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What do you get your not girlfriend?

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  • #62
    heretochat
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 533 ✭✭✭heretochat


    Ihatecuddles wrote: »
    My boyfriend is 31 and I'm 21, he genuinely thinks he looks my age.Its definitely not old though!!

    I'm confused.. I thought he wasn't your boyfriend :confused:


  • #63
    sok2005
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,083 ✭✭✭sok2005


    Dating, it seems, is difficult these days. I can barely keep up with this thread!


  • #64
    Ihatecuddles-old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    heretochat wrote: »
    I'm confused.. I thought he wasn't your boyfriend :confused:

    Its just easier to call him my boyfriend!


  • #65
    OldNotWIse
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,468 ✭✭✭✭OldNotWIse


    cupcake83 wrote: »
    I hope not! I am not old and don't look old either! No Botox needed ;)


    Me too! I got ID'd last week!


  • #66
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 8,092 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Bingo card


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  • #67
    heretochat
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 533 ✭✭✭heretochat


    Ihatecuddles wrote: »
    Its just easier to call him my boyfriend!

    An amateur psychologist could read all sorts of things into that and what you really want from him, depsite what you say. The lady doth protest too much methinks :D


  • #68
    Ihatecuddles-old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    heretochat wrote: »
    An amateur psychologist could read all sorts of things into that and what you really want from him, depsite what you say. The lady doth protest too much methinks :D

    Id marry him tomorrow if he asked me :P


  • #69
    ardinn
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,250 ✭✭✭ardinn


    I just call it "the arrangement" Difference is cuddles we dont see other people. I dont have time nor want to be in a relationship with anyone - But I have a fondness for sexual activity so this works, I cant see the point in seeing other people, if you meet a rich handsome dongzilla tomorrow your "boyfriend" is out the door! Seems harsher than what I have!

    In saying that maybe i'm just lazy!
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  • #70
    Tangatagamadda Chaddabinga Bonga Bungo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,009 ✭✭✭Tangatagamadda Chaddabinga Bonga Bungo


    Maximus Alexander wrote: »
    This non-relationship thing is really strange to me. I don't get it at all.

    I'm not looking down on it or anything, I just don't really get it. Sounds kind of awkward.

    It's not awkward when your dead inside but you still need/want funky time.

    Hi. :)


  • #71
    MonaPizza
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,014 ✭✭✭MonaPizza


    ardinn wrote: »
    Ok people of AH's

    Ive been "seeing" a girl for 7 months, just casual like!

    Its her 30th today (thank god for Facebook)

    Dont have a clue what to get her as we are not in a relationship but still feel I should get her something!

    All options considered!

    Are you shagging her?


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  • #72
    heretochat
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 533 ✭✭✭heretochat


    Ihatecuddles wrote: »
    Id marry him tomorrow if he asked me :P

    at 21? Are you crazy :eek:


  • #73
    Ihatecuddles-old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    ardinn wrote: »
    I just call it "the arrangement" Difference is cuddles we dont see other people. I dont have time nor want to be in a relationship with anyone - But I have a fondness for sexual activity so this works, I cant see the point in seeing other people, if you meet a rich handsome dongzilla tomorrow your "boyfriend" is out the door! Seems harsher than what I have!

    In saying that maybe i'm just lazy!

    We spend time with each other outside of the bed though, we used to keep it just to the bed but its much better this way!


  • #74
    Ihatecuddles-old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    heretochat wrote: »
    at 21? Are you crazy :eek:

    Jeez dont panic, it was tongue in cheek. Plus we're not together so he wont ask me :D


  • #75
    ardinn
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,250 ✭✭✭ardinn


    MonaPizza wrote: »
    Are you shagging her?

    ??

    Did you read the thread?
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  • #76
    Ihatecuddles-old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    ardinn wrote: »
    ??

    Did you read the thread?

    Maybe he meant right now? :pac:


  • #77
    heretochat
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 533 ✭✭✭heretochat


    Ihatecuddles wrote: »
    Jeez dont panic, it was tongue in cheek. Plus we're not together so he wont ask me :D

    (Putting wagging finger away and sense of knowing it all) :D


  • #78
    Gongoozler
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,263 ✭✭✭Gongoozler


    The decider of whether or not this is a relationship - do you ever meet up and not have sex?


  • #79
    kjl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,127 ✭✭✭kjl


    ardinn wrote: »
    We are Sleeping together - not seeing other people - but not going out with one another! A strange one really!

    So actually, you are going out, you just don't know it yet.


  • #80
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 26,219 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    ardinn wrote: »
    Ok people of AH's

    Ive been "seeing" a girl for 7 months, just casual like!

    Its her 30th today (thank god for Facebook)

    Dont have a clue what to get her as we are not in a relationship but still feel I should get her something!

    All options considered!


    Get her a proper boyfriend. :(

    If I was seeing someone for seven months, he'd definitely be my boyfriend. I'm very confused after reading this thread. And more than a little insecure.


  • #81
    I am pie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,652 ✭✭✭I am pie


    kjl wrote: »
    So actually, you are going out, you just don't know it yet.

    Yeah, fck all strange about it really. You're going out, she's going along with the charade hoping you'll get serious. You'll get to Xmas and will find yourself on the end of "I just need to know where we are going/what do I mean to you?" conversation.


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  • #82
    Ihatecuddles-old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    I am pie wrote: »
    Yeah, fck all strange about it really. You're going out, she's going along with the charade hoping you'll get serious. You'll get to Xmas and will find yourself on the end of "I just need to know where we are going/what do I mean to you?" conversation.

    and what if he says Im just using you for sex, and shes ok with it? Is that still them going out?


  • #83
    I am pie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,652 ✭✭✭I am pie


    Ihatecuddles wrote: »
    and what if he says Im just using you for sex, and shes ok with it? Is that still them going out?

    What am I Dr Ruth here?


  • #84
    Ihatecuddles-old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    I am pie wrote: »
    What am I Dr Ruth here?

    Im just saying youre acting as though shes just holding out hope, when in fact it sounds like she knows the score.


  • #85
    I am pie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,652 ✭✭✭I am pie


    Ihatecuddles wrote: »
    Im just saying youre acting as though shes just holding out hope, when in fact it sounds like she knows the score.

    Yeah, i'm still going with holding out hope.

    In both cases.....


  • #86
    Ihatecuddles-old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    I am pie wrote: »
    Yeah, i'm still going with holding out hope.

    In both cases.....

    Ha, do you mean me??


  • #87
    ardinn
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,250 ✭✭✭ardinn


    Gongoozler wrote: »
    The decider of whether or not this is a relationship - do you ever meet up and not have sex?

    Yes - Friends with benefits.
    kjl wrote: »
    So actually, you are going out, you just don't know it yet.

    No. We are not. - I have never met her outside of her house.
    Candie wrote: »
    Get her a proper boyfriend. :(

    If I was seeing someone for seven months, he'd definitely be my boyfriend. I'm very confused after reading this thread. And more than a little insecure.

    Get a fúck buddy - it will become clearer
    Ihatecuddles wrote: »
    and what if he says Im just using you for sex, and shes ok with it? Is that still them going out?

    Bit harsh, Harsh but fair.
    Ihatecuddles wrote: »
    Im just saying youre acting as though shes just holding out hope, when in fact it sounds like she knows the score.

    Thank you - she does.

    I might sound like im forcing my will - thats not the case - Why can't people understand both parties know the story and are ok with it???

    Now - Birthday Present???
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  • #88
    Ihatecuddles-old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    ardinn wrote: »
    I might sound like im forcing my will - thats not the case - Why can't people understand both parties know the story and are ok with it???

    Because someone always has to get hurt of course, girls feelings always get in the way, girls cant just like sex and a mutually beneficially relationship that isnt going anywhere. ;)


  • #89
    _Whimsical_
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,006 ✭✭✭_Whimsical_


    Candie wrote: »
    Get her a proper boyfriend. :(

    If I was seeing someone for seven months, he'd definitely be my boyfriend. I'm very confused after reading this thread. And more than a little insecure.

    Is it your 30th birthday today and you haven't seen your boyfriend of 7 months yet? :/

    OP you say she'd get you an awesome present if it was your birthday...get her something decent. Voucher for BTs or Boots is probably the only decent completely non committal thing.

    She's "seeing" you for 7 months and you know she'd get you am "awesome" gift. I cant imagine going along woth all that for someone i was into.Why is it only casual? It'd be a good night to step it up a gear!


  • #90
    PaulPog
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9 ✭PaulPog


    ardinn wrote: »

    I might sound like im forcing my will - thats not the case - Why can't people understand both parties know the story and are ok with it???

    I'm not that sure you know the story if you're this concerned about a birthday present tbh.


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  • #91
    Gongoozler
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,263 ✭✭✭Gongoozler


    Well now that's she's 30 she'll get all broody and start wanting babies. She'll definitely need to know whether this 'thing' you have is going anywhere. And if it's not she'll be gone to find a baby maker so fast. You'll be thinking back on how silly it was to worry this much about getting her a birthday present.


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