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Claire Byrne show. Her name was Clodagh

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,830 ✭✭✭✭freshpopcorn


    I seriously doubt it was his family. Seems a very long way to travel (over 2 hours) just for a mass that would upset so many people. Maybe the priest, given his initial interference, thinks he can heal the community or something as deluded?
    My sister knows his father through work and said he's a very nice quiet man to deal with.
    It is Alan Hawe who committed these heinous crimes not his family.

    I've also being told his parents are lovely.
    Maybe living in Cavan is different.
    I know down here. Somebody in the family generally approaches the priest to organise the anniversary masses and they aren't done other wise.
    As I don't know the circumstances.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,137 ✭✭✭✭pjohnson


    He should never have been put anywhere near his victims. How he ended up in the plot with them was always bizarre.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,514 ✭✭✭valoren


    iamwhoiam wrote: »
    He pre planned this murder . Step by step down to moving furniture to facilitate a clear passage . It an insult to Clodagh and her sons to somehow try to excuse his violent attack .
    Would you be as sympathetic if he attacked a member of your family ?

    It was disturbingly pre-meditated and planned step by step.
    The moving the furniture was intentional. There were even chilling prerequisites.

    The boys would need to be upstairs and asleep, then Clodagh would need to be sitting in the chair, her back turned to him as he delivered a blow to the head with an axe which she wouldn't see coming and thus couldn't scream or shout alerting neighbours or the boys upstairs. With the boys asleep, he then put his knee on his eldest son's chest so that he, a tall, strong lad, couldn't shout or scream to alert his brothers or try to fight him off.

    This wasn't a psychotic break where he went crazy lashing out. This was all pre-planned over the course of the summer. He had those weeks to think about it, think about how he'd come to that point and as mentioned it was no coincidence it happened right before the new term. The man was a coward, waiting until the last minute before murdering his family. He couldn't let his family live to see what a cretin he was and he couldn't do the decent thing and just do away with himself.

    There is clearly a pressing link between what had happened in that school and Clodagh's family need to be told what that was.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,514 ✭✭✭valoren


    I work in an office building. Last November word went around about how someone was caught having a **** in one of the disabled toilets. The disabled toilet allows for some private time but this guy forgot to lock the door and someone barged in catching him in flagrante delicto

    Now there's nothing wrong with that at all, needs must. It must have been understandably embarrassing for him. I didn't even know his name, this being an office of 400 people, he was on a different team. What was interesting was how rapidly this spread around the office. Clearly the person who caught him told other people, who told other people and this spread around the office i.e. "Did ya hear about the fella on the third floor who got caught having a **** in the jacks?"

    Hawe getting caught in a similar situation taking the microcosm of an office and extrapolating that to the town they lived in. This was a controlling, calculated individual. For example, could he go into a shop to buy milk knowing that the shop keeper knew he was **** at work? Speak at the GAA club knowing that they all knew what happened?

    Considering the rapidity of how the news spread in our office, he, being who he is clearly, had lost control of that. He couldn't contain or control this embarrassing incident and for a man who had literally spent decades ingratiating himself to become a 'pillar' of his community it might explain how a clearly obsessively controlling and personality disordered man carried out such a pre-meditated and horrific act and ultimately tried to take back control before his family found out the truth.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,420 ✭✭✭Lollipops23


    valoren wrote: »
    There is clearly a pressing link between what had happened in that school and Clodagh's family need to be told what that was.

    I don't get how someone in the know hasn't even approached Clodagh's family "off the record" about this. They don't have to be officially told, they're just desperate for answers and closure.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,162 ✭✭✭autumnbelle


    Did any of his children attend the school he was working in?


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    pjohnson wrote: »
    He should never have been put anywhere near his victims. How he ended up in the plot with them was always bizarre.

    It is what happens in this country, except for that brave lady in Cork who didn't let her husband be buried with their two daughters whom he murdered. Otherwise, the little girl drowned by her father was buried with him and the little boy whose Dad drove them both into a wall was buried with him. It is difficult for families to so quickly process what has happened and to be clear viewed about it and usually, in the case of Catholics, there's a priest bleating on about forgiveness and it's only later when the fog clears that people come to their senses. In the Hawe case it was known before the burial that the man had asked to be cremated and his ashes dumped in the sea. That was known to the family. But, again, the priest and the rush to cover it all in forgiveness and GAA jerseys. Nobody should ever be buried with the person who ended their life. End of.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,872 ✭✭✭Sittingpretty


    I watched this program last night as I recorded it from a Monday night.

    Depressed my arse, absolute psychopath more like.

    Clodagh’d family deserve nothing less than absolute full disclosure from every involved party, the school, the gardai, the INTO. ALL of them and it’s profoundly bizzare that they have yet to receive all the information they require.

    If nothing else but to give them some element of closure so that on top of everything else they’ve had to deal with the don’t also have to deal with the “not knowing”.

    It’s absoluely shameful that they, to date, have not been afforded this.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,630 ✭✭✭✭mariaalice


    Balagan1 wrote: »
    It is what happens in this country, except for that brave lady in Cork who didn't let her husband be buried with their two daughters whom he murdered. Otherwise, the little girl drowned by her father was buried with him and the little boy whose Dad drove them both into a wall was buried with him. It is difficult for families to so quickly process what has happened and to be clear viewed about it and usually, in the case of Catholics, there's a priest bleating on about forgiveness and it's only later when the fog clears that people come to their senses. In the Hawe case it was known before the burial that the man had asked to be cremated and his ashes dumped in the sea. That was known to the family. But, again, the priest and the rush to cover it all in forgiveness and GAA jerseys. Nobody should ever be buried with the person who ended their life. End of.

    We are emerging into a different society from the one where things were covered up and speaking ill of the dead was seen as a bad thing it was not always out of malice this happened it was seen as for best to forget about things.

    Its not as simple as someone from the school telling them off the record, the board of management is a legal entity it has to operate under rules, if a teacher did it off the record it might not be the full story it could be gossip. It has to be either legally mandated full disclosure to the family or nothing, off the record could leave someone open to being sued.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,800 ✭✭✭tretorn


    Balagan1 wrote: »
    It is what happens in this country, except for that brave lady in Cork who didn't let her husband be buried with their two daughters whom he murdered. Otherwise, the little girl drowned by her father was buried with him and the little boy whose Dad drove them both into a wall was buried with him. It is difficult for families to so quickly process what has happened and to be clear viewed about it and usually, in the case of Catholics, there's a priest bleating on about forgiveness and it's only later when the fog clears that people come to their senses. In the Hawe case it was known before the burial that the man had asked to be cremated and his ashes dumped in the sea. That was known to the family. But, again, the priest and the rush to cover it all in forgiveness and GAA jerseys. Nobody should ever be buried with the person who ended their life. End of.

    It was only known by those who read the suicide that he wanted to be cremated. If the contents of the letter werent conveyed to the Coll or Hawe families then they wouldnt have chosen to bury him. Was he cremated after the exhumation or buried in his home place.

    Dont forget someone stepped forward at the funeral and put a GAA jersey on Hawes coffin. This was an organisation saying this is one of our own and he gets the jersey even though he gave his family, all of them a terrible death, you wouldnt even hit a rat with a hatchet, I dont know how Clodaghs mother has the strength to go on knowing the way her daughter died.
    She sounded like a great wife and Mum, the pity of Hawe telling her about the porn and presumably she supported him.
    He had her under control from day one, how many other young women would allow a man to go shopping for bridesmaids dresses, that was a huge red flag warning but hindsight is a great thing.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,851 ✭✭✭✭Beechwoodspark


    Can anyone confirm if this Fr Felim Kelly priest is involved in the school management?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,800 ✭✭✭tretorn


    Its more than likely that he is on the Board of Management as the school was Catholic. Thats how he would have become so friendly with Hawe.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,478 ✭✭✭✭road_high


    That Alan Hawe reminds me of Nicolis Ceacescu former dicatator of Romania- has that ugly, creepy look about him.
    I'd say he couldn't believe his look when he grabbed Clodagh, herself and her sister are very good looking girls- he couldn't bare the thoughts of losing control over her.


  • Registered Users Posts: 16,500 ✭✭✭✭DEFTLEFTHAND


    NIMAN wrote: »
    You see the church have this old adage that everyone can be forgiven.
    God will forgive all sinners.

    Not many people will say this publicly about Alan Hawe though.

    It's more that God will Judge him, not man.

    I's say nobody in the Church really thinks that Alan Hawe is anywhere good right now, they're just going through the motions.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,420 ✭✭✭Lollipops23


    road_high wrote: »
    I'd say he couldn't believe his look when he grabbed Clodagh, herself and her sister are very good looking girls- he couldn't bare the thoughts of losing control over her.

    She was 17 and fresh out of school, probably feeling a tad lost in a new city and new college environment. I can imagine that he swept her off her feet, knight in shining armor etc.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 68,317 ✭✭✭✭seamus


    mariaalice wrote: »
    Its not as simple as someone from the school telling them off the record, the board of management is a legal entity it has to operate under rules, if a teacher did it off the record it might not be the full story it could be gossip. It has to be either legally mandated full disclosure to the family or nothing, off the record could leave someone open to being sued.
    Sure, but dead people have no right to privacy.

    There is nothing legally preventing the board of management from providing an official statement about Hawe. They don't need anyone's permission, just need to redact the names of any living persons.

    It suggests to me that if they won't provide such information freely, then they're hiding their own failings, that the issue in question is more serious than has been let on and at least one person was shielding him to some extent. If they won't reveal what was going on, then it's because there are questions that they don't want to have to answer.

    I wonder if the nature of the porn he was caught with is an issue. Or perhaps he was grooming some of the kids.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 408 ✭✭SoundsRight


    Was he having issues with his gender? The reports didn't elaborate on why he dressed in women's clothing.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,800 ✭✭✭tretorn


    The issue couldnt have had to do with children surely.
    In that case whoever caught him had a mandatory duty to alert the Gardai.
    If on the other hand he was watching child porn or grooming children and this wasnt reported then someone is in dereliction of their duty.
    The family and the people living in that town need to know what happened.
    The Department of Education are ulimately responsible for that school so questions should be put in the Dail to the Minister for Education. If there is nothing to hide produce the files.
    The INTO need to orovide whatever information they have too, Clodagh was a teacher too, do the INTO not tepresent her too. Hawe rang them, had he been fired from the school, someone in the INTO knows what happened.


  • Registered Users Posts: 16,500 ✭✭✭✭DEFTLEFTHAND


    Was he having issues with his gender? The reports didn't elaborate on why he dressed in women's clothing.

    Probably just a perversion.

    There's no reports suggesting that he was having gender issues.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,420 ✭✭✭Lollipops23


    Probably just a perversion.

    There's no reports suggesting that he was having gender issues.

    It sounds like he was maybe getting more and more into kink? Perhaps his warped toxic view of sexual and gender norms made him feel forced into a corner?

    You'd need to have a pretty backwards and arrogant view of things to assume your family would never recover from the "scandal" of some fairly common kinky behaviours.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,722 ✭✭✭nice_guy80


    He reminds me of Graham Dwyer

    Controlling
    Cold
    Manipulative
    Bit odd


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,736 ✭✭✭lalababa


    Calltocall wrote: »
    Is there something to there being a high proportion if not all murder suicides that have happened here have taken place in rural Ireland? I mean not to insult anybody, but I have lived both in rural Ireland and in large cities, I feel that the sense of not sticking out or being different is far more a thing in rural communities, everyone knows each other, similar values/lifestyles etc leading to one repressing their real selves to avoid eyes on them, wheras in a big city if you’re different or quirky it’s no big deal and more likely to be accepted.

    Yep. The pressure to conform is strong in rural Ireland. You will be targeted if you step out of conformity.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,111 ✭✭✭SirChenjin


    Balagan1 wrote: »
    It is what happens in this country, except for that brave lady in Cork who didn't let her husband be buried with their two daughters whom he murdered. Otherwise, the little girl drowned by her father was buried with him and the little boy whose Dad drove them both into a wall was buried with him. It is difficult for families to so quickly process what has happened and to be clear viewed about it and usually, in the case of Catholics, there's a priest bleating on about forgiveness and it's only later when the fog clears that people come to their senses. In the Hawe case it was known before the burial that the man had asked to be cremated and his ashes dumped in the sea. That was known to the family. But, again, the priest and the rush to cover it all in forgiveness and GAA jerseys. Nobody should ever be buried with the person who ended their life. End of.

    Absolutely.

    What the family of Clodagh were and are trying to deal with is unimaginable. One cannot begin to imagine the horror that hit them on that awful day.

    And as has been said, having to give such an interview now in order to obtain answers is almost unbelievable.

    I remember seeing the coffins lined up before the altar, on the news, with the parents coffins at either end and the coffins of the boys in the middle and thinking how wrong it looked.

    This vile creature had ended the lives of four innocent human beings in the most horrendous, brutal way, and should not have been next nigh or near them.

    It then brought even further grief and stress to the family to get the exhumation carried out.

    I can't even say how sorry I feel for Clodagh's family, for the loss of those four beautiful and beloved people.

    There honestly are no words.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,830 ✭✭✭✭freshpopcorn


    I don't get how someone in the know hasn't even approached Clodagh's family "off the record" about this. They don't have to be officially told, they're just desperate for answers and closure.

    The incident in the school is an unusual thing. It may haven't even got reported.
    Somebody may have seen something and did nothing about it.
    If another member of staff witnessed something they'd want to report it fairly fast because if it was serious ot would look bad on them.
    If the school did approach them off the record of they knew something. they could land themselves in a lot of trouble.


  • Posts: 13,712 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    tretorn wrote: »
    The Department of Education are ulimately responsible for that school so questions should be put in the Dail to the Minister for Education. If there is nothing to hide produce the files.
    the Dept is responsible for overseeing the curriculum and its implementation. They don't own the school, and they're not in a position to seize private property belonging to it, including any files or I.T. That's a matter for Gardaí, and presumably there's no suggestion of a crime having been committed in the school.

    Can someone tell me if my grasp of the timeline is wrong here, Hawe was caught masturbation in school in March, and was still allowed to remain in work until the Summer holidays in June; by September there had still been no disciplinary action taken against him, even as Deputy Principal?

    This seems odd to me. If I had a kid in that school, I'd be very angry that this was allowed drag on for so long. Why?

    Obviously the people who most require answers are the Coll and Connolly families, but local parents must surely be demanding the same? In the absence of any information, it's hard not to speculate that the school has screwed up here.

    A school isn't a normal workplace, where this kind of behaviour might be overlooked. Any action to be taken against Hawe should have been taken much earlier, regardless of the fact that the School couldn't have anticipated what he later planned for his family.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,830 ✭✭✭✭freshpopcorn


    Did any of his children attend the school he was working in?

    As far as most of know his youngest two did.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,830 ✭✭✭✭freshpopcorn


    tretorn wrote: »
    Its more than likely that he is on the Board of Management as the school was Catholic. Thats how he would have become so friendly with Hawe.

    It says in this article one of the kids sang in the choir and the family regularly attended.

    https://www.google.com/amp/s/evoke.ie/2016/09/02/news/irish-news/clodagh-hawes-sister-explains-pressure-on-father-of-three/amp


  • Registered Users Posts: 653 ✭✭✭Gonad


    Very sad reading the transcript of the full interview.

    He was wearing her underwear so must have been caught looking at some fetish porn and was so embarrassed he felt he needed to do this. Messed up and the brain can do funny things to people . Sounds like he was a bit of a control freak so felt this was the best way out .

    Those poor boys though :(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,800 ✭✭✭tretorn


    the Dept is responsible for overseeing the curriculum and its implementation. They don't own the school, and they're not in a position to seize private property belonging to it, including any files or I.T. That's a matter for Gardaí, and presumably there's no suggestion of a crime having been committed in the school.

    Can someone tell me if my grasp of the timeline is wrong here, Hawe was caught masturbation in school in March, and was still allowed to remain in work until the Summer holidays in June; by September there had still been no disciplinary action taken against him, even as Deputy Principal?

    This seems odd to me. If I had a kid in that school, I'd be very angry that this was allowed drag on for so long. Why?

    Obviously the people who most require answers are the Coll and Connolly families, but local parents must surely be demanding the same? In the absence of any information, it's hard not to speculate that the school has screwed up here.

    A school isn't a normal workplace, where this kind of behaviour might be overlooked. Any action to be taken against Hawe should have been taken much earlier, regardless of the fact that the School couldn't have anticipated what he later planned for his family.

    Hawes salary was paid by the Department of Education and he did whatever he did in a building maintained by the Department of Education.The safety and well being of pupils is the Departments responsibility and if the same staff are in the school then the Department needs to know what happened there.
    Hawe rang his Union for some readon so someone in the INTO knows whether disciplinary action was being taken. The INTO also presumably took union dues from Clodagh too so dont her family deserve to be treated with compassion. What difference does it make now except to Hawes family what is disclosed, the bereaved need to know why their family members died and no ine but them matters now.
    The statement from the INTO was disgraceful, why not just say what Hawe rang them about, the parents in that school need to know.


  • Posts: 13,712 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    tretorn wrote: »
    Hawes salary was paid by the Department of Education and he did whatever he did in a building maintained by the Department of Education.The safety and well being of pupils is the Departments responsibility and if the same staff are in the school then the Department needs to know what happened there.
    Ah listen, I know, it's a ridiculous situation - the Department pays the salaries and provides the grants, but it doesn't own school property, and in Catholic schools, a teachers contract is with the Board of Management.

    It's not as it should be, but the Department can't just wade in seizing private property, or compelling a statement without a legal basis. So unfortunately, a Parliamentary Question isn't a viable option here, I don't think.

    I cannot understand why the INTO and the school haven't willingly aided the bereaved families with any questions they might have. It may indeed take an Inquiry, something akin to the Guerin Inquiry, to get answers for them.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,271 ✭✭✭hawley


    the Dept is responsible for overseeing the curriculum and its implementation. They don't own the school, and they're not in a position to seize private property belonging to it, including any files or I.T. That's a matter for Gardaí, and presumably there's no suggestion of a crime having been committed in the school.

    Can someone tell me if my grasp of the timeline is wrong here, Hawe was caught masturbation in school in March, and was still allowed to remain in work until the Summer holidays in June; by September there had still been no disciplinary action taken against him, even as Deputy Principal?

    This seems odd to me. If I had a kid in that school, I'd be very angry that this was allowed drag on for so long. Why?

    Obviously the people who most require answers are the Coll and Connolly families, but local parents must surely be demanding the same? In the absence of any information, it's hard not to speculate that the school has screwed up here.

    A school isn't a normal workplace, where this kind of behaviour might be overlooked. Any action to be taken against Hawe should have been taken much earlier, regardless of the fact that the School couldn't have anticipated what he later planned for his family.

    I would presume that he was suspended from school. That's probably why he carried out the murders on that night; he had no job to go to in the morning and couldn't deal with the shame.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,722 ✭✭✭nice_guy80


    tretorn wrote: »
    Hawes salary was paid by the Department of Education and he did whatever he did in a building maintained by the Department of Education.The safety and well being of pupils is the Departments responsibility and if the same staff are in the school then the Department needs to know what happened there.
    Hawe rang his Union for some readon so someone in the INTO knows whether disciplinary action was being taken. The INTO also presumably took union dues from Clodagh too so dont her family deserve to be treated with compassion. What difference does it make now except to Hawes family what is disclosed, the bereaved need to know why their family members died and no ine but them matters now.
    The statement from the INTO was disgraceful, why not just say what Hawe rang them about, the parents in that school need to know.

    Ultimately, it's the school and patron who are responsible for his employment


  • Posts: 13,712 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    hawley wrote: »
    I would presume that he was suspended from school. That's probably why he carried out the murders on that night; he had no job to go to in the morning and couldn't deal with the shame.
    If he had been suspended, the silence from the School would be even more perplexing, as the matter would have been dealt with, and it would generally absolve them of any negligent behaviour.

    But that's speculation, there's nothing to indicate that Hawe was suspended.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,468 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Probably just a perversion.

    There's no reports suggesting that he was having gender issues.

    It sounds like he was maybe getting more and more into kink? Perhaps his warped toxic view of sexual and gender norms made him feel forced into a corner?

    You'd need to have a pretty backwards and arrogant view of things to assume your family would never recover from the "scandal" of some fairly common kinky behaviours.
    Backwards and arrogant indeed, though it is worth noting that small town rural Ireland can be a backwards place, and teaching in Church-owned schools can be a very conservative environment.


  • Registered Users Posts: 16,500 ✭✭✭✭DEFTLEFTHAND


    Backwards and arrogant indeed, though it is worth noting that small town rural Ireland can be a backwards place, and teaching in Church-owned schools can be a very conservative environment.

    Still though if he was pleasuring himself on school property then Church or not he was going to have to dealt with.

    That's not acceptable behaviour.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,851 ✭✭✭✭Beechwoodspark


    tretorn wrote: »
    Its more than likely that he is on the Board of Management as the school was Catholic. Thats how he would have become so friendly with Hawe.

    Would the priest be involved in the investigation into the circumstances of It all in terms of the schools invovlement.

    The school issue is central to it all.

    That bastard animal murdered the victims the night before he was due to return to his employment in the school


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭Mrsmum


    I suppose the school could be protecting the privacy of a child maybe ??

    On the other hand if he was caught just masturbating, while inappropriate, not involving another, then I would have thought it's in the best interests of the school and staff there to reveal what happened because otherwise people will fill the vacuum with speculation and some of that speculation will make the school look bad.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,800 ✭✭✭tretorn


    https://www.independent.ie/irish-news/courts/landmark-victory-after-30-years-for-abuse-victim-louise-okeeffe-29957162.html

    This woman was abused by a schoolteacher and the Department tried to say it was the school Board and Patrons who were responsible, the Department lost the case.

    I personally would pursue the Department of Education if it was my family. It is so rare for teachers to face disciplinary action I would imagine Department of Education officials are kept informed. If not they should be as per the O keeffe case linked they are ultimately responsible for teachers behaviour in school.

    He was a teacher though so being caught masturbating would have serious consequences for him, not just in school but he was also Mr GAA too so he would have had to step back from whatever roles in played in that organisation too. He would have had to be Garda vetted any any questions hanging over that would make it impossible for him to continue working. I would withdraw my child from a school if I thought one of their teachers, male or female was masturbating to porn while supposed to be teaching, thats just so gross.


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 7,152 Mod ✭✭✭✭Hannibal_Smith


    Mrsmum wrote: »
    I suppose the school could be protecting the privacy of a child maybe ??

    On the other hand if he was caught just masturbating, while inappropriate, not involving another, then I would have thought it's in the best interests of the school and staff there to reveal what happened because otherwise people will fill the vacuum with speculation and some of that speculation will make the school look bad.

    Did he do it at the school?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,516 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    Did he do it at the school?


    He was caught masterbating in the school


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,800 ✭✭✭tretorn


    It hasnt been confirmed but the Coll family say he never took the school laptop home and seemingly he accessed the porn on this laptop. They think he was caught at school but the school authorities wont tell them. The Gardai wont give them the files either and the INTO released a statement saying any dealings with a union member are confidential.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,076 ✭✭✭JMNolan


    tretorn wrote: »
    They think he was caught at school but the school authorities wont tell them. The Gardai wont give them the files either and the INTO released a statement saying any dealings with a union member are confidential.

    Christ, if that doesn't smell of a cover up or blind bureaucracy then I don't know what does.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭Mrsmum


    Where is the story that he was caught masturbating at school coming from ? Is it just what the Colls think happened by reading between the lines sort of thing or does it have stronger credibility than that ??


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,800 ✭✭✭tretorn


    The counsellors files are confidential too but its not clear did he go to the counsellor after he was caught masturbating or before. Sorry, thats if the masturbating story is true, the school could confirm or deny this but they arent saying anything. Something happened at the school though, he had eight weeks off to do what he planned but he waited until the evening before he was due back to school to act.

    He may have just told the counsellor he was addicted to porn, counsellors probably see a lot of this but most people addicted like this wouldnt chance watching porn and masturbating to it at work.

    Seemingly though he was the only male teacher in the school and he had a Jacks all to himself, this makes me think he was masturbating himself in front of the children. If he was doing it in the toilet he could have just locked the door and no one would be any the wiser. He hardly did it in the staffroom in front of the other teachers.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,830 ✭✭✭✭freshpopcorn


    tretorn wrote: »
    The counsellors files are confidential too but its not clear did he go to the counsellor after he was caught masturbating or before. Soory, that sif the masturbating story is true, the school could confirm or deny this but they arent saying anything.

    He may have just told the counsellor he was addicted to porn, counsellors probably see a lot of this but most people addicted like this wouldnt chance watching porn and masturbating to it at work.

    Seemingly though he was the only male teacher in the school and he had a Jacks all to himself, this makes me think he was masturbating himself in front of the children. If he was doing it in the toilet he could have just locked the door and no one would be any the wiser. He hardly did it in the staffroom in front of the other teachers.

    How do you know he had a toilet to himself?

    Would it be possible that something happened after hours and no children were involved?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,800 ✭✭✭tretorn


    It was reported that he was the only male teacher in the school and he had a toilet for his own use.

    I doubt if children were involved. Any adult witnessing him doing anything illegal involving children would have a mandatory duty to report him. No one is going to risk their own job shielding someone like him.

    If he hadnt done something on the school premises I think the school would issue a statement to that effect, the silence is deafening.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,830 ✭✭✭✭freshpopcorn


    tretorn wrote: »
    It was reported that he was the only male teacher in the school and he had a toilet for his own use.

    I doubt if children were involved. Any adult witnessing him doing anything illegal involving children would have a mandatory duty to report him. No one is going to risk their own job shielding someone like him.

    Thanks!
    That's my thinking to I couldn't see any staff member risking there job if something serious happend with a kid. They'd report is right away.


  • Posts: 13,712 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Mrsmum wrote: »
    Where is the story that he was caught masturbating at school coming from ? Is it just what the Colls think happened by reading between the lines sort of thing or does it have stronger credibility than that ??
    Well Clodagh Hawe's mother and sister mentioned it happening in March, as far as I remember; I assume, therefore, there has been some meagre drip of information passed to them


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,819 ✭✭✭howamidifferent


    Well Clodagh Hawe's mother and sister mentioned it happening in March, I assume therefore there has been some meagre drip of information passed to them

    I see what you did there. :-)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,800 ✭✭✭tretorn


    I think they said he told clodagh he was watching porn in March and had sought counselling to help him deal with it.

    I doubt if he was caught watching porn and masturbating in school that nothing would have been done at that point. If the parents found that out there would have been hell to play. He seriously couldnt have carried on teaching until the end of June in those circumstances.


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