men who don't like sex.

carzony

How rare do you think this is? I was talkin to a couple of college mates today and a few actually said they would rather masturbate than have sex. Fair enough a few of them havnt had that much experience but still :eek:

donvito99

About 0 in 7 billion.

Muise...

maybe they don't like sex with you?

(happens to the best of us.)

Gummy Panda

Like get a handjob from the girl/guy instead?

Sonics2k

Your friends are either virgins, or just really bad at sex.

greenman09

Have something wrong with them

Nodin

carzony wrote: »

How rare do you think this is? I was talkin to a couple of college mates today and a few actually said they would rather masturbate than have sex. Fair enough a few of them havnt had that much experience but still :eek:

.....could be anything from them winding you up, to them being entirely clueless and feigning disinterest. "A few" makes me suspect the former. Or you could be making this up - that's always a possibility.

ScumLord

carzony wrote: »

How rare do you think this is?

So rare there's a BBC wildlife documentary crew following them around observing their unique behaviours.

weisses

carzony wrote: »

How rare do you think this is? I was talkin to a couple of college mates today and a few actually said they would rather masturbate than have sex.

Log out of World of Warcraft first .... then have the same conversation

Zen65

Statistically, since there are so many living people and such diversity then it must be possible.

In Darwinian terms, the genetics which give rise to this preference are unlikely to propagate in great numbers.

Fluorescence

They're either doing sex wrong or masturbating so much that they don't get any feeling from sex.

Either way it ain't normal :pac:

Mr McBoatface

They are just saying that. Truth is you're just ugly, they don't fancy and don't what hurt your feelings...hence them being just mates.


Sorry, but sometimes the truth hurts

Jhcx

Lads like this exist?

Timmyctc

I know people who are fairly indifferent re: sex even though they have OHs.

Mental health has a bearing on it too though sometimes its just not all black and white.

Legs.Eleven

Interestingly, all the men who I've slept with admitted to hating sex after we "did" it, so not as uncommon as you think!

Czarcasm

carzony wrote: »

How rare do you think this is? I was talkin to a couple of college mates today and a few actually said they would rather masturbate than have sex. Fair enough a few of them havnt had that much experience but still :eek:

Your friends are DEFINITELY doing it wrong!

Or else they're just lazy, unmotivated, will complain that nobody shows any interest in them, etc. Why should anyone show any interest in them when they'd sooner satisfy themselves?

Pack o' **** :pac:

Gummy Panda

Legs.Eleven wrote: »

Interestingly, all the men who I've slept with admitted to hating sex after we "did" it, so not as uncommon as you think!

Well that sounds ego boosting

Legs.Eleven

Gummy Panda wrote: »

Well that sounds ego boosting

Yes. They all said they liked it right up to the time they slept with me and mysteriously went off it. My boyfriend cries almost every time we sleep together then proceeds to vomit straight after. Strange.

ScumLord

Legs.Eleven wrote: »

My boyfriend cries almost every time we sleep together then proceeds to vomit straight after. Strange.

The men you keep tied up and drugged in your basement can hardly be considered your boyfriends.

Turtyturd

Your mates are a bunch of 'fridgehs'.

Nodin

Legs.Eleven wrote: »

Yes. They all said they liked it right up to the time they slept with me and mysteriously went off it. My boyfriend cries almost every time we sleep together then proceeds to vomit straight after. Strange.

This isn't you, is it?
http://www.thesmokinggun.com/buster/west-virginia/woman-utters-line-never-previously-recorded-police-report

Frank Black

carzony wrote: »

a few actually said they would rather masturbate than have sex.

It is sex with someone you love.

Legs.Eleven

ScumLord wrote: »

The men you keep tied up and drugged in your basement can hardly be considered your boyfriends.

COURSE they are! (psycho smile).

corktina

how can you have a discussion with a couple of mates and a few of them give an opinion?

mikom

Timmyctc wrote: »

I know people who are fairly indifferent re: sex even though they have OHs.

Mental health has a bearing on it too though sometimes its just not all black and white.

*closes interracial porn tab.

lukesmom

I've never come across a man like this or even heard of one until your post. Maybe they don't like sex with women??

Czarcasm

Legs.Eleven wrote: »

Interestingly, all the men who I've slept with admitted to hating sex after we "did" it, so not as uncommon as you think!

I'm wondering how that comment would've come out tbh. I'm almost afraid to ask did you ask them afterwards what they thought of sex or what way it went...

I'm thinking they pulled a "Tony Curtis" on you tbh Legs

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=beAO7zrZL3A

Menas

Legs.Eleven wrote: »

Yes. They all said they liked it right up to the time they slept with me and mysteriously went off it. My boyfriend cries almost every time we sleep together then proceeds to vomit straight after. Strange.

Do you either yawn or cry during sex? Either would put me off for a week!

Legs.Eleven

lukesmom wrote: »

I've never come across a man like this or even heard of one until your post. Maybe they don't like sex with women??

Isn't there a phenomenon in Japan where men are rejecting real women and opting for virtual ones instead?

longhalloween

Legs.Eleven wrote: »

Yes. They all said they liked it right up to the time they slept with me and mysteriously went off it. My boyfriend cries almost every time we sleep together then proceeds to vomit straight after. Strange.

Do you wake up and find them in the shower, scrubbing themselves vigorously with lye?

Legs.Eleven

Trigger Happy wrote: »

Do you either yawn or cry during sex? Either would put me off for a week!

Well I've had a yeast infection since 2005. Do you reckon that could be it?

smash

They got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one!

Sometimes it's a problem worth having though...

seamus

Some men relish the chase, the work you put in laying groundwork chatting to a woman, playing games, before eventually getting them into bed. I suppose there's some kind of personal competitive element to it, they feel victorious, or something.

Most men that I know, fncking hate the chase. It's 3 or 4 hours of headwrecking does-she-doesn't-she, playing mind games, and being compltely and utterly terrified from the pit of your stomach, until at the end of it you're both so pissed you end up with a messy fumble of some of the least stimulating sex you've ever had. You don't feel victorious, you just feel like you've completely wasted your time, and you would have had more fun if you'd gone home and had a ****.

I would bet a fairly large sum of money that most of the men who claim to prefer a **** to sex are single. It's very hard to get a good shag from a one night stand. Occasionally I'm sure some people manage to get the chemistry right and a great time is had by all, but I imagine most of the time both people come away feeling slightly satisfied but also a bit peeved that they wasted so much time.

longhalloween

Legs.Eleven wrote: »

Well I've had a yeast infection since 2005. Do you reckon that could be it?

Probably not. Some men like their women a bit frothy.

Muise...

lukesmom wrote: »

I've never come across a man like this or even heard of one until your post. Maybe they don't like sex with women??

I came across a man like this. I don't care if he liked it or not.

lukesmom

I reckon most men like the chase and when they do end up sleeping with their target they move on.

Menas

Legs.Eleven wrote: »

Well I've had a yeast infection since 2005. Do you reckon that could be it?

Sex and taste of beer in one sitting.....Score.

Karl Stein

Timmyctc wrote: »

its just not all black and white.

Why do you always bring race into it?

Legs.Eleven

Czarcasm wrote: »

I'm wondering how that comment would've come out tbh. I'm almost afraid to ask did you ask them afterwards what they thought of sex or what way it went...

I'm thinking they pulled a "Tony Curtis" on you tbh Legs

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=beAO7zrZL3A

Jaysus Czarcasm, I was messing! I think I'd end it all now if it were true...


Serious answer: I haven't met a man who hated sex and would rather ****. The men who were into it the most were usually very good at it.

Menas

lukesmom wrote: »

I reckon most men like the chase and when they do end up sleeping with their target they move on.

Or move in.

Czarcasm

lukesmom wrote: »

I've never come across a man like this or even heard of one until your post. Maybe they don't like sex with women??

Muise... wrote: »

I came across a man like this. I don't care if he liked it or not.

I hope you cleaned up after yourselves!

Legs.Eleven

Trigger Happy wrote: »

Sex and taste of beer in one sitting.....Score.

More like old cheese, Trigger...

Menas

Legs.Eleven wrote: »

More like old cheese, Trigger...

Monster munch...in more ways than one.

carzony

carzony wrote: »

How rare do you think this is? I was talkin to a couple of college mates today and a few actually said they would rather masturbate than have sex. Fair enough a few of them havnt had that much experience but still :eek:

clearly they havent met me yet;);)......

Czarcasm

bubblypop wrote: »

clearly they havent met me yet;);)......

You'd best start clearing out your PM Inbox about now...

smash

Czarcasm wrote: »

You'd best start clearing out your PM Inbox about now...

Why? Can you not get through to her?

Wibbs

lukesmom wrote: »

I reckon most men like the chase and when they do end up sleeping with their target they move on.

Nope. As seamus said and I'd agree, most men don't. It's a royal pain in the arse. For me if it's someone I'm starting to like the chase gets old quick and TBH if there's too much "chase" I'm outa there. Life is too short. If you're after a "quickie" there's only so much chasing you'll do before thinking "Next!". Sex versus Self actualised "release"? Comes down to a few factors. One night stand awkward fumble? Knocking a quick one off is quicker, costs less and you're gonna do it better. Loving relationship? Different story, but even there sometimes a bit of onanism is warranted.

As for men who don't like sex? I've known a couple in my life. Asexuality while not that common is common enough. Men who go off sex? Defo. Has happened to me. After one bad breakup, arsed I couldn't have been for months. I was decidedly "meh" about the whole thing TBH. Actually turned it down too.

There's an awful lot of ballsology surrounding sex and the genders. It's accepted that women can go off sex, yet men are supposed to be constantly in a state of priapic sprouting, ever ready to pounce. No pressure like. Men, especially young men, seem to have a collective need to back this idea up, but it's nowhere near the real story. It's akin to the old and stupid idea that women weren't that pushed about sex and often suffered it for the sake of their men. Arse. Fact is there are times when I'm hornier than a billy goat rendering plant and other times I'd rather watch the telly. I doubt I'd be alone in this. Unless you're 14, with three newly emergent chin hairs, in which you're a spotty life support system for your nethers.

Different people are different. None of my friends like "the chase" but I would guess a few acquaintances do. None of my friends would prefer a **** but over time and as age increases the desire to spend 100 quid on a night out with a 10-15% chance of pulling followed by likely mediocre sex loses its lustre.

If someone is in a relationship and would rather sit downstairs and jack it to some porn then there's something wrong.

Menas

Deleted User wrote: »

Different people are different. None of my friends like "the chase" but I would guess a few acquaintances do. None of my friends would prefer a **** but over time and as age increases the desire to spend 100 quid on a night out with a 10-15% chance of pulling followed by likely mediocre sex loses its lustre.

If someone is in a relationship and would rather sit downstairs and jack it to some porn then there's something wrong.

10 to 15%!!

Trigger Happy

Trigger Happy wrote: »

10 to 15%!!

Overall, yeah, we're not a handsome bunch. :pac: It's more that pulling wouldn't be the entire point of heading out every time.

smash

[Deleted User] wrote: »

Overall, yeah, we're not a handsome bunch. :pac: It's more that pulling wouldn't be the entire point of heading out every time.

So you don't look for sex, but when you get it you'd rather ****... Jesus man!