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How will you vote in the Marriage Equality referendum? Mod Note Post 1

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,888 ✭✭✭AtomicHorror


    If I have to choose between protecting the family unit or upsetting a small but noisy subsection of society, I think I'll protect the family.

    You're not protecting the family unit by voting no. You're indicating that one kind of family unit should be privileged, and that other kinds of family units- families which already legally exist- are not to be given the same protections.

    I am a part of one of the privileged family units, and I don't at all mind the idea of extending that privilege to family units that don't resemble mine. How will my family unit be damaged by that?


  • Moderators Posts: 52,055 ✭✭✭✭Delirium


    If I have to choose between protecting the family unit or upsetting a small but noisy subsection of society, I think I'll protect the family.

    It's not a choice of marriage equality or the walking dead. :confused:

    If you can read this, you're too close!



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,160 ✭✭✭Huntergonzo


    **** I was going to vote yes because let's be honest, 2 naturally homosexual people in love getting married takes absolutely nothing out of my day but then I read the bible and it says:

    Leviticus 18:22, "You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination."

    Leviticus 20:13, "If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death. Their bloodguiltness is upon them."

    Well I guess we better get the gallows out and put these immoral homosexual heathens to death, it's God's will.


  • Posts: 7,344 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    We're a product of our environment. If you deliberately choose to bring up a child without a male/female role model in their life, you're denying them something important.

    What exactly is the role you think that is being modelled - and why do you think it important?
    If I have to choose between protecting the family unit or upsetting a small but noisy subsection of society, I think I'll protect the family.

    Unclear what you think you are protecting, and even more unclear as to what you think you are protecting it from. Care to elaborate?
    Leviticus 18:22, "You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination."

    Actually there was another user on the forum who pointed out that technically these Bible passages are an endorsement of homosexual sex - not a prohibition on it.

    Why? Well if you do not want someone to do something you tell them "Do not do that". You do not tell them "Do not do that like that".

    If you tell them "Do not do that like that" you are not saying not to do it - you are just telling them how not to do it.

    If the Bible did not want you to lie with other men it should have said so - instead it comments on how not to lie with men while doing it.

    All that being if there was any reason to take the Bible seriously in the first place - or to consider it in any way relevant to this referendum or the morality of homosexuality. I do neither.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,951 ✭✭✭frostyjacks


    You're not protecting the family unit by voting no. You're indicating that one kind of family unit should be privileged, and that other kinds of family units- families which already legally exist- are not to be given the same protections.

    I am a part of one of the privileged family units, and I don't at all mind the idea of extending that privilege to family units that don't resemble mine. How will my family unit be damaged by that?

    Because you're saying that a same sex unit can do the same job as a traditional unit, which is illogical. It would be like my employers hiring a chimpanzee to work alongside me and pretending it's capable of doing the same job. Society is fragmenting enough as it is, we don't need to accelerate it.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,851 ✭✭✭Calibos


    I rarely come into this thread due to my blood pressure. The mental gymnastics the no voters have to do to explain their vote is something to behold.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,218 ✭✭✭✭Bannasidhe


    You are not a friend of democracy it seems.

    The result is a foregone conclusion so my no vote is purely symbolic.:o

    Oh please.

    Being a contrarian is not the same as being democratic which is how you are coming across.

    Foregone conclusion you say?
    How nice.
    Means you can go ha! ha! I voted no cos I knew Yes would win but my no vote was only symbolic of my need to be *insert appropriate term* and...
    But what if the No side wins?!?!?!?

    Preserve us from people who want to be symbolic with other people's lives.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,946 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    Because you're saying that a same sex unit can do the same job as a traditional unit, which is illogical. It would be like my employers hiring a chimpanzee to work alongside me and pretending it's capable of doing the same job. Society is fragmenting enough as it is, we don't need to accelerate it.

    do you have any evidence to support that? There is plenty of evidence that shows it isnt true so i'm curious to know what evidence you have. Unless of course you think its obvious and prefer not to educate yourself.


  • Posts: 7,344 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Because you're saying that a same sex unit can do the same job as a traditional unit, which is illogical.

    If you are claiming they can not do so - it would appear the burden of proof is at your feet - and so far I am seeing proof by assertion only.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,555 ✭✭✭Ave Sodalis


    Because you're saying that a same sex unit can do the same job as a traditional unit, which is illogical. It would be like my employers hiring a chimpanzee to work alongside me and pretending it's capable of doing the same job. Society is fragmenting enough as it is, we don't need to accelerate it.

    How will a No vote change this?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,888 ✭✭✭AtomicHorror


    Because you're saying that a same sex unit can do the same job as a traditional unit, which is illogical.

    Saying that one mixed sex unit can do the same job as another mixed sex unit is also illogical.
    It would be like my employers hiring a chimpanzee to work alongside me and pretending it's capable of doing the same job.

    Well actually since the gender mix is the basis of your argument above and since species is not a element of your argument above, this analogy is very seriously broken.

    A more appropriate analogy would work on the basis of the gender composition of the unit doing the job. So actually your analogy should read:

    "It would be like my employers hiring a woman to work alongside me and pretending she's capable of doing the same job."

    Uh oh.
    Society is fragmenting enough as it is, we don't need to accelerate it.

    How is the fragmentation of society measured? What is the evidence that fragmentation is increasing? What is the evidence that the increase would accelerate if same-sex family units are protected?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,001 ✭✭✭✭aloyisious


    @Frostyjacks: how would voting NO protect the family unit which has gay children within it? How do you think a NO vote by you would protect the children's interests? While you are considering your response, please bear in mind that most gay (and LGBT generally) kids are born into heterosexual-parented families. Have you considered the chance that LGBT couples intent upon marrying have considered the way they were raised in traditional family units and (in the main) have seen that unit as a good thing to copy, and maybe raise children in?

    We generally don't just pop up out of the blue, nor are born specifically through some sort of genetic engineering intended to increase the numbers of LGBT folk on our planet. This last sentence is made in reference to this in today's Irish Times, http://www.irishtimes.com/news/social-affairs/no-vote-group-alleges-misleading-of-public-on-child-issues-1.2189504.. with these quotes in respect to the issue of surrogacy being mentioned by the NO vote campaigners.

    No-vote group alleges misleading of public on child issues. Surrogacy and donor-assisted reproduction ‘clearly relevant to discussion’. About 180 people attended an event organised by Mothers and Fathers Matter, a group campaigning for the retention of the current definition of marriage in the Constitution, held in the Marino Institute of Education in Dublin.

    A legal adviser to the Mothers and Fathers Matter group, Tom Finnegan, referred to a poster (above) erected by the group in recent days referring to surrogacy which he acknowledged was “probably the most controversial” of its three posters. The Government is “deliberately misleading the public” by claiming the same-sex marriage referendum has nothing to do with children, a conference advocating a No vote has heard. However, he said surrogacy and donor-assisted reproduction were issues that were “clearly relevant to the discussion about redefining marriage”. Mr Finnegan said that, if the referendum passes, homosexual married couples would have the same constitutional status as any other married couple.

    ‘Right to procreate’

    He said married couples “currently enjoy the right to procreate”, adding that if the referendum passes “it would mean that all same-sex couples would have a similar right to procreate under the Constitution”. “For same-sex couples to procreate, to have a right to procreate... that right must necessarily entail a right to avail of things like donor assisted human reproduction or surrogacy,” he said.

    Louise Doris, a consultant on bioethical issues and PhD student at the European University Institute, said surrogacy bans in place in other countries had come under increasing pressure because of the introduction of same-sex marriage. “What I have observed, particularly in Spain, France and now in Ireland, [is] that the confluence of assisted reproduction and the advent of same-sex marriage conspire to drive traditional family rights off their moorings,” she said.

    ......................................................................................................................................................

    I honestly don't know where they get the notion that there is a section within the constitution granting the right to procreate, and that this supposed section is linked to marriage, or that LGBT people have been to the forefront of medical human reproduction science with the intent to have children. Maybe there's a study floating around somewhere that validates Louise's thoughts on how same-sex marriage and IVF/surrogacy science are co-mingled and that it's the ultimate Gay agenda.........................

    My mind wandered: would she have thoughts about parents choosing their babies genetic make-up in advance.... like LGBT people will want what all parents want, a child made in their own image.... a deluge of LGBT babies.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,888 ✭✭✭AtomicHorror


    I think it's measured in units of children. How such units are used appear to be undefined, sadly.

    Children or teary-eyed thoughts of the children? And the acceleration is therefore measured in teary-eyed thoughts of children/hour.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,946 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    Children or teary-eyed thoughts of the children? And the acceleration is therefore measured in teary-eyed thoughts of children/hour.

    Is that an official SI unit?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 40 hsjsj


    Vote yes, the fact that a gay couple get married won't affect your life very much, being upset that they would be allowed get married is like getting angry at a person for ordering themselves a cheese burger when you don't like cheese


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,160 ✭✭✭Huntergonzo


    hsjsj wrote: »
    Vote yes, the fact that a gay couple get married won't affect your life very much, being upset that they would be allowed get married is like getting angry at a person for ordering themselves a cheese burger when you don't like cheese

    But the bible says we should kill homosexuals, didn't you read Leviticus 20:13 = "If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death. Their bloodguiltiness is upon them."

    You can't go against the good book now can you?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,362 ✭✭✭K4t


    hsjsj wrote: »
    Vote yes, the fact that a gay couple get married won't affect your life very much, being upset that they would be allowed get married is like getting angry at a person for ordering themselves a cheese burger when you don't like cheese
    This. I'm voting YES but even if I did disagree with same-sex marriage, I'd like to think that I would abstain from the referendum and simply refuse any invitations I receive to same sex weddings. The only reason I can think of that would make me want to vote NO due to my dislike of same sex marriage, would be a desire to continue the discriminatory nature of marriage, which primarily affects homosexuals i.e. homophobia. And stupidity.

    Again, this is not about children; it never was, and it never will be. But it is about control.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,946 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    But the bible says we should kill homosexuals, didn't you read Leviticus 20:13 = "If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death. Their bloodguiltiness is upon them."

    You can't go against the good book now can you?

    you could just ignore it?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,160 ✭✭✭Huntergonzo


    you could just ignore it?

    Ignore the word of God, are you insane???


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,946 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    Ignore the word of God, are you insane???

    No. I've got a certificate and everything.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,007 ✭✭✭✭VinLieger


    But the bible says we should kill homosexuals, didn't you read Leviticus 20:13 = "If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death. Their bloodguiltiness is upon them."

    You can't go against the good book now can you?

    How could we go against a book where God kills 42 children for jeering a bald man?

    Kings 2:23-24 "From there Elisha went up to Bethel. As he was walking along the road, some boys came out of the town and jeered at him. “Get out of here, baldy!” they said. “Get out of here, baldy!” 24 He turned around, looked at them and called down a curse on them in the name of the Lord. Then two bears came out of the woods and mauled forty-two of the boys."


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,707 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    Ignore the word of God, are you insane???


    *sarcasm detector... initialising... initialising* :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 40 hsjsj


    But the bible says we should kill homosexuals, didn't you read Leviticus 20:13 = "If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death. Their bloodguiltiness is upon them."

    You can't go against the good book now can you?
    First of all I'm not catholic so I don't care what the book says
    Second of all the bible can be interpreted in many different ways the statement that says man should not lye with men as he does with women can be interpreted to say that a man (human) should not lye with another man (human) as he does with women (his wife) it can mean don't break the bonds of marriage


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 726 ✭✭✭Goat the dote


    Voting yes


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,160 ✭✭✭Huntergonzo


    VinLieger wrote: »
    How could we go against a book where God kills 42 children for jeering a bald man?

    Kings 2:23-24 "From there Elisha went up to Bethel. As he was walking along the road, some boys came out of the town and jeered at him. “Get out of here, baldy!” they said. “Get out of here, baldy!” 24 He turned around, looked at them and called down a curse on them in the name of the Lord. Then two bears came out of the woods and mauled forty-two of the boys."

    WOW and that was just for jeering a bad lad, jaysus imagine what he'll do if this evil referendum passes, we're in serious trouble!!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,160 ✭✭✭Huntergonzo


    *sarcasm detector... initialising... initialising* :D

    Dang you got me :-)


  • Posts: 7,344 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    WOW and that was just for jeering a bad lad, jaysus imagine what he'll do if this evil referendum passes, we're in serious trouble!!!

    Well we already have pastors in america who blame natural disasters on things like homosexuality. Earthquakes and hurricanes and the like.

    I even have a nut job of a religious neighbour who tells the few remaining people who still listen that negative events that happen in the town where I live can be blamed on the non-standard relationship I am in. Quite literally things like car crashes that happen on the stretch of road where I live can be traced back - in his mind - to gods displeasure at who I share my beds with.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,951 ✭✭✭frostyjacks


    I'm not approaching it from a religious POV, it's just pure common sense. Two people of the same sex cannot do the same job as an opposite sex couple, however much the gay lobby try and spin it. It doesn't need proving, the thing proves itself. Why pretend otherwise?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,160 ✭✭✭Huntergonzo


    hsjsj wrote: »
    First of all I'm not catholic so I don't care what the book says
    Second of all the bible can be interpreted in many different ways the statement that says man should not lye with men as he does with women can be interpreted to say that a man (human) should not lye with another man (human) as he does with women (his wife) it can mean don't break the bonds of marriage

    Haha relax I'm only joking, I'm not catholic either, I don't even believe in Jebus and I'll be voting yes.

    My reason for voting yes = gay marriage being illegal is discrimination against hetrosexual marriage, I mean why should they be the only one's stuck with a spouse, let them all marry and be miserable I say


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,555 ✭✭✭Ave Sodalis


    I'm not approaching it from a religious POV, it's just pure common sense. Two people of the same sex cannot do the same job as an opposite sex couple, however much the gay lobby try and spin it. It doesn't need proving, the thing proves itself. Why pretend otherwise?

    Again, how will you voting No change it?


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