If you found out your partner was a sex worker

Mister Vain · 07-11-2015 03:22PM #1

Or if they had slept with sex workers in the past, how would you feel? Would you dump them? I'm not talking about cheating while you're together but if they had done it before you met. If its something you did yourself would you tell your partner?

07-11-2015 03:23PM

I'd be afraid to see the bill.

pmasterson95 · 07-11-2015 03:25PM

Thanks for the free rides!

kimokanto · 07-11-2015 03:26PM

Who's Bill? Must be dominatrix or something?

Harry Palmr · 07-11-2015 03:26PM

Prostitute you mean?

RichT · 07-11-2015 03:26PM

It would have to be the end.............. with a 'Happy Ending'

Lights On · 07-11-2015 03:27PM

Does it make any difference if you found out they have slept with 20 odd people for free?

Son Of A Vidic · 07-11-2015 03:28PM

Mister Vain wrote: »

If you found out your partner was a sex worker

I'd ask for a discount from what she normally charges me.

corner of hells · 07-11-2015 03:30PM

Mister Vain wrote: »

Or if they had slept with sex workers in the past, how would you feel? Would you dump them? I'm not talking about cheating while you're together but if they had done it before you met. If its something you did yourself would you tell your partner?

Is there something you want to tell us ?

Did you catch her or did she tell you ?

sonny.knowles · 07-11-2015 03:31PM

Harry Palmr wrote: »

Prostitute you mean?

More PC BS.

We won't be able to call the children of unmarried couples bastards next. :rolleyes:

LordSutch · 07-11-2015 03:32PM

I'd be checking 'down there' with a torch, to see what 'if any' damage had been done.

TerrorFirmer · 07-11-2015 03:33PM

OP, what's your obsession with sex workers? You're always on about it. Is there a particular reason? Are you a sex worker, or someone who's used a lot of sex workers?

kimokanto · 07-11-2015 03:34PM

LordSutch wrote:

I'd be checking 'down there' with a torch, to see what damage had been done.

& a dentist mirror ;-)

newacc2015 · 07-11-2015 03:34PM

Honestly I dont care what a potential partners occupation is as long as they are happy with it and enjoy. I would care if its was relatively low skilled, low paid job if they enjoyed. There is nothing worse than someone who is a **** job, hates it and has no desire to leave it

If you ignore the BS that female charities talk about. A lot of sex workers enjoy their work. They are their own boss. If they only deal with a select few clients the work is relatively stress free and safe. Despite what you read. Sex workers actually have low levels of STIs if they arent constantly safe and arent substance users ie Australian male sex workers have lower levels of STIs than the general Australian male population.

Turtyturd · 07-11-2015 03:35PM

TerrorFirmer wrote: »

Are you a sex worker, or someone who's used a lot of sex workers?

A service user?

MadDog76 · 07-11-2015 03:49PM

Mister Vain wrote: »

Or if they had slept with sex workers in the past, how would you feel?

Not happy.

Mister Vain wrote: »

Would you dump them?

Yes.

Mister Vain wrote: »

If its something you did yourself would you tell your partner?

No.

MadDog76 · 07-11-2015 03:54PM

If you're wife/girlfriend tells you how many men she slept with before she met you, double it.

If you're husband/boyfriend tells you how many women he slept with before he met you, quarter it.

Mister Vain · 07-11-2015 03:58PM

MadDog76 wrote: »

If you're wife/girlfriend tells you how many men she slept with before she met you, double it.

If you're husband/boyfriend tells you how many women he slept with before he met you, quarter it.

So if the man says 7 then is that 1 and half women he has slept with?

emigrate2012 · 07-11-2015 03:58PM

"ffs! Ye worked at what?!? And you won't even let me TRY anal!!! GTFO!"

OwaynOTT · 07-11-2015 04:00PM

My reaction would be something akin to burning my clothes and cry in the shower, ya know Ace Ventura style.

Neverforgotten · 07-11-2015 04:01PM

MadDog76 wrote: »

If you're wife/girlfriend tells you how many men she slept with before she met you, double it.

If you're husband/boyfriend tells you how many women he slept with before he met you, quarter it.

Seriously. ..I'm a girl and I have only slept with 2 guys in my life. Why would you double it?

So by your theory, I should tell my next date that I have only slept with one guy....

07-11-2015 04:01PM

corner of hells wrote: »

Did you catch her or did she tell you ?

He wants to know how much of a risk it is to tell her about the escorts.

I think it's something she'd want to know, but you may not like how she might react.

Pink Fairy · 07-11-2015 04:02PM

Mister Vain wrote: »

So if the man says 7 then is that 1 and half women he has slept with?

One woman, one ladyboy?

wakka12 · 07-11-2015 04:05PM

I don't think Id care, I couldn't go out with a current sex worker though

Junkyard Tom · 07-11-2015 04:32PM

It suddenly dawned on Steve why everyone referred to his missus as 'Pussy Galore' despite her name being Anne Davies.

Hammer89 · 07-11-2015 04:44PM

There is a perception that people who pay for sexual services are the lowest of the low. Are they? Not in my view. I'm bias because I have paid for said services, and you know what, I don't give much of a sh*t. I'm not a bad person because of it. We have this idea that sex workers are being pimped out against their will by men who wear fish-tank pumps and walk around with canes. I'm sure millions of women are in these positions, but I wouldn't pay one of these because it's wrong. There are, however, independent sex workers, who do it because they want to; not because they need to, and that's fair game in my opinion. It's like buying a packet of Rancheros. It's like any other business transaction.

MadDog76 · 07-11-2015 04:52PM

Mister Vain wrote: »

So if the man says 7 then is that 1 and half women he has slept with?

One woman, one midget.

MadDog76 · 07-11-2015 04:52PM

Neverforgotten wrote: »

Seriously. ..I'm a girl and I have only slept with 2 guys in my life. Why would you double it?

So by your theory, I should tell my next date that I have only slept with one guy....

Yep ........ in your case you should say 2 because you've obviously slept with 4 men ......... at least!

It wasn't me! · 07-11-2015 05:40PM

MadDog76 wrote: »

Not happy.

Yes.

No.

MadDog76 wrote: »

If you're wife/girlfriend tells you how many men she slept with before she met you, double it.

If you're husband/boyfriend tells you how many women he slept with before he met you, quarter it.

So it would be important enough and significant enough to you that you would break up with someone over it, but it wouldn't merit the honesty to tell your partner about it if the roles were reversed? Seems a little hypocritical. Also, your assumptions about men and women and their relative tendency to inflate or deflate the number of people they've slept with seems a bit self-conscious. After all, what's the point in either gender lying about the number? Are people so insecure about telling or hearing the truth? Who does it help?

Savage Tyrant · 07-11-2015 05:46PM

If I found out my wife is/was a sex worker???
I'd say some people have more money than sense.

GTE · 07-11-2015 05:56PM

Charge tuition fees. Career progression and all that.

If you found out your partner was a sex worker

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