My Thoughts on my Encounter

StrugglingSoul

So I met this hispanic lady the other night at a club(in the states). She was not only very sexy, but dressed in a revealing way. Although nothing about her screamed virgin, it didn't necessarily mean she'd be easy to win over. These kind of women really stand out and I didn't have any luck with them previously. As soon as I saw her I just danced towards her. We the danced for about 5 minutes in a slightly sexual manner at times.

I was alone but I said that I had some friends with me who were around. I bought her a drink and made sure to leave a tip as she was watching. I then asked if she wanted to sit down and she quickly said no, let's dance. After all the smooching I said I'd better do something to keep the momentum going. I asked if she was going home soon. She said no, because she'd just arrived. We then gradually defused and she went off with her friends, which I showed I was cool with as I didn't want to look needy. I continued to have a good time arond the place without her. She later came back and another guy started dancing with her. I beaconed her over towards me but I guess she couldn't just leave the guy she was with.

Although I wasn't expecting to get her to come home with me, I said I'd better still stay around in case something might happen.. as it isn't often I get with a girl this hot. Later on I was caught making my mistake! I was trying to keep an eye on her while sitting at a table behind some grasses.. so that I'd be better prepared for what to do next. But it was surprising difficult to find a spot from where I could see her without her potentially being able to see me. She was now talking to a different guy in the outdoor section near the water fountain. She then looked over and saw me staring at her through the grasses. She of course looked away and continued to chat.. acting as if nothing happened.

Still though, I knew she had seen me and that any hope was over. Although it was a wonderful night overall, it's ending wasn't very nice. It did not look cool for me.

mattjack

Go back tonight and if she,s there chat up every guy she dance,s with.
That should learn her.

bohsboy

Do you have duct tape, rope and cable ties in the boot of your car?

WhatNowForUs?

I wouldnt worry. You tried to look cool and thats what counts.

Pyridine

The bang of chloroform off this thread!!

LowOdour

Grasses? what kind of nightclub has enough grass that you can hid behind?

Or are you typing with a chinese accent?

Reamer Fanny

Your face behind the glasses?

Your encounter has either 'love song' or 'snuff movie' potential, depending on how you look at it. Just take it for what it was, yes there are girls who just have a dance and a random kiss with whoever they please in a given moment in a club. There are guys like this too, all of us, but it isn't as easy. I reckon from the tone of your post that you should get at least 4 months of **** material out of it before it goes stale.

Sunnyisland

OP trying to hard, If she wants ya she would have you, you probably freaked her out with your spying behind the long grasses..

Ted_YNWA

Was she working and decided your tip was stingy & didnt want you as a customer.

She didn't want you to stiff her on payment.

Peregrine

justryan wrote: »

Your face behind the glasses?

They were grasses..

Keep up, Ryan :pac:

Sunnyisland

Are you a daft punk OP

She's up all night 'til the sun
I'm up all night to get some
She's up all night for good fun
I'm up all night to get lucky

9959

Change into a dry pair of underpants and go back to sleep.

Menas

Are you sure she was not a hooker?

The King of Moo

da gurl wus diEin of cannCer. Wit her lAsst bReth she Sed "y diDnt u Dance wit me Bbz? y did u hIide in da gRasses?" Den sHe dIed.
Den da bOi staRtted crYin an sEd "coz i wAnted 2 see waT u lukd lyk fRum r gArdEn. Will u maRry me?"

lyk dis if u cryd XxxxxxxXXxxx

Reamer Fanny

The King of Moo wrote: »

da gurl wus diEin of cannCer. Wit her lAsst bReth she Sed "y diDnt u Dance wit me Bbz? y did u hIide in da gRasses?" Den sHe dIed.
Den da bOi staRtted crYin an sEd "coz i wAnted 2 see waT u lukd lyk fRum r gArdEn. Will u maRry me?"

lyk dis if u cryd XxxxxxxXXxxx

Say whaaaaaaa?

ljpg

she didnt want to talk.she wanted to dance,i think you got as far as you were going to get bud,as the old saying goes,"there plenty more shopping trolleys in the canal".

martinf30

Op you made the age old mistake of peaking too early. Unless you feel you can keep her engaged all night it is next to impossible to keep someone from their friends all night.

stefan idiot jones

Prickteaser !!!!

Sinfonia

But you did make out with her? Maybe you're a bad kisser? Probably that. Probably a bad kisser.

up for anything

That's just plain weird, OP. I bet she smelled you were a wrong 'un after a couple of dances. You were there on your own but told her you were with friends. It's not easy to make my skin crawl but it's crawling right now faster than Usain Bolt can run. So many alarm bells: lying about being alone, constant watching and stalking of girl throughout the night - I bet you know where she lives.

tin79

The King of Moo wrote: »

da gurl wus diEin of cannCer. Wit her lAsst bReth she Sed "y diDnt u Dance wit me Bbz? y did u hIide in da gRasses?" Den sHe dIed.
Den da bOi staRtted crYin an sEd "coz i wAnted 2 see waT u lukd lyk fRum r gArdEn. Will u maRry me?"

lyk dis if u cryd XxxxxxxXXxxx

Are you by any chance a large blonde lady from Ballyfermot?

If not then you do an uncanny impression of my cousin! You even got her spelling mistakes bang on.

almighty1

StrugglingSoul wrote: »

......As soon as I saw her I just danced towards her. .......

http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m37y8wQeYQ1r8w6odo1_500.gif

CastingCouch

I think the OP should buy a diary.

Pointless story???

Arciphel

The King Of Moo has me in tears here.

crockholm

Don't give up,be patient,and wait in the long glass

KingOfFairview

OP sounds deranged.

Dan Chipowski

Not sure this qualifies as an 'encounter' to be honest.

DoozerT6

OP started the same thread yesterday in RI. It was locked immediately. Reason? RI is not a blog. I suggest the OP start one.

Arciphel

I would subscribe, the OP has some interesting views :pac:

Capt'n Midnight

A few years ago, in a very remote corner of Africa, Explorers came across a tribe which, even though believed to have existed at some point in time, had never been found.

Surprisingly, the Chief spoke perfect English.
When asked if this tribe were the Fakawi, the Chief replied in the affirmative.
Now to the eye, these Natives looked like the long-lost Fakawi tribe, they were very dark skinned and stood no more than 3 feet tall.

One of the Explorers enquired as to the origins of the tribe and the Chief Explained, "As you can see, we live in an area that has very tall grass. When we go out hunting for food, we lose sight of everything as the grass is taller than us. Therefore, it is our custom when away from the village, to call out we're the Fakawi, we're the Fakawi...."

becost

Capt'n Midnight wrote: »

A few years ago, in a very remote corner of Africa, Explorers came across a tribe which, even though believed to have existed at some point in time, had never been found.

Surprisingly, the Chief spoke perfect English.
When asked if this tribe were the Fakawi, the Chief replied in the affirmative.
Now to the eye, these Natives looked like the long-lost Fakawi tribe, they were very dark skinned and stood no more than 3 feet tall.

One of the Explorers enquired as to the origins of the tribe and the Chief Explained, "As you can see, we live in an area that has very tall grass. When we go out hunting for food, we lose sight of everything as the grass is taller than us. Therefore, it is our custom when away from the village, to call out we're the Fakawi, we're the Fakawi...."

You might need to break that one down for us.

becost

becost wrote: »

You might need to break that one down for us.

Where the f are we

StrugglingSoul

almighty1 wrote: »

http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m37y8wQeYQ1r8w6odo1_500.gif

You are an almighty legend for that!

Wow, if you came off this creepy to people reading about what happened, then I can only imagine how creeped out that girl must have been.

Also way to put a downer on her night, OP.

StrugglingSoul

up for anything wrote: »

That's just plain weird, OP. I bet she smelled you were a wrong 'un after a couple of dances. You were there on your own but told her you were with friends. It's not easy to make my skin crawl but it's crawling right now faster than Usain Bolt can run. So many alarm bells: lying about being alone, constant watching and stalking of girl throughout the night - I bet you know where she lives.

Predictably certain morons, (like you), jump to conclusions by putting me in the same bracket as stalkers and rapists. It's called slander and I'm guessing you're obviously female.

Firstly: Of course I told her I was with friends.. it worked didn't it?? I'm hardly going to say "ahhhh.. I'm here all alone"

Secondly: Look up the meaning of stalking. Like I said, I was watching her ONLY so that I could be better prepared for what to do next. At worst this means that I'm not good with girls.. NOT that I'm a rapist. I had know interest in watching her for the sake of watching her or for wanting to ambush her.

Yes I do know where she lives. And to your surprise.. not because I followed her home, but because she decided to tell.

Does that clarify things??? ya little bitch

SouthTippBass

StrugglingSoul wrote: »

Predictably certain morons, (like you), jump to conclusions by putting me in the same bracket as stalkers and rapists. It's called slander and I'm guessing you're obviously female.

Firstly: Of course I told her I was with friends.. it worked didn't it?? I'm hardly going to say "ahhhh.. I'm here all alone"

Secondly: Look up the meaning of stalking. Like I said, I was watching her ONLY so that I could be better prepared for what to do next. At worst this means that I'm not good with girls.. NOT that I'm a rapist. I had know interest in watching her for the sake of watching her or for wanting to ambush her.

Yes I do know where she lives. And to your surprise.. not because I followed her home, but because she decided to tell.

Does that clarify things??? ya little bitch

No dude, you're creepy. I think you just crossed a line with that last comment as well.

StrugglingSoul

Deleted User wrote: »

Wow, if you came off this creepy to people reading about what happened, then I can only imagine how creeped out that girl must have been.

Also way to put a downer on her night, OP.

No no.. obviously I'm far more creepy when I expose my thoughts

StrugglingSoul

SouthTippBass wrote: »

No dude, you're creepy. I think you just crossed a line with that last comment as well.

You're in no position to dictate to me. What I said was called for.. and don't think you can refute my points with nasty one liners. Delusional is what you are

Prodigious

Shouldn't have bought a drink for her.

So the OP told her that he was there with friends and yet danced around her. Were you dancing with random people or by yourself? Your actions and your words make me think you're not good with people period, let alone with girls. Stop being so creepy and weird and possessive of women you don't even know and you should be fine.

Rented Mule

Danced with a hot girl.

Bought her a drink.

She wasn't interested.

Stalked her from afar.

I Heart Internet

StrugglingSoul wrote: »

You're in no position to dictate to me. What I said was called for.. and don't think you can refute my points with nasty one liners. Delusional is what you are

The dancing lady missed a good 'un when she didn't go home with you OP.

You're clearly a reasonable person and have the upmost respect for women.

StrugglingSoul

Deleted User wrote: »

Your actions and your words make me think you're not good with people

Specifically what??

Mr Benevolent

StrugglingSoul wrote: »

morons, (like you), jump to conclusions ... you're obviously female.

I told her I was with friends.. it worked didn't it??

I'm not good with girls..

ya little bitch

QED. And sad. Very sad.

You already resorted to hurling personal abuse at somebody, calling them a bitch. But I'm not going to say anything more about it, I've reported the post and the mods can take over from there.

Besides that, you're extremely defensive and aggressive. You posted this first somewhere else looking for advice and I'll give you some - chill out, relax, and don't stalk random women from afar.

harvester of sorrow

The King of Moo wrote: »

da gurl wus diEin of cannCer. Wit her lAsst bReth she Sed "y diDnt u Dance wit me Bbz? y did u hIide in da gRasses?" Den sHe dIed.
Den da bOi staRtted crYin an sEd "coz i wAnted 2 see waT u lukd lyk fRum r gArdEn. Will u maRry me?"

lyk dis if u cryd XxxxxxxXXxxx

Is that you Spoderman?

humanji

Cut out the bitching, people.

StrugglingSoul

Deleted User wrote: »

You already resorted to hurling personal abuse at somebody, calling them a bitch.

Personal abuse was hurled first though.. which you failed to note

Deleted User wrote: »

Besides that, you're extremely defensive

It seems I have to be here.. doesn't it

Deleted User wrote: »

don't stalk random women from afar.

Look up the meaning of the word 'stalker'... for the second time now.

castletownman

*sips bottle of beer

Boy. That escalated quickly.

I mean that really got out of hand fast.

biko

She probably wanted a quick snog and that was it.
Move on.