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Asking a guy out

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  • #122
    pharmaton
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,192 ✭✭✭pharmaton


    i like the word porking


  • #123
    The Dagda
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,345 ✭✭✭The Dagda


    Even though this thread had an, apparently, happy ending... ;-)

    I prefer the threads with the sweet sting of failure...


  • #124
    TeddyTedson
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,758 ✭✭✭✭TeddyTedson


    Larianne wrote: »
    xoxyx is a ride, so she's defo getting the ride!

    I can confirm this. Had no doubts that he'd be up for it.

    Did you manage to give up the smokes btw. Also, what's sex like?


  • #125
    Muise...
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,512 ✭✭✭Muise...


    pharmaton wrote: »
    i like the word porking

    I thought you were vagitarian. :confused:

    *gets coat


  • #126
    pharmaton
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,192 ✭✭✭pharmaton


    Muise... wrote: »
    I thought you were vagitarian. :confused:

    *gets coat

    that's probably why I like it, makes it sound all dirty and depraved


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  • #127
    suicide_circus
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,802 ✭✭✭✭suicide_circus


    Let this be a lesson to all women

    if you fancy a guy and want to enjoy some casual fun, just say so, he WILL say yes.


  • #128
    Ihatecuddles-old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    suicide_circus wrote: »
    Let this be a lesson to all women

    if you fancy a guy and want to enjoy some casual fun, just say so, he WILL say yes.

    maybe he wont, but still...definitely ask!!


  • #129
    Muise...
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,512 ✭✭✭Muise...


    suicide_circus wrote: »
    Let this be a lesson to all women

    if you fancy a guy and want to enjoy some casual fun, just say so, he WILL say yes.

    thank you, three-ring death wish, but my experience says otherwise. :(


  • #130
    suicide_circus
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,802 ✭✭✭✭suicide_circus


    Ihatecuddles wrote: »
    maybe he wont, but still...definitely ask!!
    Unless you're a beast or clearly a bunny boiler, he is saying yes.


  • #131
    wandatowell
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,435 ✭✭✭wandatowell


    The Dagda wrote: »

    I prefer the threads with the sweet sting of failure...

    You should start a thread about your life so pal


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  • #132
    Ihatecuddles-old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    suicide_circus wrote: »
    Unless you're a beast, he is saying yes.

    nope! sometimes men dont want something casual.


  • #133
    suicide_circus
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,802 ✭✭✭✭suicide_circus


    Ihatecuddles wrote: »
    nope! sometimes men dont want something casual.
    This would be EXTREMELY rare.


  • #134
    beks101
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    suicide_circus wrote: »
    Unless you're a beast or clearly a bunny boiler, he is saying yes.

    Or you know, needs an emotional connection for sex to happen?
    Do these men exist?
    No?
    Not at all?
    Anyone?


  • #135
    TeddyTedson
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,758 ✭✭✭✭TeddyTedson


    What is a bunny boiler? I used to hear people in work always talking about bunny boilers and have no idea what they're on about.


  • #136
    Ihatecuddles-old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    suicide_circus wrote: »
    This would be EXTREMELY rare.

    Im inclined to agree, but it happens Im sure!


  • #137
    TeddyTedson
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    Ihatecuddles wrote: »
    Im inclined to agree, but it happens Im sure!

    It's not that rare in my experience. I know lots of guys that have never engaged in casual sex.


  • #138
    beks101
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,802 ✭✭✭beks101


    TeddyTedson wrote: »
    What is a bunny boiler? I used to hear people in work always talking about bunny boilers and have no idea what they're on about.

    A bunny boiler, in the words of ye olde trusty Urban Dictionary, is a clingy possessive overbearing psycho bitch of a girlfriend

    Inspired by this infamous Glenn Close scene in Fatal Attraction



  • #139
    The Backwards Man
    Closed Accounts Posts: 18,299 ✭✭✭✭The Backwards Man


    Harry Chapin says it better than anyone

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wqroknxPd8o


  • #140
    Wompa1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,277 ✭✭✭Wompa1


    If you just wanted to f**k the guy, why make him go to that effort of meeting up somewhere and talking first? Women, eh? Like pretty little feckin' Rubix cubes.


  • #141
    lkionm
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    Get drunk and ask him out. Make sure you don't remember so if he dosent right back you don't get the rejection


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  • #142
    lkionm
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,407 ✭✭✭lkionm


    TeddyTedson wrote: »
    It's not that rare in my experience. I know lots of guys that have never engaged in casual sex.

    Yeah. It happens but if a guy really likes being with the girl it won't be casual.

    Maybe that's me.


  • #143
    Stheno
    Moderators, Business & Finance Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 51,690 Mod ✭✭✭✭Stheno


    Myself and the Oh were out in a shopping centre this evening 5 years and 1 day since we met.

    He went off to do his stuff, then we met up, and my heart melted a little seeing him :)

    That's LURVE, forget about the sex :D


  • #144
    Smidge
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    Stheno wrote: »
    Myself and the Oh were out in a shopping centre this evening 5 years and 1 day since we met.

    He went off to do his stuff, then we met up, and my heart melted a little seeing him :)

    That's LURVE, forget about the sex :D

    That's a touch of lust surely?


  • #145
    ardle1
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    The Big Smoke wrote: »
    I don't approach women much myself as a lot of Irish women are harsh, just wait for them to approach me after a few glances etc. There is nothing sexier than a girl asking you out.

    Scratched a couple off words for you, hope you don't mind;)

    Actresses.........Glasses.


  • #146
    Stheno
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    Smidge wrote: »
    That's a touch of lust surely?

    Believe me after five years, lust is a rare and random and delightful occurence.

    No in this case it was " my heart warmed upon the sight of my OH", I just saw him loitering waiting for me, recognised him (he couldn't find me) due to one of his silly personal appearance habits, and thought how cool it was that despite five years of nagging he hasn't changed :)

    It was a really lovely moment :)


  • #147
    TeddyTedson
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    beks101 wrote: »
    A bunny boiler, in the words of ye olde trusty Urban Dictionary, is a clingy possessive overbearing psycho bitch of a girlfriend

    Inspired by this infamous Glenn Close scene in Fatal Attraction


    But I still don't get what the actual name bunny boilers has to do with a possessive clingy girl?
    I've never seen fatal Attraction.


  • #148
    Smidge
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,541 ✭✭✭Smidge


    TeddyTedson wrote: »
    But I still don't get what the actual name bunny boilers has to do with a possessive clingy girl?
    I've never seen fatal Attraction.

    She breaks into his house because she is obsessed with him and boils the bunny, what else is there to know?


  • #149
    TeddyTedson
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    Smidge wrote: »
    She breaks into his house because she is obsessed with him and boils the bunny, what else is there to know?

    But she seems shocked when she discovers it so I'd assumed she knew nothing of it.


  • #150
    beks101
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    TeddyTedson wrote: »
    But she seems shocked when she discovers it so I'd assumed she knew nothing of it.

    Said woman was the wife.
    Woman who boiled the bunny was Glenn Close's character, psycho mistress "bunny boiler" of wife's husband.
    Watch Fatal Attraction, it will all make sense!


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  • #151
    Kirby
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,084 ✭✭✭✭Kirby


    xoxyx wrote: »
    I'm thinking of asking him out - purely for fun and games.
    canadianwoman wrote: »
    all I really wanted was a few nights of fun.
    Larianne wrote: »
    Just say you want 'a bit of fun'.
    Hardonraging wrote: »
    Fun is always fun !!
    suicide_circus wrote: »
    want to enjoy some casual fun, just say so, he WILL say yes.

    Why is that women talk about this "fun" lark?

    It's not a dirty word and it's not shameful, calling it "fun" doesn't make it more or less so. It's sex. You want sex. Say it loud and say it proud.

    Call it a pet peeve but it really grinds my gears.


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