Turn ons/offs in the opposite sex

SpaceCowb0y · 27-02-2014 12:28PM

maguic24 wrote: »

What about women who curse a lot, is that a turn off for some guys? I am so bad, I have tried to stop cursing but it just isn't 'appening.

I've been told by numerous people i swear far too much, i don't even notice myself doing it to be honest so i couldn't fault anyone else for doing the same, man or woman!

dyeti · 27-02-2014 12:29PM

maguic24 wrote: »

What about women who curse a lot, is that a turn off for some guys? I am so bad, I have tried to stop cursing but it just isn't 'appening.

This sounds weird but I like a woman that swears a lot :P A woman who swears, drinks pints of stout and gets into arguments with bouncers is a woman for me! I like a woman that is argumentative (although this often works to my disadvantage with my current gf haha), can stand up for themselves and is not afraid to voice their opinion and put people in their place. Other turn ons include piercings/tattoos, undercuts, sometimes dreadlocks (can look HIDEOUS on some women, great on others), Irish speaking, black hair or dark red hair, strong Irish/English/Scottish accent, doesnt wear make up, lovely arse (more important than tittays), enjoys getting wrecked, can have and pursues intellectual conversations, well-traveled! There are other turn ons but these are the main ones. I like "bad" girls

Turn offs include high heels, make up, match stick skinny, drinks diet Coke in the morning along with a fag as their "diet breakfast", shy, has no love for adventure/traveling and drinks nothing but only Bulmers/vodka (I dont really give a fúck what you drink, but the Club K/Carbon girls who live off this really repulse me).

Apart from that Im pretty open minded!

SpaceCowb0y · 27-02-2014 12:38PM

dyeti wrote: »

This sounds weird but I like a woman that swears a lot :P A woman who swears, drinks pints of stout and gets into arguments with bouncers is a woman for me! I like a woman that is argumentative (although this often works to my disadvantage with my current gf haha), can stand up for themselves and is not afraid to voice their opinion and put people in their place.

OH GOD NO!

Nothing is more of a turn off then a butch bird who is unpredictable and likely to kick off! I like it when a girl can voice her opinion definitely and who can also challenge me in an argument and put me in my place if im wrong but not they type who is going to do so at a raised decibel to the point where it's making a scene!

My mates girlfriend is exactly like this, usually only after having a few drinks though and as much as i love her it's horrible to see on a night out and usually results in her and my mate having a massive barney and him having to head off in a cab with her to avoid embarrassment! I like girls who are good banter but like ladies to be ladylike!

maguic24 · 27-02-2014 12:41PM

SpaceCowb0y wrote: »

I've been told by numerous people i swear far too much, i don't even notice myself doing it to be honest so i couldn't fault anyone else for doing the same, man or woman!

That's the worst thing about it. I even say the dreaded 'cnut' word and I forget it is taken much more offensively in Dublin compared to down the country. I have been pulled up on my language a few times in work and more recently last night in badminton. It's actually a bit embarrassing.

>.<

They just got used to me in work, thankfully my manager is just as bad as me but the ladies certainly don't like me using the 'cnut' word so I have tried not to use it.

I just can't help it, does be out before I even think about, especially when I'm angry or annoyed over things. People tend to point it out to me when they first meet me but then just end up giving up and accepting it......:P

What am I gonna do if I ever have kids?

Molester Stallone · 27-02-2014 12:49PM

maguic24 wrote: »

That's the worst thing about it. I even say the dreaded 'cnut' word and I forget it is taken much more offensively in Dublin compared to down the country. I have been pulled up on my language a few times in work and more recently last night in badminton. It's actually a bit embarrassing. >.<

They just got used to me in work, thankfully my manager is just as bad as me but the ladies certainly don't like me using the 'cnut' word so I have tried not to use it.

I just can't help it, does be out before I even think about, especially when I'm angry or annoyed over things. People tend to point it out to me when they first meet me but then just end up giving up and accepting it......:P

What am I gonna do if I ever have kids?

I love the c word, it's just the way it rolls off your tongue, stops people dead in their tracks

Ps, in badminton, do you call it a shuttlecnut?

dyeti · 27-02-2014 12:51PM

SpaceCowb0y wrote: »

OH GOD NO!

Nothing is more of a turn off then a butch bird who is unpredictable and likely to kick off! I like it when a girl can voice her opinion definitely and who can also challenge me in an argument and put me in my place if im wrong but not they type who is going to do so at a raised decibel to the point where it's making a scene!

Well Im not attracted to "butch" women. I dont like girls who are muscly and have short hair and have pitbulls. I like women who are feminine yet who are also rowdy and "tough". I guess myself being slightly effeminate (or so Ive been told) being attracted to women who are slightly masculine makes sense. My current girlfriend is definitely manlier than me

It works though, it would be imbalanced otherwise!

27-02-2014 12:52PM

Rowdy would be a definite turn off for me.

Saying that I do love a pint of Guinness and I can stand right up for myself but I can do it without shouting or causing attention to be drawn.

Maximus Alexander · 27-02-2014 12:54PM

To me "rowdy" is a synonym for "asshole". Definitely not a turn on.

Molester Stallone · 27-02-2014 12:54PM

[Deleted User] wrote: »

Rowdy would be a definite turn off for me.

Guess you have enough rowdiness on here as it is!

whisky_galore · 27-02-2014 12:55PM

Maximus Alexander wrote: »

I fucking hate it when women curse all the time. Makes them sound shit for fuck sake.

You would hate South Australia, nothing but caaant this and caaant that and she's a facking caaant...

maguic24 · 27-02-2014 12:56PM

Molester Stallone wrote: »

Ps, in badminton, do you call it a shuttlecnut?

No, I call it a shuttlecock. :P Maybe if I started saying 'cock' for every missed shot and then when I get pulled up on it, I can just say I was saying 'shuttlecock'. Or even if I just start saying shuttlecock.

Ugh shuttlecock, I missed it. :P Ugh, you absolute shuttlecock, why didn't you get that?

I actually think it could work. :P Haha

Maximus Alexander · 27-02-2014 12:56PM

whisky_galore wrote: »

You would hate South Australia, nothing but caaant this and caaant that and she's a facking caaant...

I've been, and I don't mind it really. I was just being puckish.

czechlin · 27-02-2014 01:00PM

turn off: drama queens/kings

Penny Tration · 27-02-2014 01:05PM

Maximus Alexander wrote: »

To me "rowdy" is a synonym for "asshole". Definitely not a turn on.

When I was younger and went out with a few 'rowdy' guys, it was horrendous. Having to leave the pub early because they'd cause a scene or fight, one tries to punch my friend because he gave me a big hug and picked me up off the floor, constantly being rude to other people there...

Ugh, give me a nice, well mannered but assertive guy over a rowdy one all the way.

salacious crumb · 27-02-2014 01:08PM

maguic24 wrote: »

That's the worst thing about it. I even say the dreaded 'cnut' word and I forget it is taken much more offensively in Dublin compared to down the country

Only in churches....

dyeti · 27-02-2014 01:10PM

I guess "assertive" is a better word. I wouldnt fancy someone who actively went looking for fights! I just admire women who stand up for themselves and dont take shít from others. Ive gone out with way too many timid, shy, pushover women who were just a bit of a bore to be around.

maguic24 · 27-02-2014 01:11PM

salacious crumb wrote: »

Only in churches....

No, it means nothing to say it down the country. As in you meet someone in Longford and say 'How are ya, ya cnut ya, I haven't seen you in ages?'.

If I said that in Dublin, I'd get daggers. That's what I've started to realise anyway. You don't be going round saying that word.

salacious crumb · 27-02-2014 01:12PM

maguic24 wrote: »

No, it means nothing to say it down the country. As in you meet someone in Longford and say 'How are ya, ya cnut ya, I haven't seen you in ages?'.

If I said that in Dublin, I'd get daggers. That's what I've started to realise anyway. You don't be going round saying that word.

I disagree. I use it all the time, and only know one person who has any sort of problem with it.

maguic24 · 27-02-2014 01:12PM

dyeti wrote: »

I guess "assertive" is a better word. I wouldnt fancy someone who actively went looking for fights! I just admire women who stand up for themselves and dont take shít from others. Ive gone out with way too many timid, shy, pushover women who were just a bit of a bore to be around.

Same for me with guys. i don't like rowdy, but I do like a man who can stand up for myself. My best friend is a big pushover and my whole family were convinced we would end up married.

I don't think so. Not spending my life fighting his battles. :P

whisky_galore · 27-02-2014 01:12PM

I find it cute when a woman does a girly burp.
Is that wrong?

Molester Stallone · 27-02-2014 01:13PM

whisky_galore wrote: »

I find it cute when a woman does a girly burp.
Is that wrong?

A bottom burp? Yes

desertcircus · 27-02-2014 01:14PM

Arguing with a bouncer is a turn-on? I've heard about odd kinks before, but that's a new one. Women who read science fiction, though...they're definitely of interest.

maguic24 · 27-02-2014 01:14PM

salacious crumb wrote: »

I disagree. I use it all the time, and only know one person who has any sort of problem with it.

Well, it's just something I noticed. It's more so women than men who take serious offence to it. That's just in my experience anyway. :P

I don't have any stats to back it up, so it is a generalisation. :P

Penny Tration · 27-02-2014 01:14PM

whisky_galore wrote: »

I find it cute when a woman does a girly burp.
Is that wrong?

That's me out of the running, I could give Homer Simpson a run for his money.

maguic24 · 27-02-2014 01:15PM

Molester Stallone wrote: »

A bottom burp? Yes

Women fart and poop, get over it. :P

Maximus Alexander · 27-02-2014 01:17PM

maguic24 wrote: »

Women fart and poop, get over it. :P

NO THEY DON'T!

whisky_galore · 27-02-2014 01:17PM

green_screen wrote: »

That's me out of the running, I could give Homer Simpson a run for his money.

What kind of volume are we talking about, like a warthog belching into a galvanised bucket?

maguic24 · 27-02-2014 01:17PM

Maximus Alexander wrote: »

NO THEY DON'T!

They do, sometimes they're even big smelly ones. :P Haha.

beano345 · 27-02-2014 01:18PM

maguic24 wrote: »

No, it means nothing to say it down the country. As in you meet someone in Longford and say 'How are ya, ya cnut ya, I haven't seen you in ages?'.

If I said that in Dublin, I'd get daggers. That's what I've started to realise anyway. You don't be going round saying that word.

I dunno what parts of Dublin you've been in!

Turn offs : “I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.” any girl who says that or has that as a Facebook status

blacklilly · 27-02-2014 01:18PM

I have to say I don't particularly like the c word. I have found myself using it but only when I get very angry and I don't think it's appropiate to use in a work setting at all. Other swear words don't bother me as much but I know if someone came out with the C word in my work, they'd probably get a talking to.

Big turn off: Agressive types, controlling types, jealous types.

Turn on: Confident & assertive men

Turn ons/offs in the opposite sex

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