Do you still snog your long term OH?

Chefrio

I was discussing this amongst friends and it occured to us that none of us snog are long term girlfriends. The only time we might kiss our girlfriends would be during sex.

So, do you still snog your OH?

Princess Peach

Everyday.

What a sad group of friends you have.

qo2cj1dsne8y4k

I usually hate kissing so bleh. I only like snogging people who don't want to snog me ha.

Chefrio

Princess Peach wrote: »

Everyday.

What a sad group of friends you have.

So would you recommend we all break up with our girlfriends?

Is this a sign that the spark is gone?

Knine

Chefrio wrote: »

So would you recommend we all break up with our girlfriends?

No we recommend your girlfriends should all break up with you.

El Horseboxo

Chefrio wrote: »

I was discussing this amongst friends and it occured to us that none of us snog are long term girlfriends. The only time we might kiss our girlfriends would be during sex.

So, do you still snog your OH?

If my girlfriend asked for a snog I'd probably roundhouse her. Hate that word. Anyways I still throw the lips on her daily. Maybe y'all got some ugly women.

Princess Peach

Chefrio wrote: »

So would you recommend we all break up with our girlfriends?

Is this a sign that the spark is gone?

I recommend you make 5 minutes in your day for kissing. It's great fun!

Chefrio

Knine wrote: »

No we recommend your girlfriends should all break up with you.

Why?

I wear the face off him , everyday, it could help us live longer....


http://www.saga.co.uk/health/wellbeing/kissingforalongerandhealthierlife.aspx


:D

Czarcasm

17 years later, yep, we still kiss each other, never really thought about it, though now I do, there's plenty of couples I know who don't kiss each other any more, and some who don't even have sex any more, but they still get on great.

I wouldn't be into the whole public displays of affection nonsense though, always just struck me as people thinking they'd something to prove to the world, as if the world gives a shìt.

OP if you and your OH or you mates and their OH's are happy in your relationships, that's the most important thing over what anyone else thinks or what works for them in their relationships!

Ihatecuddles

Me and my fiance never kiss. It's really weird We kiss on the lips 100 times a day, but never use tongue.

Paddy Cow

I have a coldsore. Who fancies a snog?

Lando Griffin

We are constantly snogging and general cuddling and giggling no matter where we are.
When we are at a party she sits on my knees and we tell stories together I tell the first line then she the second etc; it adds consistancy to the story.
My favourite is the littke eskimo kiss we have for places where kissing would be frowned upon like in the supermarket or in a queue at the ATM.
We love each other soooo much all my mates say we are pathetic but as I just love cuddles and kisses.

dr strangelove

Yes, all the time (when not arguing about the "rules" of Monopoly....)

Paddy Cow

Lando Griffin wrote: »

We are constantly snogging and general cuddling and giggling no matter where we are.
When we are at a party she sits on my knees and we tell stories together I tell the first line then she the second etc; it adds consistancy to the story.
My favourite is the littke eskimo kiss we have for places where kissing would be frowned upon like in the supermarket or in a queue at the ATM.
We love each other soooo much all my mates say we are pathetic but as I just love cuddles and kisses.

Lyk if u cryd

Chattastrophe!

Lando Griffin wrote: »

We are constantly snogging and general cuddling and giggling no matter where we are.
When we are at a party she sits on my knees and we tell stories together I tell the first line then she the second etc; it adds consistancy to the story.
My favourite is the littke eskimo kiss we have for places where kissing would be frowned upon like in the supermarket or in a queue at the ATM.
We love each other soooo much all my mates say we are pathetic but as I just love cuddles and kisses.

I think I just puked a little in my mouth ... :P

ElleEm

We kiss on the lips loads throughout the day, but wouldn't passionately kiss every day. He gets hot and bothered far too easily, so we can't even properly kiss if we are outside or in the vicinity of other people.

theteal

I don't know why but I have always hated the term "snog", so no.


As for kissing, it's been nearly 8 years and we probably do it more than ever, an embrace is the first thing either of us gets when walking in the front door - not a rule or anything (wait a minute!) it's just become the norm over time

aujopimur

Does the dog count?.

Chefrio

theteal wrote: »

I don't know why but I have always hated the term "snog", so no.


As for kissing, it's been nearly 8 years and we probably do it more than ever, an embrace is the first thing either of us gets when walking in the front door - not a rule or anything (wait a minute!) it's just become the norm over time

Is it passionate kissing with tongues or a peck on the lips?

lkionm

I much prefer the term shift

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I feel sorry for you and your friends, OP. Actually no, I feel sorry for your better halves.

Chefrio

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I feel sorry for you and your friends, OP. Actually no, I feel sorry for your better halves.

Why the "better haves", they also don't snog their boyfriends so I don't see why you would feel sorry for the girlfriends and not the boyfriends.

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Chefrio wrote: »

Why the "better haves", they also don't snog their boyfriends so I don't see why you would feel sorry for the girlfriends and not the boyfriends.

Because women deserve to be treated better than the picture you have painted for us. Shame on you.

Chefrio

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Because women deserve to be treated better than the picture you have painted for us. Shame on you.

And men don't?

Santa Cruz

Princess Peach wrote: »

I recommend you make 5 minutes in your day for kissing. It's great fun!

And sharing immediately after oral sex

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Chefrio wrote: »

And men don't?

You said the only time you kiss them is during sex. You didn't say anything about when they kiss you. Being in this situation is your own doing. It's not hard to communicate with each other on the matter. It's actually the sign of a fairly stale relationship so I'd be worried if it was me. Thankfully I'm not in this boat destined for misery, failure and despair.

Chefrio

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You said the only time you kiss them is during sex. You didn't say anything about when they kiss you. Being in this situation is your own doing. It's not hard to communicate with each other on the matter. It's actually the sign of a fairly stale relationship so I'd be worried if it was me. Thankfully I'm not in this boat destined for misery, failure and despair.

The scenarios I described where equal between the men and women. If a couple only passionately kisses during sex then the woman only passionately kisses during sex and the man only passionately kisses during sex, so it is beyond my comprehension how you can blame ons side more than the other.

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Chefrio wrote: »

The scenarios I described where equal between the men and women. If a couple only passionately kisses during sex then the woman only passionately kisses during sex and the man only passionately kisses during sex, so it is beyond my comprehension how you can blame ons side more than the other.

I'm calling the grammar police.

Back on topic, you're mistaken. Someone always initiates it. You have made it sound as if you only initiate it when you're ridin'. Sounds filthy and cheap.

Chefrio

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I'm calling the grammar police.

Back on topic, you're mistaken. Someone always initiates it. You have made it sound as if you only initiate it when you're ridin'. Sounds filthy and cheap.

It's the same for both the man and the woman. They both only initiate it during sex, this is the scenario amongst my group of friends.

Perhaps the spark is gone then in all our relationships and we should break up as these doesn't seem like a good sign to me.

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Chefrio wrote: »

It's the same for both the man and the woman. They both only initiate it during sex, this is the scenario amongst my group of friends.

Perhaps the spark is gone then in all our relationships and we should break up as these doesn't seem like a good sign to me.

Sounds like the spark is gone alright. There are ways to get it back though.

RiverOfLove

Snog! That's a word that I absolutely despise. Where I grew up we called kissing shifting. Like for example 'they are shifting the face of each other'. It was never snogging. Snog - did others use this word in other parts of Ireland? I'm in the west, it was always shift. Snog sounds like its coming straight from american or english tv. When did snog creep into Irish vocabulary?

Professey Chin

The word snog just reminds me of a snorting pig for some reason

Hello_MrFox

If i have just recently brushed my teeth then no, otherwise i will.

Chefrio

RiverOfLove wrote: »

Snog! That's a word that I absolutely despise. Where I grew up we called kissing shifting. Like for example 'they are shifting the face of each other'. It was never snogging. Snog - did others use this word in other parts of Ireland? I'm in the west, it was always shift. Snog sounds like its coming straight from american or english tv. When did snog creep into Irish vocabulary?

I'd say kissed passionately more but Jeremy Kyle says that.

RiverOfLove

The Dark Lord Cthulhu wrote: »

The word snog just reminds me of a snorting pig for some reason

That's it. It sounds like something a pig would do.

Talib Fiasco

RiverOfLove wrote: »

Snog! That's a word that I absolutely despise. Where I grew up we called kissing shifting. Like for example 'they are shifting the face of each other'. It was never snogging. Snog - did others use this word in other parts of Ireland? I'm in the west, it was always shift. Snog sounds like its coming straight from american or english tv. When did snog creep into Irish vocabulary?

Shifting...You clearly have never been around young people these days...

shruikan2553

Snog is a terrible word. Me and my girlfriend kiss all the time but no tongues. Neither of us really enjoy it and would prefer to be doing other things to each other.

JacquesDeLad

It can be a bit uncomfortable in isolated situations but I think it's pretty hilarious when an established couple start falling into each other regardless of circumstance, especially if they're a bit older.

fg1406

Most definitely.at least a few times a day.

RiverOfLove

http://www.irelandlogue.com/about-ireland/irish-slang-shift.html

Here's a bit I found online about irish slang and shifting.

Wellyd

For some strange reason I felt bad when I realised myself and my OH don't kiss anymore. When we were younger we were always mauling each other but now we just don't maybe we're just getting old! I was never one for PDAs they actually turn my stomach. I think my New Years resolution shall be to get the shift everyday!

pappyodaniel

Talib Fiasco wrote: »

Shifting...You clearly have never been around young people these days...

What are the kids calling it nowadays? Are they still calling it shifting?

The Narrator

LexieOnRale wrote: »

I usually hate kissing so bleh. I only like snogging people who don't want to snog me ha.

No means no.

MagicMarker

shruikan2553 wrote: »

Neither of us really enjoy it....

You're doing it wrong.

Talib Fiasco

pappyodaniel wrote: »

What are the kids calling it nowadays? Are they still calling it shifting?

Yeah 'shifting' is a newish enough term among the young people. I'm still a teenager but when I was growing up it was always scoring or meeting but when I turned about 17 I was introduced to the term shift and everyone seems to be using it now...still prefer scoring myself.

Professey Chin

It was shifting 15 years ago at least

Kintarō Hattori

Together 9 years on the 23rd of this month and I can't stop kissing her. If anything, I kiss her more now than I ever did.

Why on earth would you not kiss the person you love!

fg1406

I can vouch for it being called shifting 20 years ago.

Talib Fiasco

The Dark Lord Cthulhu wrote: »

It was shifting 15 years ago at least

Maybe in other parts of the country. I know a few people who grew up with the term. As a southerner I never heard of it until a few years ago. Scoring was always the common term. Of course with college, different counties integrating and everything if I say scoring they look at you in deep confusion...."sco-ring...scor-ing? What's that?"

pappyodaniel

Talib Fiasco wrote: »

Maybe in other parts of the country. I know a few people who grew up with the term. As a southerner I never heard of it until a few years ago. Scoring was always the common term. Of course with college, different counties integrating and everything if I say scoring they look at you in deep confusion...."sco-ring...scor-ing? What's that?"

Not a new word. I'd say it's just a coming of age thing. Scoring sounds like something you do as a teenager behind the bike shed...shifting is the real deal. I'm surprised there isn't a new word for it though. I've heard of feaking but that seems to be limited to county Galway.