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Do you still snog your long term OH?

  • 29-12-2013 12:00PM
    #1
    Chefrio
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 120 ✭✭


    I was discussing this amongst friends and it occured to us that none of us snog are long term girlfriends. The only time we might kiss our girlfriends would be during sex.

    So, do you still snog your OH?


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  • #2
    Princess Peach
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,698 ✭✭✭✭Princess Peach


    Everyday.

    What a sad group of friends you have.


  • #3
    qo2cj1dsne8y4k
    Closed Accounts Posts: 23,646 ✭✭✭✭qo2cj1dsne8y4k


    I usually hate kissing so bleh. I only like snogging people who don't want to snog me ha.


  • #4
    Chefrio
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 120 ✭✭Chefrio


    Princess Peach wrote: »
    Everyday.

    What a sad group of friends you have.

    So would you recommend we all break up with our girlfriends?

    Is this a sign that the spark is gone?


  • #5
    Knine
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,775 ✭✭✭Knine


    Chefrio wrote: »
    So would you recommend we all break up with our girlfriends?

    No we recommend your girlfriends should all break up with you.


  • #6
    El Horseboxo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,341 ✭✭✭El Horseboxo


    Chefrio wrote: »
    I was discussing this amongst friends and it occured to us that none of us snog are long term girlfriends. The only time we might kiss our girlfriends would be during sex.

    So, do you still snog your OH?

    If my girlfriend asked for a snog I'd probably roundhouse her. Hate that word. Anyways I still throw the lips on her daily. Maybe y'all got some ugly women.


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  • #7
    Princess Peach
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,698 ✭✭✭✭Princess Peach


    Chefrio wrote: »
    So would you recommend we all break up with our girlfriends?

    Is this a sign that the spark is gone?

    I recommend you make 5 minutes in your day for kissing. It's great fun!


  • #8
    Chefrio
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 120 ✭✭Chefrio


    Knine wrote: »
    No we recommend your girlfriends should all break up with you.

    Why?


  • #9
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 6,321 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I wear the face off him , everyday, it could help us live longer....


    http://www.saga.co.uk/health/wellbeing/kissingforalongerandhealthierlife.aspx


    ;):D


  • #10
    Czarcasm
    Closed Accounts Posts: 10,076 ✭✭✭✭Czarcasm


    17 years later, yep, we still kiss each other, never really thought about it, though now I do, there's plenty of couples I know who don't kiss each other any more, and some who don't even have sex any more, but they still get on great.

    I wouldn't be into the whole public displays of affection nonsense though, always just struck me as people thinking they'd something to prove to the world, as if the world gives a shìt.

    OP if you and your OH or you mates and their OH's are happy in your relationships, that's the most important thing over what anyone else thinks or what works for them in their relationships!


  • #11
    Ihatecuddles
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,986 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles


    Me and my fiance never kiss. It's really weird :o We kiss on the lips 100 times a day, but never use tongue.


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  • #12
    Paddy Cow
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,576 ✭✭✭Paddy Cow


    I have a coldsore. Who fancies a snog?


  • #13
    Lando Griffin
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,952 ✭✭✭Lando Griffin


    We are constantly snogging and general cuddling and giggling no matter where we are.
    When we are at a party she sits on my knees and we tell stories together I tell the first line then she the second etc; it adds consistancy to the story.
    My favourite is the littke eskimo kiss we have for places where kissing would be frowned upon like in the supermarket or in a queue at the ATM.
    We love each other soooo much all my mates say we are pathetic but as I just love cuddles and kisses.


  • #14
    dr strangelove
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 816 ✭✭✭dr strangelove


    Yes, all the time (when not arguing about the "rules" of Monopoly....)


  • #15
    Paddy Cow
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,576 ✭✭✭Paddy Cow


    Lando Griffin wrote: »
    We are constantly snogging and general cuddling and giggling no matter where we are.
    When we are at a party she sits on my knees and we tell stories together I tell the first line then she the second etc; it adds consistancy to the story.
    My favourite is the littke eskimo kiss we have for places where kissing would be frowned upon like in the supermarket or in a queue at the ATM.
    We love each other soooo much all my mates say we are pathetic but as I just love cuddles and kisses.
    Lyk if u cryd :p


  • #16
    Chattastrophe!
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,284 ✭✭✭Chattastrophe!


    Lando Griffin wrote: »
    We are constantly snogging and general cuddling and giggling no matter where we are.
    When we are at a party she sits on my knees and we tell stories together I tell the first line then she the second etc; it adds consistancy to the story.
    My favourite is the littke eskimo kiss we have for places where kissing would be frowned upon like in the supermarket or in a queue at the ATM.
    We love each other soooo much all my mates say we are pathetic but as I just love cuddles and kisses.

    I think I just puked a little in my mouth ... :P


  • #17
    ElleEm
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,981 ✭✭✭ElleEm


    We kiss on the lips loads throughout the day, but wouldn't passionately kiss every day. He gets hot and bothered far too easily, so we can't even properly kiss if we are outside or in the vicinity of other people.


  • #18
    theteal
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,590 ✭✭✭theteal


    I don't know why but I have always hated the term "snog", so no.


    As for kissing, it's been nearly 8 years and we probably do it more than ever, an embrace is the first thing either of us gets when walking in the front door - not a rule or anything (wait a minute!) it's just become the norm over time


  • #19
    aujopimur
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,952 ✭✭✭aujopimur


    Does the dog count?.


  • #20
    Chefrio
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 120 ✭✭Chefrio


    theteal wrote: »
    I don't know why but I have always hated the term "snog", so no.


    As for kissing, it's been nearly 8 years and we probably do it more than ever, an embrace is the first thing either of us gets when walking in the front door - not a rule or anything (wait a minute!) it's just become the norm over time

    Is it passionate kissing with tongues or a peck on the lips?


  • #21
    lkionm
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,407 ✭✭✭lkionm


    I much prefer the term shift


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  • #22
    [-0-]
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    I feel sorry for you and your friends, OP. Actually no, I feel sorry for your better halves.


  • #23
    Chefrio
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 120 ✭✭Chefrio


    [-0-] wrote: »
    I feel sorry for you and your friends, OP. Actually no, I feel sorry for your better halves.

    Why the "better haves", they also don't snog their boyfriends so I don't see why you would feel sorry for the girlfriends and not the boyfriends.


  • #24
    [-0-]
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    Chefrio wrote: »
    Why the "better haves", they also don't snog their boyfriends so I don't see why you would feel sorry for the girlfriends and not the boyfriends.

    Because women deserve to be treated better than the picture you have painted for us. Shame on you.


  • #25
    Chefrio
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 120 ✭✭Chefrio


    [-0-] wrote: »
    Because women deserve to be treated better than the picture you have painted for us. Shame on you.

    And men don't?


  • #26
    Santa Cruz
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,126 ✭✭✭Santa Cruz


    Princess Peach wrote: »
    I recommend you make 5 minutes in your day for kissing. It's great fun!
    And sharing immediately after oral sex


  • #27
    [-0-]
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,981 ✭✭✭[-0-]


    Chefrio wrote: »
    And men don't?

    You said the only time you kiss them is during sex. You didn't say anything about when they kiss you. Being in this situation is your own doing. It's not hard to communicate with each other on the matter. It's actually the sign of a fairly stale relationship so I'd be worried if it was me. Thankfully I'm not in this boat destined for misery, failure and despair.


  • #28
    Chefrio
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 120 ✭✭Chefrio


    [-0-] wrote: »
    You said the only time you kiss them is during sex. You didn't say anything about when they kiss you. Being in this situation is your own doing. It's not hard to communicate with each other on the matter. It's actually the sign of a fairly stale relationship so I'd be worried if it was me. Thankfully I'm not in this boat destined for misery, failure and despair.

    The scenarios I described where equal between the men and women. If a couple only passionately kisses during sex then the woman only passionately kisses during sex and the man only passionately kisses during sex, so it is beyond my comprehension how you can blame ons side more than the other.


  • #29
    [-0-]
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    Chefrio wrote: »
    The scenarios I described where equal between the men and women. If a couple only passionately kisses during sex then the woman only passionately kisses during sex and the man only passionately kisses during sex, so it is beyond my comprehension how you can blame ons side more than the other.

    I'm calling the grammar police.

    Back on topic, you're mistaken. Someone always initiates it. You have made it sound as if you only initiate it when you're ridin'. Sounds filthy and cheap.


  • #30
    Chefrio
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 120 ✭✭Chefrio


    [-0-] wrote: »
    I'm calling the grammar police.

    Back on topic, you're mistaken. Someone always initiates it. You have made it sound as if you only initiate it when you're ridin'. Sounds filthy and cheap.

    It's the same for both the man and the woman. They both only initiate it during sex, this is the scenario amongst my group of friends.

    Perhaps the spark is gone then in all our relationships and we should break up as these doesn't seem like a good sign to me.


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  • #31
    [-0-]
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    Chefrio wrote: »
    It's the same for both the man and the woman. They both only initiate it during sex, this is the scenario amongst my group of friends.

    Perhaps the spark is gone then in all our relationships and we should break up as these doesn't seem like a good sign to me.

    Sounds like the spark is gone alright. There are ways to get it back though.


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