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How to get an Asian girlfriend?

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,108 ✭✭✭TheSheriff


    In fairness the OP should know better than to ask this on AH


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 879 ✭✭✭TheBandicoot


    TheSheriff wrote: »
    In fairness the OP should know better than to ask this on AH

    Oh, I'm on AH? Oops, wrong 'A' forum, should have posted this thread over here with the real experts on the Asian dating scene.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,689 ✭✭✭Tombi!


    TheSheriff wrote: »
    In fairness the OP should know better than to ask this on AH

    In fairness what kind of a question is this to ask?
    "I see Asian women with white men in person. How do I get an Asian girlfriend?"
    I mean it's not like he's asking how to go to japan and pick up women there. All the advice that can be given is "go and speak to them".


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,087 ✭✭✭Potatoeman


    Oh, I'm on AH? Oops, wrong 'A' forum, should have posted this thread over here with the real experts on the Asian dating scene.

    After Asians?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,564 ✭✭✭✭whiskeyman


    try plentyofsushi.com


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,563 ✭✭✭Adamantium


    Potatoeman wrote: »
    After Asians?

    Frankie Boyle: Just looking down at the names of this Chinese team sure is making me feel hungry!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,278 ✭✭✭Dr. Mantis Toboggan


    Should I tell them how kawaii I think they are, and ask them if they would like me to become their oni-chan?

    I have no idea what this means, but yes by all means, tell them that.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,944 ✭✭✭✭Links234


    Me too, the lack of serious replies and practical advice is very disheartening.

    Ok, you want some serious and practical advise? A guy who wants to date an asian woman just because she's asian comes across as creepy and fetishic. Stop seeing them as some exotic "glamourous geishas" and start seeing them as people. Then, maybe if you actually try asking someone out on a date, you might want to see if your personalities match or you click on some level, and you know, try build a relationship from there.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,014 ✭✭✭eamonnq


    Seriously though.
    Would love to hook up with a Japanese/Korean chick.

    That is the spirit, just tell them that, and let us know how you get on ?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,564 ✭✭✭✭whiskeyman


    Links234 wrote: »
    A guy who wants to date a asian woman just because she's asian a woman comes across as creepy and fetishic. .

    fyp


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,027 ✭✭✭sunshine and showers


    Until he goes off and considers his life choices and terrible thread OP needs to not talk to Asian women. Or any women for that matter...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 879 ✭✭✭TheBandicoot


    Links234 wrote: »
    Ok, you want some serious and practical advise? A guy who wants to date an asian woman just because she's asian comes across as creepy and fetishic. Stop seeing them as some exotic "glamourous geishas" and start seeing them as people. Then, maybe if you actually try asking someone out on a date, you might want to see if your personalities match or you click on some level, and you know, try build a relationship from there.

    If we want to get serious, I don't actually want advice. I'm not interested in a relationship with any woman, since I'm not confident in my own appearance and life* at the moment, and even if I was, I really really don't think romantic relationships are worth it. It is way too much like hard work, fair ****s do the guys who do manage it, but I can't be arsed- would rather focus on myself and my career and stuff. I am physically attracted to Asian women(am I not allowed to have a preference and find certain body types attractive without that being creepy?) and one day I would like to visit east Asia and explore what life is like out there, so that gave me the idea for a bit of a fun thread.

    But this isn't a serious thread, it's a bit of lightheartned fun on a Monday lunchtime. Don't get so invested in it :D

    *translation : I am fat hairy out of shape and live with my parents- I have the cop on to improve myself a bit before trying to get some poor woman involved in my life


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 9,067 ✭✭✭Ficheall


    Move to Birmingham.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,246 ✭✭✭✭Dyr


    They age fast in our climate OP be warned


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,516 ✭✭✭wazky


    Bambi wrote: »
    They age fast in our climate OP be warned

    And they haven't a clue how to cook a good dinner either, only that sushi bollocks.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,118 ✭✭✭DellyBelly


    I know in Australia they say an Asian girlfriend is for a guy who is to lazy to masterb....


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 879 ✭✭✭TheBandicoot


    Bambi wrote: »
    They age fast in our climate OP be warned

    Good point


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,971 ✭✭✭Sh1tbag OToole


    Be fierce careful what you wish for..


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 879 ✭✭✭TheBandicoot


    whiskeyman wrote: »
    try plentyofsushi.com

    only good post in the thread.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,944 ✭✭✭✭Links234


    I'm not interested in a relationship with any woman, since I'm not confident in my own appearance and life at the moment, and even if I was, I really really don't think romantic relationships are worth it. It is way too much like hard work, fair ****s do the guys who do manage it, but I can't be arsed- would rather focus on myself and my career and stuff.

    Now I feel bad :(


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,014 ✭✭✭eamonnq


    Links234 wrote: »
    Now I feel bad :(

    No you don't.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2 stephenward


    Dating sites are good option


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,080 ✭✭✭McChubbin


    Surprised no-one's posted this yet! :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,689 ✭✭✭Tombi!


    Links234 wrote: »
    Now I feel bad :(

    Why? If he had not have added in the fact he doesn't care for a relationship I could understand. But he stated he has no interest. Regardless of his feeling towards his own appearance, he's still not interested and has other interests (himself and his career).


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12 jpc1


    Ficheall wrote: »
    Move to Birmingham.

    Wrong type


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,100 ✭✭✭Johnny_Fontane


    whiskeyman wrote: »
    try plentyofsushi.com

    I know I wasnt the only person to look this up. I was, wasn't I.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,767 ✭✭✭Infini




    :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,301 ✭✭✭A cow called Daisy


    The Master wrote: »
    Mail order

    Good suggestion, just be careful it doesn't end up being a male order instead. You've heard/resd the stories


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,501 ✭✭✭FullblownRose


    If we want to get serious, I don't actually want advice. I'm not interested in a relationship with any woman, since I'm not confident in my own appearance and life* at the moment, and even if I was, I really really don't think romantic relationships are worth it. It is way too much like hard work, fair ****s do the guys who do manage it, but I can't be arsed- would rather focus on myself and my career and stuff. I am physically attracted to Asian women(am I not allowed to have a preference and find certain body types attractive without that being creepy?) and one day I would like to visit east Asia and explore what life is like out there, so that gave me the idea for a bit of a fun thread.

    But this isn't a serious thread, it's a bit of lightheartned fun on a Monday lunchtime. Don't get so invested in it :D

    *translation : I am fat hairy out of shape and live with my parents- I have the cop on to improve myself a bit before trying to get some poor woman involved in my life

    I was going to say..there's nothing wrong with preferring Asian women. No different to preferring blondes to brunettes. Lots of people seem to have their preferences. I've seen very few ugly Asian women!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,208 ✭✭✭✭Cienciano


    Go to Bangkok, go to any bar near Khao San Road. You won't be able to leave without a girlfriend.


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