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What are the rules regarding sex tapes made with previous partners?

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  • Posts: 26,219 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    seenitall wrote: »
    I'd say that's pretty much a given these days for any half way intelligent person. Do you think that poor girl Jessica Brown-Findlay (just an example) will consent being filmed performing a sex act ever again, even in a most loving most, trusting relationship of her life? I doubt it.

    And no, you don't have to be a semi-well known actress to get the kind of negative attention and grief she got when the thing leaks somewhere you never thought it would.

    She's not that well known, I've never heard of her! Poor girl though, I can imagine the consequences.

    I think there's probably a lapse in judgement in a lot of cases, people might have a few drinks at it sounds like a good idea at the time.

    I rarely drink, not that I think my judgement would ever be that poor if I did.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,766 ✭✭✭seenitall


    Candie wrote: »
    She's not that well known, I've never heard of her!

    Ah I thought everyone watched Downton Abbey! Obvs not. :pac:


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,130 ✭✭✭Roquentin


    Candie wrote: »
    She's not that well known, I've never heard of her! Poor girl though, I can imagine the consequences.

    I think there's probably a lapse in judgement in a lot of cases, people might have a few drinks at it sounds like a good idea at the time.

    I rarely drink, not that I think my judgement would ever be that poor if I did.

    i think as well there could be a bit of coercion. a partner keeps pestering the other partner to make one etc. like you say, at the time it may seem harmless, but what happens when they fall out or split.

    the sex-tape-butterfly-effect. small things can have large consequences


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 365 ✭✭wardy2


    Post it and link us


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 75 ✭✭Muckracker


    One night I found a phone on the way home. There was half a dozen videos of a girl getting ****ed. That poor girl thought no one would ever see it and it ended up in the possession of a pervert!

    And girls, you do know that when your ex-boyfriend tells you he's deleted all the pics and videos that he's lying right??


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 101 ✭✭gsp119


    Kirby wrote: »
    Why not? Just like a footballer would look back fondly at clips of his best goals at the end of his career. :D

    "And it's Kirby with a lovely little lob over Annette "

    :eek:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,298 ✭✭✭moc moc a moc


    A sex "tape"??

    What century is this?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 750 ✭✭✭Ashbx


    Candie wrote: »
    I can't help but feel that one has nothing to do with the other. It's like saying that if you fancy your bf/gf you won't ever look at anyone else. It sounds nice, but it has nothing to do with real human nature.

    No my point is its with an ex! If it was a randomer then yeah maybe I could understand why he is hesitating to get rid of it. But my point is, if you are happy in your current relationship, you wont want to think about your ex!


  • Posts: 7,344 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Personally for me only I view them as a gift. And when people break up they do not generally seek to take gifts back. :)

    Generally I would simply suggest people making such tapes ensure they lay out the rules up front that work for them.

    We often plan (but never get around to) making such a movie with ourselves and some of our friends. I imagine if we ever get around to it (actually we have a script :) ) there will be a lot of being upfront about things like this.


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,387 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    I would have thought the "rule" was beyond obvious? It's (presumably) a private matter between two people and if they split up that doesn't change that. I've deleted/destroyed any pics etc of exes that are in any way private.

    Many worry about Artificial Intelligence. I worry far more about Organic Idiocy.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 750 ✭✭✭Ashbx


    Wibbs wrote: »
    I would have thought the "rule" was beyond obvious? It's (presumably) a private matter between two people and if they split up that doesn't change that. I've deleted/destroyed any pics etc of exes that are in any way private.

    Yeah, because you are a decent human being! :)


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