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RIP Gary Speed - Mod Note 292

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,151 ✭✭✭✭eh i dunno


    S4C are showing a documentary tonight on Gary Speed at 8.20 i think. Presented by John Hartson. In Welsh with english subtitles


  • Site Banned Posts: 4,925 ✭✭✭Agueroooo


    Wow 2yrs already.

    :(

    anyone thinking they may need support or just a shoulder to lean on then just reach out and ask a loved one or stranger.
    Support help and healing is out there.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,721 ✭✭✭Al Capwned


    Hard to believe that three years have passed. Truly is.

    This really hit me when it happened - was just so sad - kinda made me realise that maybe I needed to talk to someone too, eventually I did.

    Fast forward three years, and I look back at who I was then and what I was going through and I am very thankful that I did talk to someone. Everyone needs to talk, to have someone to natter to, be that a friend, family member, counsellor or whoever.
    It works.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,917 ✭✭✭✭GT_TDI_150


    Still hard to come to terms with...

    A man who seemingly had what most dream of having...

    Just hope 3 yrs on i hope that his family have found a way to deal with it.


  • Posts: 45,738 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Al Capwned wrote: »
    Hard to believe that three years have passed. Truly is.

    This really hit me when it happened - was just so sad - kinda made me realise that maybe I needed to talk to someone too, eventually I did.

    Fast forward three years, and I look back at who I was then and what I was going through and I am very thankful that I did talk to someone. Everyone needs to talk, to have someone to natter to, be that a friend, family member, counsellor or whoever.
    It works.

    Good for you, great post.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,987 ✭✭✭Kerrigooney


    Al Capwned wrote: »
    Hard to believe that three years have passed. Truly is.

    This really hit me when it happened - was just so sad - kinda made me realise that maybe I needed to talk to someone too, eventually I did.

    Fast forward three years, and I look back at who I was then and what I was going through and I am very thankful that I did talk to someone. Everyone needs to talk, to have someone to natter to, be that a friend, family member, counsellor or whoever.
    It works.

    Can't have been easy to write that. Fair play to you.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 35,514 ✭✭✭✭efb


    3 years. That seems like yesterday I heard and I was coming home from Dublin on the bus and I just started crying. Remember seeing him on Football Focus the day before and I never used watch it.

    The man who seemed to have it all. I got very low after that and only talking with a colleague in work helped me realise how low I was.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,721 ✭✭✭Al Capwned


    Can't have been easy to write that. Fair play to you.

    Cheers, but it's not hard to talk about it now tbh, I suppose I'm just open about it...

    I just stuck a fairly lengthy post on FB there too to make pretty much the same point. If it can chip away at one person's wall that they've thrown up well sure it's doing a bit of good! :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 35,514 ✭✭✭✭efb


    Al Capwned wrote: »
    Cheers, but it's not hard to talk about it now tbh, I suppose I'm just open about it...

    I just stuck a fairly lengthy post on FB there too to make pretty much the same point. If it can chip away at one person's wall that they've thrown up well sure it's doing a bit of good! :)

    Same as. Put his picture up. Remind people to look after their mental health


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,721 ✭✭✭Al Capwned


    efb wrote: »
    Same as. Put his picture up. Remind people to look after their mental health

    I would wager that a huge amount of people don't know how to do that though mate, that's the biggest thing....
    People in trouble sometimes can't see a way out. Tragic.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 35,514 ✭✭✭✭efb


    Al Capwned wrote: »
    I would wager that a huge amount of people don't know how to do that though mate, that's the biggest thing....
    People in trouble sometimes can't see a way out. Tragic.

    I can't help everyone but I may help someone


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,740 ✭✭✭✭MD1990


    A great piece from Bellamy's book.

    B3b4hybIUAAxnBV.jpg


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,781 ✭✭✭clappyhappy


    MD1990 wrote: »
    A great piece from Bellamy's book.

    B3b4hybIUAAxnBV.jpg

    Wow!!


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