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Threw my younger bro out of my house..

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    #62
    TouchingVirus
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,581 ✭✭✭TouchingVirus


    It's a scummy thing to do all right and it's disrespectful but throwing him out of the gaff is an overreaction. Both of you should sober up and just tell him that craic isn't on in future. If he has somewhere else to go then fair enough, stick to your guns.


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    #63
    0ph0rce0
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,305 ✭✭✭0ph0rce0


    jacksie66 wrote: »
    **** sake, come here for a bit of advice and get smart arse responses...

    I would have shat in your bed


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    #64
    Nemeses
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,829 ✭✭✭Nemeses


    0ph0rce0 wrote: »
    I would have shat in your bed

    You're never coming to my house parties then..


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    #65
    dee_mc
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,246 ✭✭✭dee_mc


    He's a 21 year old acting like a 21 year old. It's not worth falling out over. Tell him you're peed off, ask him not to do it again, and move on. You're both in the wrong here, but you're the older brother - be the bigger man and put an end to it.


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    #66
    knucklehead6
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,850 ✭✭✭knucklehead6


    unless you two were sharing the bed and it left you with no place to sleep then you over reacted.


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    #67
    Longfordian in London
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9 ✭Longfordian in London


    Very bad form on your part ! ..when's the next call home due , word is probably back already , with a very uncomfortable Skype session to follow ! .... jaysus will you pick up the phone , tell him to wash / change the sheets , he's on tae and washup duty for the week !


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    #68
    carraig2
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,072 ✭✭✭carraig2


    dee_mc wrote: »
    He's a 21 year old acting like a 21 year old. It's not worth falling out over. Tell him you're peed off, ask him not to do it again, and move on. You're both in the wrong here, but you're the older brother - be the bigger man and put an end to it.

    I get the opinion the OP is a woman, no?


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    #69
    Trevor Cortez Zambrano
    Closed Accounts Posts: 31 ✭Trevor Cortez Zambrano


    I just checked and Jelly school is full at the minute. You're lucky this time!


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    #70
    jacksie66
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,986 ✭✭✭jacksie66


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    #71
    Frank Lee Midere
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,780 ✭✭✭Frank Lee Midere


    OP, AH is not the place to come for serious advice. Of course you were right. In any shared house I lived in where that happened, and it did, the person was kicked out if he lived there and used someone else's bed ( generally when that happened it was because the person in question wanted to use a double bed) or banned from the house.

    Probably most people here are living with Mammy.


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    #72
    [Deleted User]
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    Genuinely couldn't imagine doing that to my younger brother, if he did something like that I'd have a laugh over it, but it prob depends on how close your relationship is before that.


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    #73
    0ph0rce0
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,305 ✭✭✭0ph0rce0


    Nemeses wrote: »
    You're never coming to my house parties then..

    Fine i'll use the toilet :mad:


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    #74
    dee_mc
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,246 ✭✭✭dee_mc


    carraig2 wrote: »
    I get the opinion the OP is a woman, no?

    My mistake then, but as a woman with brothers myself I still think it's a serious over-reaction!


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    #75
    strandsman
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 393 ✭✭strandsman


    so he's the good looking brother!!! :D

    jacksie66 wrote: »
    **** sake, come here for a bit of advice and get smart arse responses...


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    #76
    knucklehead6
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,850 ✭✭✭knucklehead6


    carraig2 wrote: »
    I get the opinion the OP is a woman, no?


    Naaah.... Just a bitch


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    #77
    lkionm
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,407 ✭✭✭lkionm


    jacksie66 wrote: »
    Everyone here thinks I'm a bad bastard for throwing him out. He's gone to my older bros house. Its my house and the fact he just lied in my face is what pissed me off. Nothing to do with pulling the first bird or whatnot. He's a guest in my house that I work hard every week to keep.

    You rent, not even your house, never will be.


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    #78
    Darkglasses
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,527 ✭✭✭✭Darkglasses


    jacksie66 wrote: »
    Everyone here thinks I'm a bad bastard for throwing him out. He's gone to my older bros house. Its my house and the fact he just lied in my face is what pissed me off. Nothing to do with pulling the first bird or whatnot. He's a guest in my house that I work hard every week to keep.

    Did you just come on here to have people agree with you?


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    #79
    WellThen?
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 358 ✭✭WellThen?


    jacksie66 wrote: »
    Everyone here thinks I'm a bad bastard for throwing him out. He's gone to my older bros house. Its my house and the fact he just lied in my face is what pissed me off. Nothing to do with pulling the first bird or whatnot. He's a guest in my house that I work hard every week to keep.

    Oh no, call the police....my little brother lied to me to get his hole, while on holidays.And you come on here and expect us to confirm you did the right thing? Haha get a grip, you're a complete SQUARE.


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    #80
    dmc17
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 3,889 ✭✭✭dmc17


    Invite him back OP.................then kick him out again. That'll really piss him off!


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    #81
    wazky
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,516 ✭✭✭wazky


    dmc17 wrote: »
    Invite him back OP.....Ride him in HIS bed......then kick him out again. That'll really piss him off!

    FYP.


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    #82
    Dave0301
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    jacksie66 wrote: »
    Everyone here thinks I'm a bad bastard for throwing him out. He's gone to my older bros house. Its my house and the fact he just lied in my face is what pissed me off. Nothing to do with pulling the first bird or whatnot. He's a guest in my house that I work hard every week to keep.

    He is also your brother, and jobs and houses come and go. . . Just like he might have done on your sheets, but family is a one off.

    Tell him that he was out of order, but don't punish him in a way that could ruin your relationship for good.


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    #83
    Longfordian in London
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9 ✭Longfordian in London


    he's over on a two week holiday , is that right ? .... think about it ! , when is the next time you are going to see him after he goes home ! ...he was a little pr*ck for doing it ! , but seriously get over it and enjoy the time left you have with him ! ...


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    #84
    carraig2
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,072 ✭✭✭carraig2


    With the risk of getting attacked here I reckon most guys here think you over reacted cos hey, your brother got laid. That is ok with them cos they wish they were him. Not getting enough themselves.


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    #85
    lkionm
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,407 ✭✭✭lkionm


    Dave0301 wrote: »
    He is also your brother, and jobs and houses come and go. . . Just like he might have done on your sheets, but family is a one off.

    Tell him that he was out of order, but don't punish him in a way that could ruin your relationship for good.

    His brother comes and goes too


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    #86
    Mint Aero
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,570 ✭✭✭Mint Aero


    What's with all this change the sheets nonsense :confused: not before a cheeky wankypoos in said bed eh ;)


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    #87
    Frank Lee Midere
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,780 ✭✭✭Frank Lee Midere


    lkionm wrote: »
    You rent, not even your house, never will be.

    Probably written by someone in mortgage arrears. If you pay for a house, or a room in part of a house, you have rights to it. The landlord can't even come in without permission. Nobody else should.


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    #88
    lkionm
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,407 ✭✭✭lkionm


    Frank Lee Midere wrote: »
    Probably written by someone in mortgage arrears. If you pay for a house, or a room in part of a house, you have rights to it. The landlord can't even come in without permission. Nobody else should.

    Nah, sure I live in my mothers basement.


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    #89
    beertons
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    The girl is still there though, right?


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    #90
    efb
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    Get him to clean the sheets and apologise end of.


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    #91
    Tonto86
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 731 ✭✭✭Tonto86


    He was a bit cheeky and out of line but throwing him out might a been a bit harsh.


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