Friend's male dilemma

miss choc · 30-04-2015 06:46PM #1

Friend of mine was out with a hen last w/end and ended up back at a guys house. No awkwardness next day but she only realised when she got home she left one of her very valuable earrings behind. They swapped numbers when he drove her home but she doesnt want a relationship but wants her earring. I know it's probably daft but should she text him or just leave it? If if was me I would text what has she to loose but she is nervous about meeting again.

Mint Aero · 30-04-2015 06:50PM

That's not serious enough to be classed as a dilemma in my books. I'll file it under "omg fml drama"

Day Lewin · 30-04-2015 06:52PM

I'd phone him, why on earth not?
Just a bright simple inquiry.
I think I left an earring at your house. Can I have it back, please?
I could meet you at the corner of the street or my Mam could pick it up from yours...
I had a lovely evening, and bye!!!

Flood · 30-04-2015 06:52PM

Ring Joe this is a serious one.

miss choc · 30-04-2015 06:56PM

Lol lads I know she is a bit of a girlie and loved those earrings but sure thats what happens when alcohol and the rest gets involved it's only an earring :rolleyes:

brevity · 30-04-2015 06:58PM

Just text him asking for the earring back. And tell him he was amazing in the sack. That tends to hurry things along.

househero · 30-04-2015 06:59PM

All the girls that wanted to get with me, left random crap at my house #nesters. They would call andeet up to get it back. For the most part the best they got after was another ride

Tell her (you) to call him and say you just want her (your) earring back and your not interested in him. Why the hell do women make things complicated, say what you mean and there is no confusion.

#lifeslessons

UCDVet · 30-04-2015 07:00PM

Call him. Ask for the earrings.

He either doesn't want a relationship with her, but will return the earrings or he does. If he does, he might mistake her call/lost earring as a clever ruse to chat him up again, but so what? If he asks her out again, she can say no thanks and leave it at that.

miss choc · 30-04-2015 07:00PM

dont want to raise the poor boy's hopes up now she just wants item and run

Flood · 30-04-2015 07:01PM

miss choc wrote: »

Lol lads I know she is a bit of a girlie and loved those earrings but sure thats what happens when alcohol and the rest gets involved it's only an earring :rolleyes:

Its only an earring now but maybe different story 9 months later, did she use protection?

househero · 30-04-2015 07:03PM

miss choc wrote: »

dont want to raise the poor boy's hopes up now she just wants item and run

Tell her to suck it up and sit on it if she wants her earring. Can't be that bad, she did it once before.

How valuable are they really

househero · 30-04-2015 07:04PM

Flood wrote: »

Its only an earring now but maybe different story 9 months later, did she use protection?

Yea, he probably doesn't want that back. Hajaha

catallus · 30-04-2015 07:04PM

househero wrote: »

Tell her to suck it up and sit on it if she wants her earring. Can't be that bad, she did it once before.

Charming

hatrickpatrick · 30-04-2015 07:07PM

Flood wrote: »

Ring Joe this is a serious one.

It's not a serious one, but it's perfect for Joe nonetheless.

miss choc · 30-04-2015 07:07PM

I'm letting her sort it out herself I havent a clue she probably cant even remember so glad to be out of that drunky club scene.

gctest50 · 30-04-2015 07:08PM

Flood wrote: »

Its only an earring now but maybe different story 9 months later, did she use protection?

the HSE have a load of gear they are not using cos of closed wards

what was she thinking she could have rented some gear off them

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The Backwards Man · 30-04-2015 07:09PM

Is your mate Fr. Dougal?

Flood · 30-04-2015 07:10PM

miss choc wrote: »

I'm letting her sort it out herself I havent a clue she probably cant even remember so glad to be out of that drunky club scene.

There is no friend is there op, its you isn't it?

Skid X · 30-04-2015 07:11PM

katemarch wrote: »

I'd phone him, why on earth not?
Just a bright simple inquiry.
I think I left an earring at your house. Can I have it back, please?
I could meet you at the corner of the street or my Mam could pick it up from yours...
I had a lovely evening, and bye!!!

No need to threaten him with the Mother!

Roger Hassenforder · 30-04-2015 07:16PM

miss choc wrote: »

dont want to raise the poor boy's hopes up now she just wants item and run

the poor boy probably mightn't even remember riding your friend, she might need to be more specific when she texts him.

_Kaiser_ · 30-04-2015 07:21PM

I don't see the dilemma .. "Hi, I think I may have dropped one of my ear rings in yours the other night. Can you let me know if you found it and I'll drop over and collect.. thanks"

Seriously.. can people not figure stuff like this out for themselves anymore?

How old is your friend OP?