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Jhcx · 19-05-2014 07:41PM

So i was coming down in the car listening to my music. Just wanna point out how great music is. That is all. :P

So ya coming down in the car and im like Everyone needs to know this is my life theme song. I live and die by it. Its just so real! Whats yer theme life song?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1lyu1KKwC74

So then i was thinking and i came up with a question. How long Does it take to heal after a breakup. I think ive healed that or its just turned into anger. but ive found a few songs that can sum up everything

Start.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jiLK5dmHq60

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kdTzmIgRuQ0

and End it off questioning everything

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vzx7omiAmJQ

And you will either tell yourself all of this as if you were talking to them because its really what you should do but your unable to let go... for now.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RVooqKsXsdM

We know its over, were wasting time searching for happier days we know we will never find.

pajor · 19-05-2014 08:19PM

Probably 'Morning Glory' by Oasis.

I love cooking to Oasis blaring.

pajor · 20-05-2014 11:34AM

This forum gets awful philosophical sometimes too.

Peanut Butter Jelly · 20-05-2014 11:59AM

pajor wrote: »

This forum gets awful philosophical sometimes too.

Is a tree smarter when it's alive, or when it's chopped down and turned into encyclopaedias?

HugsiePie · 20-05-2014 02:04PM

pajor wrote: »

This forum gets awful philosophical sometimes too.

Ive been sleeping on coins the padt few days and now I have 5 perfectly circular bruises ony hip as a result

A huk a huk a huk

wnolan1992 · 20-05-2014 07:09PM

Mine is this:

Jhcx · 20-05-2014 07:45PM

Have you tried Tinder. i joined last night got 6 matches this morning. but im breaking too many hearts in the process. Im sorry guys.

Here i

This = brilliance

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NFegdkTZXD0

Peanut Butter Jelly · 20-05-2014 08:13PM

Video = No worky

Jhcx · 20-05-2014 08:21PM

Done

MauraTheThird · 20-05-2014 09:25PM

Closely having a breakdown because I am trying to pretend I am not heartbroken by this breakup and that it doesn't bother me that he doesn't want anything to do with me again

iamanengine · 20-05-2014 10:17PM

CTYI, I can't find your post (I'm actually just lazy) but whereabouts are you in Dublin? I'm actually on the border with Kildare, but I'm in court in Dublin tomorrow

Stick with the course, it sucks but actually working in a firm is AWESOME!!

Jhcx · 20-05-2014 10:40PM

MauraTheThird wrote: »

Closely having a breakdown because I am trying to pretend I am not heartbroken by this breakup and that it doesn't bother me that he doesn't want anything to do with me again

Seriously i feel your pain. HUGS.

MauraTheThird · 20-05-2014 10:43PM

Jhcx wrote: »

Seriously i feel your pain. HUGS.

Being the ultimate Moaning Myrtle at the moment. I hope you're ok too seriously. Breakups suck.

I just know I would have done anything to fix it but he didn't even try whoch makes me sad

HugsiePie · 20-05-2014 10:44PM

Jhcx wrote: »

HUGS.

You called.......

Ah no.....

Maura

Hes not worth the pain...I know that doesnt seem like it now but youll see in the future hes not worth it if he doesnt want to be with an awesome girl like you

Cheer up

And most importantly Hugs from Hugsie

I do realise you are probably asking who the hell am I......soz

LoonyLovegood · 20-05-2014 10:47PM

Maura, if you need a chat message me. Seriously.

Jhcx · 20-05-2014 10:47PM

MauraTheThird wrote: »

Being the ultimate Moaning Myrtle at the moment. I hope you're ok too seriously. Breakups suck.

I just know I would have done anything to fix it but he didn't even try whoch makes me sad

Your right too. Yes they do. I know all too well when the other person doesnt try. But my sadness has turned to anger over that fact. Its like one minute were happy. i get picked up at airport. and bam we should break up. my mind is completely blown. what makes no sense is there is no explanation so now i have to wait a few weeks before i can go on the hunt to find these god dam answers. meanwhile im straining my friendship with them. :mad::(:mad:

iamanengine · 21-05-2014 05:01PM

MauraTheThird wrote: »

Being the ultimate Moaning Myrtle at the moment. I hope you're ok too seriously. Breakups suck.

I just know I would have done anything to fix it but he didn't even try whoch makes me sad

I may be wrong here as I can't quite recall your previous posts and correct me if I'm wrong here but, is it the case that you both felt at the time that a break up was the right thing to do as it wasn't working but then after the break up when he started ignoring you, that was when you started to be like why didn't he even try to fix things?

I'd also say, when I went through my horrific ordeal last summer, as some here may recall :P , the only way I got through it in the end was by ignoring her completely, I mean 0 contact, for, maybe up to even 3 months. Only by having no contact with her could I realise that I didn't actually need her, and found my independence again. That could be what he needs, and it may be what you need.

But, at the same time, I don't think I have the necessary expertise to give advice in such a situation as everyone is different, so my bad if I'm way off :P

MauraTheThird · 21-05-2014 05:55PM

I know I go on about things and I know deep down, it probably is for the best [second long(ish) term relationship in 5 years for both of us].

I am saddened that he just didn't try to make things work, that giving up on us was his solution. Makes me feel like the last year meant nothing to him :mad:

I am going to Lyon for four days as of Friday, so trying to ignore everything and remain happy

Junco Partner · 21-05-2014 10:19PM

Love dies and people are weak.

You just need to dust yourself off and keep on keeping on.

HugsiePie · 21-05-2014 11:47PM

Ive decided I need to stop apologising, especially for things where I am nowhere near in the wrong, I need to stop being a push over, Im way too nice for my own good, I need to start looking out for no.1 instead of putting everyone else before me! Ive come to realise Iam in the exact same position in my life that I was when I was 6, some sh1t needs to seriously change

The reason Iv written it down here is cause if I dont tell someone this I wont reinforce it, it makes it more real here, even if all Im telling this to is a handful of strangers on the internet.

Vito Corleone · 21-05-2014 11:53PM

HugsiePie wrote: »

Ive decided I need to stop apologising, especially for things where I am nowhere near in the wrong, I need to stop being a push over, Im way too nice for my own good, I need to start looking out for no.1 instead of putting everyone else before me! Ive come to realise Iam in the exact same position in my life that I was when I was 6, some sh1t needs to seriously change

The reason Iv written it down here is cause if I dont tell someone this I wont reinforce it, it makes it more real here, even if all Im telling this to is a handful of strangers on the internet.

According to a study apologising is bad for self esteem, even if you had something to apologise for. I'm actively trying to stop apologising altogether.

HugsiePie · 22-05-2014 12:02AM

Vito Corleone wrote: »

According to a study apologising is bad for self esteem, even if you had something to apologise for. I'm actively trying to stop apologising altogether.

WHY ARE YOU HERE

C and H is no place for a grad

Go back home ya mutt

but jeez would you not atleast say sorry when youre in the wrong

if youre actually in the wrong, acknowledging it to the person you hurt is not going to destroy your self esteem
it makes you an egotistical pr1ck if you dont

Vito Corleone · 22-05-2014 12:14AM

My self esteem is at risk, I am too fragile. Like a fragrant daffodil blowing in the wind.

pajor · 22-05-2014 05:37AM

HugsiePie wrote: »

WHY ARE YOU HERE

C and H is no place for a grad

Go back home ya mutt

I guess I'll have to fcuk off soon too. :pac:

iamanengine · 22-05-2014 07:13AM

Oh, you think you can just leave? NOW?

Oh sweet summer child...

:P

Wnolan, or CTYI... lock em up!

pajor · 22-05-2014 07:20AM

iamanengine wrote: »

Oh, you think you can just leave? NOW?

Oh sweet summer child...

:P

Wnolan, or CTYI... lock em up!

I had to google that to get it. I hate not having enough internet data to watch stuff. :mad:

Ah well.. won't be the case for much longer!

iamanengine · 22-05-2014 12:17PM

pajor wrote: »

I had to google that to get it. I hate not having enough internet data to watch stuff. :mad:

Ah well.. won't be the case for much longer!

I am a hardcore GoT fanatic it's all good. But srsly, get to watchin it! So good :O

LoonyLovegood · 22-05-2014 02:29PM

LOL, people who think they can leave.

pajor · 22-05-2014 02:35PM

CTYIgirl wrote: »

LOL, people who think they can leave.

:eek:

Some film is springing to mind, but not sure what exactly. :pac:

LoveLamps · 22-05-2014 02:38PM

pajor wrote: »

:eek:

Some film is springing to mind, but not sure what exactly. :pac:

Hunger games?

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