Britain bans sex acts in porn

GarIT wrote: »

To be struck with a thin wooden stick or cane.

Thanks, Didn't know that was a 'thing' ... Fair enough, consider me educated!

Genuinely love this thread! Didn't know there was so many kinky people on boards, and then the vanillas come in and ask about caning. Oh the joys! But yeah, it's just a more extreme version of spanking, it allows means you don't tire out your own hand!

xxxJennyxxx wrote: »

Vanilla huh? Just a term I have never come across before, wouldn't really consider myself vanilla though!

Haha I was only having an auld joke! But yeah, this pretty much mean that British porn will no be vanilla as fcuk

mrkiscool2 wrote: »

it allows means you don't tire out your own hand!

God forbid you hurt yourself while hurting the misses :P

Gavin duck wrote: »

Extreme spanking they use a stick

I wont tell you about the bats* so.

*This is a joke before somebody takes me seriously. Although I'm sure it must happen somewhere.

mrkiscool2 wrote: »

Actually, all canes are specially designed so that you can't do any severe damage with them. They are meant to have maximum impact on the target area but no concussive force to do any serious internal damage. The more you know

A rubber stick so

Sheep Lover wrote: »

Fisting is life endangering?, I must be a living example that it's not, my arse is like sleeve of wizard.

Hi Sheep lover

Let's take this step-by-step because you raise some good points I want to address

Smidge wrote: »

I know this is supposed to come across as a joke(hence the stick out tongue smiley)but to be fair its not coming across as funny.

In this context I think it is funny. I wouldn't ever condone touching my partner or anyone in a violent way. Whenever I have done anything physically (etc spanking) I always make sure I have consent to do so and that she knows she can stop at any time

This thread is kinda like the "hipster music" thing.
If you aren't into it, you are soooo not coooooollllllll.
Its coming across as anyone not into slapping about their partner, insulting them during sex(this cannot be that common here in Ireland, not a fukcking chance as I have been having sex longer than most of the posters on here have been alive and have NEVER had it done to me/I have never done it to a partner or heard anyone I know have it done to them ),scat and other things, well then these people must be vanilla.

Firstly, I don't know (or pretend to know) what someone does in their bedroom or what they consider themselves. My definition of vanilla is going to be different to yours and many others because, well, put simply, I'm a kinky b*stard. Some people will think I go to far and others will think I am vanilla. Simple as. Your defintion stems from what you do and what you feel comfortable doing! It's not a set term. I (and another user) was using the term in jest. Also, you can be kinky without involving scat in play. Scat is something I would never go near in sexual play

I am a firm believer of what goes on in the bedroom is between the people involved. Nobody elses business.

I agree, however I also have the right to express what I am into sexually in a form that isn't offensive or harmful to others (by harmful I mean serious mental and emotional trauma). So, I am more than allowed on a thread such as this give my opinion and a taste of what I am into. I wouldn't give you all the sordid details. I also believe that talking about sex is a good thing. Society is still extremely sexually repressed from the Catholic Church days and that needs to change to stop things like teenage pregnancy, STD's and other sexual issues in society. But you are perfectly right in that no-one has a right to know what you get up to with your partner. You do, however, have the right to tell them.

But to try to portray as mainstream, scat, and serious sexual aggression? I dont think thats the case. As I said before, to each their own. Just because you dont strangle your partner during intercourse, that doesn't make you vanilla

I don't think anyone has tried to say on here that scat or serious sexual aggression is mainstream. It's not. It comes back to my earlier point, it's all about where you are on the sexual spectrum that determines what you see as kinky or vanilla. And of course it doesn't. Again, you are free to do whatever you like with a consenting partner. You just want missionary? Fine! You want to have sex with multiple people at once? Fine! Do what makes you happy!

Again, I am agreeing with what you have said to a large extent above, I just think I need to clarify my opinion! It's also AH, so having a bit of fun is perfectly ok to!

You'd actually be surprised at the amount of people who like bondage, choking, face slapping etc. in sexual play. It might only be an occasional thing but a lot more people than you think enjoy it

I didn't feel there was any one-upmanship on the thread but that's my personal opinion.

Smidge wrote: »

And to be fair, the sexual aggression I really don't get, but again its not my thing and wouldn't be a lot of peoples thing either.
I'm not talking hair pulling or light spanking here(which I would consider not too extreme and part of a lot of peoples sexual activity), but slapping, hitting etc???
To me, thats a no no.

The science behind it is quite interesting. Did you know about the endorhpins that are released during s/m ?

I have heard the demeaning stuff is popular with people in authority positions. They enjoy the freedom of losing control.

I briefly dated a ban garda and she had some pretty strange things she liked. Not so much fun being asked to do this in a house she shared with other cops.

wexie wrote: »

they wouldn't join in no?

(on a serious note, you'd have to wonder if she was a garda because she was into kinky stuff, or if she was into kinky stuff because she was a garda)

Officer Pain with her special baton she liked to call......."The Explorer"