Feeling guilty......

con1421

Hi guys,
Listen I'm fully aware how childish this sounds but my story goes as follows.....

So on Friday night I happened to come accross an old friend on a night out. So as ye do, she was introduced to are group and spent the remainder of the night with us. She was accompanied by her friend (who I took a fancy to instantly). We were all chattin as a group but then it came to a point where I realized my friend had also taken a fancy to her. So he began to tell me that he liked her and they were getting on pretty well.....so the night ended and she said goodbye to us all and my friend starting saying that he wanted to take her out. So I interfered almost straight away and started to text her no less than 10 mins after we departed and asked her out on a date.She accepted and we have been texting ever since. Only today, he also asked her out. So she basically said that she had already been asked out by me.....my friend is angry(which caught me off guard a little bit as I wasn't expecting such a response)So basically my question is was I a bit of a sly friend? What you do in my situation? Is this just pure childish behavior?

Any feedback is gravely appreciated.....

con1421

con1421 wrote: »

Any feedback is gravely appreciated.....

Frosty McSnowballs

You should have told your mate that you liked her before being a sly bastard.

Although, he should have been quicker....slow bastard.

You guys need to kiss and make up, then get the threesome going.

Muise...

con1421 wrote: »

Any feedback is gravely appreciated.....

The situation sounds grave. Very grave indeed.

Senor Fancy Pants

Senor Fancy Pants wrote: »

You should have told your mate that you liked her before being a sly bastard.

Although, he should have been quicker....slow bastard.

You guys need to kiss and make up, then get the threesome going.

Ah, one girl and two guys. "The devils threesome"

dodderangler

Why don't the 3 of yas just get few drinks and get sloppy

The One Who Knocks

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Drakares

con1421 wrote: »

.my friend is angry(which caught me off guard a little bit as I wasn't expecting such a response)

You are beyond help, my friend

Johro

You're feeling guilty. That should tell you something. End of thread.

Starscream25

How do you sleep at night?

Starscream25

Starscream25 wrote: »

How do you sleep at night?

foetal position

The One Who Knocks

Deleted User wrote: »

foetal position

Me too!

Starscream25

Jamez735 wrote: »

Me too!

Me three

Diabhal Beag

You should get cannabis legalized in Ireland bro as a peacemaker.

itz me

Seriously be a man and grow a pair! Tell him you like her and want to see where things go! You've done the damage to your friendship now so let's hope he forgives you!

carraig2

Senor Fancy Pants wrote: »

You should have told your mate that you liked her before being a sly bastard.

Although, he should have been quicker....slow bastard.

You guys need to kiss and make up, then get the threesome going.

Probably doesn't help op but just made me laugh so hard

itz me

itz me wrote: »

Seriously be a man and grow a pair! Tell him you like her and want to see where things go! You've done the damage to your friendship now so let's hope he forgives you!

But if he's already a man, he already has a pair - do you want him to grow another pair? I don't think the lady would like four balls.

Although.....

we're back to Fancy Pants' suggestion.

Mint Aero

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Cos it's fair!

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Ha...

Aineoil

Hi there Con 1421,

I was that girl, eons ago. I ended up marrying the "sly" one. We didn't even have mobile phones or text back then.


Faint heart never won fair lady so the saying goes.

Pat Mustard

Not worth getting in a fight with a friend over some girl you barely know.

Your friend should get over it.

tayto lover

Tell him you had asked her out before he told you he fancied her.
You just didn't want to break it to him at the time and were too shocked to tell him after he said he fancied her.

Easy.

Petrie

con1421 wrote: »

Hi guys,
Listen I'm fully aware how childish this sounds but my story goes as follows.....

So on Friday night I happened to come accross an old friend on a night out. So as ye do, she was introduced to are group and spent the remainder of the night with us. She was accompanied by her friend (who I took a fancy to instantly). We were all chattin as a group but then it came to a point where I realized my friend had also taken a fancy to her. So he began to tell me that he liked her and they were getting on pretty well.....so the night ended and she said goodbye to us all and my friend starting saying that he wanted to take her out.

"I like her too man let's see who she's interested in more" that's all it would have took and you'd still have your friend's respect.

theblaqueguy

Shame on you OP!
Going behind your friends back and stealing the girl of his dreams!
You should be feeling really guilty!

stefan idiot jones

You should fall on your sword.

You have brought shame on your family, your community and your creed.













Does she have a decent rack though ?

Lando Griffin

Do you "like" her or love her?
There is a hugh difference here.
Your friend should ask the same question to himself.
Love is something special and not to be given out freely, where as like
is something scribbled in a school journal.
Hope this helps

Arawn

Ride her sideways,frontways and backwards, record it. Show it to angry friend.

pharmaton

do you actually fancy her op? I mean if you are into her there's no reason why you should feel bad, if you're only doing it so your friend can't have her tho that's a bit shítsy.

tayto lover

Lando Griffin wrote: »

Do you "like" her or love her?
There is a hugh difference here.
Your friend should ask the same question to himself.
Love is something special and not to be given out freely, where as like
is something scribbled in a school journal.
Hope this helps

You must have been watching the film "Shenandoah".

ytpe2r5bxkn0c1

Jesus wept!!!

Fr_Dougal

Rule 17 of the bro code: You snooze, you lose.

Fr_Dougal

Fr_Dougal wrote: »

Rule 17 of the bro code: You snooze, you lose.

Was just about to post those very words (not the bro code - I wouldn't know that!)

anncoates

con1421 wrote: »

So on Friday night I happened to come accross an old friend on a night out. ..

Did it leave a stain?

jimbobaloobob

You followed your instinct, though i think texting to go on a date is prob not the best way to do it. Whats wrong with asking a person straight up.

Too bad for your friend, theres no guarantee she would have dated him anyhow.
Time to get over it and for you to get on with it.

dgt

Kiss, make up and recreate the eiffel tower

Specialun

She has more than one opening hasnt she..whats the problem here

Any porn vid ive seen the women have loved a sausage sandwich,just be careful to dont touch..coz they your ghey

Larianne

You snooze you lose is right.

Who knows if the OP didn't ask her out another dude might have.. Screw it.

Legs.Eleven

When I hear stories like this, I'm grateful I fancy hairy, aging, greying, balding auld fellas with bad backs that no one else fancies.


I've never had this problem.

BabyGorilla

Guilty feeling < sexy-time feeling.

Op should select the course of action that results in sexy-time feeling.

BBDBB

it will play on your mind every time you are with her until you get it sorted with your mate

do the decent thing

jimbobaloobob

Legs.Eleven wrote: »

When I hear stories like this, I'm grateful I fancy hairy, aging, greying, balding auld fellas with bad backs that no one else fancies.


I've never had this problem.

But you dont know that the greying, balding auld fellas havent been pulling their hair out from their perspective of it.

Nothing wrong with liking the same person as your friend likes.
Nothing wrong with asking her out on a date even though your friend wanted to.

It's really wrong to try to sneak in there like some oul' biddie running for a checkout in the supermarket, while being encouraging to your friend. Extremely bad form on your part. You're going to have to accept the consequences and try to mend things with your mate.

Legs.Eleven

jimbobaloobob wrote: »

But you dont know that the greying, balding auld fellas havent been pulling their hair out from their perspective of it.

They'll have me or nothing. They don't have the choice.

Muise...

Legs.Eleven wrote: »

They'll have me or nothing. They don't have the choice.

good job we live in different countries, Legs, or there'd be competition.

gifted

Legs.Eleven wrote: »

When I hear stories like this, I'm grateful I fancy hairy, aging, greying, balding auld fellas with bad backs that no one else fancies.


I've never had this problem.

Hello...








Have to wonder why this woman decided to tell your friend that you asked her out first...why didn't she just give a different excuse, seems to me that she got a kick out of 2 friends asking her out. :rolleyes:

jimbobaloobob

ill be balded if i dont stop reading this. Time for some brew

OP reach down find a pair and do your duty

Muise...

gifted wrote: »

Have to wonder why this woman decided to tell your friend that you asked her out first...why didn't she just give a different excuse, seems to me that she got a kick out of 2 friends asking her out. :rolleyes:

em, because she made her choice and was upfront about it like a grown-up?

jimbobaloobob

gifted wrote: »

Hello...








Have to wonder why this woman decided to tell your friend that you asked her out first...why didn't she just give a different excuse, seems to me that she got a kick out of 2 friends asking her out. :rolleyes:

prob loving the chase.

gifted

Muise... wrote: »

em, because she made her choice and was upfront about it like a grown-up?

Ya right ....:D

jimbobaloobob

When will we have an update from the OP?

BabyGorilla

Could be settled with a dance-off ... or rap battle.

Legs.Eleven

Hello...

How's your....back?

Have to wonder why this woman decided to tell your friend that you asked her out first...why didn't she just give a different excuse, seems to me that she got a kick out of 2 friends asking her out. :rolleyes:

Course she did! Who wouldn't?