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Body Shaming

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 573 ✭✭✭Snakeweasel


    Deep Six wrote: »
    Unless you are paying for the health service single handedly, why should it even concern you what weight other people are or are not? Why should they care what you think?

    Can't a similar argument be made for recycling and the environment? It's about protecting the next generation. I know that if I have kids I wouldn't want them growing up thinking that it's ok to be fat.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,127 ✭✭✭kjl


    I'm not condoning what they are doing in any way, I could only imagine how upset someone would be receiving this card but at the same time the card does make some good points.

    I actually don't blame people for getting overweight when a salad in Eddy Rockets has about 1800 calories and these ready to eat processed foods have about 40% of you daily calorie intake. Walk into any shop and you will see about 80% junk food to about 20% normal food. There are hidden sugars in everything and all these fat free product just balance the taste by adding in copious amounts of sugar.

    There needs to be policy put in place that would allow cheaper access to healthy food. I have proposed a sugar and saturated tax on this forum before and was basically told to go and sh1te, but it doesn't change the fact that we live in an economy that promotes unhealthy living.

    Added to the fact that the average person works 40+ hours a week and doesn't have time to exercise.

    I have some general advice for any overweight people reading this. If you want to change you life style I would recomend 30-50 min walking a day and cutting down on sugar. You won't know yourself in 2 months.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,553 ✭✭✭Tarzana2


    ^^^^^^

    Yup, nobody seems to like any measures outside of personal responsibility, for some reason. The problem isn't resolving but many people never offer solutions for how things can be improved. Increased education on cooking and nutrition would be a good start. But people don't like the suggestion that the food industry is very adapt about making hyper-palatable foods. There is also the fact that humans love their sweet, carby and fatty foods and in times of plenty, this is an issue.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,192 ✭✭✭✭Strumms


    If the scrotes are so concerned about a healthy planet why don't they put some of effort and time into doing it in a responsible manner. I'm sure their energy and vigour could be better spent volunteering at a charity say that promotes healthy living and healthy eating or even set up their own. Going by what I read about these little ****wits they jump onto the carriage and throw one of these cards into someone's lap and then bail like the bullying little cowardly prîcks that they are. Mostly women it seems too. If they are that concerned again, stop and have a debate with a 6ft3' 400 pound dude about his weight issues and see how long it takes for the ambulance to arrive. Hope they get caught.


  • Posts: 7,344 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    kjl wrote: »
    There needs to be policy put in place that would allow cheaper access to healthy food. I have proposed a sugar and saturated tax on this forum before and was basically told to go and sh1te, but it doesn't change the fact that we live in an economy that promotes unhealthy living.

    I have not read much on it - but I think that is essentially what Jamie Oliver is putting his face on the campaign for right now? He is essentially looking for some restructuring of the tax system to shift the price differentials between healthier foods and obesity fuelling convenience foods?

    I would be all for it - if it works. Certainly restructuring costs to make better foods more appealing to the consumer is at least a more useful avenue of approach than self hating bafoons looking for a social high targeting lone obese people on the street with hit and run leaflet actions.

    However - Devils Avocado time - mostly to highlight my own ignorance on the economics of these things - - -

    While increasing the costs of crap food in this way might have an impact - I have to admit I have seen few studies and figures to warrant putting too much confidence in it. How much impact has - for example - the steadily rising costs on cigarettes and alcohol really actually had on their consumption in Ireland? Any? Does this show the increases do nothing? Or slow increases rather than a sudden hard hitting massive one do nothing? Or what?

    As for making the healthier food cheaper - is that also easier said than done? Do we already not have farmers moaning - or being heavily subsidised - because the money they see off their produce is steadily reducing? What is the actual capacity there to genuinely push costs on such foods down any more? Where in the supply chain could this be done other than - as I said above - restructuring the tax so taxes on such foods are lower - while higher on the "bad" foods.

    I would also extend on something you have said -
    kjl wrote: »
    Added to the fact that the average person works 40+ hours a week and doesn't have time to exercise.

    - as what many also do not have time for is cooking decent foods and meals. The success of convenience meals are not just do to low price - and high sugar and salt content making them palatable. There is also the time factor.

    I for example eat very healthily indeed. Never have processed foods. Farm my own eggs and vegetables and stuff like that. And even make my own bread and pasta where possible. Food wise there are not going to be TOO many people in the country doing better than we are for health in my house. But it takes time and effort.

    Now I am an extreme sure - but even then many people do not have the time - or the will sometimes - after a long week to be investing effort in cooking and eating well. And I am not sure how best to combat that either at a government level - do you?

    The only reason I can invest the time I do in it is that I have put my career on freeze and do not accept promotions or advancement to more stressful or time consuming roles. I accept a lower pay and career success than I know I am capable of attaining - very much because I want to keep that work - life balance at a level where I feel healthy and life healthy.

    And on top of all that - while it is easy to say "If you are fat just cut down the sugar" to people. But in a stressful and resource demanding world this is easy to say and harder to do. Because such people - while in the long term want to be healthier - have the day to day addiction to their "comfort food" to contend with. Usually late in the evening when will power - motivation - and feelings of self worth are at a low.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,553 ✭✭✭Tarzana2


    I have not read much on it - but I think that is essentially what Jamie Oliver is putting his face on the campaign for right now? He is essentially looking for some restructuring of the tax system to shift the price differentials between healthier foods and obesity fuelling convenience foods?

    I know on boards.ie at least, that people really object to this. "Why should I have to pay more for my occasional treats just because others can't control themselves?"-type thing. I have to say, I don't feel like that myself. If one is just treating themselves infrequently, its hardly going to hit their pocket too hard. It's when you are buying junk in larger amounts that you'd really notice it.


  • Posts: 7,344 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Who exactly is behind/dreamt up these cards

    Oh I am sure there are a few sources of that. There are a few people in the "blogosphere" who have made a name for espousing this sort of thing. And they get quite a following.

    Roosh V would be the best known name I think. He has advocated strongly for this kind of fat shaming. He was interviewed on the subject here. As others in the thread have noticed however he - like many - only seem to want to focus on obesity in women. It is always about women.

    Actually most things appear to be about women for him. He is also a well known advocate of the "PUA" stuff. He has also - more recently - started campaigning to have rape not be a crime on private property. In that he feels that the moment a woman accepts an invitation onto private property with you - such as your apartment - then she has automatically consented to anything and everything you might do to her.

    So it might be worth - for those advocating the kind of behaviour this thread is about - to consider the sources of it - and the type of people who are advocating it publicly. It might not really be the kind of movement you want to be associated with outside of the reddit-sphere.


  • Posts: 26,219 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    There's a certain kind of man, usually one who espouses the PUA crap, for whom a woman not being sexually attractive to him is a crime for which there is no punishment cruel enough. Ironically, they're usually also abject failures in the relationship department, in my observation.

    If you don't fancy a girl, you're not obliged to tell her so. If fat disgusts you, the option is always available to look at something else.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,544 ✭✭✭Samaris


    I'm a little astounded that there's any posts in here at all that agree or think that it's not a bloody disgraceful and cowardly thing to do.

    "Tomorrow I may be thinner - but you'll still be an arsehole"


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,295 ✭✭✭FortySeven


    Samaris wrote: »
    I'm a little astounded that there's any posts in here at all that agree or think that it's not a bloody disgraceful and cowardly thing to do.

    "Tomorrow I may be thinner - but you'll still be an arsehole"

    Tomorrow still a long way off for most, it's a growing problem.


    As for all those saying these people should start groups or help in some way. One card on a train started this debate. That's highlighting the issue with minimal effort and expense.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,127 ✭✭✭kjl


    Samaris wrote: »
    I'm a little astounded that there's any posts in here at all that agree or think that it's not a bloody disgraceful and cowardly thing to do.

    "Tomorrow I may be thinner - but you'll still be an arsehole"

    No I completely think that, sadly there are people in this world who in order to feel better about themselves feel the need to put other people down.

    If I caught someone doing this I would come down on them like a ton of bricks. I may be against unhealthy living but this is just cruel and kicking people when they are down. It's not like overweight people don't know they are overweight and need some dickhead telling them via a slimey card.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,667 ✭✭✭Frynge


    6 pages in and no one has mentioned the use of the word "fūcktrumpet" in the article. Definitely word of the day.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,237 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    Frynge wrote: »
    6 pages in and no one has mentioned the use of the word "fūcktrumpet" in the article. Definitely word of the day.

    There's a word that doesn't get anything like enough usage these days, including such wonderful derivatives as "fucktrumpetry", "fucktrumpetous" and "fucktrumpetude".


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 145 ✭✭BlibBlab


    Deep Six wrote: »
    I just can't understand this mentality at all. "It should not be encouraged" - who asked to to encourage anything? Who asked you to intervene in someone's life and criticise their weight or life choices because they don't match your ideals? Who gave you any right to pass judgement on those people?

    I too want to live in a world where we can't judge people about anything and look forward to being told what my opinion should be


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,553 ✭✭✭Tarzana2


    FortySeven wrote: »
    That's highlighting the issue with minimal effort, expense and insight.

    FYP.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,553 ✭✭✭Tarzana2


    jimgoose wrote: »
    "fucktrumpetude".

    I approve of this word.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,237 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    Tarzana2 wrote: »
    I approve of this word.

    Magnificent, isn't it? It reminds me of Dickens' "Josiah Bounderby" character from Hard Times. :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,349 ✭✭✭✭Foxtrol


    Just caught up on this thread and wow from evidence of this thread overweight people (or their significant others) are quick to violence (or claim they are are when they’re online).


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,553 ✭✭✭Tarzana2


    jimgoose wrote: »
    Magnificent, isn't it? It reminds me of Dickens' "Josiah Bounderby" character from Hard Times. :pac:

    It's the new omnishambles.
    Foxtrol wrote: »
    Just caught up on this thread and wow from evidence of this thread overweight people (or their significant others) are quick to violence (or claim they are are when they’re online).

    A handful of posters on-thread have said they'd resort to violence. Size of said posters: unknown.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,237 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    Tarzana2 wrote: »
    It's the new omnishambles.

    Gorgeous. :cool:


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,553 ✭✭✭Tarzana2


    jimgoose wrote: »
    Gorgeous. :cool:

    Tanx luv but I'm actually looking a bit rough today. :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,237 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    Tarzana2 wrote: »
    Tanx luv but I'm actually looking a bit rough today. :pac:

    I refer of course to your abstruse yet elegant loquacity, and not to your physical carcass which for all I know could resemble a hideous, malformed and dyspeptic internal organ. :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,349 ✭✭✭✭Foxtrol


    Tarzana2 wrote: »
    A handful of posters on-thread have said they'd resort to violence. Size of said posters: unknown.

    I maybe lucky in the threads I’ve read but I’ve never seen so many threats of violence over such a small page count. There isn’t even any sort of proof that these cards were handed out.


  • Posts: 53,068 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Foxtrol wrote: »
    I maybe lucky in the threads I’ve read but I’ve never seen so many threats of violence over such a small page count. There isn’t even any sort of proof that these cards were handed out.

    SHUT YOUR FACE OR I'LL BATTER YA


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 37,871 ✭✭✭✭Penn


    Handing fat-shaming cards to women will not cure micropenis, stupid men told
    Handing out fat-shaming cards to women on the Tube will not help address your issues with micropenis, experts have announced this morning.

    With news reports appearing of men on the Tube handing fat-shaming cards to women they believe to be larger than their narrowly defined ideal weight, doctors have said such actions are a common symptom of micropenis.

    Psychologist Simon Williams told us, “We’ve read online that some men seem to think giving these cards to women they think are fat will in some way increase the size of their tiny shrivelled genitals.

    “But it doesn’t, I assure you. The penis will remain incredibly small, no matter how many cards you give out.

    “We would encourage these men to simply learn to love the way God made them, even if it looks like someone dropped an acorn dropped on a barber’s floor.

    Williams went on to explain the theory behind the desire to hand out these cards.

    He explained, “It’s basic psychology – lashing out at someone else’s physical appearance is the most obvious form of anger displacement, and you don’t have to be Freud to realise they’re just trying to cope with their own micropenis.”

    “They give these abusive cards to women who they think are too big, because they’re angry doctors have classified their genitals as too small. It’s like a first-year psychology student essay.”

    “They’re not even making it difficult to understand their true motives. They deserve our pity, not anger.”

    Sounds about right, tbh


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,468 ✭✭✭✭OldNotWIse


    Handing cards to fat people telling them they are fat is mean, and also pointless because they probably already know they are fat, plus how is making them feel bad about themselves going to help?

    Of course most people would agree that curves are sexier but there is nothing more annoying than this "sexy curves"/ "real woman" thing used to describe someone who genuinely is just morbidly obese. See it all the time on social media.


  • Posts: 26,219 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Penn wrote: »
    Sounds about right, tbh

    They're only concerned about their health, ffs!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,553 ✭✭✭Tarzana2


    jimgoose wrote: »
    and not to your physical carcass which for all I know could resemble a hideous, malformed and dyspeptic internal organ. :D

    It does! :pac:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,553 ✭✭✭Tarzana2


    Foxtrol wrote: »
    I maybe lucky in the threads I’ve read but I’ve never seen so many threats of violence over such a small page count. There isn’t even any sort of proof that these cards were handed out.

    Aye, but I see no indication that any of those posters are overweight.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,128 ✭✭✭✭aaronjumper


    Seems like arseholes taking the opportunity to be arseholes.
    SHUT YOUR FACE OR I'LL BATTER YA
    Quiet down or I'll sit on you! There is no coming back from that.


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