French author, 50, says he's incapable of loving a woman of 50

11-01-2019 6:29pm

Lotus Flower wrote: »

Oh I fully agree, no arguments there. But the point the poster was making was that men were programmed towards youth and will, in the majority of cases, go after younger models when he has the resources to do so

when Bowie was getting old and his libido waning Iman was still good - no need for an upgrade.

Chris_Heilong · 11-01-2019 6:52pm

How the hell is this thread still going? simple fact is men in their 50s can still mostly perform where as women are past it sexually(menopause) by then so it would be unfair to expect a single man in his 50s to be settling for a sexless relationship. Older man younger woman has been the norm for millennia.

Obvious Desperate Breakfasts · 11-01-2019 6:55pm

Chris_Heilong wrote: »

How the hell is this thread still going? simple fact is men in their 50s can still mostly perform where as women are past it sexually(menopause) by then so it would be unfair to expect a single man in his 50s to be settling for a sexless relationship. Older man younger woman has been the norm for millennia.

Wha’?

greencap · 11-01-2019 7:09pm

Chris_Heilong wrote: »

How the hell is this thread still going? simple fact is men in their 50s can still mostly perform where as women are past it sexually(menopause) by then so it would be unfair to expect a single man in his 50s to be settling for a sexless relationship. Older man younger woman has been the norm for millennia.

filthy over fifty.

a new search term for you to enjoy.

... and also regret.

Lotus Flower · 11-01-2019 7:09pm

Chris_Heilong wrote: »

How the hell is this thread still going? simple fact is men in their 50s can still mostly perform where as women are past it sexually(menopause) by then so it would be unfair to expect a single man in his 50s to be settling for a sexless relationship. Older man younger woman has been the norm for millennia.

You do realise that the menopause means women stop having periods? They're still able to have sex

ceadaoin. · 11-01-2019 7:26pm

Lotus Flower wrote: »

You do realise that the menopause means women stop having periods? They're still able to have sex

No, no pretty sure menopause means the vagina
dies and seals itself shut :rolleyes:

11-01-2019 10:06pm

Eww tho

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QI1hF9BLcIA

Lotus Flower · 11-01-2019 10:12pm

glasso wrote: »

Eww tho

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QI1hF9BLcIA

Eww indeed. I guess it's lucky for men that there's no literally no bodily changes at all for them as they age

11-01-2019 10:24pm

Lotus Flower wrote: »

Eww indeed. I guess it's lucky for men that there's no literally no bodily changes at all for them as they age

correct. time waits for no one. I think that men get a better deal there tho - besides being likely to die younger!

anewme · 11-01-2019 10:41pm

I commented on another thread about the standards of posters here (After Hours) and anti women sentiment.

Someone defending it, said it was a couple of trolls.

This thread is full, not just a couple, but has a fair contingent pushing anti women sentiment.

In the other thread, it was very sad to see how low people push the boundaries. It annoyed me as it's picking on someone unable to defend themselves.

In this thread, it's just hilarious. I mean just read some of these comments, even just a few above and keep a straight face. There can't possibly be that many trolls, so these people have to be serious. You'd really have to wonder how they actually survive in the real world which is dirty, gritty and tough.

greencap · 11-01-2019 10:48pm

yeah but fairly low requirement on here for being called a troll, or woman hater, or what not.

maybe thats why they seem to be so numerous.

anewme · 11-01-2019 11:09pm

greencap wrote: »

yeah but fairly low requirement on here for being called a troll, or woman hater, or what not.

maybe thats why they seem to be so numerous.

I've no idea on trolls, I take them all as being serious, maybe just a low standard of person.

As regards women hating, it's fairly obvious.? Anyone who writes things they would not say to people's faces maybe?

Lotus Flower · 11-01-2019 11:14pm

anewme wrote: »

I've no idea on trolls, I take them all as being serious, maybe just a low standard of person.

As regards women hating, it's fairly obvious.? Anyone who writes things they would not say to people's faces maybe?

Usually someone who uses terms like "Post wall women" also

Mrsmum · 11-01-2019 11:25pm

anewme wrote: »

I commented on another thread about the standards of posters here (After Hours) and anti women sentiment.

Someone defending it, said it was a couple of trolls.

This thread is full, not just a couple, but has a fair contingent pushing anti women sentiment.

In the other thread, it was very sad to see how low people push the boundaries. It annoyed me as it's picking on someone unable to defend themselves.

In this thread, it's just hilarious. I mean just read some of these comments, even just a few above and keep a straight face. There can't possibly be that many trolls, so these people have to be serious. You'd really have to wonder how they actually survive in the real world which is dirty, gritty and tough.

Yes. Some here seem to think they're in a competition against women. Probably confused and frustrated that the world is changing and they're not sure of their position in it anymore as more and more women are striding forward.

anewme · 11-01-2019 11:32pm

Lotus Flower wrote: »

Usually someone who uses terms like "Post wall women" also

Focus on living your life, doing your best and being the very best you can be. In work, at home, in life.

When you see your family members and loved ones slip away in front of your very eyes, how aggressive illlnesses can turn Cinderella into The Hunchback of Notredam almost overnight, it shows how delicate and precious life is and how Irrelevant people who give any credence to his type of rubbish actually are.

greencap · 11-01-2019 11:46pm

Lotus Flower wrote: »

Usually someone who uses terms like "Post wall women" also

An unforgivable crime surely.

put him in the woman hater prison.

obby1 · 11-01-2019 11:54pm

If a woman made this statement she would be praised as "a brave empowered woman'.
get off you high horse critiquing this man , he has stated a preference that all men agree with, who prefers 3 day old stale bread when you could have bread straight from the bakery?

anewme · 11-01-2019 11:57pm

greencap wrote: »

An unforgivable crime surely.

put him in the woman hater prison.

What is the possible upside of people using this type of language in everyday life?

Everyone is just getting on, plodding on, doing the best they can.

I interact and coach people experiencing depression. They are people from all walks of life, colour, creed, age. It's not discriminatory. Everyone has a value is equal.

Now you see your post wall women derogatory bull****.

I kindly suggest you take it and shove it where the sun doesn't shine - and then some.

Lotus Flower · 12-01-2019 12:07am

obby1 wrote: »

who prefers 3 day old stale bread when you could have bread straight from the bakery?

Stale bread makes excellent bread and butter pudding, among other things

greencap · 12-01-2019 12:08am

anewme wrote: »

What is the possible upside of people using this type of language in everyday life?

Everyone is just getting on, plodding on, doing the best they can.

I interact and coach people experiencing depression. They are people from all walks of life, colour, creed, age. It's not discriminatory.

Now see your post wall women derogatory bull****.

I suggest you take it and shove it where the sun doesn't shine - and then some.

yeah, grand.

Sonic Youth · 12-01-2019 12:12am

obby1 wrote: »

If a woman made this statement she would be praised as "a brave empowered woman'.
get off you high horse critiquing this man , he has stated a preference that all men agree with, who prefers 3 day old stale bread when you could have bread straight from the bakery?

Like any man is going to pick a 50yo over a 23yo.

Sure that may sound harsh but what woman is going to take a 5' man over 6'+ man? None.

anewme · 12-01-2019 12:14am

greencap wrote: »

yeah, grand.

Was not waiting for or requiring your affirmation either way.

Kindness, compassion and decency are the standards to aspire to.

Mrsmum · 12-01-2019 12:20am

obby1 wrote: »

If a woman made this statement she would be praised as "a brave empowered woman'.
get off you high horse critiquing this man , he has stated a preference that all men agree with, who prefers 3 day old stale bread when you could have bread straight from the bakery?

LOL

If being older is stale bread in comparison to the fresh bread , then he is admitting to being stale bread himself.

I know, I know, in his simple mind, he is still a young dude.

Mrsmum · 12-01-2019 12:22am

Lotus Flower wrote: »

Stale bread makes excellent bread and butter pudding, among other things

Stale bread doesn't give you indigestion either:D

Lotus Flower · 12-01-2019 12:26am

Mrsmum wrote: »

Stale bread doesn't give you indigestion either:D

Stale bread makes the best stuffing

anewme · 12-01-2019 12:28am

Some people here need a real kick in the hole to see just how harsh life can be before they start judging others.

There is no perfect life.

obby1 · 12-01-2019 12:29am

its slowly starting to dawn on women that feminism as sold to them has been a lie.
get married, stay at home and raise children, well thats bad, you are trapped, a prisoner.
go to work for 40 hours a week in a office, in a job you hate, making money for your boss, thats real freedom ladies
now these women who went full feminist are in mid 30's , single and childless, their looks are fading and they are competing with 20-30 year old younger prettier girls for the attention of men, its a loosing game, of course they can become easy, a sure thing and get male attention, but not the ring on the finger they crave.
Next they claim they have left the party scene behind, fact is it was not your choice, you just dont get invited anymore.
in their 40's now, alone and bitter, you know feminist BS has screwed your life but to proud to admit you where wrong, at least older men pass on advice to younger men, but older women perpetrate the lie, they want to have more women join their miserable ranks

Lotus Flower · 12-01-2019 12:30am

^^ you're about 40 pages too late but thanks for the input!

pq0n1ct4ve8zf5 · 12-01-2019 12:30am

Lotus Flower wrote: »

Stale bread makes the best stuffing

Gives a proper blowjob too!

Mrsmum · 12-01-2019 12:31am

Lotus Flower wrote: »

Stale bread makes the best stuffing

And as I'm sure you know, stale bread can easily be revived with a little bit of love and attention and warmth from the oven ! What can appear to be past it's prime can be quite delicious.

Lotus Flower · 12-01-2019 12:32am

Tommy Kind Parakeet wrote: »

Gives a proper blowjob too!

French toast is better with stale bread. If the bread is too fresh, the french toast ends up soggy

Lotus Flower · 12-01-2019 12:34am

Mrsmum wrote: »

And as I'm sure you know, stale bread can easily be revived with a little bit of love and attention and warmth from the oven ! What can appear to be past it's prime can be quite delicious.

Exactly, put some water on it and warm up it in the oven

It's so versatile when you think about it

LETHAL LADY · 12-01-2019 12:37am

The ancient Egyptians used moldy bread to treat wounds. Bread is great &#55357;&#56841;

anewme · 12-01-2019 12:37am

obby1 wrote: »

its slowly starting to dawn on women that feminism as sold to them has been a lie.
get married, stay at home and raise children, well thats bad, you are trapped, a prisoner.
go to work for 40 hours a week in a office, in a job you hate, making money for your boss, thats real freedom ladies
now these women who went full feminist are in mid 30's , single and childless, their looks are fading and they are competing with 20-30 year old younger prettier girls for the attention of men, its a loosing game, of course they can become easy, a sure thing and get male attention, but not the ring on the finger they crave.
Next they claim they have left the party scene behind, fact is it was not your choice, you just dont get invited anymore.
in their 40's now, alone and bitter, you know feminist BS has screwed your life but to proud to admit you where wrong, at least older men pass on advice to younger men, but older women perpetrate the lie, they want to have more women join their miserable ranks

This is a perfect example of the standard of poster contributing to this thread.

Lotus Flower · 12-01-2019 12:41am

anewme wrote: »

This is a perfect example of the standard of poster contributing to this thread.

A newly registered poster who's posting the same kind of guff that DS was posting before he/ she scuttled off.... anyone else smell a rat?

12-01-2019 12:43am

In fairness some guys have displayed bitterness in this discussion - one even said outright that that was the case with him.

On the other hand several female posters have displayed high levels of delusion and denial.

ceadaoin. · 12-01-2019 12:44am

obby1 wrote: »

its slowly starting to dawn on women that feminism as sold to them has been a lie.
get married, stay at home and raise children, well thats bad, you are trapped, a prisoner.
go to work for 40 hours a week in a office, in a job you hate, making money for your boss, thats real freedom ladies
now these women who went full feminist are in mid 30's , single and childless, their looks are fading and they are competing with 20-30 year old younger prettier girls for the attention of men, its a loosing game, of course they can become easy, a sure thing and get male attention, but not the ring on the finger they crave.
Next they claim they have left the party scene behind, fact is it was not your choice, you just dont get invited anymore.
in their 40's now, alone and bitter, you know feminist BS has screwed your life but to proud to admit you where wrong, at least older men pass on advice to younger men, but older women perpetrate the lie, they want to have more women join their miserable ranks

Where are all these 20-30 year old women fighting for the attention of the average 50 year old man? They don't exist, you are delusional.

Also, most people have to work in today's society to be able to live, including married couples with kids. It has feck all to do with feminism.

Mrsmum · 12-01-2019 12:44am

LETHAL LADY wrote: »

The ancient Egyptians used moldy bread to treat wounds. Bread is great ��

Healing properties as well. Magical stuff altogether. Only a fool would throw it out.

dark crystal · 12-01-2019 12:52am

obby1 wrote: »

its slowly starting to dawn on women that feminism as sold to them has been a lie.
get married, stay at home and raise children, well thats bad, you are trapped, a prisoner.
go to work for 40 hours a week in a office, in a job you hate, making money for your boss, thats real freedom ladies
now these women who went full feminist are in mid 30's , single and childless, their looks are fading and they are competing with 20-30 year old younger prettier girls for the attention of men, its a loosing game, of course they can become easy, a sure thing and get male attention, but not the ring on the finger they crave.
Next they claim they have left the party scene behind, fact is it was not your choice, you just dont get invited anymore.
in their 40's now, alone and bitter, you know feminist BS has screwed your life but to proud to admit you where wrong, at least older men pass on advice to younger men, but older women perpetrate the lie, they want to have more women join their miserable ranks

Your insight on women is startling. I bet you're a big hit with all the pretty 20 year old girls

'Tis a shame the irony is so sadly lost on you that attitudes such as yours, no doubt fostered over many years spent ferociously masturbating to some sad sack website dedicated to the downfall of the female species, are actually fuelling the so called new wave feminism so many men on here seem deathly terrified of.

Live and let live I say; when you mature a little and finally move out of your folks' place, I'm sure the girls will flock to you - with any luck, you might even bag one of the loose, easy ones in their mid thirties!

paleoperson · 12-01-2019 1:08am

Lotus Flower wrote: »

^^ you're about 40 pages too late but thanks for the input!

Never too late for a troll to skip over everything said previously in a thread and say the most offensive thing possible.

Tell me how · 12-01-2019 1:10am

paleoperson wrote: »

Never too late for a troll to skip over everything said previously in a thread and say the most offensive thing possible.

That poster has been in and out of the thread several times.

Arrives, posts, is banned. Rinse and Repeat.

Surely holds the record for having registered the most number of boards accounts at this stage. I'd love to know if they have a process for picking names.

LETHAL LADY · 12-01-2019 1:23am

It would appear, well from reading some posts, that only women age. The streets of Eire is packed with Redfords and Clooneys for the stale bread to ogle.
What about the very low hanging fruits, the inability (without the auld blue pills of course) to get and maintain an erection, the expanding waistline, and the hairline disappearing? Just some of the cruel gentleman's aging processes they can to look forward to.
Yer man is entitled to have his preference and will probably succeed and more luck to him if he does.

anewme · 12-01-2019 1:24am

That poster is a very poor quality poster to be fair.

obby1 · 12-01-2019 1:24am

Lotus Flower wrote: »

A newly registered poster who's posting the same kind of guff that DS was posting before he/ she scuttled off.... anyone else smell a rat?

is it a closed shop around her?
are new posters not welcome?
is it just a echo chamber, no different opinions allowed/

mzungu · 12-01-2019 1:25am

Tell me how wrote: »

That poster has been in and out of the thread several times.

Arrives, posts, is banned. Rinse and Repeat.

Surely holds the record for having registered the most number of boards accounts at this stage. I'd love to know if they have a process for picking names.

IIRC I think the figure for re-regs enters the four figures (and near enough to five) so there is a bit to go to break that.

Lotus Flower · 12-01-2019 1:28am

LETHAL LADY wrote: »

It would appear, well from reading some posts, that only women age. The streets of Eire is packed with Redfords and Clooneys for the stale bread to ogle.
What about the very low hanging fruits, the inability (without the auld blue pills of course) to get and maintain an erection, the expanding waistline, and the hairline disappearing? Just some of the cruel gentleman's aging processes they can to look forward to.
Yer man is entitled to have his preference and will probably succeed and more luck to him if he does.

But no, it's some of the female posters on this thread who are showing high levels of delusion and denial, apparently

obby1 · 12-01-2019 1:29am

dark crystal wrote: »

Your insight on women is startling. I bet you're a big hit with all the pretty 20 year old girls

'Tis a shame the irony is so sadly lost on you that attitudes such as yours, no doubt fostered over many years spent ferociously masturbating to some sad sack website dedicated to the downfall of the female species, are actually fuelling the so called new wave feminism so many men on here seem deathly terrified of.

Live and let live I say; when you mature a little and finally move out of your folks' place, I'm sure the girls will flock to you - with any luck, you might even bag one of the loose, easy ones in their mid thirties!

denial is a terrible thing.
open you eyes and mind, what i posted is true
if it is false it should be easy to shoot down, but it is the truth so one one can.
bitter single childless women in their 40's are everywhere, we all know this to be true, you probably know plenty, getting blotto on wine and then melancholy wash over them as they realise they chose the wrong path.
Feminism has screwed these women big time

obby1 · 12-01-2019 1:30am

Lotus Flower wrote: »

But no, it's some of the female posters on this thread who are showing high levels of delusion and denial, apparently

drop the "apparently" from your statement and you are correct.

Lotus Flower · 12-01-2019 1:32am

obby1 wrote: »

is it a closed shop around her?
are new posters not welcome?
is it just a echo chamber, no different opinions allowed/

Does it really count as a different opinion when you're re-registering to post pretty much exactly the same thing as before?

obby1 · 12-01-2019 1:33am

the denial is palatable , it is seeping through the screen.
a fare statement, a woman would prefer a 6" man over a 5" man, no one would deny this.
so why is it so hard for the female posters to accept a man would prefer a younger woman?

French author, 50, says he's incapable of loving a woman of 50

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