Feeling guilty......

con1421 · 28-10-2013 09:43PM #1

Hi guys,
Listen I'm fully aware how childish this sounds but my story goes as follows.....

So on Friday night I happened to come accross an old friend on a night out. So as ye do, she was introduced to are group and spent the remainder of the night with us. She was accompanied by her friend (who I took a fancy to instantly). We were all chattin as a group but then it came to a point where I realized my friend had also taken a fancy to her. So he began to tell me that he liked her and they were getting on pretty well.....so the night ended and she said goodbye to us all and my friend starting saying that he wanted to take her out. So I interfered almost straight away and started to text her no less than 10 mins after we departed and asked her out on a date.She accepted and we have been texting ever since. Only today, he also asked her out. So she basically said that she had already been asked out by me.....my friend is angry(which caught me off guard a little bit as I wasn't expecting such a response)So basically my question is was I a bit of a sly friend? What you do in my situation? Is this just pure childish behavior?

Any feedback is gravely appreciated.....

28-10-2013 09:45PM

con1421 wrote: »

Any feedback is gravely appreciated.....

Frosty McSnowballs · 28-10-2013 09:45PM

You should have told your mate that you liked her before being a sly bastard.

Although, he should have been quicker....slow bastard.

You guys need to kiss and make up, then get the threesome going.

Muise... · 28-10-2013 09:45PM

con1421 wrote: »

Any feedback is gravely appreciated.....

The situation sounds grave. Very grave indeed.

28-10-2013 09:46PM

Senor Fancy Pants wrote: »

You should have told your mate that you liked her before being a sly bastard.

Although, he should have been quicker....slow bastard.

You guys need to kiss and make up, then get the threesome going.

Ah, one girl and two guys. "The devils threesome"

dodderangler · 28-10-2013 09:47PM

Why don't the 3 of yas just get few drinks and get sloppy

The One Who Knocks · 28-10-2013 09:47PM

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Drakares · 28-10-2013 09:48PM

con1421 wrote: »

.my friend is angry(which caught me off guard a little bit as I wasn't expecting such a response)

You are beyond help, my friend

Johro · 28-10-2013 09:48PM

You're feeling guilty. That should tell you something. End of thread.

Starscream25 · 28-10-2013 09:48PM

How do you sleep at night?

28-10-2013 09:50PM

Starscream25 wrote: »

How do you sleep at night?

foetal position

The One Who Knocks · 28-10-2013 09:51PM

Deleted User wrote: »

foetal position

Me too!

Starscream25 · 28-10-2013 09:52PM

Jamez735 wrote: »

Me too!

Me three

Diabhal Beag · 28-10-2013 09:52PM

You should get cannabis legalized in Ireland bro as a peacemaker.

itz me · 28-10-2013 09:53PM

Seriously be a man and grow a pair! Tell him you like her and want to see where things go! You've done the damage to your friendship now so let's hope he forgives you!

carraig2 · 28-10-2013 09:55PM

Senor Fancy Pants wrote: »

You should have told your mate that you liked her before being a sly bastard.

Although, he should have been quicker....slow bastard.

You guys need to kiss and make up, then get the threesome going.

Probably doesn't help op but just made me laugh so hard

28-10-2013 09:56PM

itz me wrote: »

Seriously be a man and grow a pair! Tell him you like her and want to see where things go! You've done the damage to your friendship now so let's hope he forgives you!

But if he's already a man, he already has a pair - do you want him to grow another pair? I don't think the lady would like four balls.

Although.....

we're back to Fancy Pants' suggestion.

Mint Aero · 28-10-2013 09:56PM

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Ha...

Aineoil · 28-10-2013 09:58PM

Hi there Con 1421,

I was that girl, eons ago. I ended up marrying the "sly" one. We didn't even have mobile phones or text back then.

Faint heart never won fair lady so the saying goes.

Pat Mustard · 28-10-2013 09:58PM

Not worth getting in a fight with a friend over some girl you barely know.

Your friend should get over it.

tayto lover · 28-10-2013 09:58PM

Tell him you had asked her out before he told you he fancied her.
You just didn't want to break it to him at the time and were too shocked to tell him after he said he fancied her.

Easy.

Petrie · 28-10-2013 10:01PM

con1421 wrote: »

Hi guys,
Listen I'm fully aware how childish this sounds but my story goes as follows.....

So on Friday night I happened to come accross an old friend on a night out. So as ye do, she was introduced to are group and spent the remainder of the night with us. She was accompanied by her friend (who I took a fancy to instantly). We were all chattin as a group but then it came to a point where I realized my friend had also taken a fancy to her. So he began to tell me that he liked her and they were getting on pretty well.....so the night ended and she said goodbye to us all and my friend starting saying that he wanted to take her out.

"I like her too man let's see who she's interested in more" that's all it would have took and you'd still have your friend's respect.

theblaqueguy · 28-10-2013 10:02PM

Shame on you OP!
Going behind your friends back and stealing the girl of his dreams!
You should be feeling really guilty!

stefan idiot jones · 28-10-2013 10:02PM

You should fall on your sword.

You have brought shame on your family, your community and your creed.

Does she have a decent rack though ?

Lando Griffin · 28-10-2013 10:03PM

Do you "like" her or love her?
There is a hugh difference here.
Your friend should ask the same question to himself.
Love is something special and not to be given out freely, where as like
is something scribbled in a school journal.
Hope this helps

Arawn · 28-10-2013 10:06PM

Ride her sideways,frontways and backwards, record it. Show it to angry friend.

pharmaton · 28-10-2013 10:07PM

do you actually fancy her op? I mean if you are into her there's no reason why you should feel bad, if you're only doing it so your friend can't have her tho that's a bit shítsy.

tayto lover · 28-10-2013 10:09PM

Lando Griffin wrote: »

Do you "like" her or love her?
There is a hugh difference here.
Your friend should ask the same question to himself.
Love is something special and not to be given out freely, where as like
is something scribbled in a school journal.
Hope this helps

You must have been watching the film "Shenandoah".

ytpe2r5bxkn0c1 · 28-10-2013 10:12PM

Jesus wept!!!

Fr_Dougal · 28-10-2013 10:17PM

Rule 17 of the bro code: You snooze, you lose.

28-10-2013 10:17PM

Fr_Dougal wrote: »

Rule 17 of the bro code: You snooze, you lose.

Was just about to post those very words (not the bro code - I wouldn't know that!)

Feeling guilty......

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