Up to boiling point!

Irishguy16 · 04-03-2015 11:19pm #1

Just a bit freaked out these days......

Over the part 4 years, I've been stalked, mostly online, by a guy that I know. It got really bad about 2 years ago. He literally checks up on everything that I do,somehow found my old accounts online,through a number of different sites,and knows my usernames, even I can't remember some of them. Last month,I started up my own website, a personal thing to me,an online journal, that I like to keep. I passed him earlier on and he said "Oh I like your new website, and read your blogs"

It's as if he puts my name into google everday to see what he can find. Nobody knows about this site, I didn't tell anyone!Should I be freaked out? What would you do? Is this being obsessive?

I've tried to shelter myself from this guy for months now, but we are in the same group, and it's tough to escape. I don't know how anyone could know so much, he even knows my old address, and he seems to remember personal stuff, things that he shouldn't, and things that nobody would really repeat, unless they had a motive

darkpagandeath · 04-03-2015 11:22pm

I would seek Psychiatric advice.

Desolation Of Smug · 04-03-2015 11:22pm

Just ride him, resistance is futile.

kfallon · 04-03-2015 11:23pm

Irishguy16 wrote: »

Just a bit freaked out these days......

Over the part 4 years, I've been stalked, mostly online, by a guy that I know. It got really bad about 2 years ago. He literally checks up on everything that I do,somehow found my old accounts online,through a number of different sites,and knows my usernames, even I can't remember some of them. Last month,I started up my own website, a personal thing to me,an online journal, that I like to keep. I passed him earlier on and he said "Oh I like your new website, and read your blogs"

It's as if he puts my name into google everday to see what he can find. Nobody knows about this site, I didn't tell anyone!Should I be freaked out? What would you do? Is this being obsessive?

I've tried to shelter myself from this guy for months now, but we are in the same group, and it's tough to escape. I don't know how anyone could know so much, he even knows my old address, and he seems to remember personal stuff, things that he shouldn't, and things that nobody would really repeat, unless they had a motive

If you want to keep something personal I'd advise not putting it on the internet....

Funkfield · 04-03-2015 11:23pm

Is his name Tyler Durden?

Gmol · 04-03-2015 11:23pm

Oh hi there you are, love your boards post.

Mr_Muffin · 04-03-2015 11:23pm

OK i didn't think it bothered you that much i will stop.

diomed · 04-03-2015 11:25pm

You are putting information online and you want people to not know.

Chucken · 04-03-2015 11:27pm

Irishguy16 wrote: »

Just a bit freaked out these days......

Over the part 4 years,

Going by your username I'll guess you're 16.
4 years ago you were 12.
How interesting was your internet activity wayyyyy back then?

FluffyAngel · 04-03-2015 11:27pm

are you hoping that he reads this and gets a hint ..

Kevin McCloud · 04-03-2015 11:28pm

You will now come up on google searches op.

PizzamanIRL · 04-03-2015 11:30pm

What you want us to do about it?

Paramite Pie · 04-03-2015 11:30pm

wow... that's really creepy! This clearly isn't the best place for advice given the unoriginal replies above this one...

Have you linked your accounts together or something? Do you blog under your real name? If you know someones email address you can search to see what accounts are registered with that email.

Are you facebook friends with him? Even if your not, and he's fb friends with one of your mates, he could probably still see your profile (the dangers of fb's "friend of friends" setting).

Lastly, are you sure he won't see this, lol??

Wacker The Attacker · 04-03-2015 11:31pm

Thats what you get for putting your business out there on the street.

AndonHandon · 04-03-2015 11:50pm

He sounds supportive and encouraging. By any chance is his name David?

Nodin · 04-03-2015 11:52pm

Irishguy16 wrote: »

Just a bit freaked out these days......

Over the part 4 years, I've been stalked, mostly online, by a guy that I know. It got really bad about 2 years ago. He literally checks up on everything that I do,somehow found my old accounts online,through a number of different sites,and knows my usernames, even I can't remember some of them. Last month,I started up my own website, a personal thing to me,an online journal, that I like to keep. I passed him earlier on and he said "Oh I like your new website, and read your blogs"

It's as if he puts my name into google everday to see what he can find. Nobody knows about this site, I didn't tell anyone!Should I be freaked out? What would you do? Is this being obsessive?

I've tried to shelter myself from this guy for months now, but we are in the same group, and it's tough to escape. I don't know how anyone could know so much, he even knows my old address, and he seems to remember personal stuff, things that he shouldn't, and things that nobody would really repeat, unless they had a motive

1 - Does he look like you?

2 - Does he appear when you are at or near a mirror?

ben.schlomo · 04-03-2015 11:54pm

Irishguy16 wrote: »

Just a bit freaked out these days......

Over the part 4 years, I've been stalked, mostly online, by a guy that I know. It got really bad about 2 years ago. He literally checks up on everything that I do,somehow found my old accounts online,through a number of different sites,and knows my usernames, even I can't remember some of them. Last month,I started up my own website, a personal thing to me,an online journal, that I like to keep. I passed him earlier on and he said "Oh I like your new website, and read your blogs"

It's as if he puts my name into google everday to see what he can find. Nobody knows about this site, I didn't tell anyone!Should I be freaked out? What would you do? Is this being obsessive?

I've tried to shelter myself from this guy for months now, but we are in the same group, and it's tough to escape. I don't know how anyone could know so much, he even knows my old address, and he seems to remember personal stuff, things that he shouldn't, and things that nobody would really repeat, unless they had a motive

This is the very reason AH is gone to the dogs. Attention seeking nonsense.

kowloon · 04-03-2015 11:55pm

I'm getting stalked by a company that sells mini engine models, turns up in almost every ad box.

jamesbere · 05-03-2015 12:01am

One, it's the internet nothing is private. Two, there's a fine stretch in the evenings now

jamesbere · 05-03-2015 12:03am

Guys maybe you can help me aswell but

Just a bit freaked out these days......

Over the part 4 years, I've been stalked, mostly online, by a guy that I know. It got really bad about 2 years ago. He literally checks up on everything that I do,somehow found my old accounts online,through a number of different sites,and knows my usernames, even I can't remember some of them. Last month,I started up my own website, a personal thing to me,an online journal, that I like to keep. I passed him earlier on and he said "Oh I like your new website, and read your blogs"

It's as if he puts my name into google everday to see what he can find. Nobody knows about this site, I didn't tell anyone!Should I be freaked out? What would you do? Is this being obsessive?

I've tried to shelter myself from this guy for months now, but we are in the same group, and it's tough to escape. I don't know how anyone could know so much, he even knows my old address, and he seems to remember personal stuff, things that he shouldn't, and things that nobody would really repeat, unless they had a motive

Desolation Of Smug · 05-03-2015 12:04am

ben.schlomo wrote: »

This is the very reason AH is gone to the dogs. Attention seeking nonsense.

Lol. "Gone to the dogs"?? It started at the dogs and then went cat.

lulu1 · 05-03-2015 12:07am

Op why are you keeping these old accounts if you never use them. You say he seems to remember personal stuff things that he shouldnt remember. Thats a kind of a weird statement

A personal journal if you want to keep something personal you dont splash it all over the internet

sheesh · 05-03-2015 12:17am

Irishguy16 wrote: »

I started up my own website, a personal thing to me,an online journal, that I like to keep. I passed him earlier on and he said "Oh I like your new website, and read your blogs"

It's as if he puts my name into google everday to see what he can find. Nobody knows about this site, I didn't tell anyone!Should I be freaked out? What would you do? Is this being obsessive?

Are you friend with them on Facebook?

Mongfinder General · 05-03-2015 12:21am

Sounds like he wants to get up on you. Big style.

Adamantium · 05-03-2015 12:34am

Be reasonable; do this OP. That's all the advice I got, I can't help you after that.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i5ufgkJ-uVE

Paramite Pie · 05-03-2015 12:48am

Apparently Google has a public removal tool;

http://searchengineland.com/removing-your-personal-information-from-google-55014

OP try to do some reading up on online privacy, you'll be surprised at the lengths people will go.

I'm disappointed with the answers here, if this was a guy stalking a girl online we'd be all concerned. Double standard much?

lulu1 · 05-03-2015 12:55am

Paramite Pie wrote: »

Apparently Google has a public removal tool;

http://searchengineland.com/removing-your-personal-information-from-google-55014

OP try to do some reading up on online privacy, you'll be surprised at the lengths people will go.

I'm disappointed with the answers here, if this was a guy stalking a girl online we'd be all concerned. Double standard much?

It dosent give any indication if it's a guy or a girl posting just Irishguy as username and that means nothing

jamesbere · 05-03-2015 1:00am

Paramite Pie wrote: »

Apparently Google has a public removal tool;

http://searchengineland.com/removing-your-personal-information-from-google-55014

OP try to do some reading up on online privacy, you'll be surprised at the lengths people will go.

I'm disappointed with the answers here, if this was a guy stalking a girl online we'd be all concerned. Double standard much?

I for one don't like to see stalking happen but the OP should realise you're not going to get much sympathy on AH. What I'd like to know is has he said this to any of his friends or family, If he feels uncomfortable around this person tell him.

I never put very private stuff on the internet, don't trust it. My facebook profile is mostly full of funny photo's I find of the net.

punisher5112 · 05-03-2015 1:03am

Maybe the op likes Irish guys..

Could be a girl or boy...

Only thing for it op is to live in the trees where you have no power and thankfully you will have no internet.

Its so nice to have someone so interested in you they sound completely normal I would ask them out.

mickotoole · 05-03-2015 1:09am

Your computer has been compromised by this guy that's how he knows all your ****. That's my theory anyway

Littlekittylou · 05-03-2015 1:34am

unless they had a motive

He works for google.

Steve_Carella · 05-03-2015 1:40am

Blast him with piss.

SadieSue · 05-03-2015 1:58am

OOoo conspiracies.. hmm.. Maybe someone else you know is giving him info?

Littlekittylou · 05-03-2015 2:01am

SadieSue wrote: »

OOoo conspiracies.. hmm.. Maybe someone else you know is giving him info?

Yes ...google.

SadieSue · 05-03-2015 2:02am

Littlekittylou wrote: »

Yes ...google.

Haha.. maybe its that Ask Jeeves guy.

Littlekittylou · 05-03-2015 2:09am

SadieSue wrote: »

Haha.. maybe its that Ask Jeeves guy.

conorh91 · 05-03-2015 2:18am

Is it possible he has your passwords?

My friends have often fraped me by guessing my facebook password. If he knows as much about you as much as you say, it's possible he's guessed (or spied) one of your passwords, and is able to see your other internet activity from your google account.

Just a guess.

I'd change all passwords just in case, if I were you, and obviously do what you can to retrieve any old accounts if possible. I know these things can be so easy to lose track of.

Sounds genuinely frustrating.

Littlekittylou · 07-03-2015 3:37am

He wants you to join a cult.

He wants you to think you are not in control of your life OP. He wants you to recruit others too. He wants to brainwash you and leech ya!

This is them. Look at them dance there.
https://www.facebook.com/video.php?v=1178369465519444&pnref=story

I have seen this vid like a gazillion times ...and still ..i can't stop laughing.:pac:

Up to boiling point!

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