Wanker watch: Warning signs that someone is a tosser

Anyone who is mean to me in anyway and doesn't adore me .....there i said it.

Ciderswigger wrote: »

People that post a rake of comments rather than putting it all into one giant comment.

Maybe I should but the whole giant story into one giant comment. But what's the bloody point like?

Ok here goes.

A couple of years ago. I friended an Fb page it came up as suggested peeps. It had a funny pic the guy lived in OZ. I thought meh what's the harm. Funny pic etc. Different fb time.Guy was (or I think) a poker player named Eoghan O' Dea. Honestly never expected him to contact me or pay any attention. Really genuinely ..wish I never had now. That very night he fb messages me privately saying he has lost his phone and can I text it to tell someone to return it. I say no at first. But he insists he is being genuine. SO I do. I did think after that '**** I have given a stranger my no now.' But nothing happened and I forgot.

I never used the no. Nor did I give to anyone etc. I never called. Nor Did I talk on fb. He rarely posted. I should have unfriended the profile then.

Then out of the blue one night he tells me to call him. I refuse so he calls me is drunk and I it comes across as a prank or something. He whispers 'I love you'...... in a creepy voice I get embarrassed and pretend not to here. He is sloshed. Tells me to call him sometime. Needless to say I don't.

Again I am polite the next day I allow him the dignity of pretending it never happened. I am a good sport about it and I don't bring it u when he messages me having realized he called. He chats and seems vaguely sane.

He asks me to call him again. I 'm stupid so I do. I can't remember that. I do remember he asked me out both calls. I asked him out after . He said no. I accept that graciously.

Now this is where it gets weird. This other guy called mark burke friends me. Seems a bit weird but harmless. I talk to anyone. I am learning i don't have to and shouldn't have to talk to just anyone. But it becomes obviously this person is ill. He messages like crazy and tries to friend all my friends. I unfriend everyone on FB I don't know for a while including other weirdo Eoghan O'dea. (mods can edit this if they want to)

Then online I am harassed it's obviously one person. This one person keeps hinting subtly that they are the poker player or mark burke or they know them or what happened. But that makes no sense. Why would someone like that risk it ?? Why care?

I behaved like a bit of a gob****e myself fair enough. But in my defense I am just generally nice.


And oh yeah goldigging stalkerina crazy bitch ....bring it.

So basically profile after profile would harass me in a similar way and subtly suggest they are the same person.

Ciderswigger wrote: »

OK. Cool. Thanks.

Sorry it's a little cranky ..