men who don't like sex.

astonaidan · 19-09-2013 01:45AM

Sonics2k wrote: »

Your friends are either virgins, or just really bad at sex.

Hey!! Im really bad at sex, doesnt mean I dont like it :mad:

Smidge · 19-09-2013 01:48AM

astonaidan wrote: »

Hey!! Im really bad at sex, doesnt mean I dont like it :mad:

I can't understand it, how are so many people bad at sex?

nocoverart · 19-09-2013 01:56AM

Smidge wrote: »

I can't understand it, how are so many people bad at sex?

I blame porn.

Smidge · 19-09-2013 01:58AM

nocoverart wrote: »

I blame porn.

Unrealistic expectations?
Detached experiences?
Who knows.

astonaidan · 19-09-2013 02:05AM

Smidge wrote: »

Unrealistic expectations?
Detached experiences?
Who knows.

I like to think Ive put a pit of reality into some novice first timers :pac:

peewee_44 · 19-09-2013 02:08AM

men who don't like sex!!!!! Nope does not compute no matter how many times I say it

nocoverart · 19-09-2013 02:19AM

Smidge wrote: »

Unrealistic expectations?
Detached experiences?
Who knows.

Well, kind of off the subject but I do think it would be scary been a teenage guy these days. All that access to free porn and using it as a blueprint for having sex is not the answer. I was naturally a shy guy in my teens and have to say one night stands were scary situations for me (not that i had many LOL) even now I personally feel the best sex is intimate sex with someone you care for and can bounce off

Smidge · 19-09-2013 02:30AM

nocoverart wrote: »

Well, kind of off the subject but I do think it would be scary been a teenage guy these days. All that access to free porn and using it as a blueprint for having sex is not the answer. I was naturally a shy guy in my teens and have to say one night stands were scary situations for me (not that i had many LOL) even now I personally feel the best sex is intimate sex with someone you care for and can bounce off

I have never understood the thing surrounding one night stands.
When there is an itch that needs to be scratched that's what it's there for.
I get that if you are shy meeting people can be tough but people who ALWAYS equate good sex with relationships(and not meaning you here but in general:))are doing something wrong.

A bit of an analogy here but it's like going for a job interview that you kinda know you don't want but like the look of anyway.
You get the experience of the interview and then know what another employer is really looking for.

nocoverart · 19-09-2013 02:42AM

Smidge wrote: »

I have never understood the thing surrounding one night stands.
When there is an itch that needs to be scratched that's what it's there for.
I get that if you are shy meeting people can be tough but people who ALWAYS equate good sex with relationships(and not meaning you here but in general:))are doing something wrong.

A bit of an analogy here but it's like going for a job interview that you kinda know you don't want but like the look of anyway.
You get the experience of the interview and then know what another employer is really looking for.

I don't mean one night stands can't be good, they can be great. But personally speaking there is a certain pressure and shallowness about one night stands that can take the good out of it for me, but everybody is different. Hell! after having a few cans tonight I'd even take Linda Martin right now.

we'llallhavetea · 19-09-2013 02:54AM

i like the sex, not bad sex. if i had the choice of staying in and fapping or having sex with a randomer i think i have the good sense to fap now. because nine times out of ten one night stands are fcuking dreadful. and then having to wake up beside the bastards. DONT TOUCH ME!!!!!!!!!! D':

dirty dirty!! i am insatiably horny though, its been *looks away* too long.. :'(

mdwexford · 19-09-2013 03:04AM

Blowjobs >>>> Sex

Hope this helps.

Ihatecuddles-old · 19-09-2013 03:20AM

Sometimes we have sex, other times we're lazy and watch porn and touch ourselves.

I love how men always say women hate sex. I have a MUCH higher sex drive then my boyfriend, to the point where it actually annoys him I badger him for sex so much

Some women hate sex, some men hate sex. Sometimes a **** is just what the doctor ordered.

nocoverart · 19-09-2013 03:27AM

Ihatecuddles wrote: »

Sometimes we have sex, other times we're lazy and watch porn and touch ourselves.

I love how men always say women hate sex. I have a MUCH higher sex drive then my boyfriend, to the point where it actually annoys him I badger him for sex so much Some women hate sex, some men hate sex. Sometimes a **** is just what the doctor ordered.

Slut!

I jest

astonaidan · 19-09-2013 03:29AM

Is it gay that I love the build up to the first kiss as much

Ihatecuddles-old · 19-09-2013 03:44AM

astonaidan wrote: »

Is it gay that I love the build up to the first kiss as much

No, I wish I remembered my first kiss with my current boyfriend. We were both very very drunk

cupcake83 · 19-09-2013 06:04AM

Ihatecuddles wrote: »

Sometimes we have sex, other times we're lazy and watch porn and touch ourselves.

I love how men always say women hate sex. I have a MUCH higher sex drive then my boyfriend, to the point where it actually annoys him I badger him for sex so much Some women hate sex, some men hate sex. Sometimes a **** is just what the doctor ordered.

Agree couldn't have said it better and I have hit that 30 year old prime (for me not a myth lol) I also happen to be dating again sooo good fun !

Ihatecuddles-old · 19-09-2013 06:12AM

cupcake83 wrote: »

Agree couldn't have said it better and I have hit that 30 year old prime (for me not a myth lol) I also happen to be dating again sooo good fun !

Someone's inbox will be busy....ba dum dum

I wont hit my sexual prime for another decade nearly :cool:

cupcake83 · 19-09-2013 06:31AM

Ihatecuddles wrote: »

Someone's inbox will be busy....ba dum dum

I wont hit my sexual prime for another decade nearly :cool:

Lol nah they'd have to come a long way to get me lass

johnr1 · 19-09-2013 08:53AM

Drained_Empty wrote: »

what does wibbs the residence sex therapist after to say on matter?

Want us to requote it or could you maybe like, - read the fcuking thread ?

Drained_Empty · 19-09-2013 11:39AM

Wibbs wrote: »

Nope. As seamus said and I'd agree, most men don't. It's a royal pain in the arse. For me if it's someone I'm starting to like the chase gets old quick and TBH if there's too much "chase" I'm outa there. Life is too short. If you're after a "quickie" there's only so much chasing you'll do before thinking "Next!". Sex versus Self actualised "release"? Comes down to a few factors. One night stand awkward fumble? Knocking a quick one off is quicker, costs less and you're gonna do it better. Loving relationship? Different story, but even there sometimes a bit of onanism is warranted.

As for men who don't like sex? I've known a couple in my life. Asexuality while not that common is common enough. Men who go off sex? Defo. Has happened to me. After one bad breakup, arsed I couldn't have been for months. I was decidedly "meh" about the whole thing TBH. Actually turned it down too.

There's an awful lot of ballsology surrounding sex and the genders. It's accepted that women can go off sex, yet men are supposed to be constantly in a state of priapic sprouting, ever ready to pounce. No pressure like. Men, especially young men, seem to have a collective need to back this idea up, but it's nowhere near the real story. It's akin to the old and stupid idea that women weren't that pushed about sex and often suffered it for the sake of their men. Arse. Fact is there are times when I'm hornier than a billy goat rendering plant and other times I'd rather watch the telly. I doubt I'd be alone in this. Unless you're 14, with three newly emergent chin hairs, in which you're a spotty life support system for your nethers.

text book wibbs

Sinfonia · 19-09-2013 11:51AM

MonkstownHoop wrote: »

Or maybe he saw your spelling and couldn't bear to look at you

I know it's not your fault in the messing up of the formatting, but the way that's come out really makes it look like I said all that.
And I know it shouldn't even necessarily bother me, but please fix it..!

Femme_Fatale · 19-09-2013 12:44PM

Lol at the disbelief that a small number of men aren't into sex.

Isn't it almost as shocking as the notion of women enjoying sex! :eek: :pac:

OneArt · 19-09-2013 12:47PM

astonaidan wrote: »

Is it gay that I love the build up to the first kiss as much

As far as I understand it, it's only gay if you're doing it with another of the same sex.

I Heart Internet · 19-09-2013 01:07PM

Femme_Fatale wrote: »

Isn't it almost as shocking as the notion of women enjoying sex! :eek: :pac:

Now that's just silly talk!!!:D

Jiggers77 · 19-09-2013 01:10PM

carzony wrote: »

How rare do you think this is? I was talkin to a couple of college mates today and a few actually said they would rather masturbate than have sex. Fair enough a few of them havnt had that much experience but still :eek:

If they have very muscular right arms undoubtedly they have become very familiar with palm and her five sisters and that's probably all they need. They probably cant get goodc sex or else are very bad at it

sbsquarepants · 19-09-2013 01:19PM

carzony wrote: »

How rare do you think this is? I was talkin to a couple of college mates today and a few actually said they would rather masturbate than have sex. Fair enough a few of them havnt had that much experience but still :eek:

Well according to the catholic church there are 412,236 priests and 5104 bishops, throw in a handful of arch bishops, cardinals and not 1 but 2 popes and the overall answer rounds up to about 10 - plus or minus 10.

OnTheCouch · 19-09-2013 01:37PM

Men have different levels of sex drive for sure. And some have intimacy issues, which is not quite the same as not wanting sex. This can come down to something as prosaic as simply not wanting to share a bed with someone else in order to get a decent night's sleep.

I think the problem is certainly more complex than saying 'they are not good or have no experience.'

Plus from what I have seen and have heard from others, in settled relationships the girl is more often than not the one who instigates things.

pundy · 19-09-2013 02:25PM

Czarcasm wrote: »

You'd best start clearing out your box about now...

FYP

:P:D

BeerWolf · 19-09-2013 02:29PM

They're called Asexuals - they exist, their choice and/or they can't help it... where it'd be like a person being gay only interested in men, they got no interest in either genders, or sex overall.

Femme_Fatale · 19-09-2013 10:00PM

I Heart Internet wrote: »

Now that's just silly talk!!!:D

Someone told me women masturbate and orgasm too. They must have thought I was a right gullible fool. :rolleyes:

men who don't like sex.

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