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men who don't like sex.

  • 12-09-2013 05:31PM
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,844 ✭✭✭


    How rare do you think this is? I was talkin to a couple of college mates today and a few actually said they would rather masturbate than have sex. Fair enough a few of them havnt had that much experience but still :eek:


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,818 ✭✭✭donvito99


    About 0 in 7 billion.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,512 ✭✭✭Muise...


    maybe they don't like sex with you?

    (happens to the best of us.)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,919 ✭✭✭✭Gummy Panda


    Like get a handjob from the girl/guy instead?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,036 ✭✭✭Sonics2k


    Your friends are either virgins, or just really bad at sex.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,909 ✭✭✭greenman09


    Have something wrong with them


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 46,938 ✭✭✭✭Nodin


    carzony wrote: »
    How rare do you think this is? I was talkin to a couple of college mates today and a few actually said they would rather masturbate than have sex. Fair enough a few of them havnt had that much experience but still :eek:

    .....could be anything from them winding you up, to them being entirely clueless and feigning disinterest. "A few" makes me suspect the former. Or you could be making this up - that's always a possibility.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,788 ✭✭✭✭ScumLord


    carzony wrote: »
    How rare do you think this is?
    So rare there's a BBC wildlife documentary crew following them around observing their unique behaviours.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,787 ✭✭✭weisses


    carzony wrote: »
    How rare do you think this is? I was talkin to a couple of college mates today and a few actually said they would rather masturbate than have sex.

    Log out of World of Warcraft first .... then have the same conversation


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,630 ✭✭✭Zen65


    Statistically, since there are so many living people and such diversity then it must be possible.

    In Darwinian terms, the genetics which give rise to this preference are unlikely to propagate in great numbers.


  • Moderators, Music Moderators Posts: 8,490 Mod ✭✭✭✭Fluorescence


    They're either doing sex wrong or masturbating so much that they don't get any feeling from sex.

    Either way it ain't normal :pac:


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,579 ✭✭✭Mr McBoatface


    They are just saying that. Truth is you're just ugly, they don't fancy and don't what hurt your feelings...hence them being just mates.


    Sorry, but sometimes the truth hurts


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,776 ✭✭✭Jhcx


    Lads like this exist?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,825 ✭✭✭Timmyctc


    I know people who are fairly indifferent re: sex even though they have OHs.

    Mental health has a bearing on it too though sometimes its just not all black and white.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,987 ✭✭✭Legs.Eleven


    Interestingly, all the men who I've slept with admitted to hating sex after we "did" it, so not as uncommon as you think!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,076 ✭✭✭✭Czarcasm


    carzony wrote: »
    How rare do you think this is? I was talkin to a couple of college mates today and a few actually said they would rather masturbate than have sex. Fair enough a few of them havnt had that much experience but still :eek:


    Your friends are DEFINITELY doing it wrong!

    Or else they're just lazy, unmotivated, will complain that nobody shows any interest in them, etc. Why should anyone show any interest in them when they'd sooner satisfy themselves?

    Pack o' **** :pac:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,919 ✭✭✭✭Gummy Panda


    Interestingly, all the men who I've slept with admitted to hating sex after we "did" it, so not as uncommon as you think!

    Well that sounds ego boosting


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,987 ✭✭✭Legs.Eleven


    Well that sounds ego boosting


    Yes. They all said they liked it right up to the time they slept with me and mysteriously went off it. My boyfriend cries almost every time we sleep together then proceeds to vomit straight after. Strange.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,788 ✭✭✭✭ScumLord


    My boyfriend cries almost every time we sleep together then proceeds to vomit straight after. Strange.
    The men you keep tied up and drugged in your basement can hardly be considered your boyfriends.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,404 ✭✭✭✭Turtyturd


    Your mates are a bunch of 'fridgehs'.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 46,938 ✭✭✭✭Nodin


    Yes. They all said they liked it right up to the time they slept with me and mysteriously went off it. My boyfriend cries almost every time we sleep together then proceeds to vomit straight after. Strange.

    This isn't you, is it?
    http://www.thesmokinggun.com/buster/west-virginia/woman-utters-line-never-previously-recorded-police-report


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,296 ✭✭✭Frank Black


    carzony wrote: »
    a few actually said they would rather masturbate than have sex.

    It is sex with someone you love.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,987 ✭✭✭Legs.Eleven


    ScumLord wrote: »
    The men you keep tied up and drugged in your basement can hardly be considered your boyfriends.


    COURSE they are! :) (psycho smile).


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,730 ✭✭✭✭corktina


    how can you have a discussion with a couple of mates and a few of them give an opinion?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,391 ✭✭✭✭mikom


    Timmyctc wrote: »
    I know people who are fairly indifferent re: sex even though they have OHs.

    Mental health has a bearing on it too though sometimes its just not all black and white.

    *closes interracial porn tab.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,401 ✭✭✭lukesmom


    I've never come across a man like this or even heard of one until your post. Maybe they don't like sex with women??


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,076 ✭✭✭✭Czarcasm


    Interestingly, all the men who I've slept with admitted to hating sex after we "did" it, so not as uncommon as you think!


    I'm wondering how that comment would've come out tbh. I'm almost afraid to ask did you ask them afterwards what they thought of sex or what way it went...

    I'm thinking they pulled a "Tony Curtis" on you tbh Legs :D




  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,318 ✭✭✭✭Menas


    Yes. They all said they liked it right up to the time they slept with me and mysteriously went off it. My boyfriend cries almost every time we sleep together then proceeds to vomit straight after. Strange.

    Do you either yawn or cry during sex? Either would put me off for a week!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,987 ✭✭✭Legs.Eleven


    lukesmom wrote: »
    I've never come across a man like this or even heard of one until your post. Maybe they don't like sex with women??


    Isn't there a phenomenon in Japan where men are rejecting real women and opting for virtual ones instead?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,207 ✭✭✭longhalloween


    Yes. They all said they liked it right up to the time they slept with me and mysteriously went off it. My boyfriend cries almost every time we sleep together then proceeds to vomit straight after. Strange.

    Do you wake up and find them in the shower, scrubbing themselves vigorously with lye?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,987 ✭✭✭Legs.Eleven


    Do you either yawn or cry during sex? Either would put me off for a week!


    Well I've had a yeast infection since 2005. Do you reckon that could be it?


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