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NI Woman Gets Suspended Sentence for Using Abortion Pills

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  • #32
    bridgettedon
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 391 ✭✭bridgettedon


    I thought abortion was legal in Northern Ireland. I thought abortion pills were allowed within a certain time frame or did I imagine reading that.


  • #33
    eviltwin
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    bridgettedon wrote: »
    I thought abortion was legal in Northern Ireland. I thought abortion pills were allowed within a certain time frame or did I imagine reading that.

    Up to nine weeks but it's not free.


  • #34
    thee glitz
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,294 ✭✭✭thee glitz


    LexieOnRale wrote: »
    As opposed to bringing her directly to the hospital?

    If it was a medical emergency, I'd hope they would.


  • #35
    c_meth
    Closed Accounts Posts: 114 ✭✭c_meth


    It was an illegal act by definition of the law. You can't pick or choose which laws you agree with.

    You can try to change the law.


  • #36
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 26,052 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    eviltwin wrote: »
    Why would you report it to the police? I'd bring her to a well woman clinic or Stopes. Heaping more trauma onto her would be the last thing I'd do.

    Not long ago there was a thread here about a young girl dying after giving birth alone in a churchyard somewhere in Ireland. I know this isn't the same but it could have ended up with a dead girl. If I ignored the evidence of a home abortion or miscarriage and some young girl had bled to death, I'd never be able to live with myself.

    I'd rather report it to the police than have a victim of a backstreet abortion (for all I knew) dead.

    ETA: I said I'd alert the cops if I found a foetus in a bin. Her flatmates obviously knew she was ok, which is a totally different scenario.


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  • #37
    SEPT 23 1989
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,039 ✭✭✭✭SEPT 23 1989


    Leaving it in the bin probably didn't help her case


  • #38
    [Deleted User]
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    Candie wrote: »
    Not long ago there was a thread here about a young girl dying after giving birth alone in a churchyard somewhere in Ireland. I know this isn't the same but it could have ended up with a dead girl. If I ignored the evidence of a home abortion or miscarriage and some young girl had bled to death, I'd never be able to live with myself.

    I'd rather report it to the police than have a victim of a backstreet abortion (for all I knew) dead.

    ETA: I said I'd alert the cops if I found a foetus in a bin. Her flatmates obviously knew she was ok, which is a totally different scenario.

    If you knew your housemate was pregnant, the only pregnant woman in the house, would you call the police or would you make sure she was OK?

    You edited while I was typing! If the housemates knew she was OK ( & we don't actually know this ) then they clearly judged her, decided they would call the police to get her punished.

    How many women do this in NI or this country & no one knows about it?


  • #39
    Neyite
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,948 ✭✭✭✭Neyite


    LexieOnRale wrote: »
    Whats the cops going to do for a woman who's just lost her baby? Bring her into the EPU in the local garda station, and scan her to make sure? Organise a D and C in one of the interview rooms??

    One of the South American countries (possibly Columbia?) prosecute and jail women who miscarry, they are so anti-abortion. All women who lose a pregnancy are suspect.

    And when they estimate that 1 in 4 pregnancies end in miscarriage in the first trimester, thats a lot of women.

    Add in to the mix, that doctors really don't know what causes miscarriage. Often tissue testing comes back with no cause of miscarriage. So how can you prove you lost a pregnancy naturally?

    Did I mention that contraception is also hard to come by in that country?

    Barbaric. As is this case. I can imagine that it must have been a shock to the person who discovered the foetus but this conviction is not right. It's not how we should treat a traumatised woman.


  • #40
    eviltwin
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    Candie wrote: »
    Not long ago there was a thread here about a young girl dying after giving birth alone in a churchyard somewhere in Ireland. I know this isn't the same but it could have ended up with a dead girl. If I ignored the evidence of a home abortion or miscarriage and some young girl had bled to death, I'd never be able to live with myself.

    I'd rather report it to the police than have a victim of a backstreet abortion (for all I knew) dead.

    ETA: I said I'd alert the cops if I found a foetus in a bin. Her flatmates obviously knew she was ok, which is a totally different scenario.

    They would have known it was her foetus. If they were genuinely concerned the place to bring her to is a medical professional. The police are the last people I would call. The deed had been done so there was no point in calling them other than to get her in a heap of trouble and I think she had suffered enough at that point.


  • #41
    LDN_Irish
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,188 ✭✭✭LDN_Irish


    http://m.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/news/northern-ireland/northern-ireland-woman-who-bought-drugs-on-internet-to-induce-miscarriage-given-suspended-prison-sentence-34597487.html

    Says in this article that they rang police a week after finding it and did it partly due to the woman's "blasé attitude." If that's true then their behaviour is abhorrent.


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  • #42
    [Deleted User]
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    bubblypop wrote: »
    If you knew your housemate was pregnant, the only pregnant woman in the house, would you call the police or would you make sure she was OK?

    Yes, that's not what my first post was responding to. It was ONLY in the case of finding a foetus in a bin. In that case I would be concerned that someone needed urgent medical attention. For all I knew a 12 year old may have miscarried/aborted.

    In this case, IF I was a flatmate, I would make sure she was alright and encourage her to visit a doc to make sure of it.

    I'm not a monster who wants to ruin a girls life, but if I found evidence of a medical situation gone wrong - as a foetus in bin would appear to be - then I'd be extremely concerned for the health and safety of the woman.


  • #43
    [Deleted User]
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    eviltwin wrote: »
    They would have known it was her foetus. If they were genuinely concerned the place to bring her to is a medical professional. The police are the last people I would call. The deed had been done so there was no point in calling them other than to get her in a heap of trouble and I think she had suffered enough at that point.

    AGAIN, the post was referring to a foetus found in a bin. As I made clear in my post.

    Not her flatmates alerting the cops, not me doing the same in a hypothetical situation. I don't know how anyone could interpret that as me wanting to heap trauma on anyone FFS. It's very annoying to have to answer for something you never said.

    IF I found a foetus in a bin, and didn't know the mother, I would alert the authorities in case there was a medical emergency.

    Most decent people would, I hope.


  • #44
    Precious flower
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,812 ✭✭✭Precious flower


    c_meth wrote: »
    It was an illegal act by definition of the law. You can't pick or choose which laws you agree with.

    You can try to change the law.
    Yet we did there were archaic laws up until recently that we choose to ignore because we knew they were backward and seemed silly to us.


  • #45
    eviltwin
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    c_meth wrote: »
    It was an illegal act by definition of the law. You can't pick or choose which laws you agree with.

    You can try to change the law.

    Context is everything. This law, the version we have anyway, was meant to prosecute those people who would carry out back street abortions and profit from them. It's not really aimed at making criminals out of desperate women. There should be some degree of discretion in cases like this. This woman is not a danger to society, she's been through enough. It should never have even gotten to court.


  • #46
    pq0n1ct4ve8zf5
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    LDN_Irish wrote: »
    http://m.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/news/northern-ireland/northern-ireland-woman-who-bought-drugs-on-internet-to-induce-miscarriage-given-suspended-prison-sentence-34597487.html

    Says in this article that they rang police a week after finding it and did it partly due to the woman's "blasé attitude." If that's true then their behaviour is abhorrent.

    Pretty typical attitude around here, and presumably in the North as well. "if you feel really really badly about this abortion and wouldn't ever have one under normal circumstances, then maybe you're a good enough girl to be allowed one, if you're all slutty and blasé then fcuk you, have a kid or a conviction"


  • #47
    qo2cj1dsne8y4k
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    Hope her nasty housemates don't find the shoe on the other foot in years to come.


  • #48
    mansize
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14,521 ✭✭✭✭mansize


    Precious flower wrote: »
    Yet we did there were archaic laws up until recently that we choose to ignore because we knew they were backward and seemed silly to us.

    So archaic we brought in a law with similar punishment last year! And people smirk at Trump!


  • #49
    thee glitz
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    LexieOnRale wrote: »
    Hope her nasty housemates don't find the shoe on the other foot in years to come.

    Do you really hope they don't. Or that they do. Or that maybe they wouldn't do the same thing in a similar position?


  • #50
    steddyeddy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,565 ✭✭✭✭steddyeddy


    Well it was NI and there's a good chance that her housemates were religious nuts.

    First of all I think the fact that they called the police on this girl in a country where abortion is illegal makes them c&nts. I don't think they thought they were acting in her best interest. They also mention the girl's blase attitude to the abortion. She was trying to save the money to go to England, she couldn't and she bought pills online for a late termination. The girl was likely in shock or traumatised.

    She was desperate and as a reward he "friends" rang the police on her which led to her prosecution.

    I always am fascinated by people who say you can't pick and choose the laws you obey. I lived in East Africa and some other countries where homosexuality was illegal. In our country homosexuality was illegal. Not too long ago segregation was legal. As a law it was meant to discriminate and oppress. Just like this law did to a young desperate girl in trouble. So you'll excuse me when I say I'll do my utmost to pick and choose what is moral and what is not.


  • #51
    steddyeddy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,565 ✭✭✭✭steddyeddy


    thee glitz wrote: »
    Do you really hope they don't. Or that they do. Or that maybe they wouldn't do the same thing in a similar position?

    I'll be honest I hope the sub human animals find themselves doing a lot worse.


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  • #52
    steddyeddy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,565 ✭✭✭✭steddyeddy


    Is there anyway to send a message of support to this girl? I know it would be bad form and her identity isn't known but I think there should be a very strong message sent out to this girl that what she did isn't wrong.


  • #53
    thee glitz
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    steddyeddy wrote: »
    I'll be honest I hope the sub human animals find themselves doing a lot worse.

    I'm not sure what they could do that would be much worse. Or why you'd want them too. Is it that they did something morally wrong?


  • #54
    steddyeddy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,565 ✭✭✭✭steddyeddy


    thee glitz wrote: »
    I'm not sure what they could do that would be much worse. Or why you'd want them too. Is it that they did something morally wrong?

    I don't waste my time explaining the basics of morality.


  • #55
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    LDN_Irish wrote: »
    http://m.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/news/northern-ireland/northern-ireland-woman-who-bought-drugs-on-internet-to-induce-miscarriage-given-suspended-prison-sentence-34597487.html

    Says in this article that they rang police a week after finding it and did it partly due to the woman's "blasé attitude." If that's true then their behaviour is abhorrent.

    Now that I know this and that they waited a week, then it does change my opinion about them. Absolutely abhorrent, they knew exactly what would happen. The poor woman - the laws here and in the North really need to be reexamined.


  • #56
    jam_mac_jam
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,733 ✭✭✭jam_mac_jam


    This is just disgusting. The poor woman having to go through that. I really don't get the housemates either, it would have been fine if she was upset but not because she was blase. I am amazed at this.


  • #57
    eviltwin
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    Deleted User wrote: »
    Now that I know this and that they waited a week, then it does change my opinion about them. Absolutely abhorrent, they knew exactly what would happen. The poor woman - the laws here and in the North really need to be reexamined.

    Basically because she wasn't going around in mourning and regret they decided to grass her up. Absolute c*nt move to do that.


  • #58
    Charles Babbage
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,377 ✭✭✭Charles Babbage


    Commit the crime, do the time.
    And well done for the citizens who reported the crime, as is every citizen's duty, comments about "grassing" reflects a toleration for crime and a disregard for society.


  • #59
    Nomis21
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,409 ✭✭✭Nomis21


    This girl had an emotional and health issue and was turned into a criminal.

    That is not right.

    But if I opened my bin and saw a dead foetus in there, I can't say I would be too happy about seeing that either. She could have been a bit more careful about disposing of it.


  • #60
    jam_mac_jam
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,733 ✭✭✭jam_mac_jam


    Charles Babbage wrote: »
    Commit the crime, do the time.
    And well done for the citizens who reported the crime, as is every citizen's duty, comments about "grassing" reflects a toleration for crime and a disregard for society.

    You can't respect all law without question especially when so ridiculous in one part of the UK and not in another, and her housemates are clearly heartless scumbags, citizens duty or not.


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  • #61
    thee glitz
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    steddyeddy wrote: »
    I don't waste my time explaining the basics of morality.

    I'm very comfortable with my morals, and abhorring abortion is beginner stuff.


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