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Irish-American woman becomes latest Bride Of Christ.

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,946 ✭✭✭✭Neyite


    All nuns are brides of Christ. They make the same declarations this woman did of chastity and obedience and lie on a floor to do it. The consider themselves married to god and wear a silver wedding ring.

    The old style convent life is dying out anyway - now nuns live in smaller groups, some in convents but they prefer to call them communities now. - the local ones to our house live in a semi-d over the road and wear regular clothes. Like a blue-rinse flatshare.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 16,339 ✭✭✭✭Pherekydes


    But has anyone told Jesus yet? Surely he has a say in this.

    Nope. He's been dead for 2000 years now.

    Hmmm, I don't think the church would recognise it as a valid marriage until it's been consummated...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17 tempotaschen


    I think it's sad that she's missing out on one of the best parts of being human. And for what? The magic man in the sky?

    That said, she's not hurting anyone. I just feel sad for her.

    Yeah, it's so sad. She could be sucking on twenty three lollipops right now.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 46,938 ✭✭✭✭Nodin


    BMJD wrote: »
    The joke will be on you when you're partying like fúck in hell!


    I bought the albums, so I'm fairly sure I've booked a seat.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,766 ✭✭✭seenitall


    I think it's sad that she's missing out on one of the best parts of being human. And for what? The magic man in the sky?

    That said, she's not hurting anyone. I just feel sad for her.

    If she really is a virgin at 38, I think she'd most probably be continuing to miss out on one of the best parts of being human even if she hadn't thrown the sky-man into the mix.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 46,938 ✭✭✭✭Nodin


    seenitall wrote: »
    If she really is a virgin at 38, I think she'd most probably be continuing to miss out on one of the best parts of being human even if she hadn't thrown the sky-man into the mix.

    There is the possibility that she has no sexual desire at all. One would hope that was the case, rather than the whole denial thing, for her sake.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,499 ✭✭✭✭DEFTLEFTHAND


    smash wrote: »
    Bottom line... Is she Irish or American?

    Because I think we should let them have her!

    White middle class American woman is her voting demo anyway, Irish American is no longer recognised by political academics. We've assimilated, hurray.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,951 ✭✭✭frostyjacks


    Fair play to her. Looks very hot for a 38 year old.


  • Posts: 26,219 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I love the way everyone is all for freedom of choice, until someone makes a choice they don't understand or approve of.

    She's not hurting anyone, it makes her happy and she feels it gives her life depth and meaning. I have no idea how, or why it matters to her, but since I'm not her, that's of no importance.

    Leave the woman alone, she doesn't deserve to be ridiculed when all she's doing is living her life the way she feels is right for her.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 46,938 ✭✭✭✭Nodin


    Candie wrote: »
    I love the way everyone is all for freedom of choice, until someone makes a choice they don't understand or approve of.
    ...........

    You might better take it up with posters who denied her the freedom of choice, rather than generalise.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,750 ✭✭✭fleet_admiral


    Terrible pity cause you'd slip her one


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,540 ✭✭✭joseph brand


    I see no harm and think this is just another snipe at people's beliefs. To each their own.

    I thought the case made by the NO side in the Same-sex Marriage Referendum was that: 'marriage is about procreation'. That's why it had to be a man and a woman . . . . . NOT Adam and Steve.

    How can this woman and 'Jesus' have children? Immaculate conception?

    This woman clearly has mental issues and needs help.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,628 ✭✭✭Señor Fancy Pants


    Open your minds people!

    Is the Easter Bunny still single? I might suss that out.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,540 ✭✭✭joseph brand


    Candie wrote: »
    I love the way everyone is all for freedom of choice, until someone makes a choice they don't understand or approve of.

    She's not hurting anyone, it makes her happy and she feels it gives her life depth and meaning. I have no idea how, or why it matters to her, but since I'm not her, that's of no importance.

    Leave the woman alone, she doesn't deserve to be ridiculed when all she's doing is living her life the way she feels is right for her.

    Is it okay then if I marry Wonder Woman? I'm pretty sure I would receive a similar response if I went through with the whole service, invited guests and went on a honeymoon.

    We wouldn't take a passenger flight, we could take the invisible jet.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 436 ✭✭Old Jakey


    All those mocking comments...somehow I don't think they'd be quite as smug if she were a Buddhist nun.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,353 ✭✭✭Cold War Kid


    I thought the case made by the NO side in the Same-sex Marriage Referendum was that: 'marriage is about procreation'.
    Very true - yet I'd bet some would be OK with/approve of this.

    Still though, whatever misgivings I have about the church as an organisation, she wants to do this - she has hardly been forced into something that would be so unthinkable for most of her generation in the western world: chastity and extreme devotion to religion. Despite some thinking 38 is akin to being geriatric :D it's a generation that's still fairly with it and were only teenagers in the 90s.

    I respect her unwavering independence, and unlike a lot of self-proclaimed catholics/Christians, she truly walks the walk.

    My opinion of what she's doing in and of itself is: it's not the healthiest, and a lonely Road. It may be symptom of psychological issues but may not. She has had plenty of time to think it through and consider its ramifications for her life though, and it doesnt really matter what I think: I'm not her. And she is hurting nobody other than maybe herself (maybe) so live and let live imo.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,540 ✭✭✭joseph brand


    flanzer wrote: »
    She's hawt.... what a waste

    There's more photos and a video of her here (Apologies for Daily Mail link)

    Personally, I think she looks a bit masculine, but that wouldn't matter when she's as mad as a bottle of crisps.


  • Posts: 26,219 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Is it okay then if I marry Wonder Woman? I'm pretty sure I would receive a similar response if I went through with the whole service, invited guests and went on a honeymoon.

    We wouldn't take a passenger flight, we could take the invisible jet.

    I don't understand why she's doing it either. It makes no sense to me. But it's not about me, it's about her and what she wants. If she believes it, then it doesn't matter what you, or I, or WonderWoman think about it all. She's not harming you, or me, or WonderWoman for that matter.

    So I'll just let her be and not ridicule her for a choice she believes will enhance her life, because like I said, it's not about me and she's doing what she thinks is right for her. I believe we should all do what we feel is right for ourselves if no one else is hurt, and that includes making decisions I can't fathom. I just don't get the need to pour scorn on her and ridicule her.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,626 ✭✭✭✭My name is URL


    Candie wrote: »
    Leave the woman alone, she doesn't deserve to be ridiculed when all she's doing is living her life the way she feels is right for her.

    Who do you think invited all the media etc into the church? She wants the attention from it and she's getting it, good bad or indifferent.

    Nobody has said she shouldn't have the choice to do what she wants to do, but people have the choice to laugh at how ridiculous it is too.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,612 ✭✭✭✭meeeeh


    What puzzles me is why is this news? You hardly get an article each time someone decides to become a priest or a nun. And as far as I can see there is f all difference.


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  • Posts: 26,219 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I don't know how the media got wind of it. Do you? Not a guess?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,598 ✭✭✭✭Aidric


    So uhm, how does consecration work in this case?

    I'm imagining an Exorcist like scene with the crucifix

    She definitely looks haunted.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 46,938 ✭✭✭✭Nodin


    meeeeh wrote: »
    What puzzles me is why is this news? You hardly get an article each time someone decides to become a priest or a nun. And as far as I can see there is f all difference.


    They live and work as normal, and aren't given upkeep by the church.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,612 ✭✭✭✭meeeeh


    Nodin wrote: »
    They live and work as normal, and aren't given upkeep by the church.

    it still doesn't make it any more newsworthy. :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,129 ✭✭✭PucaMama


    the only thing disturbing here is the overtly sexual thoughts about the woman.....like its an offense shes not sexually available to the op......internet leering at its best


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,626 ✭✭✭✭My name is URL


    Candie wrote: »
    I don't know how the media got wind of it. Do you? Not a guess?

    Well considering all the coverage it's getting and the number of interviews she's doing I think I can safely assume she's happy enough for people to hear her story.

    I'm pretty sure that unless she specifically wanted them there, then media would not be present during the service, and pictures would not have been published.

    People are right to laugh at and ridicule her


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 46,938 ✭✭✭✭Nodin


    meeeeh wrote: »
    it still doesn't make it any more newsworthy. :D

    Considering the size of America and the lunacy that can happen in any large country, you do have something of a point.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,020 ✭✭✭BlaasForRafa


    Old Jakey wrote: »
    All those mocking comments...somehow I don't think they'd be quite as smug if she were a Buddhist nun.

    I'm pretty sure they would be...if the buddhist went about publicising it. This woman married her imaginary friend, you've got to admit that's a bit mental.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,540 ✭✭✭joseph brand


    Very true - yet I'd bet some would be OK with/approve of this.

    Still though, whatever misgivings I have about the church as an organisation, she wants to do this - she has hardly been forced into something that would be so unthinkable for most of her generation in the western world: chastity and extreme devotion to religion. Despite some thinking 38 is akin to being geriatric :D it's a generation that's still fairly with it and were only teenagers in the 90s.

    I respect her unwavering independence, and unlike a lot of self-proclaimed catholics/Christians, she truly walks the walk.

    My opinion of what she's doing in and of itself is: it's not the healthiest, and a lonely Road. It may be symptom of psychological issues but may not. She has had plenty of time to think it through and consider its ramifications for her life though, and it doesnt really matter what I think: I'm not her. And she is hurting nobody other than maybe herself (maybe) so live and let live imo.

    That's what most people will worry about when they read this story. Of course there's no harm to anyone else. Many of us will see it as indoctrination/ brainwashing taken to the extreme, and not only that, but facilitated by the culprits.

    I could easily say that she loks like Ken Doherty in a fancy wig, but that would be childish of me. I could ask whether 'Jesus' had any say in this marriage, and I would be accused of being flippant. How did 'HE' sign the registry form. The questions are many.

    We are expected to keep shtum and 'leave well alone', but it's just so easy to expose the lunacy of this carry on. What a massive waste of time that ceremony was. Normally I would assume this was an article from The Onion, but because of the story's religious nature, it's wholly believable.

    Let us not forget that there was no shortage of 'followers of christ' voicing their concerns, during the SSM referendum, over the slippery slope fallacy. "If gays can marry, then people will be able to marry their pets" they said. Where do we go from here, where a woman can marry 'Jesus'? Can a woman marry Abraham Lincoln, Socrates, Alan Ladd etc?

    There will be plenty of religious hypocrites on here asking reasonable, sane people not to judge. Yet they judge our gay community. Thou art not able to has it both ways.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,129 ✭✭✭PucaMama


    have to point out suggesting she has mental health issues because shes not sexually available is ridiculous


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