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Do ugly children become ugly adults?

  • 07-08-2014 7:12am
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,128 ✭✭✭✭


    So I'm in work, a kindergarten, and some kids are pretty and some are ugly. Got me thinking, do ugly children stay ugly?

    Please discuss!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,819 ✭✭✭howamidifferent


    Ugly ducklings become beautiful swans. Did you not get the memo?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,042 ✭✭✭zl1whqvjs75cdy


    Dunno OP are you ugly? Were you an ugly child?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,562 ✭✭✭✭Sunnyisland


    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder o mr gorgeous orange :-)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 833 ✭✭✭Riverireland


    Ask the ugly kids parents when they pick them up, there might be a genetic trend... More importantly find employment in an industry where your personality is more fitting.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 19,889 ✭✭✭✭The Moldy Gowl


    Puberty


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,996 ✭✭✭✭gozunda


    Oranage2 wrote: »
    So I'm in work, a kindergarten, and some kids are pretty and some are ugly. Got me thinking, do ugly children stay ugly?

    Please discuss!

    Here's an entire discussion on the subject in one answer!

    http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_does_'beauty_is_only_skin_deep'_mean


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,503 ✭✭✭Sinister Kid


    It works in reverse too... There was a few people in my class when I was in school that were good looking kids that are absolute rotters now


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,082 ✭✭✭irelandspurs


    Lots of ugly girls in school turned into stunners, The stunners in school became fat with loads of kids.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,481 ✭✭✭Barely There


    Fat kids have a pretty good chance of becoming fat adults.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,576 ✭✭✭Paddy Cow


    Well if you look at good looking female celebrities, nearly all of them at one stage have claimed they were the ugly/goofy looking one at school who never got hit on by the boys.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 663 ✭✭✭FairytaleGirl


    In general ugly kids grow into their features and become cracking adults (Angelina Jolie, that guy who played Neville in Harry potter are two that really stick out)

    I was a gorgeous kid, now I'm an absolute munter :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,128 ✭✭✭✭Oranage2


    Lots of ugly girls in school turned into stunners, The stunners in school became fat with loads of kids.

    Surely just a feel good generalization?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,195 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    The "Duckling and Swan" thing is a frail hope clung onto by people who, genetically-speaking, should not be procreating outside of highly secure military facilities. When that one inevitably falls through, they move onto the whole "beauty is only skin-deep" fallacy.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 430 ✭✭Pablodreamsofnew


    Aw poor kids being judge on appearance :(. Isn't that what adulthood is for?!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,195 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    Aw poor kids being judge on appearance :(. Isn't that what adulthood is for?!

    Have you actually been to school?? :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 430 ✭✭Pablodreamsofnew


    jimgoose wrote: »
    Have you actually been to school?? :pac:

    Not yet! My son is only 2 years old!!!


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 11,490 Mod ✭✭✭✭Hermy


    Define ugly.

    Genealogy Forum Mod



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,079 ✭✭✭Reindeer


    http://c2.likes-media.com/img/83f4d7c1fd298a79ac902443c1c038e1.600x Not the ugliest child, but quite an improvement


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,986 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles


    I was really ugly until I was about 5, Im not the worst looking now though :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 430 ✭✭Pablodreamsofnew


    I had those 'welfare glasses' when I was a kid. ugh.

    I jumped like a crazy kids on those glasses and smashed them to bits and them hid them under the mat.

    I had a lazy eye too! Still turns slightly if I'm really really tired of badly hungover.
    I'm kind of proud of it though :D My husband hasn't noticed it yet though. I've tried to make it turn for him

    I guess I'm probably still ugly now but married to my best friend! So whatever :P


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 494 ✭✭Chance The Rapper


    Hermy wrote: »
    Define ugly.

    Offensive to the eye


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 430 ✭✭Pablodreamsofnew


    [QUOTE Not the ugliest child, but quite an improvement[/QUOTE]

    I still don't think she is good-looking?!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,195 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    Reindeer wrote: »
    http://c2.likes-media.com/img/83f4d7c1fd298a79ac902443c1c038e1.600x Not the ugliest child, but quite an improvement

    I wouldn't say that. Nice-looking kid, in a kid sort of way - she looks like Caroline Wozniacki. As an adult, she's more like a malnourished doll! :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,195 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    ...Still turns slightly if I'm really really tired of badly hungover.
    I'm kind of proud of it though :D My husband hasn't noticed it yet though. I've tried to make it turn for him...

    Try to make it part of your orgasm routine - that'll hop him off the ceiling! :pac::pac::pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 331 ✭✭darkestlord


    They stay ugly and then work in a creche.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,110 ✭✭✭takamichinoku


    Karl Pilkington tries to give his answer to this question and drifts off hugely...:D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 430 ✭✭Pablodreamsofnew


    jimgoose wrote: »
    Try to make it part of your orgasm routine - that'll hop him off the ceiling! :pac::pac::pac:

    It won't turn on demand unfortunately :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,195 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    It won't turn on demand unfortunately :D

    Practice makes perfect! :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 430 ✭✭Pablodreamsofnew


    jimgoose wrote: »
    Practice makes perfect! :D

    :D we've been together this long and I haven't achieve the 'lazy eye look' while having sex, I'm starting to give up hope! Whats the point in having a lazy eye as a kid if it goes by the time you are an adult and have some fun with it?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30 louisenf2014


    I remember reading an article about how lots of research had been done and the better looking you are the easier your life will be. It starts when you're a kid and teachers will subconsciously have more time for you and be nicer to you without setting out to do so. It then continues on as you get older, you get more breaks. According to the article anyway. That said, i've encountered plenty of beautiful people who were a little vacant. As in, there was never any great need to develop a personality. I wasn't an ugly kid, pretty plain I guess but was chubby until I hit my twenties. After I shed the weight it was actually shocking how differently I was received (and still am).

    I think if a child is pretty much mutant-like and is clearly a product of poor genetics it's not going to go away but goofy teeth and gigantic lips etc - that can all develop OK with time.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 68 ✭✭SaoirseRose


    I was a fat baby, cute toddler, fairly dire looking kid, and an awkward gangly teenager.

    I'm decent enough looking now, wouldn't want to catch me first thing in the morning but I scrub up well. I like to think I grew into my looks; well that, or I'm in denial. :P

    My wee bro was the strangest looking baby, massive eyes and a tiny wee head. He's a handsome fcuker now though.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,784 ✭✭✭DeadHand


    Oranage2 wrote: »
    So I'm in work, a kindergarten, and some kids are pretty and some are ugly. Got me thinking, do ugly children stay ugly?

    Please discuss!

    You have no business working with kids for a living with an attitude as mean spirited and vapid as that.

    I bet none of those kids is as ugly as your personality.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,957 ✭✭✭miss no stars


    I think it's more a case that kids don't take great time to make themselves look their best, they're just concerned with getting on with life and can't dye their hair, wear makeup or grow tactical stubble (all of the above gender dependent as adults!). As adults, people learn how to make the best of their features and how to present themselves well. Some kids also have very adult features that they just need to grow into and can actually end up looking really beautiful even if they looked gawky as a kid. But a kid who doesn't have great features (pokey eyes, huge nose, mealey mouth, massive cheeks, poor bone structure) isn't going to be able to change that when they get older so will never turn into a swan. They can look presentable and look well, but they'll never be a stunner.

    I think the idea of ugly kids growing up beautiful comes from kids who aren't so much ugly as gawky and needing to grow into their features.


  • Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 35,741 Mod ✭✭✭✭pickarooney


    jimgoose wrote: »
    I wouldn't say that. Nice-looking kid, in a kid sort of way - she looks like Caroline Wozniacki. As an adult, she's more like a malnourished doll! :pac:

    I thought it was Charlize Theron at first glance. The adult picture doesn't look like a human.

    Did someone say Angelian Jolie was an ugly child??
    DeadHand wrote: »
    You have no business working with kids for a living with an attitude as mean spirited and vapid as that.

    I bet none of those kids is as ugly as your personality.

    Blah blah. As if you've never seen an ugly child.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,080 ✭✭✭✭Maximus Alexander


    When I think about girls from my area that I hung around with as a kid, I can think of a couple that were very pretty but didn't fare well after puberty and a couple that were fairly plain (not ugly) who turned into stunners. I don't remember knowing any ugly children, but I can't imagine someone that you would actually describe as ugly having much chance at improving.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,195 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    I thought it was Charlize Theron at first glance. The adult picture doesn't look like a human.

    Did someone say Angelian Jolie was an ugly child??

    I don't believe so. A quick root threw up this bio page, which has some photos of her as a youngster. She was always kinda cute:

    http://www.absolumentjolie.com/site/en/angelina-jolie/menu-biography.html


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,780 ✭✭✭Frank Lee Midere


    I thought it was Charlize Theron at first glance. The adult picture doesn't look like a human.

    Did someone say Angelian Jolie was an ugly child??



    Blah blah. As if you've never seen an ugly child.

    He's not working specifically with them, paid to not discriminate between them and look after their welfare. It's clearly the wrong career for the OP. Unless he was just there "working " to fix the plumbing.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,034 ✭✭✭mad muffin


    macaulay culkin


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭hoodwinked


    there is a guy in our group of social friends who would be considered ugly, he rarely gets any girls on a night out despite his personality being a good one,

    one night we were out and he walked up and started talking to this absolute gorgeous girl who hugged him, the guys were all staring as she was as they called her "stunning" when the two of them came back over to us he introduced her to us, it was his sister.

    i figure when two people make a baby, the child either gets a combination of their genes that are suited to each other (in this case his sister) or not suited to each other (him) or it is a case of half suited either you will grow into features or will grow out of features at different stages or look just ordinary like myself i suppose where you are nether stunning, or ugly


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,780 ✭✭✭Frank Lee Midere


    You can't really tell much from kindergarten.

    Here is a (horrible click link) site with kindergarten aged pictures and the celebs as adults - I don't know many of he celebs but you can't tell me the kids are obviously going to turn out beautiful

    http://wonderwall.msn.com/movies/reveal-celeb-baby-pics-22225.gallery


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,730 ✭✭✭Balmed Out




    Blah blah. As if you've never seen an ugly child.

    I've seen less then good looking babies but then I never think anyone is ugly until a little before puberty.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,780 ✭✭✭Frank Lee Midere


    As for teenagers. Some potentially good looking teenagers are plagued by spots or braces. Hence the swans from ugly ducklings. The other side happens too. Good looking cheerleader marries early and piles on the pounds. Unrecognisable in her 30's. Good looking guy loses hair or piles on the pounds.

    A lot of adult loss of looks is weight related.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,646 ✭✭✭✭qo2cj1dsne8y4k


    I think ugly kids will grow up and be less ugly.
    Cute kids/cute teenagers are usually the ones who age bad or grow up to be ugly. Cute puppy ugly dog


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,080 ✭✭✭EoghanIRL


    I wonder what Rebecca Adlington looked like as a child .


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,128 ✭✭✭✭Oranage2


    DeadHand wrote: »
    You have no business working with kids for a living with an attitude as mean spirited and vapid as that.

    I bet none of those kids is as ugly as your personality.

    I'm an excellent kindergarten teacher and I regularly get complimented on my ability.

    But that doesn't take away from the fact that some kids are cute, some plain and others ugly.

    I myself was a cute kid, good looking teen, ugly adult.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,200 ✭✭✭Arbiter of Good Taste


    DeadHand wrote: »
    You have no business working with kids for a living with an attitude as mean spirited and vapid as that.

    I bet none of those kids is as ugly as your personality.

    Wow! Calm down.

    Guess what, some people are not good looking. Some children are not good looking. The OP has eyes and can see. Don't take it so personally, it's not as if she's abusing the children or calling them ugly to their faces.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,784 ✭✭✭DeadHand


    Oranage2 wrote: »
    I'm an excellent kindergarten teacher and I regularly get complimented on my ability.

    But that doesn't take away from the fact that some kids are cute, some plain and others ugly.

    I myself was a cute kid, good looking teen, ugly adult.

    Good for you!

    The thread subject doesn't bother me. Had it been started by some randomer I'd have treated it with the indifference it richly deserves. The fact it was started by someone in a position of authority over children doesn't sit right with me. The thought of somone in this position silently judging and categorizing children based on their looks and discussing it on the internet for lolz stinks badly to me. It's the type of attitude that breeds bullying.

    Anyways, never mind me. Continue discussing the relative attractiveness of infants. That isn't the least bit creepy.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 205 ✭✭LiamKK1982


    DeadHand wrote: »
    Good for you!

    The thread subject doesn't bother me. Had it been started by some randomer I'd have treated it with the indifference it richly deserves. The fact it was started by someone in a position of authority over children doesn't sit right with me. The thought of somone in this position silently judging and categorizing children based on their looks and discussing it on the internet for lolz stinks badly to me. It's the type of attitude that breeds bullying.

    Anyways, never mind me. Continue discussing the relative attractiveness of infants. That isn't the least bit creepy.

    You seem to be the only person in this thread with any kind of common decency. To call another person ugly is such a nasty POS thing to do.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,128 ✭✭✭✭Oranage2


    DeadHand wrote: »
    Good for you!

    The thread subject doesn't bother me. Had it been started by some randomer I'd have treated it with the indifference it richly deserves. The fact it was started by someone in a position of authority over children doesn't sit right with me. The thought of somone in this position silently judging and categorizing children based on their looks and discussing it on the internet for lolz stinks badly to me. It's the type of attitude that breeds bullying.

    Anyways, never mind me. Continue discussing the relative attractiveness of infants. That isn't the least bit creepy.

    Don't worry It's just a harmless observation, it doesn't bother what the kids look like .


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,925 ✭✭✭✭anncoates


    I was a beautiful kid but thankfully I've gradually grown into being merely good looking which is less hassle.


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