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  • #102
    Flippyfloppy
    Registered Users Posts: 3,748 ✭✭✭Flippyfloppy


    chris525 wrote: »

    Our kids are literally ANIMALS. Like crazy, non stop, wild animals. They can't just relax and do nothing for a while and if you turn your eyes away for a minute they break something or do something they are not supposed to.

    No wonder your husband is so tired then op it must be exhausting for him.


  • #103
    chris525
    Closed Accounts Posts: 214 ✭✭chris525


    qwerty13 wrote: »
    But you haven’t said why you used apparently low amount of money available to go on hols yourself, when it could have been used for family days out, or a weekend away. Yet again, you refuse to address questions that you don’t like. Not that you’re under any obligation to answer me - but you urgently need to open your mind to the fact that you are far from blameless in the strife in your relationships with others.

    If I was at home all week with children, and money was tight, I’d be livid if my partner went on hols on their own.

    Money isn't THAT tight. I just can't drop 2-5k for all of us to go on an international trip.

    We do go out and do things but it's usually local and we can't spend quality time together because of the kids. When we go out we have to focus on the kids. It's what we do 24/7 with no break because my husband refuses to ever get a babysitter. Even if the kids were not with us i don't know if we'd have a good time.


  • #104
    chris525
    Closed Accounts Posts: 214 ✭✭chris525


    zapper55 wrote: »
    OP children especially young children dont have impulse control or the same awareness of danger. What you've described sounds like every child I know. Do you spend one on one time with them? You sound like you dont even really like them called them crazy animals.

    This post is stupid. If you would read my other posts I already said I take the kids when I get home and in the weekend.


  • #105
    chris525
    Closed Accounts Posts: 214 ✭✭chris525


    Moderator. Please close the thread. There is no constructive advice.


  • #106
    qwerty13
    Registered Users Posts: 1,272 ✭✭✭qwerty13


    There’s actually a lot of constructive advice - you just don’t like it.

    You need to stop obsessing about the past, and blaming others for your unhappiness. And stop applying ridiculous standards for others behaviour, but not your own. You need to take control of your present and future, and to do that, you need to realise that you are far from as blameless as you like to think.


  • #107
    Ursus Horribilis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,168 ✭✭✭Ursus Horribilis


    chris525 wrote: »
    Moderator. Please close the thread. There is no constructive advice.


    I hope the closure of this thread means you'll get off the internet and start getting proper help in real life. More the point, that you'll bother to listen to it. While you might not like or agree with the reactions of some people on this thread, you could do worse than to reflect on why you're getting people's backs up. Take that closer to home and ask yourself why is your marriage miserable? Why are your children stressing you out? What needs to be done about improving your home life. Those are answers you won't find on boards.


  • #108
    wiggle16
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 3,022 Mod ✭✭✭✭wiggle16


    Thread locked at OP's request.


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