Psych warfare with a narcissit

Simcard102 · 06-04-2015 06:08AM #1

Ive being living with a narc for the last couple of months. I moved in at the start of october which is the build up to a "tough" time of year for me as i suffer from SAD. He is the first one ive encountered. Im 18 just moved away from home to a new city for work. He is 23.

Things were great for the first couple of weeks then he just turned into this horrible horrible person. He thinks he is better then everyone especially me it seems. All he ever talksabout is himself , its not even talking its just bragging. He barley acknowledges anything i ever have to say and takes criticism very badly. He thinks he is above most people, again it seems me especially. Puts me down, makes me feel inferior, stupid, not good enough etc. He also uses me and never returns favours. Ive lent him money a couple of times. One time when i was badly stuck i asked him for a lend. Of course i never got it even though he had plenty of money that week, he makes far more then me

He sucked every morsel of life i had left after the SAD and basically made my life miserable for the past few months.
Anyways the sun is out and im feeling good. I know his game now and want to go to war with him over the next week or 2 before i leave. What can i do that will bug him? Or make him feel like ****, or really piss him of? Ive seen stuff about narc rage on the web but he isint a very angry person as he is high 24/7 but i would love to see him lose it just for my entertainment.

He currently thinks were "friends" even though all he ever did was use and abuse me to make him feel superior and better. I would love to beat him to a pulp just to gloat over him and make him feel small but thats not me.

Anyways any tips on how to mess with him/piss him of over the next week or two before i move out, i want to go out with a bang. Im aware that he will fire back with all cylinders but im prepared his words can no longer hurt me.

I also noticed that when he fulfills his narc tendencys (Manipulates , evokes a reaction/emotion, succesfully promotes himself in front of people. Etc. you know the deal) his eyes roll back in his skull like someone rushing on mdma like Wtf is wrong with these people there like a **** stain on society.

DoYouEvenLift · 06-04-2015 06:10AM

narcissit

Dangerous Man · 06-04-2015 06:11AM

Put your fingers in him.

LadyAthame · 06-04-2015 06:13AM

Dangerous Man wrote: »

Put your fingers in him.

But which orifice though? You will need rubber gloves OP.

Just move out and leave him alone.

Dangerous Man · 06-04-2015 06:17AM

LadyAthame wrote: »

But which orifice though? You will need rubber gloves OP.

Just move out and leave him alone.

Anus.

Put your fingers in his anus OP.

Simcard102 · 06-04-2015 06:17AM

DoYouEvenLift wrote: »

narcissit

Thanks..

Macavity. · 06-04-2015 06:18AM

Kill his mother and send him a picture of you tea bagging her severed head. I wouldn't do anything else though, it's important not to go overboard in these situations.

Dangerous Man · 06-04-2015 06:19AM

Macavity. wrote: »

Kill his mother and send him a picture of you tea bagging her severed head. I wouldn't do anything else though, it's important not to go overboard in these situations.

He could put his fingers in the head.

LadyAthame · 06-04-2015 06:22AM

Dangerous Man wrote: »

Anus.

Put your fingers in his anus OP.

Men like that.

LadyAthame · 06-04-2015 06:23AM

Just forget about him. Don't get into these types of games. Wish him well let it go. Live well.

Simcard102 · 06-04-2015 06:37AM

LadyAthame wrote: »

Just forget about him.

That is exactly what im going to do AFTER I move out.. You have no idea how horrible this guy is he actually made my life hell for the past couple of months. He basically laughed at me when I told him about SAD (big mistake) and has used it as a weapon against me on several occasions making it 100 times worse. He basically wiped out all of my self belief and confidence and left me socially anxious at work which made it very hard for me to mix well and make friends.

Ive gone through bad break ups, Got my head kicked in etc and can honestly say no one has ever hurt me near as much as this guy I HAVE to do something or else i will have a hard time forgetting about it.

DEFTLEFTHAND · 06-04-2015 06:41AM

As a narcissist he gets's a get a kick out of you being uncomfortable and complaining on message boards. 'Narcises' are usually also alpha males, you need to stand up to him and challenge his leadership of your social group.

Dangerous Man · 06-04-2015 06:43AM

Set fire to the house. If he has any pets kill them.

Simcard102 · 06-04-2015 06:47AM

DEFTLEFTHAND wrote: »

As a narcissist he gets's a get a kick out of you being uncomfortable and complaining on message boards. 'Narcises' are usually also alpha males, you need to stand up to him and challenge his leadership of your social group.

The only reason i made this thread was to find a way to get at him. Not to complain granted it does look like that now thanks to the first few replys i got. I was just trying to give more insight

Canis Lupus · 06-04-2015 06:48AM

Simcard102 wrote: »

That is exactly what im going to do AFTER I move out.. I HAVE to do something .

There you go.

Simcard102 · 06-04-2015 07:12AM

Canis Lupus wrote: »

There you go.

If someone assaulted you on a daily basis would you just walk away and forget about it?

Its the same thing except its mental and emotional assault.

What do you make of the mdma rush thing how messed up is that?

Canis Lupus · 06-04-2015 07:21AM

Simcard102 wrote: »

If someone assaulted you on a daily basis would you just walk away and forget about it?

Its the same thing except its mental and emotional assault.

What do you make of the mdma rush thing how messed up is that?

I'd probably make a boards account and post about it online.

LadyAthame · 06-04-2015 07:35AM

Canis Lupus wrote: »

I'd probably make a boards account and post about it online.

No that is what narcissists do....hint hint op

LadyAthame · 06-04-2015 07:36AM

DEFTLEFTHAND wrote: »

A'Narcises' are usually also alpha males,

No they are not.

Dangerous Man · 06-04-2015 07:36AM

I had the best idea so far.

Canis Lupus · 06-04-2015 07:37AM

You could also try vaguebooking.

Rantan · 06-04-2015 07:44AM

Op you are going to meet a lot of people you don't like over the course of your life. If this is going to be your reaction to each of them i worry for you. You need to learn better coping skills and not be so obsessive. The fact that you feel the need to "do something" and possibly something physical means you come across as a little aggressive, sorry but i don't have much sympathy for you as a result

Macavity. · 06-04-2015 07:49AM

Dangerous Man wrote: »

I had the best idea so far.

I liked the part where he puts his fingers in.

Simcard102 · 06-04-2015 07:52AM

Canis Lupus wrote: »

I'd probably make a boards account and post about it online.

Good one...

My friends are all basically kids like me with F.A experience of the real world they wouldnt be able to help. I didnt even know they existed until i googled his symptoms the other day. And im not going to worry my family members so ya the best thing i came up with was to post here.

Best thing i thought of was to "randomly" show him this interesting article on narcisissm and then tell him thats exactly what you are. And that he is the most vile person ive ever met, rot in hell GOODBYE.

evolving_doors · 06-04-2015 07:56AM

just change all the tea and coffee to decaf and watch his world implode.

Then just move out, and let it gooooo. like the song advises

Timberrrrrrrr · 06-04-2015 07:57AM

Simcard102 wrote: »

Good one...

My friends are all basically kids like me with F.A experience of the real world they wouldnt be able to help. I didnt even know they existed until i googled his symptoms the other day. And im not going to worry my family members so ya the best thing i came up with was to post here.

Best thing i thought of was to "randomly" show him this interesting article on narcisissm and then tell him thats exactly what you are. And that he is the most vile person ive ever met, rot in hell GOODBYE.

Gonna give you some genuine advice here, take it or leave it the choice will be yours alone.

Walk away!

That's my advice, just walk away and forget this guy. If you see him on the street just breeze on by and ignore him. If he calls/texts/emails you just ignore him. Friends on facebook? Unfriend and continue with your life and just treat him as a minor inconvenience that has now disappeared. Honestly doing these things will bother him more than some petty revenge that will probably just end up getting you into a potentially violent situation.

Simcard102 · 06-04-2015 07:59AM

Rantan wrote: »

Op you are going to meet a lot of people you don't like over the course of your life. If this is going to be your reaction to each of them i worry for you. You need to learn better coping skills and not be so obsessive. The fact that you feel the need to "do something" and possibly something physical means you come across as a little aggressive, sorry but i don't have much sympathy for you as a result

You know what your right, thanks for the post best one yet!
Its just hard when your faced with it everyday yano.

About the last bit.

""I would love to beat him to a pulp just to gloat over him and make him feel small but THATS NOT ME" I named the thread psych warfare for a reason i would never physically hurt anyone unless in defence.

JJJJNR · 06-04-2015 08:14AM

Have as little contact as possible with them, don't get into situations where you need to borrow money from them, talk to them, the less you can stimulate the better. Just look at them as meat bags from now on.

Tilly · 06-04-2015 08:31AM

You really need to get over it, you sound so immature. Move on and forget about him.

JJJJNR · 06-04-2015 08:38AM

Thats harsh, it can be hard for most people to handle narcissist personalities and they will leave you penniless if you are not aware of the behaviour traits. I think at 18 and being able to identify narcissistic behaviour shows a good level of maturity.

Simcard102 · 06-04-2015 08:39AM

Timberrrrrrrr wrote: »

Gonna give you some genuine advice here, take it or leave it the choice will be yours alone.

Walk away!

That's my advice, just walk away and forget this guy. If you see him on the street just breeze on by and ignore him. If he calls/texts/emails you just ignore him. Friends on facebook? Unfriend and continue with your life and just treat him as a minor inconvenience that has now disappeared. Honestly doing these things will bother him more than some petty revenge that will probably just end up getting you into a potentially violent situation.

Thank you timber I think i will take it. Thanks for the genuine post fair play.

Psych warfare with a narcissit

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