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Man commits suicide after taking magic mushrooms

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7 anypills


    I regularly take mushrooms and they are nothing but good, they're actually scientifically proven to reduce depression. Obviously any stimulants should be taken in moderation. The story is scaremongering st its finest.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,083 ✭✭✭Iranoutofideas


    He didn't want to go on a Stag to Amsterdam...but he went in the end

    He didn't want to take Shrooms...but he did in the end

    I'm sorry but there is something off about this whole story.

    The shrooms may or may not have been a factor but there was definitely more to it than that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,507 ✭✭✭lufties


    mikom wrote: »
    A lad kills himself.
    His family and friends flail around and point blame at something they believe to be bad.
    This is a multifaceted story, but the churnalists that pose as journalists in this country will put together a piece that just pushes the "drugs are bad" angle.

    Points to note aside from him having ingested a miniscle amout of magic mushrooms:

    Pressure of an upcoming wedding in November.

    The dead man was a carpenter and farmer. A carpenter during a building downturn. I would also like to point out that the incidences of suicide are quite high in the farming community

    Alan was not a drug user it is claimed. I presume he drank.

    A quote from the piece.... “He said he didn’t deserve us. He said we would be better off without him. Then he said the wedding was off because we deserved better.”
    Nothing may have happened, but he was back from a stag in Amsterdam where visiting prostitutes is a part of stags for some. Guilt can eat you up.

    I would also like to point out that the place where the magic mushrooms in this story were consumed has a suicide rate of 12 people per 100,000 each year.
    Ireland startlingly has suicide rate of 17 people per 100,000 each year.

    There is more to this story than magic mushrooms.

    I absolutely agree, there is more to this story..

    Personally, about 10 years ago I was in thailand on a lads holiday, cheated on my gf at the time who was in Ireland. The guilt nearly drove me insane.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7 anypills


    Also mushrooms aren't sold in the Netherlands anymore, only magic truffles which are a lot milder. Any scepticism on the effects of psilocybin, the psychoactive compound in the mushrooms can be allayed with a quick Google of its effects etc.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,745 ✭✭✭✭kylith


    Tasden wrote: »
    Thanks for the insight, I have no experience with them so wouldn't have a clue of how they would affect people in different scenarios.

    Well, that was my experience anyway. My main thought the next morning was 'Jesus, I'll have to take more of those next time because they hardly did anything'.

    What can happen is that they exacerbate whatever's on your mind in the first place, so if you're worried about anything it seem a lot bigger in your mind, but ime it only lasts as long as the trip, which wouldn't be 3 days.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,870 ✭✭✭✭Generic Dreadhead


    He should have just said No, regardless of how hard his 'friends' 'pushed' him to try them.
    Still R.I.P.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7 anypills


    Four of the fungus also would be entirely ineffective. My guess is he rode a whore and felt guilty about that and his family either don't know or refuse to believe it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,507 ✭✭✭lufties


    anypills wrote: »
    I regularly take mushrooms and they are nothing but good, they're actually scientifically proven to reduce depression. Obviously any stimulants should be taken in moderation. The story is scaremongering st its finest.

    I took 4 strong mexican mushrooms and loved it..a few hours later I was back to normal, no hangover.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,165 ✭✭✭Tombo2001


    lufties wrote: »
    How do you know it was the first time?


    I don't know, but that's what his family are saying.

    Now a question for you:

    At least ten people on the thread have said so far: "There is more to this story".

    Have you asked them to defend themselves, for making a point that they can in no way defend based on lack of information?

    Just reinforces my view that people just believe what it suits them to believe.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,860 ✭✭✭✭inforfun


    They are not illegal in the Netherlands.

    Mushrooms are illegal
    Truffels aren't


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7 anypills


    4 truffles would produce little to no effect, especially with alcolol consumed also. They're tiny little things.
    kylith wrote: »
    Especially telling his partner that she deserved better.

    I feel sorry for the family, but I really think there's more going on than a few shrooms.

    I've only taken our own ones, would anyone be able to confirm what the effects of four Amsterdam truffles would be?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,188 ✭✭✭DoYouEvenLift


    dmt is far from too much for a first time trip, a person experiences a full on dmt trip for the first time 42 days before they're born and every single time you sleep as the release of this chemical creates your dreams, also a near death experience and as you die your body floods itself with dmt to cope with it all. out of all the drugs i've taken dmt is the nicest more recognisable effect i've ever felt and why wouldn't it, i've been on dmt every night since mid 1980!! ;)



    would be like smoking a single joint to yourself ;)



    Alan’s devastated partner, Oonagh Heeney, claimed he was reluctant to try magic mushrooms on the trip.
    “He had everything to live for. We were getting married the following November,” she told a Cork Coroner’s inqust.
    “The tragedy is that he didn’t really want to go on that stag party trip in the first place.”
    “Alan never took drugs [before].... he felt so guilty after taking them,” she added.
    Oonagh said her partner went to Amsterdam a happy, hard-working young man, devoted to his children and family but he returned a changed
    person because of the drugs.


    A DMT trip through smoking or ingesting it will include a far higher dose than the miniscule amount we naturally get during sleep. It can pretty much make a person feel like they've left this world behind and entered an entirely unimaginable universe. For a lot of people I'm sure the mental preparation for the trip wouldn't happen without getting an idea of what a true trip can be.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,507 ✭✭✭lufties


    Tombo2001 wrote: »
    I don't know, but that's what his family are saying.

    Now a question for you:

    At least ten people on the thread have said so far: "There is more to this story".

    Have you asked them to defend themselves, for making a point that they can in no way defend based on lack of information?

    Just reinforces my view that people just believe what it suits them to believe.

    People are saying 'there is more to this story' because they are making an educated summation, not just believing what the paper said.

    Think about it, why would someone feel such remorse for taking a few mild magic mushrooms??


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,166 ✭✭✭Tasden


    kylith wrote: »
    Well, that was my experience anyway. My main thought the next morning was 'Jesus, I'll have to take more of those next time because they hardly did anything'.

    What can happen is that they exacerbate whatever's on your mind in the first place, so if you're worried about anything it seem a lot bigger in your mind, but ime it only lasts as long as the trip, which wouldn't be 3 days.

    But if he felt unworthy or not good enough for whatever reason, took the drugs and they magnified these concerns and possible doubts about the wedding, then if he came home still hungover/experiencing the fear or whatever from the drink and the experience he had with the drugs, just generally feeling crappy and distressed, he could have just built it all up in his head. Made a mountain out of a molehill kind of thing. Just a culmination of everything magnified by the drink and drugs. And if he had never done them before chances are he may have been worrying about the effect they had on him, maybe attributing certain feelings to the drugs and in turn feeling worse about having taken them. But none of us can know really.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7 anypills


    lufties wrote: »
    I took 4 strong mexican mushrooms and loved it..a few hours later I was back to normal, no hangover.

    Mexicans are lovely, mushrooms and truffles are entirely different though, its like comparing steak and chicken.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 370 ✭✭KrakityJones


    kylith wrote: »
    Oh, are they the little black ones? I've never taken them but I've been told not to bother because they're so weak, and they taste like arse, even worse than psilocybin (which taste like mud and leaf mould).

    Yep - that'd be the ones, available over the counter in a few (not all) the coffee shops there.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,408 ✭✭✭✭Grayson


    This is specious. You might be entitled to make that argument if the man had taken drugs every day for 30 years. He didn't.

    That's not how causation works. You need to be able to show either a deductive or inductive cause.

    For example an inductive cause would be 50% of people who try this drug have suicidal tendencies. That doesn't prove anything but it does demonstrate a link between the two. An example is smoking whilst pregnant. There's no demonstrative evidence to show that smoking/drinking whilst pregnant harms the foetus. However there is a statistical correlation. Amongst women who smoke/drink there is a higher rate of birth defects. That doesn't mean that smoking harms the baby. Generally a woman who smokes/drinks in pregnancy will also engage in other risky behaviour and it could actually be that one of those is responsible.
    However since there is a correlation it's advisable to tell women who are pregnant that smoking/drinking may harm the foetus and that they should therefore avoid it.

    In this case there's no direct inductive correlation. Some studies (in the link I provided) have shown that psychedelics actually provide long term psychological benefits.

    As far as deductive evidence goes, we have none right now. It's possible that investigations may turn it up but we don't have any evidence to suppose that mushroom were involved.
    And suggesting that they were primarily responsible as opposed to say, long term depression, bi polar disorders etc... is reckless. It's far more possible that the guy in question had mental health issues that were responsible.

    But anyway, my point is that we don't actually have any evidence. We can look at probabilities based on statistics but it's all just speculation (even if some could be considered educated speculation)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 819 ✭✭✭EDit


    Tombo2001 wrote: »
    I don't know, but that's what his family are saying.

    Now a question for you:

    At least ten people on the thread have said so far: "There is more to this story".

    Have you asked them to defend themselves, for making a point that they can in no way defend based on lack of information?

    Just reinforces my view that people just believe what it suits them to believe.

    To be fair, I have a few old friends who used to come out with us necking pills in the 90s who have not revealed that side of their "history" to their wives (not many mind) and their parents certainly wouldn't know. Not saying it isn't true, but it's possible that he had indulged before.

    On the subject of whether this caused his suicide alone, was a contributing factor, or was entirely coincidental, we'll never know. That said, having seen the vast difference in responses to drugs over the years among friends, it's not beyond the realms of possibility that whatever he took messed with his mental state.

    RIP


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,759 ✭✭✭jobbridge4life


    Let us be clear beyond any question, magic mushrooms did not kill this man and they did not drive him to suicide. Suicide is far too complex a matter to be reduced to simplistic one line explanations. A combination of factors, lead this man to make the choice (important) to end his life. The tragedy of loss for his family is compounded by the seeming lack of reason or cause. As others have said the family in their pain scrambling for an explanation, an answer, anything to help them make sense of the place they find themselves in is completely understandable and if focusing on the ingestion of an hallucinogen helps them then fine. What is utterly inexcusable is the sensationalist scare mongering by the fact light, fear heavy ‘journalists’.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 12,190 ✭✭✭✭J Mysterio


    Poor chap. He reminds me of a Tommy Tiernan or a Joe Cocker. RIP


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,623 ✭✭✭✭My name is URL


    It's not uncommon for friends and family to say stuff like 'he was never depressed' or 'was always the life and soul of the party' after a loved one has taken their own life. Nor is it uncommon for them to blame things other than depression or mental health issues.

    It's easier to do that than accept the fact that the person may have been depressed and that you never picked up on or recognised it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,681 ✭✭✭bodice ripper


    4 individual truffles are a sub-threshold dose. Unless they got a hold of some mystery box where there were 4 huge truffles and nothing else in the box.

    why aren't the family blaming needless guilt? It would be more accurate.

    suicidal three days later? that's some stimulants **** right there...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,681 ✭✭✭bodice ripper


    Yep - that'd be the ones, available over the counter in a few (not all) the coffee shops there.


    I don't believe coffeeshops are allowed to sell truffles, and I have never been in one that does, even on the sly.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,328 ✭✭✭Magico Gonzalez


    Taken plenty of them in the past. It depends on the person, I've seen people loose their marbles after taking not many. It can be overwhelming if you are not in the best state of mind. I had a bad experience with a trip, never touched them since. In fairness I had a few things on my mind and shouldn't have touched it. Luckily someone with me at the time knew exactly what to do. Will never forget the few hours of fear and panic though, not nice.

    If you're feeling unstable, depressed or in any way not in a good place you shouldn't take them. Probably shouldn't be drinking either though in fairness.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 12,190 ✭✭✭✭J Mysterio


    I don't believe coffeeshops are allowed to sell truffles, and I have never been in one that does, even on the sly.

    They sell them in Smart Shops. They're all over the inner city. 'Philosophers Stones' is one of the more popular varieties. They look manky and they taste worse.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,745 ✭✭✭✭kylith


    Tasden wrote: »
    But if he felt unworthy or not good enough for whatever reason, took the drugs and they magnified these concerns and possible doubts about the wedding, then if he came home still hungover/experiencing the fear or whatever from the drink and the experience he had with the drugs, just generally feeling crappy and distressed, he could have just built it all up in his head. Made a mountain out of a molehill kind of thing. Just a culmination of everything magnified by the drink and drugs. And if he had never done them before chances are he may have been worrying about the effect they had on him, maybe attributing certain feelings to the drugs and in turn feeling worse about having taken them. But none of us can know really.
    There is simply no way he was still under the influence of them three days later. If it was fear or doubt about the wedding then that is what drove him to suicide. If you get pissed on Saturday and cry over the fact that your job is **** and your wife is riding all round her, then you kill yourself on Wednesday was getting maudlin on Saturday the cause of it?

    If had killed himself an hour and a half after taking the shrooms then there may have been a link between a bad trip and the suicide, but three days? Highly unlikely.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,681 ✭✭✭bodice ripper


    J Mysterio wrote: »
    They sell them in Smart Shops. They're all over the inner city.


    I do know that, yes. I can see one from where I am sitting.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 12,190 ✭✭✭✭J Mysterio


    I do know that, yes. I can see one from where I am sitting.

    Where precisely are you sitting? I want photographic evidence.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,944 ✭✭✭✭4zn76tysfajdxp


    Careful now, expressing a dissenting opinion to that of the regular marijuana user can lead to rabid abuse and accusations of trolling.

    Best steer clear of criticising Sinn Fein and Ming Flanagan too.

    There is no debate or argument.

    It's all very well and good accusing people of self-satisfactorily tipping ash from their five-skinners into a hashleaf ashtray as they play cyberdetective on Boards.ie, or imagining a group of them in one bedsit leaning back into their home-office chairs, clinking glasses of Dutch Gold together going "Hey man, we did it" after uncovering yet another rereg troll conspiracy. But you shouldn't. Play the ball, not the man.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,166 ✭✭✭Tasden


    kylith wrote: »
    There is simply no way he was still under the influence of them three days later. If it was fear or doubt about the wedding then that is what drove him to suicide. If you get pissed on Saturday and cry over the fact that your job is **** and your wife is riding all round her, then you kill yourself on Wednesday was getting maudlin on Saturday the cause of it?

    If had killed himself an hour and a half after taking the shrooms then there may have been a link between a bad trip and the suicide, but three days? Highly unlikely.

    You seem to be missing my point. If you have a ****ty life sometimes you can cope with it. If you have a ****ty life and things on your head and go out and drink yourself silly and take drugs for the first time when in an already distressed state then you're not gonna be any better afterwards are you? Chances are you're gonna feel worse than if you hadn't been drinking and taking drugs (of any kind or quantity) but its the culmination of everything over that period not one thing.
    Not that it matters cause none of us know what happened.


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