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The Pregnant Womans Moan Thread.

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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,495 ✭✭✭bobskii


    that made me lol!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,832 ✭✭✭spottybananas


    My husband just brought in one of my "Christmas" presents because it just arrived and insisted I take it now instead of at Christmas (what's the point like?), it's a f*cking massive pregnancy pillow, with two giant long sides of pillow. It's huge, we have a normal double bed, it, me and him will never fit.

    It was 50e, which he doesn't have spare and for something that I don't bloody need, I have nothing remotely resembling a bump yet and going by my family's genes I'm not likely to have a hint of one until 6-7 months, so where the f*ck is this giant thing supposed to live til then?

    His heart was in the right place but goddammit I am sick of him spending money on things we don't need, and things I'm supposed to be delighted to receive and then have to find places to keep them. And now I feel like a b!tch because I was just :confused: when he opened it out, whereas he wanted me to be happy and pleased, but I just hate the waste of money and cluttering up the place with things we don't need.

    :(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,391 ✭✭✭fro9etb8j5qsl2


    Typical man spottybananas! The amount of crap we spent money on when I was pregnant with no 1 is ridicilous :eek: Although having said that, in a couple of months time you'll probably get great use out of it. I have a dream genii pillow that I've used in both pregnancies from 4 months and it's an absolute godsend :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,832 ✭✭✭spottybananas


    In a couple of months I'll be 6-7 months, so at best he's spent 50 quid on a pillow I'll use for 3 months, we have nowhere to store something this big indefinitely.

    The really galling thing is I really need a new actual pillow, and he goes and gets this fecking giant one :(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 517 ✭✭✭moving_home


    My husband just brought in one of my "Christmas" presents because it just arrived and insisted I take it now instead of at Christmas (what's the point like?), it's a f*cking massive pregnancy pillow, with two giant long sides of pillow. It's huge, we have a normal double bed, it, me and him will never fit.

    It was 50e, which he doesn't have spare and for something that I don't bloody need, I have nothing remotely resembling a bump yet and going by my family's genes I'm not likely to have a hint of one until 6-7 months, so where the f*ck is this giant thing supposed to live til then?

    His heart was in the right place but goddammit I am sick of him spending money on things we don't need, and things I'm supposed to be delighted to receive and then have to find places to keep them. And now I feel like a b!tch because I was just :confused: when he opened it out, whereas he wanted me to be happy and pleased, but I just hate the waste of money and cluttering up the place with things we don't need.

    :(

    You will be eating your words soon enough! I hadn't a hint a bump till about 26 weeks and even then it was small enough but I used the pillow from 18/20 weeks because of heartburn and hip pain. Both were hormonal not caused by size of baby. Mine was €60 and at 32 weeks now I'd pay 3 times that for anything that helps with a nights sleep. Give him a break he thought he was doing good.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,832 ✭✭✭spottybananas


    Moving home I already have heartburn but sitting up more or more pillows doesn't help it. This pillow is so HUGE, like, storage of it will be a major issue afterwards, they should sell it with a bag it fits neatly into because it was small when it was wrapped up super tight.

    Ok, we've all calmed down now. I feel so awful, but so mad at the same time. He was broken hearted when I didn't love it, I hate that, he is the sweetest most amazing man and I hate when I can't cover up my annoyance when I know he was trying to be lovely and I just see the waste of money. I sound so ungrateful, lots of women would love to have a man who was so thoughtful, paid attention to me not sleeping well, researched it and got me what would be one of the best pillows, in that it has two sides, so lots of support, and he said he doesn't need much of the bed so it doesn't matter that it'd take up space :( And he said he knows I love sleeping with loads of pillows around me so thought I'd love it *sobs with love*

    But at the same time, I don't feel this is something I would've bought myself, the sheer size of it, and I would've waited until I felt I needed it. And also, he has social things coming up soon that he needs to save money for so I wish he'd kept his money for that. So we're both feeling hurt (him by me, me by seeing his poor face), both disappointed with ourselves, this is rotten.

    I am not a crier and I sobbed for 20 minutes about how ungratefully I reacted :( Tbf, I said thanks and stuff, he just knows me well enough to know what I'm thinking.

    He's gone to work now so I'm going to have nice dinner ready when he gets in later, and he can have some of my ice cream stash, God I feel so awful. Will definitely be helping out with his spending money for his social stuff soon!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,326 ✭✭✭Blingy


    Sounds like you have a gud'un spottybananas.

    I was told by my loving hubby this morning that the reason I nearly fainted on the train into work was because I was unfit. Not because I'm 12 weeks pregnant, have bouts of low blood pressure, and was standing for 35 mins on a crowded train. Aren't I so lucky!! You would swear I never did any exercise just because I'm not out running like I used to (due to lack of energy) he thinks I do nothing. Never mind all the walking I do just to commute to and from work. Rant over.

    Just wanted to show you spottybananas the other side of the coin. Hubby would never even consider buying me anything on spec like that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,832 ✭✭✭spottybananas


    Oh Blingy I'd kill your fella!

    I know, he is an absolute gem, but that's why I have to remind him to reign in the generous gifts because otherwise he'd spend all his spare money on presents for everyone and be broke and our house would be like a hoarders

    I am very aware of how special and brilliant he is, a friend of mine is currently dealing with the kind of guy who doesn't get it yet, comments on why she's so tired, why didn't she do this, why doesnt' she want to do that etc, whereas mine whips around with a worried face if I so much as say ouch over anything, be it pregnancy related or just me being clumsy :o

    He knows I think he is the bestest, this was a blip, we'll be ok by bedtime :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 500 ✭✭✭indigo twist


    Aww don't feel bad!

    He obviously did his research - pregnant women RAVE about those pillows! Good on him.

    But not everyone needs them. I'm one of those few women who slept comfortably flat on my back right up until baby was born. The odd time I needed a pillow, my boyfriend sufficed - he's great for snuggling up to! :D If he'd arrived home with a pillow, I'd have been thinking "isn't that your job, to be a pillow?!" :D

    There are issues with storage in our house, too, and I'd have been annoyed to have another big massive yoke to find space for.

    I found pedicures amazing late in pregnancy. Any chance you could suggest selling the pillow on Adverts and using the proceeds towards a pedicure? Something you'd actually appreciate and enjoy?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,832 ✭✭✭spottybananas


    Yeah indigo I said I want to hug him not a pillow!

    I'll give it a try but most likely I will keep it because I couldn't make him return it or sell it on now. The more I thought about it the more I would say it would make a great pillow for breastfeeding (if that works out) if you sat inside the curved bit and folded one long bit behind you for support. And he's right, I do love sleeping with pillows around me, so maybe I can just use it as my treat when he goes away rather than raiding all the pillows in the house to make a kind of fort :o


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  • Registered Users Posts: 292 ✭✭llambert


    I know you feel terrible for making him feel bad spottybanans but I'm sure he understands. Most men don't see the big picture.

    I was also gifted a dream genie pillow when pregnant & thought it was a waste but in the end got good use out of it. Ended up in hospital for last 2&half wks of pregnancy and it was great for an extra pillow when watching tv(hospital ones very thin). I used to put it down beside me at night cos I hated sleeping alone. I know you won't need it for any of those things but when my babies were born it was great to wrap around one of them, think they thought it was arms. I still use it for tummy time for one of them to give a bit of support. Some people use them for feeding too so don't write it off yet!!

    Think the nice dinner is a lovely idea but scrape the ice cream part you'll regret that decision :-)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,154 ✭✭✭Dolbert


    I have two massive pregnancy pillows in the hot press that were well meaning, but unused gifts! I just find them way too big in the bed. Almost 9 months now and all I need is a regular pillow to rest under my bump.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,832 ✭✭✭spottybananas


    Llambert yeah it'd be great for propping a little person up safely in the middle of our bed, hmm, yes, I need to just find more uses for it. I can't get rid of it, and in fairness I have a few pregnant friends who aren't as far along as me so I can lend it to them too if needed.

    I don't mind giving him some icecream, I bought an awful lot of it :p


  • Registered Users Posts: 292 ✭✭llambert


    Another thing I used it for was along the back of the couch when I was lying down. You know the way it can tilt abit. Not funny trying to get out of that situation alone when your bump arrives!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭angeldelight


    If I get too warm I get all light headed and achy - have had to lie down for a while after cooking dinner!! Ridiculous!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,391 ✭✭✭fro9etb8j5qsl2


    More antenatal clinic woes :( You come here with your missus and 2 infant children, ye take up a whole bench of seats while heavily pregnant women lean against walls to support themselves and when your little boy throws himself down on the ground in a full scale tantrum of wild banshee screaming and kicking, you don't so much as offer to bring him outside to calm him down, instead you stand over him on the ground and tell him to shut up repeatedly for 10 minutes until he quietens down.

    I hope you get the trots :mad: :mad:


  • Registered Users Posts: 41 cosycottager


    Hi all just wondering if anyone has experienced sicatatia? 32 weeks pregnant with morning sickness and nausea all the way, placenta previa confirmed 2 weeks ago after 3 bleeds in as many weeks and to add to the mix sicatatia since yday eve. Cant walk, cant turn in the bed, cant sleep.

    Rang hosp at 5am they said nothing can be done really only apply heat and take parcementamol. Any other tips???


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,832 ✭✭✭spottybananas


    Cosycottager I just had a lovely deep tissue massage a few days ago for sciatic pain and upper back, it was amazing. I had issues with my sciatic nerve last year and had the same massage and went to an osteopath and it didnt hurt again until now but now theres a legitimate reason with my pelvis moving.

    The massage and osteo are suitable during pregnancy but now I am one of those people why enjoys deep painful massage and the sciatic work the last day was SORE, like a hot knife, but fixed it immediately. I go about once every 6-8 weeks for back issues which Im going to keep up or go more often if needed.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭angeldelight


    Why am I starting to vomit now?? Lovely second trimester my ass!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,832 ✭✭✭spottybananas


    Why am I starting to vomit now?? Lovely second trimester my ass!

    I've been much more nauseous and bloated since 14 weeks, lying ba$tards!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,751 ✭✭✭mirrorwall14


    Why am I starting to vomit now?? Lovely second trimester my ass!

    Heartburn? Almost all my throwing up in 2nd and 3rd trimester has been when heartburn has been causing nausea. Zantac daily has stopped it and gaviscon to hand when needing a top up


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭angeldelight


    Heartburn? Almost all my throwing up in 2nd and 3rd trimester has been when heartburn has been causing nausea. Zantac daily has stopped it and gaviscon to hand when needing a top up

    No, I haven't had any heartburn at all - just seems to come out of nowhere, I don't even get much warning :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,832 ✭✭✭spottybananas


    That sucks angeldelight. I get bad heartburn too, but luckily I don't get sick. I gag sometimes if I get too hungry or in the morning, but my biggest complaint is bloating. Hurts and is so uncomfortable :( in pj's now because all my jeans hurt when it starts up.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,787 ✭✭✭Lashes28


    Think I'll just use a teat on top of the gaviscon bottle at this stage, bending is not my friend


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,751 ✭✭✭mirrorwall14


    I take back my earlier comment. No heartburn today but just before dinner my wonderful body decided to toss up my completely not digested lunch. Ugh..... And I still feel sick. Mash only for dinner. Borrrrrring!!!! Particularly after roasting pork ffs


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,832 ✭✭✭spottybananas


    I take back my earlier comment. No heartburn today but just before dinner my wonderful body decided to toss up my completely not digested lunch. Ugh..... And I still feel sick. Mash only for dinner. Borrrrrring!!!! Particularly after roasting pork ffs

    It's such a wonderful miracle and a joyous time! :P


  • Registered Users Posts: 41 cosycottager


    Hi spottybananas did you jist go to a spa or equivalent or a physio for massage? I had been going for Accupunture every second week but last time i was in hosp with bleed midwife said it might be safer not to go for it for time being so now im afraid to do anything!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,832 ✭✭✭spottybananas


    Hi spottybananas did you jist go to a spa or equivalent or a physio for massage? I had been going for Accupunture every second week but last time i was in hosp with bleed midwife said it might be safer not to go for it for time being so now im afraid to do anything!

    It's not a spa I go to as they don't really do the proper deep tissue massage that is more medical really in nature than most spas (which are just relaxing). She's a beauty therapist but her massage is the most in depth, posture/health focussed massage I've ever come across. How did the midwife figure acupuncture could affect/cause a bleed? I think they're a bit mad sometimes, the midwife at my 12 week appointment gave me wrong info on three things and wasn't clear on answers when I questioned them.

    Google pregnancy deep tissue massage near you or just call up some places and tell them you have sciatic pain and are there massages suitable during pregnancy and they'll let you know. I've been going to this girl for over a year anyway and then she said that it's absolutely fine to continue coming to her. And I mean, she REALLY goes to town on me, as in I am bruised, swollen and sore for 1-2 days after some of the massages (when I went at 9 weeks I couldn't MOVE that night!), she says I can take a heavy amount of pressure though so she just goes for it as my muscles need it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,323 ✭✭✭Roesy


    Boo to you nausea and empty retching! Narrowly avoiding traumatising some of my pupils and managed not to upchuck on them or me. It's funny, it kicked in earlier this time around and then disappeared for a few days which had me worried, now it's back with a bang and I'm wishing it away again! Only 9 weeks now and it didn't fully disappear until about 18 weeks last time. Hopefully it won't hang on as long this time.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,154 ✭✭✭Dolbert


    Anyone else constantly having food/drink going down the wrong way? I keep spluttering and gagging on glasses of water, my oesophagus is taking the 'relaxed pregnancy muscles' memo very seriously.

    I also can't stop dropping things, it's like turbo-PMS over here!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,407 ✭✭✭Baby4


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,143 ✭✭✭Ms2011


    I hear you on the tiredness, 2.5 yr old has a persistance cough, didn't seem to be bothering him too much but my stupid mammy brain wouldn't let me relax into a decent sleep once I could hear him coughing!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,832 ✭✭✭spottybananas


    I'm feeling really low today, I'm pretty sure it has absolutely nothing to do with pregnancy or hormones but I have nowhere else/nobody else to moan to :( I had a great nights sleep, which you'd think would set me up for a great mood and a productive day but no, Debbie Downer so I am :(

    Have no motivation for work, fed up with life in general, just want to go back to bed and watch movies :(

    Second trimester is dragging sooo bad, no change to how I look, no distinctive movement yet, too soon to plan/buy things, no scans until next year, boring. I'm still not convinced this is real, I don't know what it'll take to give me proof of that. And I spend most of my time at home feeling crap and sick, while my husband is having a ball telling the world and its mother and being congratulated and taken for pints. I don't enjoy all the congratulating (because I don't believe it see) and can't have the free drinks but it still seems terribly unfair!


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,185 ✭✭✭Thumpette


    I'm feeling really low today, I'm pretty sure it has absolutely nothing to do with pregnancy or hormones but I have nowhere else/nobody else to moan to :( I had a great nights sleep, which you'd think would set me up for a great mood and a productive day but no, Debbie Downer so I am :(

    Have no motivation for work, fed up with life in general, just want to go back to bed and watch movies :(

    Second trimester is dragging sooo bad, no change to how I look, no distinctive movement yet, too soon to plan/buy things, no scans until next year, boring. I'm still not convinced this is real, I don't know what it'll take to give me proof of that. And I spend most of my time at home feeling crap and sick, while my husband is having a ball telling the world and its mother and being congratulated and taken for pints. I don't enjoy all the congratulating (because I don't believe it see) and can't have the free drinks but it still seems terribly unfair!

    Sorry to hear that you're not feeling good. I think there's so much made of the second trimester being the best that it can be tough to live up to it! Hopefully you'll start getting regular movement soon and get to start planning and it'll all seem more real! I'm 35 weeks now and despite loadsa movement and scans I still don't quite believe there's an actual little human in my stomach!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,832 ✭✭✭spottybananas


    God I don't feel good today. Last night my lower back/pelvis was agony from standing at work for 6+ hours (usually I'd be sitting for a while then back standing etc). It gets like this the odd time but I think given my current condition it made it worse. Ended up getting very cold and hungry but basically unable to get off the couch unless it was a necessity. Went to bed and when my lovely husband got home from work he brought me some food, then he had to get another duvet and wrap me in both of them, my arms and legs were that kind of "inside" shivery cold that I just couldn't heat up. Couldn't move with the pain in my pelvis, couldn't stop shivering, and now this morning my tummy is not very happy at all. My back is a bit better, but still sore.

    Want to go back to bed!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,772 ✭✭✭✭Whispered


    How're you feeling now?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭angeldelight


    God I don't feel good today. Last night my lower back/pelvis was agony from standing at work for 6+ hours (usually I'd be sitting for a while then back standing etc). It gets like this the odd time but I think given my current condition it made it worse. Ended up getting very cold and hungry but basically unable to get off the couch unless it was a necessity. Went to bed and when my lovely husband got home from work he brought me some food, then he had to get another duvet and wrap me in both of them, my arms and legs were that kind of "inside" shivery cold that I just couldn't heat up. Couldn't move with the pain in my pelvis, couldn't stop shivering, and now this morning my tummy is not very happy at all. My back is a bit better, but still sore.

    Want to go back to bed!

    Hope you're feeling better tomorrow!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,832 ✭✭✭spottybananas


    Whispered wrote: »
    How're you feeling now?
    Hope you're feeling better tomorrow!

    Feeling like sh!t, completely and totally. Vomiting and diarrhea eased off and seems to have stopped (thank God), just left with aches and shivers, suggesting it's some of fluey/virus. If I ever do this again I'm getting the flu shot asap!! Was planning to get it at my 20 week appt in just over a week, pfft.

    Been drinking lots, lying around keeping warm and eating very little, I'm hoping I feel better tomorrow too angeldelight! I do love how my body can manage to hold off with things like this until I'm finished work for the week, or I'd be screwed!

    Hope everyone is having a better weekend than me :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,772 ✭✭✭✭Whispered


    Insomnia.

    Someone get this baby outta me!! :p


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,751 ✭✭✭mirrorwall14


    Whispered wrote: »
    Insomnia.

    Someone get this baby outta me!! :p

    Ditto. OH gets up in 40 mins for work. Looks like I'll be saying hello


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,832 ✭✭✭spottybananas


    Ok, what sort of fresh hell is it that I've just retched and gagged again, first time being Saturday, at 19 weeks pregnant? This didn't happen up to 19 weeks and NOW it happens?? I am not impressed.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭angeldelight


    Ok, what sort of fresh hell is it that I've just retched and gagged again, first time being Saturday, at 19 weeks pregnant? This didn't happen up to 19 weeks and NOW it happens?? I am not impressed.

    Yep I'm retching, gagging and vomiting on a daily basis now... Didn't happen in first trimester at all! Talking to another friend who was the same, pregnancy books are liars!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,832 ✭✭✭spottybananas


    I puked this morning, God I hate this. I barely slept, my stomach is in bits, I'm afraid to eat or drink anything should it come back up or cause mayhem by staying down.

    Made an appt with my gp for tomorrow, she's not in Tuesdays, typical. I'm meant to be going to her next week for 20 week appt but I have to sort this out now, I'm not well at all :( Work will be fun this week.

    On a positive note I got lovely jeans and leggings in H&M, after a disastrous shopping trip to find some bits yesterday. Tried two New Looks who both had useless maternity sections, tried two Nexts, one had none, the other had some but the sizes were laughably generous, 12's hanging off me and very expensive for such poor fits. Felt like Goldilocks in H&M, everything was just right! At least something went right for me this last few days :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭angeldelight


    Feckin pregnancy insomnia had me awake half the night then if you happen to mention to someone you're tired "haha just wait until the baby is here, you'll know the real meaning of tired" - seriously naff off, I am tired and not in the mood for your stories about not getting more than an hours sleep ever for years when your babies were small. I don't care!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,323 ✭✭✭Roesy


    Feckin pregnancy insomnia had me awake half the night then if you happen to mention to someone you're tired "haha just wait until the baby is here, you'll know the real meaning of tired" - seriously naff off, I am tired and not in the mood for your stories about not getting more than an hours sleep ever for years when your babies were small. I don't care!!

    Feck the doom and gloomers angel. Baby sleeping seems like a lottery to me. You could get lucky, my little girl started sleeping through the night on and off from about 8 weeks. From 11/12 weeks she was consistently doing 9/10pm to 6/7am. About a month later was doing 7.30-7am! All her own doing. This one will probably be a right night owl :) The same eejits will be giving their horror stories about labour the week before you give birth. I remember one girl saying to me when I was about a week over 'oh, you don't want to get induced. It's awful!' I was booked in to be induced 3 days later. I said to her that I never knew she'd been induced and her reply 'oh, I didn't, I just heard it was terrible!'


  • Registered Users Posts: 96 ✭✭deedless


    Just feeling wrong. Heartburn has kicked off properly. I've a headache. My tummy feels stretched and I feel huge and ungainly. Bah.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,751 ✭✭✭mirrorwall14


    Lay down for a nap on the couch around 6. Woke up every half hour or so but seem to have literally passed out again. It's disconcerting to wake up and more time has passed, particularly when it didn't feel like a conscious decision at all


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭angeldelight


    I know this is ridiculous, so I can't give out about it anywhere else but it really upset me! My husband bought me a wooden advent calendar a few years ago and the idea is he puts something in it every morning. So all week it's been a bit haphazard whether he'd remember or not, and he wasn't very organised in terms of getting stuff to put in it. I did understand as we've just moved so everything has been a bit messy but thought it had settled down. Went into sitting room this morning, opened the little door and it was empty. I started bawling crying, honestly I felt like my favourite pet had just been run over or something, complete devastation.

    So I texted him saying I couldn't handle this sort of disappointment any more and just not to bother so now he feels like crap. He's very sweet and very soft when it comes to me so I know he'll be feeling heartbroken to have disappointed me and now I feel like shlt to have made him feel that way. So it's lose lose all round cause of a feckin advent calendar and stupid pregnancy hormones :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,772 ✭✭✭✭Whispered


    Ah you poor thing. A quick text reminding him that your hormones are a bit mad at the moment and telling him how lovely he is will make him feel better I'm sure. Main thing though; I'm sure he wouldn't want you sitting there feeling guilty over it.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,832 ✭✭✭spottybananas


    Aw angeldelight, sounds like similar to what I had with my husband and the pillow, a good deed gone temporarily bad! (even though mine wasn't really hormone related so I can't even blame that). I agree with Whispered, just apologise, that's all you can do!


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