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Abortions for 3,735, minature flags for nobody

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,635 ✭✭✭Pumpkinseeds


    Or they could have their baby instead.

    Jesus, you're all heart, but then again your post is typical of the hand-wringing won't someone think of the children god bothering squad. A bog standard 'fcuk the mother so long as the child isn't aborted' stance.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,389 ✭✭✭NachoBusiness


    You know what's really irksome about these debates, it's that the vast majority of reasons of just why it is that women choose to have an abortion these days, are rarely if ever mentioned. Instead, what we get is the sanctimonious and shameful use of rare cases where women, that should have been been able to receive an abortion, were denied one.

    I'd have no issue with abortions up to the 11th or 12th week. I'd vote for that given the choice and higher should the mother's life be in genuine danger but I sincerely hope to fcuk that the day never comes in this country where a woman that is almost six months pregnant can walk into a clinic and have that baby aborted, as it is in the UK.

    Now I know I will get flack for using the word 'baby' here and that's to be expected as there is nothing the so called 'pro choice' folks hate more than graphic descriptions of just what is at stake with an abortion. They would much rather see abortion (at no matter what stage of the pregnancy) described in very clinical ways, using words such as fetus and termination etc. That way the reality that an unborn developing human (that can move it's fingers, arms, legs and toes, and respond also to external stimuli) is having it's life in the womb ended, along also of course with the possibility of having one outside it, can easily be ignored.

    In 2013 almost 44% of women in their mid to late 20s in the UK that had an abortion, had already had one. That figures jumps to 47% for the ages of 30 to 35 and 45% in the over 35’s. To put real numbers to that, in 2012 50,000 women in the UK that had an abortion had already had one. The most disgusting stat of all though is that of all the abortions that were carried out between the 20 to 24 week stage (that's between five and six months pregnant to make it a little less clinical) almost two thirds of these abortions were carried out simply because the woman did not want to proceed with the pregnancy for reasons other than the baby's health. In other words, no fetal abnormalities etc, which we are quite often told are the usually the main reason for abortions at this late stage in the UK.

    Let's be honest, abortion is being used as a means of birth control and it needs to stop. Two million abortions in the UK in the last ten years. The numbers are a disgrace. The UK should lower the abortion limit also. It's barbaric that a child in the womb that has over a 25% of surviving if they were lucky enough to be born premature 76 out of 332 born at 23 weeks survived in 2011) could in fact have it's life ended at that same stage instead, should that is, it's mother decide to have them aborted instead.

    tl;dr

    We need sensible abortion laws in Ireland. Mimicking the UK is far from the answer.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,313 ✭✭✭✭K-9


    Someone was telling me recently that baby-boomers are actually presently responsible for much of the STD increases in the West.

    Bloody hippies.

    I think it comes back to fear of pregnancy being the main driver for contraception, std's tend to be down the list. "Surw I'm on the pill" seems to be about it!

    Mad Men's Don Draper : What you call love was invented by guys like me, to sell nylons.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,313 ✭✭✭✭K-9


    The UK tends to be an outlier when it comes to abortion figures. I don't think any other European country has a similar rate.

    Mad Men's Don Draper : What you call love was invented by guys like me, to sell nylons.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,313 ✭✭✭✭K-9


    inocybe wrote: »
    'abortion as a contraceptive' is a nonsensical phrase. People who are using contraceptives properly can also need abortions you know.

    More aware than mmost on that one! Though we didn't go down the abortion route.

    Mad Men's Don Draper : What you call love was invented by guys like me, to sell nylons.



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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,116 ✭✭✭RDM_83 again


    The most disgusting stat of all though is that of all the abortions that were carried out between the 20 to 24 week stage (that's between five and six months pregnant to make it a little less clinical) almost two thirds of these abortions were carried out simply because the woman did not want to proceed with the pregnancy for reasons other than the baby's health. In other words, no fetal abnormalities etc, which we are quite often told are the usually the main reason for abortions at this late stage in the UK.

    I posted similar in another thread on AH recently suprise suprise it was not replied too :rolleyes:
    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=95798201

    It doesn't suit the narrative that some of the more fundamental pro-choice want to portray, its as lazy and dishonest an argument as any picture of tiny baby hands the pro-life side will push out, the difference is the pro-choicers claim to hold the moral high ground of being logical and rational and not needing to falsify arguments.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,629 ✭✭✭Mal-Adjusted


    A bog standard 'fcuk the mother so long as the child isn't aborted' stance.

    That's how she got into the mess in the first place


    ....I'll get my coat


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,894 ✭✭✭UCDVet


    From a practical point of view, I don't see much difference between using birth control and having an abortion.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,894 ✭✭✭UCDVet


    Daqui88 wrote: »
    Some generalisation that is.

    Excluding medical complications that arise from abortions, I think they're effectively the same. I find every argument against abortion equally as valid against birth control and even abstinence.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,635 ✭✭✭Pumpkinseeds


    Daqui88 wrote: »
    Really, you think the attitude is "fukc the mother". No one is asking for the mother's life to be terminated because the baby might be depressed.

    Really, you think think the attitude of forcing a woman to continue a pregnancy she doesn't want is acceptable? Depression is only one reason, frankly I don't think a woman should have to provide a reason for having a termination.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,458 ✭✭✭✭gandalf


    Hmmm as this is after hours I thought I'd just like to add this.

    Some would consider this NSFW ;)



  • Posts: 24,774 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Really, you think think the attitude of forcing a woman to continue a pregnancy she doesn't want is acceptable? Depression is only one reason, frankly I don't think a woman should have to provide a reason for having a termination.

    Women being able to have n abortion and give no reason? This is the sort of abortion on demand barbaric sh*t that some disgusting people people want alright. No respect for life at all.

    I really would like to know what is going on in the brain of a person that thinks killing unborn babies is acceptable. As that's exactly what they are falling over themselves to promote.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,052 ✭✭✭Un Croissant


    Only read the first few posts. Did we figure out what the flegs were about?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,534 ✭✭✭gctest50


    nox100.......The Irish people don't want abortion on demand, .........

    "The Iiiiirish people" Joe

    I'm Irish - I want freedom of choice for women & I ain't no white-knighting tool


  • Posts: 24,774 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    gctest50 wrote: »
    "The Iiiiirish people" Joe

    I'm Irish - I want freedom of choice for women & I ain't no white-knighting tool

    There is no way a vote would pass abortion, not a chance. There are enough decent people left in the country to see to that.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,052 ✭✭✭Un Croissant


    There is no way a vote would pass abortion, not a chance. There are enough decent people left in the country to see to that.

    I'm not so sure. I can imagine the no side would put up a nasty fight, perhaps alienating a lot of people. I'd predict a low enough turnout but a pass.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,290 ✭✭✭orubiru


    Women being able to have n abortion and give no reason? This is the sort of abortion on demand barbaric sh*t that some disgusting people people want alright. No respect for life at all.

    I really would like to know what is going on in the brain of a person that thinks killing unborn babies is acceptable. As that's exactly what they are falling over themselves to promote.

    Look. It's not "killing unborn babies". What the hell is wrong with you? How many times does it need to be explained?

    People who want abortion on demand are not "disgusting people". They have the backing of most EU governments and those governments have taken expert medical advice when implementing the regulations regarding abortion.

    You are so detached from reality here. After the first trimester there are strict regulations on abortion, it's not "on demand". During the first trimester it is allowed on demand for good reasons. Can you even speculate on what those reasons might be or are you just refusing to look into it?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,116 ✭✭✭RDM_83 again


    I'm not so sure. I can imagine the no side would put up a nasty fight, perhaps alienating a lot of people. I'd predict a low enough turnout but a pass.

    Really depends what you mean by "abortion".
    Fetal disorders, would definitely pass provided its not like the UK with its wide definitions.
    For victims of rape, would 90% pass.

    With a fairly restrictive say 14-16 weeks time limit I could see elective abortion possibly passing dependent on other conditions attached by bill.

    A UK style law I just wouldn't see passing, you can't successfully ridicule the slippery slope argument when your sitting next door to one of the best examples of it.

    Its a different debate to Gay marriage/Divorce and doesn't cleave as easily down idealogical lines as you might expect.
    People tend to self censor about the topic but I know people that are strongly atheist social liberals that would be pretty strongly pro-life but you wouldn't know it unless you actually knew them well as its presumed if your under 35 and fit the rest of that profile your broadly pro-life.
    Then you have the pragmatic view point which might influence people, despite my posting I'd probably vote for a German style system because to me it seems like the best in terms of harm reduction for everyone involved.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,534 ✭✭✭gctest50


    There is no way a vote would pass abortion, not a chance. There are enough decent people left in the country to see to that.

    So - people that would vote yes to freedom of choice for women are not decent people?


  • Posts: 24,774 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    gctest50 wrote: »
    So - people that would vote yes to freedom of choice for women are not decent people?

    But its not just a woman its also an unborn child, what about the rights of the unborn child, why should they have a chance to live. They cant make the choice so they need others to make it for them in not allowing abortion.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,290 ✭✭✭orubiru


    But its not just a woman its also an unborn child, what about the rights of the unborn child, why should they have a chance to live. They cant make the choice so they need others to make it for them in not allowing abortion.

    But the "unborn child" absolutely needs the womans body and resources to survive. What if she does not consent to this?

    If we agree that both have rights then fair enough but if the woman does not give consent to giving up her body and her resources then why are we agreeing to force her to do that anyway?

    Are we gonna say "she gave consent when she decided to have sex"?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    But its not just a woman its also an unborn child, what about the rights of the unborn child, why should they have a chance to live. They cant make the choice so they need others to make it for them in not allowing abortion.

    That's unfortunate but the wishes of the woman take precedence over the unborn for me.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,313 ✭✭✭✭K-9


    There is no way a vote would pass abortion, not a chance. There are enough decent people left in the country to see to that.


    Well I doubt the extreme of 24 or 28 weeks would.

    In the cases of rape, incest and unviable pregnancies, would pass by a large majority. Even most of Fg would back that.

    Mad Men's Don Draper : What you call love was invented by guys like me, to sell nylons.



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,824 ✭✭✭Qualitymark


    There is no way a vote would pass abortion, not a chance. There are enough decent people left in the country to see to that.

    Funny, that's just the reason I think the vote would pass.

    People often surprise you. Many years ago a neighbour, deeply Catholic, family rosary every night, said to me "They should bring in abortion here, the doctors here could do with the money, why let England have it all."


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,785 ✭✭✭The Golden Miller


    I'm in college, have a part time job, pay rent etc. I'm broke basically, and have another 3 years of college ahead of me. Got my girlfriend pregnant and she's in a similar situation. Abortion wasn't an option. If someone conceives a baby (and unless they are raped or fatal foetal abnormality etc), they are as good as murderers in my eye's. It's functioning to some degree from the minute it's conceived, hence alive. You made your bed, so go and lie in it, instead of taking the cowards way out and trying to convince yourself it's "not alive" because it's not outside the womb. All your doing is fooling yourself, trying to justify murder to yourself, so you don't feel bad for killing it


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,785 ✭✭✭The Golden Miller


    eviltwin wrote: »
    That's unfortunate but the wishes of the woman take precedence over the unborn for me.

    Well it's not unfortunate, because in the real world in Ireland, the rights of the unborn take precedence.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,290 ✭✭✭orubiru


    I'm in college, have a part time job, pay rent etc. I'm broke basically, and have another 3 years of college ahead of me. Got my girlfriend pregnant and she's in a similar situation. Abortion wasn't an option. If someone conceives a baby (and unless it's rape or someone was told they couldn't have a kid, even then I'd be on the fence), they are murderers in my eye's. It's functioning to some degree from the minute it's conceived, hence alive. You made your bed, so go and lie in it, instead of taking the cowards way out and trying to convince yourself it's "not alive" because it's not outside the womb. All your doing is fooling yourself, trying to justify murder to yourself, so you don't feel bad for killing it

    So, I think this post confirms that Sex Education in Ireland is woefully inadequate.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,785 ✭✭✭The Golden Miller


    orubiru wrote: »
    So, I think this post confirms that Sex Education in Ireland is woefully inadequate.

    Not really. It shouldn't even be needed to point out the obvious. The fact it's there, leaves even less of an argument to justify abortions. I made a mistake, and I'll deal with it and love my child unconditionally, as I'm not a coward who runs from my problems


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,785 ✭✭✭The Golden Miller


    orubiru wrote: »
    Are we gonna say "she gave consent when she decided to have sex"?

    If it's unprotected, why not? She knew the risk. The pro-choice groups seems to set parameters to suit themselves, can no one else move them, or is it set in stone?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,159 ✭✭✭stinkle


    If it's unprotected, why not? She knew the risk. The pro-choice groups seems to set parameters to suit themselves, can no one else move them, or is it set in stone?
    And if she was raped and therefore couldnt give consent?

    Or if a woman is on the pill and conscientious about taking it, but suffers a stomach upset out of the blue after taking it? Sperm can survive for a number of hours in the female body so that could mean getting pregnant after having sex a day or so previously.

    Or if a condom was used and they guy just didnt put it on properly/on time - is that a woman's fault too?


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