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    #37
    Mehaffey1
    Registered Users Posts: 1,576 ✭✭✭Mehaffey1


    Not word for word but from the madly popular Netflix documentary Tiger King.

    Everyone's a little gay. When you're watching porn do you like watching the girl have the guy with the little one or the guy with the big one?


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    #38
    Panthro
    Registered Users Posts: 14,703 ✭✭✭✭Panthro


    St Tropez Betty wrote: »
    It's not the boobs I am looking at though.

    Ach i see. We'll luckily there's a technical term for that too. It's called "beaver eager" ©
    Again, Totally made up term but go with it.


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    #39
    Pauliedragon
    Registered Users Posts: 2,497 ✭✭✭Pauliedragon


    How can you be a "bit bisexual" It's bisexual or not no?


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    #40
    St Tropez Betty
    Closed Accounts Posts: 61 ✭✭St Tropez Betty


    Pauliedragon wrote: »
    How can you be a "bit bisexual" It's bisexual or not no?


    If Panthro can do it so can I


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    #41
    Pauliedragon
    Registered Users Posts: 2,497 ✭✭✭Pauliedragon


    St Tropez Betty wrote: »

    If Panthro can do it so can I
    Ha Ha.I do know a guy who would put his port in any storm that became available. Male, female, the exhaust pipe of the nearest car would do him if he was pissed/high enough. I have to sleep with one eye open when I visit him and sleep on the couch. :D


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    #42
    St Tropez Betty
    Closed Accounts Posts: 61 ✭✭St Tropez Betty


    Pauliedragon wrote: »
    Ha Ha.I do know a guy who would put his port in any storm that became available. Male, female, the exhaust pipe of the nearest car would do him if he was pissed/high enough. I have to sleep with one eye open when I visit him and sleep on the couch. :D

    So that's a bit so?


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    #43
    Pauliedragon
    Registered Users Posts: 2,497 ✭✭✭Pauliedragon


    St Tropez Betty wrote: »
    So that's a bit so?
    Not for me. Strictly females only but each to their own.


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    #44
    D3V!L
    Registered Users Posts: 2,923 ✭✭✭D3V!L


    I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body.


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    #45
    St Tropez Betty
    Closed Accounts Posts: 61 ✭✭St Tropez Betty


    Pauliedragon wrote: »
    Not for me. Strictly females only but each to their own.

    I meant your friend with every port in a storm.


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    #46
    Pauliedragon
    Registered Users Posts: 2,497 ✭✭✭Pauliedragon


    St Tropez Betty wrote: »
    I meant your friend with every port in a storm.
    Sorry. For sure with him.


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    #47
    Strumms
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    There is no way I could live with me being bisexual. Not a chance, I mean the stigma of it... ughhh.... imagine, walking around with the stigma, of disappointing women AND men, ughhh, no thanks.


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    #48
    Loafing Oaf
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    St Tropez Betty wrote: »
    Well I'm a bit confused. I'm very very heterosexual but don't mind a bit of lesbian porn. Does that make me a bit bi?
    Sex with a woman would not arouse me in the least though.

    Seems to be a thing with the ladies:
    https://news.feinberg.northwestern.edu/2003/06/sexuality/
    Three decades of research on men’s sexual arousal show patterns that clearly track sexual orientation—gay men overwhelmingly become sexually aroused by images of men and heterosexual men by images of women. In other words, men’s sexual arousal patterns seem obvious...

    In contrast to men, both heterosexual and lesbian women tend to become sexually aroused by both male and female erotica, and, thus, have a bisexual arousal pattern.


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    #49
    AllForIt
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    Bobblehats wrote: »
    You only have to look at it in the prison environment to know how male homosexuality in particular is utilised as a most potent intimidatory tool. In certain cultures at least, I can recall in Africa one John Mongrel claiming he meatshanked many men whilst all the while probably exaggerating the sheer numbers of his conquests in order to reinforce his position as ‘top dog’.

    No way. I almost fell like committing a crime.


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    #50
    AllForIt
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    Loafing Oaf wrote: »
    How can anybody think about sex with man, woman or beast at a time like this?

    Apparently during lockdown online porn viewing has gone through the roof.

    What I'm worried about is how anyone would know that.


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    #51
    Better Than Christ
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    AllForIt wrote: »
    Apparently during lockdown online porn viewing has gone through the roof.

    What I'm worried about is how anyone would know that.

    It shows up on the Richter scale.


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    #52
    AllForIt
    Registered Users Posts: 8,296 ✭✭✭AllForIt


    Better Than Christ wrote: »
    It shows up on the Richter scale.

    lol

    Like if everyone on the planet jumped up and down, at the same time?


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    #53
    [Deleted User]
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    Anyone that thinks males are on a spectrum are probably projecting their own sexuality... possibly guilty of this myself when I say I don't think most men are on a spectrum, and are straight.


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    #54
    Purple Mountain
    Registered Users Posts: 13,028 ✭✭✭✭Purple Mountain


    AllForIt wrote: »
    lol

    Like if everyone on the planet jumped up and down, at the same time?

    Actually those vibrations are way down during the lock down.
    Lack of heavy goods vehicles, less construction work etc.

    To thine own self be true



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    #55
    BuboBubo
    Registered Users Posts: 927 ✭✭✭BuboBubo


    I'm pansexual.

    Mmmm Tefal ;)


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    #56
    Airyfairy12
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    Nope, went through a stage in my early 20's where I thought I might be so got with another girl, found the whole experience boring and a bit of a chore tbh.


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    #57
    AllForIt
    Registered Users Posts: 8,296 ✭✭✭AllForIt


    To be serious;

    This question is an idea that is being pushed by especially transgender activists and to a lesser extent gay activists. Lefty one's of course.

    It's the idea that both gender and sexuality are on a spectrum, and not only that, but one can move on that spectrum randomly at any point in time, for example one may find themselves to be competently heterosexual up to the age of 50 and then, without warning, flip.

    That notion is complete and utter bull.

    The idea is designed to suggest that both gay ppl and transgender are not just of their nature, but that everyone else is as well, or possibly could be, and those who fully identify as gay or transgender from the get go, only happen to be the people who happen to be on that end of the 'spectrum'. In other words, you can't say then that gays or transgender are an 'other', they are just ppl who like everyone else sits on a spectrum. This is the rational for transgender folk calling ppl who are not transgender 'cis-gender' because they just happen to lie on one end of a spectrum we all lie on somewhere.

    That again is complete and utter bull.

    To further mock this idea, I have never in my life seen a gay person suddenly filp back, move on the spectrum, to heterosexuality. I have never heard of a transgender person move back on a spectrum to be suddenly a 'cis-gendered' person. If what they were suggesting is true, then you would see that, but you don't.

    So no, everyone is not a 'bit' bisexual, just like i'm not even the slightest bit heterosexual.


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    #58
    KungPao
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    I’m a kind of Homo-sceptic.


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    #59
    Das Reich
    Registered Users Posts: 736 ✭✭✭Das Reich


    So after near 40 years of age I got why some people uses drugs and alcohol. So they can have gay sex.


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    #60
    Salty
    Registered Users Posts: 2,116 ✭✭✭Salty


    Loafing Oaf wrote: »
    How can anybody think about sex with man, woman or beast at a time like this?

    To the contrary, many many people are thinking about it all the time since it is damn near impossible to get a leg over from two metres away.

    This pandemic has been the enemy of one getting one's hole, so to say.


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    #61
    B.A._Baracus
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    Of course there is more "gay" people than what people admit to. Obviously.


    Arent most people bi? ... That's a question a bi person asks.


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