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Turn ons/offs in the opposite sex
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GalwayGuy2 wrote: »Is that whole shaving thing only unpopular because it's in porn? I find the reaction against what's portrayed in porn as really weird
Not the reason I don't like it personally. I just don't want to and my boyfriend likes hair anyway. Not against the idea of anyone else doing it either.0 -
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@SeenItAll
Meh , I shave. I leave the upper bit trimmed. Personally, I like the sensation of a more, er, EDIT: TMI
Again, who cares if someone is expecting you to do something. It's your own choice on whether or not to do it.Perhaps you'd have a different opinion if it were men who were generally expected to be BSC'd, because of what the women see and get turned on in porn.
Actually, it doesn't turn me on in porn. I don't really watch porn anymore. I like storyline and exploration of sexuality, not just two people in a bed.
Hmmm, I wouldn't rule out that some women would be turn on by being shave. There's a certain amount of kinkeness involved and the close sensation of the close point of the shave could be arousing. Again, could be. Each to their own and another woman could find it awful and itchy.
On the last point of expectation, isn't that like saying romance novels make woman into hair? There's a million and one reasons a woman would be into a hairy man and each are unique to her as an individual.
I've realised that I've started ranting a little. So, I'd like to add that I generally don't care about pubic hair. Sure, I have my preference. But as long as it isn't smelly or tastes bad, then I'm grand.
No, this is turning into a gender debate. And I just want to get back into discussing sexuality.
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Wow that is a hair of a discussion here!
Each to their own I say.
However, I'd be quite interested in knowing your opinion on men shaving their armpits! (Most of my mates at home do it so I'm fairly used to it. It doesn't seem to be 'the thing' here though. Which I've gotten used to as well.)
So: Gentlemen, do you/would you shave it?
Ladies, what are you thoughts on that topic? Do you give a damn?
Nope, used to do it once, not any more, and girls with underarm hair? *shudders*
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I trim my armpits and nether regions for hygienic reasons, I think a big bush on a bloke (or a woman) just looks very 1972...and actually a little untidy..especially after a night of debauchery!
Oh and picking 3 inch hairs from your teeth is a bit of a mood killer imo!
I also think that turns you on/off changes with the person.
I would always have said that body freckles dont do anything for me, even a bit of a turn off. My gf has a freckly back and I find it lovely now
Similarly, I'm a hairy bugger (well chestwise anyway) and she would have preferred smooth in the past, now she really likes playing with my hairy chest, which is handy!0 -
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I trim my armpits and nether regions for hygienic reasons, I think a big bush on a bloke (or a woman) just looks very 1972...and actually a little untidy..especially after a night of debauchery!
Oh and picking 3 inch hairs from your teeth is a bit of a mood killer imo!
I also think that turns you on/off changes with the person.
I would always have said that body freckles dont do anything for me, even a bit of a turn off. My gf has a freckly back and I find it lovely now
Similarly, I'm a hairy bugger (well chestwise anyway) and she would have preferred smooth in the past, now she really likes playing with my hairy chest, which is handy!
I found untrimmed armpits on young men a bit strange when I moved over but I got used to it and don't mind it unless they look like a giant dark bush. I've seen a lad like that once wearing a vest and although he was shaped nicely and had a handsome face it put me off completely. I'd say the same goes for women. (I wouldn't wear short sleeves unless I was shaved)
Preferences can change as you said. I used to shrug at the thought of a - as you put it - a hairy bugger. I have always preferred smooth, maybe because I'm very soft skinned and don't have that much body hair myself. He had a hairy chest and I didn't mind because I liked him that much it wasn't an issue.
Now that was only a chest I'm not sure if I could cope with the bear type.
Although I used to hate when men weren't clean shaven. These days I find stubble extremely sexy and I can even cope with a beard (short trimmed).
Guess that's what growing up (= getting old) feels like :rolleyes:0 -
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IWow that is a hair of a discussion here!
Each to their own I say.
However, I'd be quite interested in knowing your opinion on men shaving their armpits! (Most of my mates at home do it so I'm fairly used to it. It doesn't seem to be 'the thing' here though. Which I've gotten used to as well.)
So: Gentlemen, do you/would you shave it?
Ladies, what are you thoughts on that topic? Do you give a damn?
I shave down below every now and then,very carefully I might add,never under the pits though.
Btw,I don't know about Ireland but here in Britain the new fad with many young girls is letting hair grow under their pits and then dying it,like purple,red,green,pink etc etc.0 -
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Oh sweet Jesus!Hagar the Nice. wrote: »IBtw,I don't know about Ireland but here in Britain the new fad with many young girls is letting hair grow under their pits and then dying it,like purple,red,green,pink etc etc.0 -
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