My Thoughts on my Encounter

StrugglingSoul · 05-08-2013 06:30AM #1

So I met this hispanic lady the other night at a club(in the states). She was not only very sexy, but dressed in a revealing way. Although nothing about her screamed virgin, it didn't necessarily mean she'd be easy to win over. These kind of women really stand out and I didn't have any luck with them previously. As soon as I saw her I just danced towards her. We the danced for about 5 minutes in a slightly sexual manner at times.

I was alone but I said that I had some friends with me who were around. I bought her a drink and made sure to leave a tip as she was watching. I then asked if she wanted to sit down and she quickly said no, let's dance. After all the smooching I said I'd better do something to keep the momentum going. I asked if she was going home soon. She said no, because she'd just arrived. We then gradually defused and she went off with her friends, which I showed I was cool with as I didn't want to look needy. I continued to have a good time arond the place without her. She later came back and another guy started dancing with her. I beaconed her over towards me but I guess she couldn't just leave the guy she was with.

Although I wasn't expecting to get her to come home with me, I said I'd better still stay around in case something might happen.. as it isn't often I get with a girl this hot. Later on I was caught making my mistake! I was trying to keep an eye on her while sitting at a table behind some grasses.. so that I'd be better prepared for what to do next. But it was surprising difficult to find a spot from where I could see her without her potentially being able to see me. She was now talking to a different guy in the outdoor section near the water fountain. She then looked over and saw me staring at her through the grasses. She of course looked away and continued to chat.. acting as if nothing happened.

Still though, I knew she had seen me and that any hope was over. Although it was a wonderful night overall, it's ending wasn't very nice. It did not look cool for me.

mattjack · 05-08-2013 06:45AM

Go back tonight and if she,s there chat up every guy she dance,s with.
That should learn her.

bohsboy · 05-08-2013 06:53AM

Do you have duct tape, rope and cable ties in the boot of your car?

WhatNowForUs? · 05-08-2013 06:59AM

I wouldnt worry. You tried to look cool and thats what counts.

Pyridine · 05-08-2013 07:08AM

The bang of chloroform off this thread!!

LowOdour · 05-08-2013 07:10AM

Grasses? what kind of nightclub has enough grass that you can hid behind?

Or are you typing with a chinese accent?

Reamer Fanny · 05-08-2013 07:13AM

Your face behind the glasses?

05-08-2013 07:17AM

Your encounter has either 'love song' or 'snuff movie' potential, depending on how you look at it. Just take it for what it was, yes there are girls who just have a dance and a random kiss with whoever they please in a given moment in a club. There are guys like this too, all of us, but it isn't as easy. I reckon from the tone of your post that you should get at least 4 months of **** material out of it before it goes stale.

Sunnyisland · 05-08-2013 07:21AM

OP trying to hard, If she wants ya she would have you, you probably freaked her out with your spying behind the long grasses..

Ted_YNWA · 05-08-2013 07:24AM

Was she working and decided your tip was stingy & didnt want you as a customer.

She didn't want you to stiff her on payment.

Peregrine · 05-08-2013 07:24AM

justryan wrote: »

Your face behind the glasses?

They were grasses..

Keep up, Ryan :pac:

Sunnyisland · 05-08-2013 07:27AM

Are you a daft punk OP

She's up all night 'til the sun
I'm up all night to get some
She's up all night for good fun
I'm up all night to get lucky

05-08-2013 07:28AM

Change into a dry pair of underpants and go back to sleep.

Menas · 05-08-2013 07:38AM

Are you sure she was not a hooker?

The King of Moo · 05-08-2013 08:11AM

da gurl wus diEin of cannCer. Wit her lAsst bReth she Sed "y diDnt u Dance wit me Bbz? y did u hIide in da gRasses?" Den sHe dIed.
Den da bOi staRtted crYin an sEd "coz i wAnted 2 see waT u lukd lyk fRum r gArdEn. Will u maRry me?"

lyk dis if u cryd XxxxxxxXXxxx

Reamer Fanny · 05-08-2013 08:13AM

The King of Moo wrote: »

da gurl wus diEin of cannCer. Wit her lAsst bReth she Sed "y diDnt u Dance wit me Bbz? y did u hIide in da gRasses?" Den sHe dIed.
Den da bOi staRtted crYin an sEd "coz i wAnted 2 see waT u lukd lyk fRum r gArdEn. Will u maRry me?"

lyk dis if u cryd XxxxxxxXXxxx

Say whaaaaaaa?

ljpg · 05-08-2013 08:28AM

she didnt want to talk.she wanted to dance,i think you got as far as you were going to get bud,as the old saying goes,"there plenty more shopping trolleys in the canal".

martinf30 · 05-08-2013 08:48AM

Op you made the age old mistake of peaking too early. Unless you feel you can keep her engaged all night it is next to impossible to keep someone from their friends all night.

stefan idiot jones · 05-08-2013 09:21AM

Prickteaser !!!!

Sinfonia · 05-08-2013 09:26AM

But you did make out with her? Maybe you're a bad kisser? Probably that. Probably a bad kisser.

up for anything · 05-08-2013 09:34AM

That's just plain weird, OP. I bet she smelled you were a wrong 'un after a couple of dances. You were there on your own but told her you were with friends. It's not easy to make my skin crawl but it's crawling right now faster than Usain Bolt can run. So many alarm bells: lying about being alone, constant watching and stalking of girl throughout the night - I bet you know where she lives.

tin79 · 05-08-2013 09:42AM

The King of Moo wrote: »

da gurl wus diEin of cannCer. Wit her lAsst bReth she Sed "y diDnt u Dance wit me Bbz? y did u hIide in da gRasses?" Den sHe dIed.
Den da bOi staRtted crYin an sEd "coz i wAnted 2 see waT u lukd lyk fRum r gArdEn. Will u maRry me?"

lyk dis if u cryd XxxxxxxXXxxx

Are you by any chance a large blonde lady from Ballyfermot?

If not then you do an uncanny impression of my cousin! You even got her spelling mistakes bang on.

almighty1 · 05-08-2013 09:48AM

StrugglingSoul wrote: »

......As soon as I saw her I just danced towards her. .......

http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m37y8wQeYQ1r8w6odo1_500.gif

CastingCouch · 05-08-2013 09:52AM

I think the OP should buy a diary.

Pointless story???

Arciphel · 05-08-2013 09:53AM

The King Of Moo has me in tears here.

crockholm · 05-08-2013 09:59AM

Don't give up,be patient,and wait in the long glass

KingOfFairview · 05-08-2013 10:00AM

OP sounds deranged.

Dan Chipowski · 05-08-2013 10:05AM

Not sure this qualifies as an 'encounter' to be honest.

DoozerT6 · 05-08-2013 10:10AM

OP started the same thread yesterday in RI. It was locked immediately. Reason? RI is not a blog. I suggest the OP start one.

Arciphel · 05-08-2013 11:06AM

I would subscribe, the OP has some interesting views :pac:

Capt'n Midnight · 05-08-2013 12:23PM

A few years ago, in a very remote corner of Africa, Explorers came across a tribe which, even though believed to have existed at some point in time, had never been found.

Surprisingly, the Chief spoke perfect English.
When asked if this tribe were the Fakawi, the Chief replied in the affirmative.
Now to the eye, these Natives looked like the long-lost Fakawi tribe, they were very dark skinned and stood no more than 3 feet tall.

One of the Explorers enquired as to the origins of the tribe and the Chief Explained, "As you can see, we live in an area that has very tall grass. When we go out hunting for food, we lose sight of everything as the grass is taller than us. Therefore, it is our custom when away from the village, to call out we're the Fakawi, we're the Fakawi...."

My Thoughts on my Encounter

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