How to show women the real you.

Iron Man 2.0 · 11-03-2015 01:48AM #1

I'm the kind of guy that goes for a night out hoping to meet a woman that I have a connection with to keep in contact after that night and hopefully build a relationship in if we feel a spark. Sadly no luck yet.

Most of my friends have never had a girlfriend as they are only interested in casual encounters with women.

I would be quite quiet (Not shy) but I never seem to be able to show women the real me which I think most would like.

I would consider myself caring, nurturing, romantic and loving
I try to be a gentleman and I always respect women which not many of my friends do.

Any advice?

Kevin McCloud · 11-03-2015 01:50AM

Get busy living or get busy dying.

bodice ripper · 11-03-2015 01:52AM

What is it you are doing when you are not being the real you? Stop doing that.

catbear · 11-03-2015 01:53AM

I find the easy way for women to see me as I am is to not wear a balaclava.

jungleman · 11-03-2015 01:54AM

Go out. Make eye contact with a female. When she takes the bait and strikes up a conversation, answer only with "THAT'S A SPICY MEATBALL"

Women find it irresistible.

ardinn · 11-03-2015 01:54AM

Seriously, bang everything in sight, you'l get no street cred being nice!!

Also bang a pennies employee - Pennies girls talk about that **** - Be good tho!! or you'l be single forever!!

PizzamanIRL · 11-03-2015 01:55AM

You never really get to show women the real you during the short period of time on a night out. They'll make their assumptions about you there and then and you might not ever get the chance to show them how caring etc. that you are.

It's a shame really.

Wacker The Attacker · 11-03-2015 01:57AM

Why do you think I'm still single?

Macavity. · 11-03-2015 01:57AM

I spend my time around women trying to hide the real me.

Miall108 · 11-03-2015 01:58AM

Show her the back of your hand

Sound of Silence · 11-03-2015 01:58AM

Don't go to Nite-Clubs looking for a Girlfriend. You're wasting your time.

Honestly, if you're looking for a committed relationship, you should try online dating. It's much easier to sort through the masses and find someone who's (A) Interested in you and (B) wants a long term relationship.

waffleman · 11-03-2015 02:02AM

Show her dick pics when introducing yourself - bitches love dick pic intros

Mesrine65 · 11-03-2015 02:03AM

To thine own self be true....

Seriously...just be yourself.

If you're being honest in your OP, I doubt you'll have any problems.

A few heart breaks down the line, but hey, life's for living & sometimes the best thing will just walk in, whup you upside the heart & the head &....SHAZAM :eek:

Best of luck in your quête de l'amour OP

:cool:

enfant terrible · 11-03-2015 02:05AM

Iron Man 2.0 wrote: »

I'm the kind of guy that goes for a night out hoping to meet a woman that I have a connection with to keep in contact after that night and hopefully build a relationship in if we feel a spark. Sadly no luck yet.

Most of my friends have never had a girlfriend as they are only interested in casual encounters with women.

I would be quite quiet (Not shy) but I never seem to be able to show women the real me which I think most would like.

I would consider myself caring, nurturing, romantic and loving
I try to be a gentleman and I always respect women which not many of my friends do.

Any advice?

Your best best is to expand your social circle so your introduced to new women.

Don't just talk to women on nights out, talk to everyone.

Friend of a friend seems to be how most people hook up.

Wide Load · 11-03-2015 02:05AM

Just whip it out watch her get weak at the knees. Works a treat.

Iron Man 2.0 · 11-03-2015 02:05AM

Mesrine65 wrote: »

To thine own self be true....

Seriously...just be yourself.

If you're being honest in your OP, I doubt you'll have any problems.

A few heart breaks down the line, but hey, life's for living & sometimes the best thing will just walk in, whup you upside the heart & the head &....SHAZAM :eek:

Best of luck in your quête de l'amour OP :cool:

Thank You

The Backwards Man · 11-03-2015 02:07AM

Most of us dudes are spending our lives trying to hide the real us OP.

Just tell them you're a pilot and wing it from there.

Tigger · 11-03-2015 02:08AM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Te-jTA8g8Ys

or there is a Who version if you don'y love the 80's

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pohhMx9EdNc

you need to take your life in your own hands and be bold in your actions
so look at where the type of woman you want to meet would be comfy in and go be comfy there.

Edit: i mean like ice skating rinks not peoples sitting rooms.

Heckler · 11-03-2015 02:08AM

I just lob the lad out. Women love a good laugh.

Wabbit Ears · 11-03-2015 02:32AM

I'm pretty good at the old chat up and can usually get them to come home with me but when it comes to explaining the duct tape and bags of quick lime I get coy and shy and mumble a lot. This turns them off so Ive never really has a lasting relationship, I mean they rarely survive more than 5 mins tops.

Mesrine65 · 11-03-2015 02:39AM

Kevin McCloud wrote: »

Get busy living or get busy dying.

catbear wrote: »

I find the easy way for women to see me as I am is to not wear a balaclava.

jungleman wrote: »

Go out. Make eye contact with a female. When she takes the bait and strikes up a conversation, answer only with "THAT'S A SPICY MEATBALL"

Women find it irresistible.

ardinn wrote: »

Seriously, bang everything in sight, you'l get no street cred being nice!!

Also bang a pennies employee - Pennies girls talk about that **** - Be good tho!! or you'l be single forever!!

Miall108 wrote: »

Show her the back of your hand

waffleman wrote: »

Show her dick pics when introducing yourself - bitches love dick pic intros

Wide Load wrote: »

Just whip it out watch her get weak at the knees. Works a treat.

Heckler wrote: »

I just lob the lad out. Women love a good laugh.

Wabbit Ears wrote: »

I'm pretty good at the old chat up and can usually get them to come home with me but when it comes to explaining the duct tape and bags of quick lime I get coy and shy and mumble a lot. This turns them off so Ive never really has a lasting relationship, I mean they rarely survive more than 5 mins tops.

Gotta love AH

WE TAKE NO PRISONERS :eek: :eek:

Strangely that came out in my head as Gerard Butler in 300 :pac::pac::pac:

Littlekittylou · 11-03-2015 02:50AM

Iron Man 2.0 wrote: »

I'm the kind of guy that goes for a night out hoping to meet a woman that I have a connection with to keep in contact after that night and hopefully build a relationship in if we feel a spark. Sadly no luck yet.

Most of my friends have never had a girlfriend as they are only interested in casual encounters with women.

I would be quite quiet (Not shy) but I never seem to be able to show women the real me which I think most would like.

I would consider myself caring, nurturing, romantic and loving
I try to be a gentleman and I always respect women which not many of my friends do.

Any advice?

Date me.

The Diabolical Monocle · 11-03-2015 03:03AM

Littlekittylou wrote: »

Date me.

omg omg omg

*claps hands, hops up and down*

Heckler · 11-03-2015 03:08AM

Iron Man 2.0 wrote: »

I'm the kind of guy that goes for a night out hoping to meet a woman that I have a connection with to keep in contact after that night and hopefully build a relationship in if we feel a spark. Sadly no luck yet.

Most of my friends have never had a girlfriend as they are only interested in casual encounters with women.

I would be quite quiet (Not shy) but I never seem to be able to show women the real me which I think most would like.

I would consider myself caring, nurturing, romantic and loving
I try to be a gentleman and I always respect women which not many of my friends do.

Any advice?

Just don't regard yourself as better than your friends. Slight whiff of white knight from your post. "Why do the women go for the bastards. If only they could see how great I am". Not saying thats your case just don't be a doormat either. Trying to show someone you don't know that you're caring and romantic doesn't work. They realise that in time having gotten to know you.

The Diabolical Monocle · 11-03-2015 03:25AM

OP - seriously now, dont show her your inner emo.

less dawsons creek, more macho man randy savage.

Littlekittylou · 11-03-2015 03:29AM

The Diabolical Monocle wrote: »

OP - seriously now, dont show her your inner emo.

less dawsons creek, more macho man randy savage.

His wife seems nice.

http://s671.photobucket.com/user/marchbunny27/media/Extra%20Stuff/Miss-Elizabeth.jpg.html

Littlekittylou · 11-03-2015 03:34AM

The Diabolical Monocle wrote: »

omg omg omg

*claps hands, hops up and down*

Serious he is a prince!

The Diabolical Monocle · 11-03-2015 03:36AM

Littlekittylou wrote: »

His wife seems nice.

http://s671.photobucket.com/user/marchbunny27/media/Extra%20Stuff/Miss-Elizabeth.jpg.html

Ooooooh yeeah.

Off the top rope.

Littlekittylou · 11-03-2015 03:40AM

The Diabolical Monocle wrote: »

Ooooooh yeeah.

Off the top rope.

OMG I used to watch WWF as a kid. I remember the undertaker!

And Hogan!

johnny osbourne · 11-03-2015 03:41AM

tell funny jokes, that usually works

Adamantium · 11-03-2015 04:59AM

Be caught in the "moment"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T9IZDInBv1M

How to show women the real you.

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