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Graham Dwyer court case *READ FIRST POST BEFORE POSTING*

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  • Moderators, Business & Finance Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 51,685 Mod ✭✭✭✭Stheno


    Did his family support him through the trial and beyond??? Link.

    His father brother and sister attended the trial


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 57,077 ✭✭✭✭tayto lover


    Roquentin wrote: »
    yea, but couldnt they have seen the texts from elaines phone as in they check her phone records

    They may well have but they had no link to Dwyer as he bought the master phone in a ficticious name.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,428 ✭✭✭Dwarf.Shortage


    Roquentin wrote: »
    yea, but couldnt they have seen the texts from elaines phone as in they check her phone records

    Yes but they would have been to said untraceable phone? the two pay as you go phones in question were found side by side in the reservoir like, the issue was figuring out who had used them.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,428 ✭✭✭Dwarf.Shortage


    They may well have but they had no link to Dwyer as he bought the master phone in a ficticious name.

    Easy as that sounds it wouldn't even have been that difficult. Pay cash in the shop and they won't ask for your details, you're asked to go online and register your sim. If you neglect to do that they haven't a notion who's using the phone.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,199 ✭✭✭✭Spanish Eyes


    Did his family support him through the trial and beyond??? Link.

    Eh I know it's the Sunday World, but whatever.

    http://www.sundayworld.com/news/crimedesk/loyal-dad-visits-dwyer-on-first-day-of-life-sentence


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,312 ✭✭✭realdanbreen


    Roquentin wrote: »
    yea, but couldnt they have seen the texts from elaines phone as in they check her phone records
    He wasn't texting her regular phone he was texting the pay as you go phone that he threw in the reservoir( I'd say he kicks himself every single day for being too stupid to destroy those phones,bondage gear etc)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 57,077 ✭✭✭✭tayto lover


    Did his family support him through the trial and beyond??? Link.

    His father said today that he was standing by his son.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,130 ✭✭✭Roquentin


    He wasn't texting her regular phone he was texting the pay as you go phone that he threw in the reservoir( I'd say he kicks himself every single day for being too stupid to destroy those phones,bondage gear etc)

    that makes sense.

    only for the heatwave


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,130 ✭✭✭Roquentin


    His father said today that he was standing by his son.

    family members have a habit of doing that. jeffrey dahmers father stood by him and if you think dwyer is bad, dahmer is ten times worse


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,199 ✭✭✭✭Spanish Eyes


    The most bizarre aspect of this, with due respect to Dwyer's wife and family, was the way he conducted his "knife and murder fetish" silently to everyone who knew him.

    Scary that someone can lead a double life without ANYONE beings suspicious.

    How do they do that?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,428 ✭✭✭Dwarf.Shortage


    The most bizarre aspect of this, with due respect to Dwyer's wife and family, was the way he conducted his "knife and murder fetish" silently to everyone who knew him.

    Scary that someone can lead a double life without ANYONE beings suspicious.

    How do they do that?

    One would imagine his wife knew his sexual tendencies weren't exactly vanilla but had no idea of the degree to which they deviated from normal. He had brought a knife into the bedroom in an earlier relationship that had been serious enough to produce a child and I'd imagine after that lead to it turning sour he was more guarded with what he revealed to his wife. I doubt he could quite pull off the charade of being an everyday few-quick-pumps-then-a-cuddle merchant but I would imagine he hid it to a reasonable degree.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,312 ✭✭✭realdanbreen


    His father said today that he was standing by his son.

    I know he is his father and all that but I think its a bit rich for him to be saying that. Even if he thinks the son is innocent is he condoning the sadistic way he brutalised that woman,and others? And what exactly does he mean by ;standing by his son' . Does he think he is innocent? If so he should come straight out and say that.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,362 ✭✭✭K4t


    I'm sure he has seen all the evidence and knows his son is guilty, but he's still not going to simply desert him or disown him, which is understandable. He probably remembers his son as a child and all the good memories and wonders how it got to this. Perhaps he blames himself in some way? Who knows.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,199 ✭✭✭✭Spanish Eyes


    One would imagine his wife knew his sexual tendencies weren't exactly vanilla but had no idea of the degree to which they deviated from normal. He had brought a knife into the bedroom in an earlier relationship that had been serious enough to produce a child and I'd imagine after that lead to it turning sour he was more guarded with what he revealed to his wife. I doubt he could quite pull off the charade of being an everyday few-quick-pumps-then-a-cuddle merchant but I would imagine he hid it to a reasonable degree.

    I would suggest that at home it certainly WAS vanilla, and normal. Part of the plan!

    Devious little bstard.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,312 ✭✭✭realdanbreen


    K4t wrote: »
    I'm sure he has seen all the evidence and knows his son is guilty, but he's still not going to simply desert him or disown him, which is understandable. He probably remembers his son as a child and all the good memories and wonders how it got to this. Perhaps he blames himself in some way? Who knows.

    Fair enough but perhaps if his first statement on the matter was to express sadness for what happened to EOH rather than saying he was standing by his son it might be a bit more appropriate.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,199 ✭✭✭✭Spanish Eyes


    I know he is his father and all that but I think its a bit rich for him to be saying that. Even if he thinks the son is innocent is he condoning the sadistic way he brutalised that woman,and others? And what exactly does he mean by ;standing by his son' . Does he think he is innocent? If so he should come straight out and say that.

    It is probably the father's way of dealing with it. Denial. For his own sake, as the truth is too much to bear.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,199 ✭✭✭✭Spanish Eyes


    Fair enough but perhaps if his first statement on the matter was to express sadness for what happened to EOH rather than saying he was standing by his son it might be a bit more appropriate.

    Did Dwyer's father, or family make any statement?

    As far as I recall, only Graham Dwyer made a statement, and he made no reference to the person he killed or her family either in that statement.

    I cannot understand how a convicted killer is allowed to make any statement in the first place. They should be taken to prison and that is that. The jury has spoken.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,428 ✭✭✭Dwarf.Shortage


    Did Dwyer's father, or family make any statement?

    As far as I recall, only Graham Dwyer made a statement, and he made no reference to the person he killed or her family either in that statement.

    I cannot understand how a convicted killer is allowed to make any statement in the first place. They should be taken to prison and that is that. The jury has spoken.

    One isn't afforded some specific right to make a statement, if he was taken straight to prison he could have just written his thoughts down and sent them to family or someone in the media to make public. He isn't afforded time to speak in the courtroom after he is convicted or anything like that, most likely he informed his legal team of what he wanted released in the case he was convicted.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,199 ✭✭✭✭Spanish Eyes


    One isn't afforded some specific right to make a statement, if he was taken straight to prison he could have just written his thoughts down and sent them to family or someone in the media to make public. He isn't afforded time to speak in the courtroom after he is convicted or anything like that, most likely he informed his legal team of what he wanted released in the case he was convicted.

    Egotistical so and so!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,472 ✭✭✭brooke 2


    Roquentin wrote: »
    yea, but couldnt they have seen the texts from elaines phone as in they check her phone records

    The initial investigation was as poor as the subsequent one was excellent.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,472 ✭✭✭brooke 2


    They may well have but they had no link to Dwyer as he bought the master phone in a ficticious name.

    When EOH downloaded her list of phone contacts onto her computer, her text messages were also downloaded. Graham
    Dwyer's name and some of her messages to him were among
    those.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,472 ✭✭✭brooke 2


    The most bizarre aspect of this, with due respect to Dwyer's wife and family, was the way he conducted his "knife and murder fetish" silently to everyone who knew him.

    Scary that someone can lead a double life without ANYONE beings suspicious.

    How do they do that?

    Somebody was suspicious. When EOH's remains were found, the Gardai received an anonymous message directing them to Graham Dwyer. He is said to have attacked someone about twenty
    years ago - this incident went unreported. The mother of his first child was allegedly terrified of him and was in court on the day the jury announced the verdict, much to her relief.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,381 ✭✭✭✭Allyall


    K4t wrote: »
    What's odd is that I was obviously joking about wanting links to the porn he had on his pc (though I wouldn't mind having a look at them!), but I'm not sure you're joking about wanting him tortured; nor are many others in this thread. It's quite revealing.
    Not obvious at all, you even said you wanted it for 'research' purposes. and just repeated that you wouldn't mind having a look at them...
    You bullsh*tted in the same sentence.. :(
    His fetish, was to injure, maim, stab and murder someone. He wasn't forced (blackmail, debt, anger, drugs, revenge, etc.), he literally got turned on by it, and he chose someone who had obvious problems.
    So, no, I would have no sympathy for him.
    And to be completely honest, I find your posts a lot more revealing.
    K4t wrote: »
    I don't look for kicks when discussing a person's murder. I don't look for the murderer to be tortured either, no matter how evil he might be.
    You were looking for something.
    K4t wrote: »
    They're pornographic videos afaik. Not real I hope. I don't like anybody being tortured, prisoners or otherwise.
    Then why would you want to see them? Why even ask? Joking?

    Dwyer was texting from an untraceable phone and was only linked to him after it was recovered from the reservoir.
    Roquentin wrote: »
    yea, but couldnt they have seen the texts from elaines phone as in they check her phone records

    He bought both phones, gave her one 'untraceable' and he used the other.
    Afaik, he called them 'master' and 'slave' phones.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 498 ✭✭Mallagio


    You get the feeling with this fella that this case is tip of his sick iceberg.... don't ya??


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,381 ✭✭✭✭Allyall


    Mallagio wrote: »
    You get the feeling with this fella that this case is tip of his sick iceberg.... don't ya??
    Yep.
    I don't have the slightest clue how these things are harvested or kept etc..
    But I would have investigated every step he took for the last 20+ years and investigated any murder/rape/disappearance and cross examined them.

    His ex said he brought a knife to bed 20 years ago, so he had these feelings brewing for quite a while. He seemed very sure of himself he'd get away with this. I'd be willing to guess he may have done something else similar at least once before.

    EDIT - Even earlier apparently

    But I would obviously be just speculating.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 498 ✭✭Mallagio


    Allyall wrote: »
    Yep.
    I don't have the slightest clue how these things are harvested or kept etc..
    But I would have investigated every step he took for the last 20+ years and investigated any murder/rape/disappearance and cross examined them.

    His ex said he brought a knife to bed 20 years ago, so he had these feelings brewing for quite a while. He seemed very sure of himself he'd get away with this. I'd be willing to guess he may have done something else similar at least once before.

    But I would obviously be just speculating.

    Exactamundo! - said the exact same thing to my missus tonight.

    People like to try find out why he's like this, want to know whether his daddy was at fault & all that jazz..... Sometimes folk are evil & it's nobody's fault.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,381 ✭✭✭✭Allyall


    There was some case in Wales I saw a true crime programme in the 90's. I can't remember the details, but the basic story was, some guy was involved in an accident, he saw somebody die, and realised that he liked it, or got some sort of fetish thrill from it..

    Anyway, later on, he ended up being convicted for a murder, and they suspect him of a few more.
    It was years ago I watched it, and I have searched every now and then to find it, but with no luck.

    Something must have been triggered in that guy, and he liked it so much he wanted to regain/revive that feeling.
    i.e. - Nothing to do with "his daddy & all that jazz" or anyone else he grew up with. (I know that's what you were saying.. But I was trying to remember that episode, and relate it to it.)


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,895 ✭✭✭sabat


    ncmc wrote: »
    The more I hear about this case, the more I am staggered he didn’t put in a plea of manslaughter or assisted suicide...

    ...It was a very risky move to plead not guilty, it was always going to be an all or nothing situation. Either he was going to walk away a free man or spend the rest of his life in jail. I think it says a lot about the man that his sense of being untouchable probably has caused him to be locked away for the rest of his life.

    Being uber-cynical (and I don't believe this to be true) he should have said that they were just "playing their normal game" but it went wrong and she died and he panicked and covered it up to protect his reputation. Plead guilty to manslaughter and associated charges and he'd be out in 5 years or less. After all, he did have the perfect defence in videos of Ms O'Hara willingly partaking in these activities with him. Like you said, he was such an arrogant disassociated prick that he failed to see the reality of the situation in front of him.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,554 ✭✭✭bjork


    Were other things belonging to a Gardai?/person unknown? also found in the lake?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,186 ✭✭✭stickybookmark


    I would suggest that at home it certainly WAS vanilla, and normal. Part of the plan!

    Devious little bstard.

    I read in the paper that the prosecution didn't question Gemma Dwyer about her husband's sexual tendancies because it 'wouldn't have helped their case' implying that he didn't show his true colours to her I'd imagine


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