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Do ugly children become ugly adults?

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 68 ✭✭SaoirseRose


    I was a fat baby, cute toddler, fairly dire looking kid, and an awkward gangly teenager.

    I'm decent enough looking now, wouldn't want to catch me first thing in the morning but I scrub up well. I like to think I grew into my looks; well that, or I'm in denial. :P

    My wee bro was the strangest looking baby, massive eyes and a tiny wee head. He's a handsome fcuker now though.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,833 ✭✭✭DeadHand


    Oranage2 wrote: »
    So I'm in work, a kindergarten, and some kids are pretty and some are ugly. Got me thinking, do ugly children stay ugly?

    Please discuss!

    You have no business working with kids for a living with an attitude as mean spirited and vapid as that.

    I bet none of those kids is as ugly as your personality.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,957 ✭✭✭miss no stars


    I think it's more a case that kids don't take great time to make themselves look their best, they're just concerned with getting on with life and can't dye their hair, wear makeup or grow tactical stubble (all of the above gender dependent as adults!). As adults, people learn how to make the best of their features and how to present themselves well. Some kids also have very adult features that they just need to grow into and can actually end up looking really beautiful even if they looked gawky as a kid. But a kid who doesn't have great features (pokey eyes, huge nose, mealey mouth, massive cheeks, poor bone structure) isn't going to be able to change that when they get older so will never turn into a swan. They can look presentable and look well, but they'll never be a stunner.

    I think the idea of ugly kids growing up beautiful comes from kids who aren't so much ugly as gawky and needing to grow into their features.


  • Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 36,496 Mod ✭✭✭✭pickarooney


    jimgoose wrote: »
    I wouldn't say that. Nice-looking kid, in a kid sort of way - she looks like Caroline Wozniacki. As an adult, she's more like a malnourished doll! :pac:

    I thought it was Charlize Theron at first glance. The adult picture doesn't look like a human.

    Did someone say Angelian Jolie was an ugly child??
    DeadHand wrote: »
    You have no business working with kids for a living with an attitude as mean spirited and vapid as that.

    I bet none of those kids is as ugly as your personality.

    Blah blah. As if you've never seen an ugly child.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,080 ✭✭✭✭Maximus Alexander


    When I think about girls from my area that I hung around with as a kid, I can think of a couple that were very pretty but didn't fare well after puberty and a couple that were fairly plain (not ugly) who turned into stunners. I don't remember knowing any ugly children, but I can't imagine someone that you would actually describe as ugly having much chance at improving.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,237 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    I thought it was Charlize Theron at first glance. The adult picture doesn't look like a human.

    Did someone say Angelian Jolie was an ugly child??

    I don't believe so. A quick root threw up this bio page, which has some photos of her as a youngster. She was always kinda cute:

    http://www.absolumentjolie.com/site/en/angelina-jolie/menu-biography.html


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,780 ✭✭✭Frank Lee Midere


    I thought it was Charlize Theron at first glance. The adult picture doesn't look like a human.

    Did someone say Angelian Jolie was an ugly child??



    Blah blah. As if you've never seen an ugly child.

    He's not working specifically with them, paid to not discriminate between them and look after their welfare. It's clearly the wrong career for the OP. Unless he was just there "working " to fix the plumbing.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,034 ✭✭✭mad muffin


    macaulay culkin


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭hoodwinked


    there is a guy in our group of social friends who would be considered ugly, he rarely gets any girls on a night out despite his personality being a good one,

    one night we were out and he walked up and started talking to this absolute gorgeous girl who hugged him, the guys were all staring as she was as they called her "stunning" when the two of them came back over to us he introduced her to us, it was his sister.

    i figure when two people make a baby, the child either gets a combination of their genes that are suited to each other (in this case his sister) or not suited to each other (him) or it is a case of half suited either you will grow into features or will grow out of features at different stages or look just ordinary like myself i suppose where you are nether stunning, or ugly


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,780 ✭✭✭Frank Lee Midere


    You can't really tell much from kindergarten.

    Here is a (horrible click link) site with kindergarten aged pictures and the celebs as adults - I don't know many of he celebs but you can't tell me the kids are obviously going to turn out beautiful

    http://wonderwall.msn.com/movies/reveal-celeb-baby-pics-22225.gallery


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,710 ✭✭✭Balmed Out




    Blah blah. As if you've never seen an ugly child.

    I've seen less then good looking babies but then I never think anyone is ugly until a little before puberty.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,780 ✭✭✭Frank Lee Midere


    As for teenagers. Some potentially good looking teenagers are plagued by spots or braces. Hence the swans from ugly ducklings. The other side happens too. Good looking cheerleader marries early and piles on the pounds. Unrecognisable in her 30's. Good looking guy loses hair or piles on the pounds.

    A lot of adult loss of looks is weight related.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,646 ✭✭✭✭qo2cj1dsne8y4k


    I think ugly kids will grow up and be less ugly.
    Cute kids/cute teenagers are usually the ones who age bad or grow up to be ugly. Cute puppy ugly dog


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,080 ✭✭✭EoghanIRL


    I wonder what Rebecca Adlington looked like as a child .


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,129 ✭✭✭✭Oranage2


    DeadHand wrote: »
    You have no business working with kids for a living with an attitude as mean spirited and vapid as that.

    I bet none of those kids is as ugly as your personality.

    I'm an excellent kindergarten teacher and I regularly get complimented on my ability.

    But that doesn't take away from the fact that some kids are cute, some plain and others ugly.

    I myself was a cute kid, good looking teen, ugly adult.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,200 ✭✭✭Arbiter of Good Taste


    DeadHand wrote: »
    You have no business working with kids for a living with an attitude as mean spirited and vapid as that.

    I bet none of those kids is as ugly as your personality.

    Wow! Calm down.

    Guess what, some people are not good looking. Some children are not good looking. The OP has eyes and can see. Don't take it so personally, it's not as if she's abusing the children or calling them ugly to their faces.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,833 ✭✭✭DeadHand


    Oranage2 wrote: »
    I'm an excellent kindergarten teacher and I regularly get complimented on my ability.

    But that doesn't take away from the fact that some kids are cute, some plain and others ugly.

    I myself was a cute kid, good looking teen, ugly adult.

    Good for you!

    The thread subject doesn't bother me. Had it been started by some randomer I'd have treated it with the indifference it richly deserves. The fact it was started by someone in a position of authority over children doesn't sit right with me. The thought of somone in this position silently judging and categorizing children based on their looks and discussing it on the internet for lolz stinks badly to me. It's the type of attitude that breeds bullying.

    Anyways, never mind me. Continue discussing the relative attractiveness of infants. That isn't the least bit creepy.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 205 ✭✭LiamKK1982


    DeadHand wrote: »
    Good for you!

    The thread subject doesn't bother me. Had it been started by some randomer I'd have treated it with the indifference it richly deserves. The fact it was started by someone in a position of authority over children doesn't sit right with me. The thought of somone in this position silently judging and categorizing children based on their looks and discussing it on the internet for lolz stinks badly to me. It's the type of attitude that breeds bullying.

    Anyways, never mind me. Continue discussing the relative attractiveness of infants. That isn't the least bit creepy.

    You seem to be the only person in this thread with any kind of common decency. To call another person ugly is such a nasty POS thing to do.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,129 ✭✭✭✭Oranage2


    DeadHand wrote: »
    Good for you!

    The thread subject doesn't bother me. Had it been started by some randomer I'd have treated it with the indifference it richly deserves. The fact it was started by someone in a position of authority over children doesn't sit right with me. The thought of somone in this position silently judging and categorizing children based on their looks and discussing it on the internet for lolz stinks badly to me. It's the type of attitude that breeds bullying.

    Anyways, never mind me. Continue discussing the relative attractiveness of infants. That isn't the least bit creepy.

    Don't worry It's just a harmless observation, it doesn't bother what the kids look like .


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,925 ✭✭✭✭anncoates


    I was a beautiful kid but thankfully I've gradually grown into being merely good looking which is less hassle.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,080 ✭✭✭✭Maximus Alexander


    I was a cute kid, an awkward teenager, and have been on an upward curve since about the age of 17. I'm looking forward to being 50, I'm scheduled to be a real silver fox if the trend continues. Just have to not get fat.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,059 ✭✭✭✭osarusan


    I'm ugly on the inside.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 98 ✭✭Skeleton XIII


    As for teenagers. Some potentially good looking teenagers are plagued by spots or braces. Hence the swans from ugly ducklings. The other side happens too. Good looking cheerleader marries early and piles on the pounds. Unrecognisable in her 30's. Good looking guy loses hair or piles on the pounds.

    A lot of adult loss of looks is weight related.

    My hair started to thin during my mid twenties, good to know it was my fault and that I'm ugly now! Thanks! Muppet.


  • Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 36,496 Mod ✭✭✭✭pickarooney


    DeadHand wrote: »
    Anyways, never mind me. Continue discussing the relative attractiveness of infants. That isn't the least bit creepy.

    What's creepy is that you seem to be sexualising it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 494 ✭✭Chance The Rapper


    My hair started to thin during my mid twenties, good to know it was my fault and that I'm ugly now! Thanks! Muppet.

    He didn't say that though, did he?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,574 ✭✭✭whirlpool


    This thread is ugly as f***.

    Because yeah that's definitely what we need, the concept of ugly vs beautiful being perpetuated. Our society isn't saturated enough with pressures to be good looking.

    OP I don't care what your intentions were, when you're in the position that you are in it's disturbing that you're having conversations about whether kids are "ugly" or not. If you truly didn't mean any judgement/badness by it, then you would actually just have asked "Do your looks change as you get older?" You wouldn't have attached a judgement or an attractiveness level to it.

    Vile thread.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,080 ✭✭✭✭Maximus Alexander


    whirlpool wrote: »
    "Do your looks change as you get older?"

    That would be a pointless and redundant question though, with no discussion value.

    I think we are all clear on the fact that you can tell the difference between an 8 year old and a 28 year old just by looking at them.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,574 ✭✭✭whirlpool


    That would be a pointless and redundant question though, with no discussion value.

    I think we are all clear on the fact that you can tell the difference between an 8 year old and a 28 year old just by looking at them.

    Precisely.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,080 ✭✭✭✭Maximus Alexander


    whirlpool wrote: »
    Precisely.

    :confused:


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,635 ✭✭✭Pumpkinseeds


    I hope their looks improve. We just got an invitation to my husbands nieces daughters christening in England, we won't be going. My God the child is fugly, poor thing.


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